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Soi I am in a relationship. Its not going well, but I love her. I ve started having feelings for my coworker, and I am her boss. Direct boss. She has a bf as well. I dont know what to do. It all seems fucked.
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My coworker likes me too, we ve been out on chaste dates like 3 times
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I know the opposite gender isn't the key to happiness, but I'm going to keep chasing them like they're going to fix my life for me. How am I supposed to improve the way I think of myself, and learn to be happy by myself?
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is it wrong to want a fucking relationship? for fucking once?
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>but im going to keep chasing them like they're goign to fix my life for me
this is probably why you can't get a girl though. that sort of desperation is obvious no matter how subtle you claim to be.
>how am i supposed to improve the way I think of myself and learn to be happyb y my self?
by doing the things you think you would do if you were in a relationship, but by your self.
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>>18639000
>is it wrong to wnat a fucking relationship? for fucking once?
no. but that doesn't mean you will get one or should act self destructively or put it on a pedastal. by your own admission in the first post simply saying that you 'want a relationship' is an understatement on how you actually feel about the subject.
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Wrangle me like a tard and don't let me go crazy for you 2017-08-20 03:10:14 Post No.18638990
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Wrangle me like a tard and don't let me go crazy for you
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A peculiar woman who is close to me and about whom I just now almost wrote a book made an interesting point: because I am autistic, nothing in my life is ever going to get done unless I have someone up my ass making sure things happen, otherwise I'm going to find myself content on the street et cetera.
Maybe it needs context: I'm volunteering teacher assisting at a nonprofit doohickey I enrolled in because I had no job-getting soft skills, and she is in the program because she became homeless and plans to stay that way so she can point out exactly why the system is fucked up.
Anywho, now that I'm looking for work and have turned down a few jobs and one twice because the transportation situation would be unreasonable for my carless self, and have twice been told by Uncle Sam that I'm not too sperg to work, I'm beginning to believe she's right.
If so, who would be this 'advocate' as she put it? Her? My mother is in a different country and she's about as old as my mother, who is still sort of young. I'm not even sure who she is to me. We post-ironically decided we love each other, which given my disability is no help.
Also can I not do that? I have skills, and I have the skill to infinitely gain more skills if I can stay focused on something, but since I can't, I find myself here, fighting off the urge to ask you some other dumb shit.
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it'll be you if you can will yourself into it or it'll be whoever likes you enough to put up with your needing to be tard wrangled on the regular. which could be her i guess, sure why not. the whole becoming homeless and staying that way to prove some point thing does not fill one with confidence that her wrangling skills are up to the task though. also ask all the other questions you mentioned at the end pls. am interested
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I recommend role-playing with puppets until you've mastered the situation.
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I'm having a hard time remembering them given I have to translate from the weird autistic mental picture language, but they were all about this woman and how completely strange she is and how fate seemed to orchestrate our encounter yet I have no idea about who she thinks I am to her let alone vice versa.
I could also ask about how to transition from a high nasal speaking voice that always becomes too loud due to the effort needed to produce it to a more comfortable baritone that wouldn't do that, or how exactly I manage to do things like learn how to use this Netbeans program this Java book uses when I find anything below my skill level to be insufferable or above it impossible, or why I haven't bothered getting a psychiatrist when I have the means to, but the answers to those are 'just do it you sperg'.
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Thank you for this my friend.
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Grandpa's Strange Cup 2017-08-20 03:02:08 Post No.18638970
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At a family reunion where we found this cup belonging to my grandfather. No one here recognizes the symbols and we don't know where it came from. Can anyone help us out?
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More images of the symbols on the cup. Something to do with medicine or pharmacy?
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How do I stop feeling sad so often? 2017-08-20 02:56:32 Post No.18638950
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How do I stop feeling sad so often?
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No matter how hard I try, I feel like I'm never doing well enough. I've been working out and eating plenty and healthy for the last 2 years, but I'm still small. I've practiced composition since ninth grade, but I feel and know that my music is still lackluster. I spend hours working for very little success. Shit like that.
The only thing that I rely on to make me feel good is music and running, but this just keeps going on and on
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I know how do you fell, man, it's really shitty. No mater how hard I tried to change my life, that same ol' felling comes back, that emptiness, that feel of life being without a point, is fucking sad and horrible, fuck I tried to find some objective or meaning and still I fell empty and sad.
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>>18638950
You have negative self beliefs ingrained into you from childhood. These negative beliefs such as always judging yourself as inadequate generate negative emotions every time you validate them and if you don't deal with those emotions when they initially come up then they can get repressed and build up/become more intense. Your emotions are telling you there's something wrong with the way you're living, it's up to you to figure out what that is.
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>>18638950
how do you work out? and how many pounds are in your weights?
also, if youre so sad shouldnt your music be more for people to listen to while they are sad
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So okay, my gf is currently emotionally tired, and im a dumb fuck bf who doesnt know how to handle this shit, anyone can help? Like what to say to her :/
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>>18638948
"Wow, I'd be tired too if I had that all going on. That sounds overwhelming, are you ok? Do you need anything?"
