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I have no idea what people think of me 2017-08-24 05:11:08 Post No.18652727
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I have no idea what people think of me
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whats the most effective and inoffensive way to find out?
Mad shit never gets back to me but since I have few friends sometimes I worry there's a lot of it
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>>18652727
Don't care about rumours.
People who interact with you for a while will see the real you and the opinion of those who don't doesn't matter
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you could always go to friend 1 and tell them friend 2 was saying bad things about them and ask if they have ever mentioned you. then do that a few more times to a few more mutual friends
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>>18652748
do most "normal" people do this?
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I find that I swing back and forth through phases of being completely good and moral and completely apathetic and evil. Whenever I'm "evil", I imagine hurting people and I don't feel like I could do it and go back to being good. Is all that is stopping me the fear of consequences? Why do I do this? Am I an edgelord?
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>>18652691
I remember you. You're not as dangerous as you think. Use those mood swings to exercise.
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>>18652691
Yes, you are an edgelord. Now chill the fuck out, read philosophy like the Tao Te Ching and re-evaluate your idea of polarization within yourself. If you can alter your perspective on interdependence you can move forward.
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Ideas for asking someone out
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2017-08-24 04:55:25
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I need some help y'all. So I've been talking to this girl for about 2 months now. We've already started holding hands and hugging, she's been kissing my cheek and me kissing her on the forehead when we gotta go for the day. I'm going on a double-date with her on Saturday and conveniently it's with my best friend and her best friend (they're dating), I plan on asking her out then. My best friend and her best friend are in on it, here's the plan: walk to the mall on a bike trail that leads straight to there, watch a romantic movie, buy some tutti frutti (frozen yogurt), hang out for a bit, and finally take the bike trail back to drop 'em off home. I want to ask her out in a clever/cheesy way that's funny, something she'd definitely remember. Also, whether I should hug or kiss her after asking because we've both been dropping hints about kissing.
Please give ideas/suggestions and experiences you've had, I don't wanna fuck this shit up.
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>>18652681
Seriously not sure if trollpost or 12.
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Yeah, seriously, are you fucking 12?
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>>18652681
>I plan on asking her out then
>watch a romantic movie
>buy some tutti frutti
>I want to ask her out in a clever/cheesy way that's funny
>we've both been dropping hints about kissing
Are you saying you're gay?
Hey guys I think a girl from college is hitting on me on facebook messenger. She is saying I am hot as hell and everything. What do I do from here? Came straight to college and never had a girl be that forward with me that I don't know what is my next move. Should I bite and see what happens or wait and see?
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>>18652659
It's a guppy trap
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>>18652666
Nah it's definitely a girl. It's just that usually I have to work to have girl be interested in me but she out of the blue messaged me on Facebook saying I was really hot.
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>>18652670
That's why it's a trap, not that kind of trap though
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When I was 18, I thought I'd start a band and experience that life at least until I decided I wanted to go to college. I got arrested for weed shortly before my band was gonna go on tour, which pretty much ended my time as a musician.
As a result, my parents kicked me out of the house and sent me to law school. I am now tens of thousands of dollars in debt and have had no experience in the field yet. It's been about 5 years since I graduated and I'm just a bitter fuck. A close friend of mine is in a band that is a relatively known underground band, and it bothers me that he gets to live the same way I did and be successful at it, while I'm slaving away at my shitty desk job.
How can I cope with my dreams being crushed?
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>>18652649
Are you a bitter person from the College thread? People just love the "I'm in debt" meme.
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Try again? Shit how many rockstars got arrested for drug charges? You got slapped with the smallest charge and you fucking BAILED. Your friend is succeeding at the life you want because hes fighting for it, while you surrendered.
Get back on the horse my dude. I know your pain all too well.
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>>18652649
Reminds me of this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uxUATkpMQ8A
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I think I can't stop running away from myself. 2017-08-24 04:45:58 Post No.18652644
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I think I can't stop running away from myself.
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I think I can't stop running away from myself.
I broke up with my fiancee after 7 years
I moved back in with my parents
I am 30/m.
I feel like I am regressing to where I was when I was about 19. I don't have a car and live in my mom's guest bedroom. I get around everywhere I go by bike and foot. I also lift and eat well so I do stay very fit and healthy and I look young. But I waste all my free time and struggle to accomplish anything. I need to prepare an appeal to get back into college, I keep putting off dealing with that. The main reason we broke up is because I was taking too long in school trying to bring my grades up so I could try to get into grad school, and now all of the sudden I can't bring myself to keep trying. I read reddit and 4chan a lot. I watch a lot of pornography. I'm not saving my money. I'm working part time and every paycheck I get I goes to concert tickets, weed, and alcohol. I try to chat up girls a lot.
I don't want to live like this. I wanted to be a physicist. Help.
