I'm horrible at talking to people after something bad has happened to them. I have issues sympathizing and I'm probably autistic so I usually just don't care and end up ignoring the person. How bad of a trait is this? Does it automatically make me a bad friend?
No. There are different kinds of friends for different purposes. You're maybe just not meant to be the comforting sort of friend. But you can be the fun friend, or the pep talk friend.
>>18476275
Just listen to them and ask them questions. You don't need to sympathize, just listen.
If you can't be bothered to do that then maybe you don't care as much for these friends as you believe
>>18476275
How many collars does one girl need