I am looking into ways of breaking up with a partner you are living up with without destroying their self-estem.
I am tired of a pointless relation, but I don't want to hurt her(as in I don't want her to get depressive but I don't love her)
Any suggestions? Specially from ladies, how would you consider a breakup to be fair and in good terms.
Some details.
26 yo, no kids, no common house/bank/car, no sex due to lack of real love, different mindsets completelly
>>18462370
Just do it
There's no way to avoid it being ugly so just do it and get it over with, there's no point in hanging on
Most likely if she was in the same situation she wouldn't give a second of thought to how it would harm you before breaking up, so just do it
my brother was in a relationship like that for like 3 years he just got out of. he just told her straight up he didn't think it was working. then she begged and cried for a second chance (like on his front lawn bawling) so he gave her a second chance and things were good for like 3 days but when he was at work one day she went to his house, took all the furniture and even stuff like paper towels and toilet paper, gave all his shit away on facebook, and accused him of cheating on her with his ex from over 4 years ago who doesn't even live in this state anymore.
I would tell her its not working and be sure to help her move her things.
>>18462371
I am gonna do it. But it would be nicer to soften it rather than telling her, I just don't like you anymore. If you know what I mean.
>>18462372
that is my plan more or less, help her move so we end up good. she isn't a psycho like your brother's