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>>18652644
Hehe, funny squid
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I walk and ride my bike *everywhere* and I think those are my favorite parts of my day. Sometimes I go to the clubs on the far end of town and then I walk home 7 miles across the city.
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Cover Letters: Are they Necessary? 2017-08-24 04:37:37 Post No.18652620
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Cover Letters: Are they Necessary?
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2017-08-24 04:37:37
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I fucking hate writing cover letters so much. I hate trying to sell myself, I hate bullshiting ways that my past experience is relevant to the position even when I'm barely qualified for it beyond what can be expressed in my work experience and I'm just trying to get as many applications out as possible until something sticks. I've read that it's expected to write cover letters for every job you apply to if there is an option to submit one, but is the actually true? Most of the positions I want to apply to use online application systems that give you the option to upload documents, including cover letters and resumes, or input information that would be included in your resume like work experience and educaiton into seperate fields. I'd like to send off more applications, but the feeling that I have to include personalized cover letters for each one is hindering me. Do you think in the time of online applications cover letters are still necessary?
If it helps I'm a graduate with a BS in Biology, and I'm applying to research assistant positions at a local research hospitals, usually to positions that require a science degree but no lab experience. It's not what I really want to do, those are just the available jobs that are relevant to my degree and can get me full time work at a livable wage.
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>>18652620
You're making a storm in a cup of water. It's not hard. I dislike interviews yet I completely nailed my last one. I'm happy now.
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>>18652620
I think personalizing them is necessary. But it doesn't require a big research project. When I was looking for work, I just googled the company or searched through their websites for the latest vaguely interesting thing they had done, and spread that into a 3 or 4 sentence 2nd paragraph in my cover letter.
It was a pain, but if it's either put in work to get employed or keep living at my alcoholic mom's house, for me the choice was simple. Do what you gotta do to get the fuck outta there.
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If they ask or there's an option to, you should be writing one. If you don't you won't get the job because as much as you don't like writing them, there are other people who are willing to put that extra bit of effort in to getting a job.
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Has any of you written a motivation letter before? I'm thinking of applying for a place in a MSc of Mechanical Engineering and one of the requirements is to write one of those. What to include? What to avoid?
Thanks
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>>18652602
Write a draft. Peer review. Second draft. Review. Final Draft. Have others see your final draft. Soon it will be perfect.
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Write that you take advice from 4chan dot org, more specifically the Advice board.
i've been having tranny thoughts since i was like ten. they've been getting worse and i keep hating myself more and more every day. i don't know how to manage this any more. what should i do?
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>>18652600
Stick your fingers up your. . . and see how it goes
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Do you have anyone in hour life that you trust that you could discuss this with? Someone who knows you and you know them to be non-judgemental?
I'd start there.
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>>18652600
accept your self for what you are, not just your mind but your body. Your mind may be that of a different gender than your body. thats okay. let them be opposites. no one has the body they want, hell no one has the personality they want. we just make due with what we have.
if you're mtf you dont need to dress like a girl. dress what looks best for the body you were given and continue to be a girl in your mind.
all those things that make you think you're trans, the clothes, the hair, the make up, none of that is actually female os there is no biological issue in you trying to make you like those things. those dont exist in nature. women shave, they groom, and they wear dresses. none of that actually has anything to do with being a biological woman, they're just things our culture put on them.
I'm not looking for a relationship, I just want to have sex. Friends with benefits. One night stands. The likes. I'm 18 and finishing tech school before entering the military.
My "hunting ground" is the tech school itself, but more specifically the IT area. While there are quite a few undesireables, there are some cuties around. Most of them are in a tech class (since they are in the IT section)
The problem is finding which ones are available, and which ones are open for sex. Do I just have to test the waters? How do I break that I just want to bang? I'm a 6'1 white male if that helps at all. Do I need to at least get to know them first or is it easier than that?
Thanks in advance.
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>>18652586
Get a sex doll
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>>18652591
No.
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>>18652586
i hear tell the ole....i just got out of a long relationship n im not looking for anything serious line works
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Hey /adv/, should I go?
>ex-fuck buddy is in town for 2 days, messaged me asking if I wanna go out with her, haven't seen her in years
>last time we saw each other I was on a short breakup with my wife, we met by coincidence and fucked wildly
>got back with wife after a while
>now marriage is on the rocks again and I've decided to file the divorce around mid-September (getting prepared financially), no doubt about this
>afraid I'll miss the chance to tap that buddy pussy, but also afraid wife might find out somehow and flip shit on my life before I get to secure myself
>wat do
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Fucking wait. Pussy is never worth the headache and the money. You'll find more, sooner or later, but the legalities of your divorce and the chance of your wife finding out are not worth 1-2 night worth of fleeting fulfillments of the flesh.
