What do any of these mean?
>Sends random Snapchat of her in a choker (it's her sister on her phone)
>Let me play grab ass on 1st date
>Keeps saying wants a relationship but doesn't want to come over so we can actually hang out (not even trying to fuck).
oh hi, welcome to millennial dating
>>18475961
>Sends random Snapchat of her in a choker (it's her sister on her phone)
Chokers are really in right now. Just tell her it's a really cute look for her.
>Let me play grab ass on 1st date
That's just her boundary. Totally up to her.
>Keeps saying wants a relationship but doesn't want to come over so we can actually hang out (not even trying to fuck).
This is a bit odd. Could just be cautious of entering your space alone, I guess. Meet her in public first then invite her back over.
Could also be that she wants you to put in the effort to come get her.
>>18475968
Fuck man this is just dumb
I want her bad too
Her best friend just added me on Facebook too, wtf do I accept? Is it a trap!?
>>18475970
She has a car but lives far, don't want to come off needy. Just want her to come over so we can talk privately and Lerner each other know what we want. Ffs man wtf
Okay, simple question.
I'm looking for what is, in your opinion, the best book on how to learn c++ from scratch up to a decent level where you're basically able to further study on your own.
I have some prior rudimentary experience with the language, but I'm taking a gap year from university to devote myself to learning as much shit as I can, so time and money aren't an issue.
I'm not looking for the easiest, but the most complete.
Thanks for the help anons.
>>18475865
Stephen Prata's "C++" is what you're looking for. Some of the points in his book may be outdated, but still, it's easy to read and pretty understandable. Then go for "Effective C++" by Meyers.
>>18475865
sci wiki has some good recs
am fkin drunk excuse me.
/adv/ i went on a 4th date with this girl and it went fking awful, we had nothing in common to talk about and it was just plain boring. she said she found me acting weird this night but idk, i was just usual self. i get along with people nicely but keeping a conversation with girls is difficult since they aren't into games/stuff u find on internet. we ended up making out on last date but this one was just shit. we split after 2h of meeting. idk, is there any girl that'll come along that i'll like or wtf do i have to change?
Either find a girl who loves games and dank memes as much as you do or get some real interests.
How much of a boring basic bitch millenial you are when your hobbie consits in videogames
>>18475888
nice trips, i do have interests like school/basketball/gym? idk, bicycles and shit, idk what else do ppl find interesting. making male friends is the easiest shit ever but what the fk is up with girls man
Guys got any advice for starting youtube
Type youtube.com into your browser and press enter
>>18475834
This
>>18475828
Make shit when you want to. Nobody wants to see forced unfunny shit
I really want friends for this card game I made and I'm a fucking grown ass man. but it's really cool I swear.
I'll play.
>>18475779
what's the game?
uhm. yeah. how can i contact you? email?
Why can't I love?
>Date a girl for a month or two.
>Halfway through, something clicks and I lose interest and passion.
>A lot of girls I've been with say I'm a very very sweet and thoughtful guy.
>I end up distant towards the end and break it off in the worse ways.
I just want to find someone that I can be passionate about for more than two months. What's wrong with me?
pls respond
Married anon here.
The relationship starts with what's called a "honeymoon period". The honeymoon period is the classic "in love" stuff. Butterflies, romance, lots of sex, everything is easy and fun and wonderful (or at least pretty good).
And then, the honeymoon period ends. It always does, this is inevitable. It may take two weeks, it may take two years, but it ends. This is when the relationship becomes harder. You need to work at it more, it's not as easy or simple. You get on each others' nerves more, you see more of your partner's flaws. They frustrate you, you argue, and the sex becomes less frequent.
If they honeymoon period was the only thing holding your relationship together, it'll fall apart. If you or your partner is always chasing this initial high, it'll fall apart. If neither of you are willing to compromise and work through things, it'll fall apart.
So, once the spark disappears, what's left?
The trick in love is to find someone that makes this harder work feel easy. Someone you get along with, someone you can communicate with, someone you can trust and be yourself around. Someone who can legitimately be your friend as well as lover. A real partner.
That's where the real love lies. This is the sort of relationship that will endure.
Maybe look for people you respect/admire and date them.
