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>>18653691
every impulse you get to do something in public, do it. as long as its not like 'punch someone' or something

>>18653691
don't put other's before you so much and you might just shine as yourself.

Develop self confidence.

>>18653683
>be me
> no friends
> no life
> no gf
> addicted to games

I drink wine once per 2 weeks , not smoking
> was dip shit alcoholic

> SOLUTION change one addiction to other

Or just have will power like me
I finally get balls to delete all games on my pc and I have nothing to play

I feel better, I sleep better , I go out more and make some shitty friends that won't care about me

>welcome to real life fatass

>>18653683
If you need to drink to socialize you're fucking up. How old are you anon.

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>>18653701
This is the most retarded post I have read all day.

"Hey Governor I noticed you have all these secret documents and data that could use a little shield. Pay me to utilize my skillz and protect it from hax!"

>>18653685
That's good! Can I use it?

>>18653669
I plan on taking 250 ug

>>18653669
how many people are you talking about having at this bonfire? have you and all parties involved already taken acid before?

>>18653669
I'll buy you a present. Can I come?

Just be straight with the people around you.

Start a divorce process before you start fucking around.

>>18653712

I did. We've been to court a few times already, we are fighting over some things so it's not final. Does that matter? I still feel like shit for even talking with the friend. I guess because I like them. And the timing. And I know it's just greener grass nonsense.

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>>18653642
BUMP

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>>18653642
BUMP

>>18653642
>bump

You usually become fuckbuddies after dating didn't end in a relationship, or after hooking up with a friend and agreeing the next day that you don't actually want to date. It's not really something you flat out ask, particularly because there's a chance she might read it as "hey I'm not that interested in you but would still like to fuck you on the reg, can I?" depending on her personal morals and personality.

Your best bet is to ask her for drinks later at night without calling it a date, and hoping that you wind up flirting/talking about sex and getting pleasantly drunk together. Do not prolong the texting thing when it's awkward, it's much easier to break the ice in real life.

You could text her and say "I think you're really hot, do you want to fuck?" but this is really direct and could blow up in your face. Most people do it like this:

"Hey sister's friend, fancy going for a drink with me?"

"Sure anon, that sound great"

[during drinks]
"...Well, sister's friend, I've been single for (enter years here), but I'm happily single and not looking for anything serious."

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the above is literally all it takes. You've asked her out, you've made it clear to her indirectly that you don't want a relationship. You can then ask her if she wants to come back to yours after the date, and if she says yes, she knows the score.

talk or maybe chat her up first. when you feel like your friends enough to talk about things, be subtle ya know.smooth like talk about love life then talk like you're not ready to be in a relationship but give her hints that you're attracted to her and if shes into fwb. if she bites the bait then good for you

>>18653622
There most certainly is. Google "mental health chat forums."

you can join the soc mental illness discord?

https://discord.gg/4ekgscB

>>18653622
I have and I haven't found any that aren't filled with misled 50 year olds

>>18653660
thanks, i guess i might join to see a bit later

1) You keep indulging the fantasies in your head, which keeps them going

2) You keep telling yourself this is the MOST IMPORTANT SEXY EXPERIENCE OMG EVAH because you haven't met someone you like as much since, which keeps this guy on a pedestal in your mind

Stop fantasising about him, and stop over-inflating this guys worth in your mind.

Fantasise about meeting someone else and having sex with them. Make up new fantasies in your head when you masturbate or whatever. And realise this guy is just one in a long list of crushes you're going to experience. And get out there and meet new guys too.

>>18653627
As a dude NEET who is just starting something that I fear will lead to an eerily similar situation, how do I start with step 1?

>>18653608
I have a similar experience except I've never met my crush. We have mutual friends and I happened upon her facebook profile
It's been 2 years and I still keep up to date with her social media. Feels like shit.

Just try to come to grips with the fact that the whole situation is a fantasy and would turn out nothing like you expect in real life
You're projecting what you want the guy to be like onto him

maybe try shutting your pc down and not going on 4chan you shit

>>18653573

When you ran out of conversation topic you should've told her to go to your/her place, you dumb fuck.. its one night stand, not a fucking marriage.

>>18653564
No.

I believe the first step would be for you to jump off a bridge.

There's no reason to, she clearly had something to hide from you.

Just... leave, man.
I'm sorry you had to find out like that.

bumpin

>>18653561

>oneitis is 6 years older than me (her 25, me 19)
There are literally an endless amount of woman. Don't pin for one so strongly so early on. Have an abundant mentality.

>Should I bother asking her out?
Yes. You'll regret not asking as you'd never know. You may get rejected. You may get a hang out (that's it). You may get friend zoned.

>I feel as if I haven't really matured yet to ask out someone that is at a completely different stage of life
You're right. Women generally are attracted to mature men. A 25 year old women probably not going to see you as mature. Women's biological clock run short. Harder to have kids past 30. They may not want to waste time dating someone younger as they only have limited to get married and have kids.

>>18653561
Problem is, you are still living with your parents. The only reason she would go out with you, it's because she want to satisfy a "sex-with-younger-men" fetish/fantasy, but you can't get her to a place where you can actually fuck her, apart from motels wich are expensive and for young couples discovering their sexuality.

At her age, a serious relationship requires a man that has a car, live in his own apartment and is no more dependant to his parents. Sexual adventures with older women require at least that you have a place to fuck that isn't some cheap motel.

By not being an insecure faggot?

The /fit/ manlet meme is just that; A meme. Google the benefits of being "short" and feel better about yourself.

Stop going on /r9k/. Acquire currency. Fuck bitches.

take a picture of your dick and post it on /b/ or /soc/
there, now you've done porn too. now you're in the exact same boat as these girls.
should help put things in perspective.

>>18653563
I'm not talking about nudes.

I'm talking about BLACKED and pro porn.

>>18653567
oh that's strange, i thought you were talking about random hot girl photos. not every girl you see posted here has done blacked porn, and if you can't stop thinking that they have, maybe you should come to terms with your subconscious desire to watch blacked porn.