I'm sure it would feel/be great, but I goddamn GUARANTEE you the risk of the headache and the fury your ex wife would have if she found out would haunt you for years.
Whenever ANYONE has legal authority over you, your stuff, or you future, you never fuck around with that until it's taken care of.
Ever.
Godspeed.
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I say go ahead and fuck her - just don't be an idiot about it and don't get caught.
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>>18652610
This.
Take a long weekend to visit your fuckbuddy and never leave the bed AFTER you've divorced your wife. It'll be better that way.
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Quick rundown:
>Go on date, goes well, date lives in London normally but I travel for work tons so no Biggie, invited me to come see her for second date
>Everything is fine but in the morning I leave (now) I can't find my backpack anywhere because someone's moved it, so I've had to carry my stuff for staying overnight in a plastic bag
We're supposed to be going to museums and stuff all day, what the fuck am I supposed to do with this bag full of clothes so that I don't look like an utter dick? Will she even care? I meet her in 6 hours, until then I'm stuck on a coach.
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Goodwill a bag, spend $5 or € or £ or whatever you use there.
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>>18652573
Tell her you literally couldn't find your backpack and ask to dump your stuff at her place before you go out.
Seems simple, yeah?
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Creepy stranger outside. 2017-08-24 04:16:34 Post No.18652563
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I live in NYC. I came home around 10pm EST and noticed some tall lanky Asian dude smoking a cigarette was pacing back and fourth in middle of the street.(he took his time moving out of the way). When i parked and got out and started walking in, He just got a car with a taxi license plate and drove off. Kinda creeped me with his behavior pacing circles around the middle of a street and leaving the moment someone comes. I live in a normal residential block so there's plenty of houses, i just don't need my house being broken into or having my dog kidnapped. Any advice?
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>>18652563
Maybe he was thinking seriously and when you came he snapped out of it, went away somewhere else. If he wanted to rob you, he would have left earlier and more franticly. I guess
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Stop being a paranoid pussy.
If you are in Brooklyn i can come over and talk to him for you.
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>>18652563
You sound like my mom who thought that every black guy walking by our house was scouting us out and going to break in when we were gone or that a car that was stopped at the stop sign for longer than 10 seconds was someone watching us.
Guy was asian so that all ready takes off 20 threat points. Secondly, whatever happened with that dude's day led to him likely just taking a smoke break outside of his car and it happened to be near your house.
Quit reading into it imo.
That being said if you are REALLY wanting to find some security home cameras are pretty cheap. When I was living with roomates and felt like stuff was missing I was able to convert my webcam into a motion sensor security camera that saved to my computer.
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So i'm 22 and was born in america but have spent my entire life in the UK, my dad really wants me to go back to america for university since i just finished community college in the UK, and i also want to go because my life in the UK has been very miserable and i'd want a fresh start, but my mum deeply wants me to stay and we argue about it all the time. My parents are also divorced so that's a big factor.
I know that if i go i'd have to spend a year living with one of my uncles or aunts in order qualify for loans which is a little worrying since it may be a waste of time and i don't want to impose myself on anyone. A part of me wants to listen to my mum and take the easy route by staying here but i also want to listen to my dad and leave my comfort zone and travel since i am currently a depressed neet with zero friends or life experience. What should i do?
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>>18652558
America is the greatest nation on Earth
>t. An American.
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Just out of curiosity, where would you be living with your uncle? State is fine if you're not comfortable disclosing city.
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Stay in the UK, this country is a shithole and getting worse. It's way too expensive to go to Uni here as well. If you're a depressed neet there you'll be a depressed neet here too. Go to Uni in the UK.
what state do your aunt and uncle live in btw?
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The one that got away 2017-08-24 04:14:59 Post No.18652553
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Does anyone else ever imagine conversations between you and >her while doing mudane stuff like showering or brushing your teeth or cooking?
Is it weird that we haven't spoken in 6 months but I still talk to her in my head quite often?
I don't mean to be so pathetic.
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Yeah all the time.
I make imaginary conversations with most interesting people in my life though.
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>>18652553
>that one super tough and outdoorsy qt as fuck laid back chick who I met working a guiding job this summer out in Colorado
>we each had a crush on one another but we're both way too sheltered and awkward to say anything about it
>now we're each on the other side of the country and won't see one another for at least another year
>she's still texting me
I feel it man. Sometimes when I'm trying to sleep I just fantasize about what it would be like to cuddle with her while stargazing.
It's fucking torture. You're not alone my dude.
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>>18652553
Broke up with 7 years going gf one year ago. Can't even remember why now. I haven't spoken to her for 6months also, to avoid dragging her back into my life and let her move on. I speak to her in my head every day, sometimes I go out to bars or cafés alone and just pretend she's there with me, and speak to the empty chair next to me, or reach out for her hand and end up grabbing the arm rest