Why do some normies when referring to their wives say, "the wife" instead of saying "my wife"? As in "Me and the wife went to see that movie yesterday, it was great!"
I find it.....disturbing. It's like he's referring to her as a commodity, or a product.
>>36578981
>referring to her as a commodity and product
EXACTLY
and I still wonder why people get married up to this day
>>36578981
Its just modern day normie speak talk. Wives are also referred to as
>my old lady
>bae
>bitch
>wifey
>waifu
Because they're betas and know that the attraction is hardly mutual. Their wife probably settled for stability, kids, or money.
Okay you cucks, today's the day you get a friend.
We all have varying levels of robot-ness and there's nothing worse than trying to make a friend only to find out they're more/less adjusted than you are. If you are similar, you must share contact info.
>Level of NEETness
>Alone time?
>Friends?
>Shut-in status?
>Communication skill level
>Attractiveness/10
>Stability (mental, emotional, etc)
>Type A/Type B
You can fuck right off if you think I'm going to write all that out.
>Level of NEETness
In uni because I was basically forced to be
>Alone time?
Very necessary, though having a friend to talk to every so often would be nice
>Friends?
One long distance friend (3 time zones away)
>Shut-in status?
Pretty much spend most of my time alone, though I can find some pleasure riding the bus or walking to class (i.e being around others but not interacting with them)
>Communication skill level
>1 person: -10
1 person: Pretty good, maybe 8-9/10. I feel confident but can only express that in a controlled environment
>Attractiveness/10
I've been told anywhere from a 5 to an 8. If I had to judge myself, I'd say a solid 6
>Stability (mental, emotional, etc)
Pretty good, though I just got out of a long rough spot
>Type A/Type B
Type B
>>36578956
>Level of NEETness
I have a job that pays me full-time salary but I work one or two days a week. I go to uni online.
>Alone time?
Pretty much all day. I have an SO but they are at work all the time and I pretty much coop myself up in my office when they're home.
>Friends?
Sort of. My best friend is 69, but he lives back home in the state I grew up in. I'm not his best friend, but we're close. I don't have any close friends out here. I mostly say in my condo.
>Shut-in status?
Except for work or the very rare occurrence to go out with the SO or see my acquaintances in town, yeah.
>Communication skill level
Gotten better over the years. I still am very nervous and fumble over words or have horrible word salad. I never feel like I explain anything well enough.
>Attractiveness/10
5/10. 6/10 if I worked out.
>Stability (mental, emotional, etc)
I'm irritable and depressed with my OCD flaring back up. I'm an aspie. Pretty stable, though.
>Type A/Type B
Depends on the situation. I'm pretty motivated, especially at work.
Tbh I wish girls played video games more desu
Why do you want this desu ka?
>>36578955
Boy, I really fucking don't.
Why would you ever want that? Getting matched with a girl in CSGO gives me a very good chance of rage-killing that dumb bitch attention whore, and the game being ruined by white knight faggots cringy "flirting" with her.
>>36578971
Well I figure girls could act more normal and wouldn't make me work for their attention so hard if they played video games just like us. R-right?
>tfw probably close to 90% of the people you talked to on /r9k/ in 2010 before it got deleted have all moved on
>>36578942
>tfw don't like talking to people
>feel lonely
>everyone hates me because I'm negative
>wish I was dead because anxiety
>mom wants me to stay
feels thread
>>36578942
i'm still here, anon
originally of course
I'm still here and I'll always be here
>tfw cannot stop consuming calories
Are there any drugs i can take to make me hate food? My life revolves around it now, and I can't take it anymore. If i were to get a prescription for, say, a stimulant, would it help me not eat? I'm not just talking about the physical aspects of hunger, im talking about the psychological cravings too
>>36578940
Just drink water all the time, you'll be too full and nauseous to want to eat anything.
>>36578940
straterra
>>36578957
I drink alot of water, but I still psychologically crave food and i eat even though i am not hungry
Out of all the stupid shit that I've done in my life, the only thing that I regret is being unkind to Melanie Blackburn.
>She was an awkward teenage girl
>Everyone made fun of her because she was "weird" and didn't socialize much in school
>She made her own clothes and wore them to school every day. Said she liked the ones she made better. They were baggy, usually a sweater or a handmade shirt with a hiking vest
>Was obsessed with the civil war, medieval history, and mythology. She always got in trouble for reading during class.
>One time a bunch of kids made fun of her for having a "spellbook", which I would later come to find was actually just a hand written book that she was making about herbalism and species of plants/insects in the area. They drew all over it, ripped it up and burned it
>Other girls would make fun of her for saving herself for marriage, and said that she "was probably a lesbian because she dressed like a pirate".
>People said that she wandered the woods all the time, and that it was "creepy"
>One time, she sent a letter to me in the mail, asking if I would like to go hiking with her on summer break. I told no one, because I was afraid of what people would say
>She dropped out and got her GED at the end of Junior year. Before she left, she attended junior prom, without a date, wearing a form fitting, handmade, white cotton dress that accentuated her form.
>All the girls in our school were jealous of how much attention she was getting, and calling her "fat". The only thing "fat" on her we're her breasts and thighs, that we're normally covered by layers of modest clothes.
>The day that she left, she brought a bunch of bookmarks that she made for everyone. All year she had been keeping track of our interests and hobbies, and made custom bookmarks for each of us.
>Most people threw theirs away.
Last I heard, she got a job as a park ranger
>>36578904
i regret reading this because it makes me wish i knew her
>>36578963
I just looked her up to see if I could find her on Google or in my school's yearbook. But she isn't even there. She's one of those "No Photo Taken" kids.
