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I would usually fap almost every day


I met a girl, and now I'm definitely getting laid

should I refrain from fapping and cumming until then? or does refraining from all that stuff make you "rusty"? meaning, does your dick become lazy if it hasn't gotten much attention?

Is it best to do as little with it before you get laid, or should you keep it busy? I know this is a weird question, but someone out there should understand where I'm coming from.

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just kind fucked up a good thing i had going with a a new group of friends. now we aren't talking as much.

i feel like i'm currently in one of the lowest points in my life, i'm miserable as hell.

what do?

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How can you tell if you have tinnitus? I can hear a faint high pitch ringing in my ears but only if I focus on it, it's not incredibly distracting.

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How do I stop freaking out because of every little change in my body? The human body isn't perfect, and changes all the time. But that doesn't stop me from going into panic when I find a little change. I often find some sort of bump somewhere, get scared and nauseous from it. Then after a day or 2 the change is gone or I don't notice it anymore.

How do I deal with this? I don't want my days being ruined by little pimples anymore.

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Okay guys

Girls don't make sense
Help me out here

>hanging out with girl, almost daily for a few days, half the time it's her setting up the hangouts
>try holding hands, kissing, with no luck
>sleep at her place, fully allowed to grope and she is straddling me hard
>don't do anything
>next day I'm told that I push things too far and she's not looking for a relationship
>me: okay, see ya
*5 hours later I get texts*
>"you're a weirdo and made things weird right off the bat"
>be less weird
>haha, you're fucking weird
*next day*
>hey, can we still hang out?

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How to approach a girl that barely knows you and that you have no chance of approaching innocuously because there are not common friends and there is no overlap in your daily routines, i.e., any meeting has to be contrived by you but has at the same time appear effortless etc?

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How do I ask her to hangout? I have some form of what you would call "social anxiety" so texting for me is a mess. Backstory : knew this girl, I moved away for about 2-3 years, now back, we've already texted a little bit, responding to texts is so hard, there's a mental block, at times I can't think of things to say and just won't reply. How do I ask her to hangout/gear the conversation toward asking her to hangout without it seeming "weird"

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So be me 20
There is this chick at my work
#Asiangoddess
Both me and so called @$ianGoddesd aka AG have some feels for eachother
When me and AG talk for the first time i was straight up fucking here mind #doggyStyle
Later in the day I here she is married
Fml anon
So we talk still, but i can tell she wants me
As i want her, but whenever i make a move she brings up husband
What should i do to get her to hop on me love post anon thanks in advanced

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There is this cute girl in my engineering classes who is into to me. I am not going to go into detail trying explain how I know so because my first draft was too long. I basically want to improve myself over the summer. I want to at least try to reduce my social anxiety to manageable level because as of now I have zero friends and don’t know how to make any. It’s ruining my life, I am too scared to apply for internships because of my lack of social skills, all I have going for me right now is my gpa. My psychologist is a dick head who tries to rush me out of his office and never gives me any meaningful advice even though I have asked to start CBT with him on multiple occasions. Has anyone been able to conquer their social anxiety? I want to be able to at least make friends then I think I will be able to talk to this girl and get things going. I have other things to worry about but my social anxiety is the thing that is most apparent to others, at least my other problems can be hidden and treated with medication.

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So, I can relatively get any girls number. I'm a very confident person and all. The only concern or wall I meet is when I text the girl it can go 1 of two ways.

1) I become not interested anymore and just become friends with them
or
2) The girl will text me a little bit, maybe even say she'd be down to hang and whatever and then just STOPS talking all together. Maybe even goes to friends and talks shit??

How do I stop #2 from happening...

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Is anger management mostly based on a false premise? Where is the psychiatric line drawn between someone who stabs 5 people and a Muslim who goes on a shooting/suicide bombing rampage?

> pic unrelated

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I dated a few women who were really horrible people. Two of them, I fell in love with. This part might just be imaginary, but I think there have been incremental improvements between each of them.

The only issue is that my mind will spontaneously fill up with regret or even hatred on a regular basis, because of these women. Everyone wants to talk about love, dating, marriage and kids...

After the feeling settles and I feel calm again, I start to feel like I'm a shitty person. There are plenty of nice people out there, and am I so undesirable that I could only get a date with terrible people?

I don't know what to do with these feelings. If I don't get another date, this will continue. If the next date I get is with a shitty person, this will worsen. Advice?

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My ankle just decided to get swollen while sitting down at my desk and is very painful when walked on.

I was perfectly fine in the morning.

What is happening and how can I make this better? Cold compress seems to alleviate it but won't solve the swelling.

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I know I'm going to sound like a light weight pussy, but I've smoked before and this was the most intense high I ever felt. I literally felt like I was dying.

My friends were smoking out of a bowl and I took my turn, three times, and then I just felt like I was waving in and out of my body. This feeling really scared me.

For background, I was in the hospital for weeks for Sepis and was on loads of medicine. Could the weed have been having a bad interaction with that?

I can't explain it and my friends kept staring the whole time, I was embarrassed but I had no control over myself. I had tunnel vision and I couldn't stop shaking. I could hear the music but then not hear the music and hear the air conditioner, and then not, etc. I could only hear one thing at a time. Life felt like it was pausing and time moving so slow, in reality it was two hours.

It felt like a crazy dream I couldn't get out of. I couldn't form my own thoughts. When I tried to talk it was all slurred and not coming out properly. I couldn't stop shaking either, and my throat was so dry that I was convinced I was gonna suffocate and die.

Honestly the whole thing though. I literally felt like I was coming in and out of my body, and that scared me the most.

I'm still a little bit out of it.

Could it have been laced? What happened? Similar experiences?

I'm probably be we going to smoke again.

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Im a guy but why is it when i talk to a women i like it is hard to keep my feelings in?

And why is that i just want hugs and kisses and just be looking at a night sky with a person i love (which is currently a close friend of mine that im texting) andwhy do i always have this weird feeling in my chest?