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Just let her know you're there for her. Ask her what you can do to help her feel better, provide a shoulder to cry on and don't be too pushy.
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>>18638948
This is easy
Buy her food, and go to her house with said food. Rent a movie, too. If she's like 80% of these females out here she likes disney movies and romantic comedies.
So eat food with her and watch the movie and let her snuggle up next to her, let her forget her problems.
Have sex with her after, and then talk to her about her feelings.
She just wants to feel safe
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Am I an asshole or is this normal? 2017-08-20 02:51:14 Post No.18638940
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Am I an asshole or is this normal?
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The short answer to the first one is "yes" but I need a long answer for both. I'll try to keep it short.
My friend was telling about how she needs reassurance and comfort in order to handle a situation. To me, that sounded selfish but she kept trying to explain herself and got really mad at me because I didn't believe she could have that expectation.
She's normally really nice and we always have a good time but this just put me off. She made it worse by trying to tell me what she wants me to do if her "boyfriend" (To make a long story short, it's some dude she isn't even fucking that she's been friends with for a really long time.) breaks up with her. I told her that was bullshit and she got even more upset. I just let her vent until she was done. I just descalated everything and she mellowed out.
So, uh, what the fuck? Am I missing something here?
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What did she tell you to do? You aren't really giving us much info. It sounds like you just don't want to bother being there for her, but I'm assuming it's because you haven't given many details.
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>>18638945
I mean, I like her and she knows I like her which is part of the reason. She gave me something along the lines of "I want you to comfort me and hug me and tell me he's no good for me". I told her that's how it works and I'm not one of her girlfriends. I'd like to be friends and not have her give me a list of commands.
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>>18638962
>I'd like to be friends
What she asked you to do was to treat her how she'd expect her friends to treat her. Don't say you want to be friends then complain when her expectations are that of a friend.
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Advice on Relationship 2017-08-20 02:50:22 Post No.18638936
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Hi everyone!
This is my first time posting (whoopee) and I need some help with how to deal with a situation I have.
So recently I gained a new step brother, or I'm about to (this sounds like the beginning of an anime). We're both 19, and we actually met once before when we were 6 or 7 and I used to live in a different part of the country. However, we haven't talked since then. Now, our parents are getting married soon but we're still living separately (finances, etc) for the next few months. I'm living with my mom and him with his dad. My mom travels often for work, and whenever they meet up, it's often without their children (me and him) because we're in college and don't have the leisure (or money) to travel freely. Unfortunately.
Last week, we went on a trip to see them, and I developed a crush almost immediately. He's not the most drop dead gorgeous looking guy in the world, but for me, I just felt instant attraction towards him - I find him handsome, his mannerisms are adorable, and he has this accent (he's from Spain) that makes me want him to talk forever.
Anyway, we were together every day for about a month and I felt the sexual tension grow - we started with flirting, kissing, and eventually had sex a few times until I left.
Now, we talk every day on ooVoo and it's inevitable that we're going to be a family pretty soon. I wasn't looking for love with this guy; I just really wanted to have sex with him and now I think I'm falling for him, and he said he is too, but it would be bad for both of us. I think.
What do we do? Continue this FWB with emotions 'relationship' that we have until one of us finds someone new to date? Neither of us are interested in pursuing a relationship with other people at the moment, and I think he has a FWB right now. Or should we stop soon?
We can't be together, I'm sure of that, but I'm not afraid of falling in love with him either. I guess I'm just wondering if anyone has ever been in a similar situation.
Thank you!
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So I just wanted continue my comment before anyone posted.
Before you say 'just find someone new,' I wish it was that easy. Me and this guy are so emotionally compatible it's not even funny. Like "sit in silence not using our phones and it's completely comforting" type of compatible. Even though our interests are vastly different, we have a similar sense of humor, that kind of stuff. He's also a very respectful person, a family kind of guy, etc.
If we were about to call each other 'bro' and 'sis' in the next few months, I definitely think i would have called this guy my soulmate. And I don't normally believe in that shit.
Life can be a bitch. Halp.
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you're not blood related so who gives a fuck? see where it goes. if it ends up crashing and burning hopefully it'll be after at least one of you is able to move out so breakfast isn't quite as awkward as you know damn well it's already going to be, kek
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General for questions that don't deserve their own thread.
For my question, does putting toothpaste on a zit really make it go away?
And if so, is it a one time application or multiple?
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>>18638928
Shameless self bump.
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>>18638928
you'd have better luck with destin. its a baby rash cream that makes the rash bumps fall right off because of all the zinc in it. works just as well on face acne. one application wait an hour or two, wipe it off, and bam the pimple falls right off. its gross and will bleed for awhile.
if you're looking for a real good cream though try retin-A (tretinoin). its prescription only but you can buy it online. pic related is me before and after. i ended up getting accutane after anyways though because it treats it from the inside which is better.
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>>18638928
It can dry it out more quickly, yes. Doesn't hurt to try.
If you get a lot of zits, try changing your pillow covers more often.
I'd like to ruin my marriage and life with an insane yandere type. What's the best way to find one?
