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I have a chance to go far beyond what is required in my role however I make 90k right now and I figure if I have the time to do this I want to come in Saturday/Sunday and get shit done. I feel this is worth it but don't know if in the IT field it is really necessary to put in 110% percent effort/hard work
What do you guys think?
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Am I a massive sucker for paying £1040 a month for a small studio flat in Hammersmith, London?
In theory, having an en suite bathroom, kitchen, and bed all to myself and nearby should be convenient. In practice it's kind of tacky and I have only just got used to the small size of the place.
Should I have lived with normies and maybe even managed to save money, or does that come with its own problems?
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It depends on if you want /can livebwith others or if you want to be on your own.
What's the cheapest new laptop I can buy that I can do web design on?
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Wrong board.
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Web design isn't exactly intensive work, any cheap off the shelf computer will work.
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Don't buy a laptop. Buy a desktop.
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How to tell if a girl is into you? 2017-06-26 08:35:43 Post No.18459261
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How to tell if a girl is into you?
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I know there are guys out there who take the slightest gesture of friendliness as "oh she's into me". I'm the complete opposite of that. People say it's easy to tell when a girl is into you, but when it comes to that I'm a retard.
When I ended up dating a girl it was only because my friends told me she was into me, after watching me and her talk to each other.
I really need to figure this shit out, because I might be missing my chances here and there. I watched some youtube videos on that and not everything they list happened to me. For example, girls never play with their hair when they talk to me. But they gave other signals.
Just how can I become less retarded about this?
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by asking her out.
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Tell a terrible joke, if she still laughs then she is into you.
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How do I get a job? I'm a college kid with no work history and I just want a job stocking groceries, I'm really quiet and reclusive. They want me to upload a resume to their website. What should it say? University of X, expected graduation 20XX? High School class of 20YY? And what about references?
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References will be anyone that's remotely professional. Ever baby/dog/house sit for anyone? List them. Teachers can work fine too.
Being quiet and reclusive will get you no points at any retail type job. Even stock employees are expected to engage and interact with customers, unless you are getting a warehouse stock job or are working overnight while the store in closed.
I'm a janitor at a grocery store, and even I still have to show customers where to find the peanut butter, and how to order a cake at the bakery, and take their carts out to their cars with them if I'm around and they need help, even though it's not technically my job.
So if you make it to the interview section, brush up on your acting abilities and pretend you're johnny social who absolutely loves getting screamed at by soccer mom's in their 40's because their coupon is expired and they know throwing a temper tantrum will win them free shit.
Other things to list is if you did any sort of volunteer work, or were in like boyscouts or something. Trust me, listing that I was a girlscout for 11 years got me my first job. Play up your college experience too, say you learned teamwork skills through group projects in school. Any random skill you can think of, brag about it.
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>Pic related really you?
I've seen you on /fit/ before
What can I do to help ? How is your current situation? What do you actually want to do and how dedicated are you?
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>working overnight while the store in closed.
It's overnight stocking, no way I would do actual retail.
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Nah, it was just a random picture on my computer. Seemed marginally relevant.
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I'm 18, athletic and my natural hormones have started to, if not already, peak.
I am incredibly fucking horny all the damn time and I can't stop thinking with my dick.
I mean, I can have a wank, and 30 minutes later be just as horny as I was before.
I'm a virgin due to self confidence issues (such as anxiety and paranoia), and I don't think I could bring myself to get a girlfriend, because I am mentally struggling just taking care of myself.
But as a result I've been getting off with girls online and I feel like an absolute degenerate. Its not that they're unattractive, but its more that I never wanted to be like this. I never wanted to be such a shut-in degenerate.
I honestly hate myself and its really just adding to my problems.
I don't know what to do or how to stop.
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>been getting off with girls online
where? I'm only asking because I'm kind of in the same boat as you except that.
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Dont be a shut in. Get out. Play something. Sex with other people is much more enjoyable than wanking. Dont feel bad about wanking though. It is natural and normal, despite what your rabbi tells you.
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Have only had an orgasm once 2017-06-26 08:07:57 Post No.18459159
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Hey. So I've been masturbating since I was like 10, and now I'm 19. To my memory I never actually been able to orgasm, until just the other night. This is the only time it ever happened, and it was kinda random and caught me by surprise. My question is, am I doing something wrong? Whenever I've masturbated, I'd either lose interest and go soft, only be able to pre-cum, or go for really long (Like, 30 minutes or so) always feeling like I'm ABOUT to orgasm, but never actually being able to. Even after the other night, after a half hour or so, I decided to try again, but I couldn't orgasm, even though I had done it just a bit before, and I haven't been able to since. I'm just confused, why that one time, and what did I do differently to make it work? It definately wasn't the intensity of stimulation, my dick has felt way more tingly that it did that one time, and still not orgasmed from that. When I had it, like I said it was surprising. I didn't feel like the amount of stimulation was even close enough to pre-cum, but then all of a sudden it happened. So yeah, like what do I do? Anyone else like this?
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Deleting an old tumblr account
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Hello, there is an old tumblr account that was mine but now I cannot log into it because they randomly did a security procedure that locked many people out of their accounts.
It is impossible for me to log back in because the email associated with the account no longer can be recovered. I was hoping there is some possible way to delete the blog by some other means.
The only tactic I can think of is to flag some of the non-sjw friendly stuff I posted and pretend I am offended and see what they do. I fear they will only go so far as to take down that posts I report, leaving the blog in tact.
Does anybody have an experience with this sort of thing or knowledge of deletion procedures?
Any help or advice would be appreciated. I am trying to retreat from the internet, but I also wanted to delete all of the things that were in my power to delete.