19 M
>>18475648
outside of elementary schools and at bus stops.
i am drunk so i will just get it all out
>tfw just cut HER off
>tfw it hurt but at the same time i feel kind of free but im still sad
how can i make myself feel better /adv/ ?
Drink more. Duh.
get a tulpa waifu
Do you guys have any advice?
Just bad advice, but it's on you to follow it.
How do you get gud at bantering? Feels like I'm a bit of a dead fish at times.
>>18475623
Oy, fuck you m8 you little piece of wankIt,
JUST channel your inner Australian
I get spaced out the more I strain my eyes and get bad mindfog.
Hey /adv/, I'm in a long distance relation with my SO. Currently they're a four hour train ride from me, but starting in a few months they'll only be about half an hour away from me, and I plan on visiting often.
The year after that, though, they'll be moving to Asia for one year as part of their course. They'll be about 7 hours ahead of me, and likely will have less time to talk.
What would you recommend we do?
I have a business instagram account. In the bio you can add a location, I want to create a fake location, which is easy enough to get just the name through facebook, but it will add that location name to the location I actually am.
Is there a way for me to change the location on my phone, so i can check in on facebook creating a new location so i can add that to my instagram bio?
>>18475578
search for phone gps spoofing, there's probably an app to do it.
good evening /adv/
had a few girls earlier this year, two of them i got along with incredibly well, third was one such ex that was unbelievably emotionally abusive
a few weeks ago, i met a girl, a writer across a game i play. we regularly (daily) improvise script off one another, for at least several hours, up to 10-14 hours. have the same disposition on just about anything, same philosophies, same mental situation (crippling anxiety, depression that often speaks for the person), and we get along incredibly and don't fight.
this isn't the first time i've had detachment plague me, but its extremely come and go this time around. there are times this girl would bring me to tears from her past stories / how she views me, and how touching it all is. on the other hand, there are hours, sometimes entire day/night cycles where i am spent feeling emotionally numb.
a complacence that i've tried, and thought about past girls or exes i would have any sort of residual feelings for, or ANY situation that could evoke such feelings - and nothing comes up.
i've dropped all other women i've spoken to for this one; something i have NEVER done before. i publicly refer to her as my own, we're pretty couple-y, etc.
however, when she's not around, my mind seems to empty. my motivation for things often falter, i constantly re-read our conversations to make sure everything went well, and so on.
now's probably important to mention that the anxiety and depression is such that there have been times in the past i've told her i've needed to break away from a certain session or conversation because i felt i took a wrong step in our roleplay, or i said something "wrong", when she assured me everything was the perfect, that i'm the best writer she's ever witnessed, that all she wants to do is forever be under my wing, that she's never before had as decent or as faithful a guy in her life, etc
(cont.)
but i love to doubt, and all i do is needlessly replay our talks and times together, even though her and i know it's incredible what we put together, my mind does all it can to dupe me otherwise.
she's a decade older than me, while i'm in college. regularly, all the women i come across are virgins or minimally experienced. she has slept with probably hundreds of guys and done crazy shit she's told me about, all the while affirming i'm the best thing that's happened in her life thus far, to the point where she'll regularly text me when she's at her parents, even. she has dropped practically all of her friends just to spend time with me.
one thing that might be important to mention, is that our habit of roleplaying daily for about three weeks has been broken since this wednesday; she has a shitty ISP and they've promised fixes every day since then, and the new estimate is tomorrow, so what brought us together so recently in the first place isn't there for us at the moment.
tl;dr things are going better with a girl than i've had in ages and my mind's refusing to believe it at all costs
i will be around all evening to answer anything i can or clear anything up. anything and everything is sincerely, dearly appreciated and needed.
also - went to counseling for four years, and psychiatry for two. meds were horrible, and counseling had absolute minimal effectiveness, if any. been about 1-2 years since i've been.
Any advice for someone failing a battle with binge eating disorder.
just stop eating lol
>>18475585
why eat when we're all going to die anyway
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=to7BMBJR9P4
observe above person
Realize that you don't want to be like that
Conquer the notion that food can beat you
Really what you have to do is learn to limit the calories you intake. It's hard but everyone has to do it.
You have to find something else to occupy the hole in your soul, though. I suggest chewing gum to get the endorphin release that eating food gives while also avoiding chugging down unnecessary calories.