Advice on Relationship

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Hi everyone!

This is my first time posting (whoopee) and I need some help with how to deal with a situation I have.

So recently I gained a new step brother, or I'm about to (this sounds like the beginning of an anime). We're both 19, and we actually met once before when we were 6 or 7 and I used to live in a different part of the country. However, we haven't talked since then. Now, our parents are getting married soon but we're still living separately (finances, etc) for the next few months. I'm living with my mom and him with his dad. My mom travels often for work, and whenever they meet up, it's often without their children (me and him) because we're in college and don't have the leisure (or money) to travel freely. Unfortunately.

Last week, we went on a trip to see them, and I developed a crush almost immediately. He's not the most drop dead gorgeous looking guy in the world, but for me, I just felt instant attraction towards him - I find him handsome, his mannerisms are adorable, and he has this accent (he's from Spain) that makes me want him to talk forever.

Anyway, we were together every day for about a month and I felt the sexual tension grow - we started with flirting, kissing, and eventually had sex a few times until I left.

Now, we talk every day on ooVoo and it's inevitable that we're going to be a family pretty soon. I wasn't looking for love with this guy; I just really wanted to have sex with him and now I think I'm falling for him, and he said he is too, but it would be bad for both of us. I think.

What do we do? Continue this FWB with emotions 'relationship' that we have until one of us finds someone new to date? Neither of us are interested in pursuing a relationship with other people at the moment, and I think he has a FWB right now. Or should we stop soon?

We can't be together, I'm sure of that, but I'm not afraid of falling in love with him either. I guess I'm just wondering if anyone has ever been in a similar situation.

Thank you!