Thanks.
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Your best course of action would be to get in contact with the staff and hope they can work something out
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Is my GF an attention whore? 2017-06-26 07:38:15 Post No.18459075
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Is my GF an attention whore?
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Found out whenever my gf dresses up to go to work or go out, she sends a snap of what is is wearing to a bunch of her friends (including guys)...should I be concerned?
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I wouldn't be concerned if she's sending it to a whole bunch of people. She just wants attention and positive comments. Everyone does; it feels good to get it.
I'd only be concerned if she was snapping one person in particular - that could indicate more sinister intentions
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It doesn't bode well for your future. She is the kind of person to seek validation by any means necessary by parading around even the most inane of behaviors or events. Find someone who doesn't have the intellectual capacity of a spoon.
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Funny because my GF is a lawyer
how do you deal with a lonely ex after your breakup?
we still live together and are friends, but i'm a lot more socially active and the vibe is "i find it difficult / awkward to hang out with your friends anymore", making my ex lonely and making me feel bad when i'm out enjoying myself.
generally, i know a lot more people than my ex and have a much more active social life now, whereas we used to do a lot of stuff together previously.
i want everyone to be happy. what should i do?
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How do I convince my social circles to just completely cut out a toxic person who is the sole source of - I hate this word - "drama" in our collective lives?
I've cut her off the best I can, but since the rest of them still talk to her, I still have to hear about this bitch. I wish I could just make them all understand there is no such thing as a peaceful coexistence with someone who demands an apology if you protest her walking all over you.
How do I get them to just cut the cancer out so we can all just go back to being happy, functional adults?
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Her ex just managed to finally get away from her, but now he's starting to get apologetic for the shit she's pulled and trying to justify the way she's acted towards the rest of us.
I'd hate to have to cut him off, too, and the rest of the party will be more reluctant to drop him.
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people are different man don't stress
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What do you mean?
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How to cope with Boeing neurotic. I can't stand this trait. Everything would be fine with me if I wasn't so sensitive over everything. When I get mad I am literally dead inside. I don't know what to do with it. I don't like when my bad days come.
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Nobody likes my neurotic state. When I utter sad and depressed. I am such a loser.
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How long does a friendly poker match, with friends, take? I have to go to a beer pong tournament at 10:30pm and I was wondering when I should start the poker tournament with my friends?
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Fold til you get a good hand
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I really really like this girl, knowing she is perfect for me in every way. However, i graduated high school a couple weeks ago and I will probably never see this girl ever again. Were both going to different schools and graduation day was the last time I saw her. Im not very close to her, we do have mutual friends. We've talked, but not to the extent where it was anything meaningful. I know that we both have a lot of things in common. I just can't stop thinking about her ever since the last time I saw her. How do I cope with this and possibly not seeing this girl for a while, if not ever.
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>How do I cope with this and possibly not seeing this girl for a while, if not ever.
How are you currently not coping? Unless this sorrow is causing self-destructive behavior in you or something, you're coping just fine. You're just a little sad about it, which is normal.
Are you really so naive that you think negative emotions are problems in themselves? They're not. They're a part of life, and coping is continuing normally despite them.
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Where do I go from here? 2017-06-26 06:55:09 Post No.18458942
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My girlfriend and I decided on having an abortion about 10 months ago. We could have supported the kid with some extra effort and we both wanted to have a child eventually but we decided on it anyways. Ever since then we've both had a hard time being happy with life overall. I've become more outwardly cynical (I was always cynical with myself), in part due to her becoming more distant and in part due to the fact that I really wanted to have a child with her. She's become more distant, in part due to my cynical bullshit and in part due to the fact that she really wanted to have a child with me.
I shut down during the abortion process when she told me not to come with her to her last visit. I work online so it's easy for me to run away into the internet and games and ignore the world and that's what I did. She's been staring at me from behind for 10 months and I didn't even try to realize what that meant to her because I was so into my own misery that I couldn't see hers... My numb shell was cracked open by reality 3 days ago. She said that there is no spark in our relationship and that she wanted to end it. That hurt but it was good because we finally got to talk about everything. About the abortion and how shitty it was for me to shut down. About how she's become more and more distant and not opened up to me about her needs when I ask her what I can do for her and us. About how my critical nature got turned away from myself and towards her. About how she's become a workaholic since then and that we never have a day where she isn't exhausted. About how we both feel guilty for choosing to kill our baby. About how we really love each other but that the spark is gone and that we're still best friends but she can't see me in a romantic light anymore, and how we know that the abortion had a direct impact on our sex life.
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We talked for a few hours about everything that we needed to talk about and promised that if anything else came up we would talk again. We also decided to do what we can to try and get the spark back.It's not even been 72 hours and she's been working nonstop (save for yesterday when she slept due to exhaustion from overworking herself). We spent some time together, watched a few shows and went on a walk with the dog. It was good, we started bonding again. But today I woke up to her driving away to work without saying anything. I got up and found a note in front of my computer saying that "I love you but I am not in love with you. You are my best friend but the spark is gone for me." That she was "glad that we spent time together yesterday but it was like spending time with a friend." There's more to the note but that's the gist of it. I feel like her mind is made up and she was humoring me when we talked. I feel like what we said to each other was fake.
So what do I do? I feel like she doesn't want to work on the relationship and I don't want to force it. I don't want to think that a person who seriously considered having a child with me would leave when the spark was gone and not attempt to work on it and I realize that the situation is compounded by the past 10 months of trouble and the trauma that came before. Is it too late for us to fix this? For therapy, for anything? How do we recover from this?