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What an asshole.
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>>18638926
You'll never be able to give her what she needs and she will become bored of your routine unless you manipulate and abuse her.
See >>18638935
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I'm good at that though. It's how I keep current wife in line.
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24 female a 6+ year relationship with 26 male. He wants to get married, I don't. We don't want kids which is nice. My problem is that I have never been single. Before him I was with my ex 4 years. I never had a hoe phase.
This is probably a horrid place to ask, but I'm curious if I can get some insight anywhere I'll start with good ol 4chan.
Is the grass greener on the other side?
Our relationship is great, but I miss flirting and being practically worshipped and pursued, or just being alone/free sometimes, you go out, to travel, to do me, ya know? Not worry about his dinner and a clean house and shit that I don't want to make time for recently. I also have a massive sex drive so basically every other guy I have been seeing these days whether it be in the line at the grocery store or sitting at a table in the restaurant I work at I can picture myself having sex or hanging out with.
What the fuck is going on with me.
Why do i want to throw away a perfectly good relationship for different dick and freedom?
My only gripes about my bf (really fiancee) is that he makes less than I do (I like nice things, he has never gotten me anything because I've never asked), he's less educated so no really intellectually simulating conversation with him usually, and he had an alcoholic phase that we went through and kind of killed part of it all for me. And he never tells me I'm pretty, even though I tell him he's sexy, handsome, so good to me, etc etc all the time. I've brought this up a couple of times and he's acknowledged it, but nothing truly comes of it. When I ask him he says he's very attracted to me, and the only time he told me I was beautiful after that was shortly after we had the talk so it just seemed forced and my point in that conversation was that I want him to look at me and feel compelled to compliment me on his own.
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My friend was with her ex from the ages of 18-23, and she found that she needed some time to be single before she wanted to get into a long term relationship again.
As for your situation specifically, can you see yourself with this guy for the rest of your life? And how important are the gripes you have with your relationship, in the grand scheme of things?
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>>18638925
i dated a man for 3 years and left for the same reasons.
uneducated, got into heavy drugs, never complimented me, treated me subpar...
it was so so crushing for me but i knew i had to leave or else i would feel trapped. that was 2 years ago and now i'm dating a guy who does all the things my ex didn't do. i can't imagine life without him.
not saying you should leave it's just something to seriously seriously consider because you might just be happier with someone else
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being single is good for getting to know yourself. can't exactly speak from experience here but there doesn't seem to be anything particularly beneficial to be gained from having a hoe phase. plenty of downsides but that kinda goes without saying. i hope.
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I need some reassurance boys 2017-08-20 02:39:01 Post No.18638910
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I need some reassurance boys
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gf of 2 years left because she needed to work on herself before being in a healthy relationship, she did have issues so it seems legit, I'm trying to give her the space she needs but man it hurts so much,I miss her,I want to call her,I want her to hold me,but I won't. I just need someone to tell me it'll be alright, and that I'm doing the right thing, and that it'll turn out okay
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one way or another, it'll work out man. hang in there.
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Nah nevermind,thread closed. I was her emotional crutch for 2 years and once I stopped doing that she dropped me, fuck her its easier to move on when youre angry than when you're sad.
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Thanks anyway anon but I think I'm good
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I guess I'll start from the beginning. I've known this girl since freshman year, and I always kinda thought about dating her. As I grew older, we started to see each other more and became friends. When I was nearing the end of my junior year, she was near the end of her senior year. She and I went to prom together, and I regret not kissing her that night because I had feelings for her back then even. So we kept talking as friends until the summer, and until the start of July. We kissed, and started dating. We just recently broke up a few weeks ago, so we were only together a month. She didn't want a distance relationship (which wouldn't have been hard, just a 4 hour drive and I could've done that easily), so I figured out she just didn't have the same feelings as me. Then, a few days ago, I learned she was one of the girls that has feelings for a few guys at once. She liked another fucking guy the whole time we dated, and made me feel special even though I wasn't. I talked to her best friend about it, and apparently she really did care about me and a lot of the times what we had was real. But here's the thing; I feel like I should hate her for all the pain she put me through. I feel like I should hate her because she and I would spend hours making out (who can blame me for loving this girl as much as I did when we'd spend practically every day we could together) and she obviously didn't care about that. I feel like I should hate her because sometimes I dream about being with her again all night long, and I wake up hitting myself until I get bruises and cry for 30 minutes. And I tried to hate her; yesterday I cut her off from everything to try and get her off my mind. And then today came, and I tried to hate her again. I lifted with the anger and it felt good. as the day went on I felt worse and tried to talk to her again. I feel like shit. I know it'll get better with time, but how do I cope with it and feel a little better now? What should I fucking do? Pic related
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>>18638909
You should unironically try to win her back.
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>>18638916
I asked if she missed me, she said yes. I then told her I really wanted her back, and all she said was she messed me up
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My dad is having a mid night coughing fit, he's an avid smoker, anyone have any advice for what to do?
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>>18638908
offer them some kava or valerian root tea
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Give him some honey.
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>>18639185
oh baby