>>36579055
you know that god tier wife material that occurs once in a million years? she sounds like it
try to get contact info
Boys I made it just got a message from a hot milf who's only 6 miles away.
I'm finally a normie.
absolutely fucking kek
>when mom uses the internet
>>36579074
SHES COMING CLOSER
> Be me, 20M
> Lying on my bed, playing a random videogame.
> "What are you doing, Anon? Playing "The Blue Whale"?
> What kind of normie shit...
Turns out Blue Whale is a weird Ruskie suicide game that my mom saw about on the news.
What the fuck, mom?
Whales are so fucking stupid looking. Christ I hate them.
>>36578834
they kind of creep me out. just this huge amount of flesh at one place.
how does this kind of retarded non-game even become popular, I don't get it
is it because of this 'le layers of irony' meme that's so common now?
Who /juice/ here?
I drink to forget robots.
At least it's better than being addicted to alcohol, I probably go through like 64 of these tiny boxes a week.
this is the weird shit i lurk for.
Capri sun is fucking good and no one will ever convince me otherwise
>>36578900
Agreed. No idea why normies see drinking juice as childish
>walking in the city with sister
>tell sister I'm hungry
>we go to a pizza parlor and she gets me a slice of pizza
>it's cheese pizza instead of pepperoni pizza
>the slice is too big for me
>>36578768
You sound like a beta orbiter right now.
quality pots op
don't be so picky.marry her.
my online friends left me
the suicidal thoughts are very strong right now
i have no reason to be alive
i am alone
i care about nothing anymore
it took me about 5 minutes to some up the energy t care enough to type this
does anyone here care about me or do i just give up because guys I dont like anything anymore and no-one likes me, and i dont want to do anything and i want to die
pls can someone just talk to me
i'll talk, what's up op? what happened?
hello anon, what appears to be the problem
>>36578713
I spent the last 2 hours or so daydreaming about my death, meticulously planning everything. I realised that I don't have anyone to address a suicide note to, aside from some internet people who only talk to me out of pity. my parents both hate me and in turn so do the rest of my family. I havent left the house in 3 weeks and the only person i have talked to is the online shopping deliverer
I feel like I'm in a foreign country where no-one speaks my language, or that I'm a different species. no-one has the capacity to understand me
robots, i need some guidance: i just got out of a 12 year relationship with my HS sweetheart this sunday and i have no idea what to do anymore. I moved to DC with her about 2.5 years ago for a job and i have no other friends in this state. i am finding it hard to even find shit to watch on netflix by myself. are there meetups or any other r9kers in the area of 20716???
How do more introverted people meet people? i thought i knew what i should look for in a person, but evidently i am wrong, what are red flags? what dating sites work? What are key things to both say and use on profiles? im basically a fledgling 29 yro
>>36578659
Get on tinder lad. Get yourself some break up sex
Google profile advice first if you really need to
>>36578659
Fucking leave normie, you've had female attention your whole adult life, fuck off and leave us alone
>>36578659
You're a robot for life now unless you decide to save a near-30 hoe. Wouldn't recommendy.
>If only Hitler had won, then I would have a pure qt virgin waifu!
Then explain this:
>At best, 5 percent of women entering marriage were virgins; many had already had numerous boyfriends. Even after marriage Germans were hardly faithful to their spouses.
Dagmar Herzog, "Hubris and Hypocrisy, Incitement and Disavowal: Sexuality and German Fascism." Journal of the History of Sexuality 11 (2002), 3-21
>>36578641
>capitalist
feels oppressive man
Fascism is a pretty stupid ideology desu and one of the great ironies of history is how it's always the biggest losers that are most attracted to it.
It lacks all nuance, understanding, and compassion. Instead it's a projection of insecure masculinity onto politics: always needing to be strong, implementing oppressive sexual policies, unable to stand opposing viewpoints. So in a way it does make sense that those who most struggle with their identity as a man are most attracted to it: white trash meth addicts who can't hold down jobs, internet neckbeards, forum moderators. But it's sad that they lack the self awareness to realize that about themselves.
>>36578729
>it's always the biggest losers that are most attracted to it.
t. r9k poster
Why would someone go to college for an English major or fine arts.
I like reading stories about people who got meme degrees and can't find a job now what would make you want to go into debt just to say you went to college.
My parents really wanted me to go. I'm a complete loser -- kissless virgin, meme degree, drink too much, depressed, etc. But at least if someone asked me "What have you done that your Dad is proud of?" I could respond with something I did that resembles an achievement. Yes, it was an easy degree, yes, I do soul-sucking work that is completely unrelated to Literature. But at least now, for my parents sake, they can think something about their son other than he is a walking black hole that consumes resources and gives nothing back to society. If I had went for math or science, I would have failed out, or worse just hated life for 4 years. An easy degree was really my only option - I'm stupid. Me going to college was a big deal for my parents, it wasn't the major so much as the degree itself.
That's why I went.
>>36579054
college is a meme anyway unless you're in sciences
the apprenticeship program is the only tertiary education i support
I don't know but it is just so intriguing to watch people willingly ruin their lives for no reason
sometimes I have illusions that aya is typing to me on discord
I jump up and feel so happy
but realize that he thinks im worthless
im just a dreamer
>>36578563
No one here cares you pathetic whiner. Leave.
>>36578580
aya said that mean peoples words dont mean anything.
Hide my threads!
>>36578563
Wow this is different from when you would just post that you're crying, i like the direction you're going with this