File: images.png (6KB, 241x209px) Image search:
[Google]
6KB, 241x209px
>be me
>In hs
>Dating a chick
>Tell her weird shit to fuck with her
>I got tired of her annoying bullshit
>Broke up with her
>She starts send screenshots of weird shit I was lying about to people I know
>Now my one friend thinks I'm gay
>Cant look me in the eyes
>Now a loner with no friends who people think is gay
Wat do /adv/?
4 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18115826
Inb4 I was the one with the annoying shit
>>
>>18115826
Your one "friend" should know better than to trust some hoe over you before even asking you what's up.
Good riddance, you just lost two toxic people out of your life by being a sperg.
>>
>>18115826
face the music kid, you're probably gay.
your friends wouldn't think you're gay based on text messages from someone unless you act gay frequently.
Anonymous
Is it unfair of me to ask my mum to not sell my childhood home? 2017-03-10 06:24:53 Post No.18115825
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Is it unfair of me to ask my mum to not sell my childhood home? 2017-03-10 06:24:53 Post No.18115825
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Is it unfair of me to ask my mum to not sell my childhood home?
Anonymous
2017-03-10 06:24:53
Post No. 18115825
[Report]
[View this topic]
It's not a great time for my family at the moment - I've posted about it on /adv/ before and don't want to keep repeating it, but as a short summary my dad was recently found guilty of a pretty bad crime and might be going to prison, it's caused a lot of pain for the family, and he and my mum are getting a divorce. Now that the dust has settled they're actually ok with each other - there's no fighting at all, they're not on unfriendly terms, they've just agreed to go their separate ways (they probably would have split up anyway, although not for a few years). However, my mum (who only works part-time, and was a housewife for more than 20 years so barely has an income for herself) has spoken to a divorce lawyer, and has decided to sell the house, my childhood home.
That makes me as upset as anything else in this whole mess. All my happy memories as a child are tied to that house. Even though I'm 24 and live away now, I still return to the house every few weekends and enjoy it a lot. From a more practical perspective, the mortgage is pretty much paid off, my dad is happy for my mum to live in it with my siblings who still live at home, and it also provides passive income (because we rent out a flat which is attached to the property). I'm worried that her lawyer has talked her into selling it because it'll mean more money for him/her. On the other hand, the events that my family have been going through are pretty traumatic, so maybe my mum just wants to get away from that house and start again somewhere new.
Am I being unfair if I ask her not to sell?
10 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
Have her sell it to you.
>>
>>18115892
I can't afford it.
>>
>>18115825
ah, childporn-anon. youre all in this situation together, you should discuss it with her and if her honest reason for wanting to sell the house is to get away from the bad memories in it you should let her.
It's just a house, and just because it's sold doesnt mean your memories will go away. Your moms comfort should mean more to you than something sentimental like the house.
after all, you can always come back after its sold. as a matter of fact a family just came by my house a month ago because they grew up in it.
Anonymous
Hanging out with a friend 2017-03-10 06:03:43 Post No.18115804
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Hanging out with a friend 2017-03-10 06:03:43 Post No.18115804
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: received_1578070285541309.jpg (32KB, 657x1038px) Image search:
[Google]
32KB, 657x1038px
Hanging out with a friend
Anonymous
2017-03-10 06:03:43
Post No. 18115804
[Report]
[View this topic]
So I'm stuck in a delimma, I've been hanging out with my friend for a few months just us two and we have a blast doing it. But the issue is I am the only one who asks her to hangout, she never asks me, but she says yes most of the times. Two times now she's like yea I'll let you know when I'm free and can hangout and then like a week went by I asked her and she instantly said yes she's free. I feel like I'm being annoying by constantly asking her. Like for example I asked Thursday and she said yes then asked Saturday she said no, I asked today and she said no then I asked about tomorrow and nothing yet. I'm wondering if I should just ask her if I'm being annoying by constantly asking her over and over, like I just really like hanging out with her and wanna get as much time in with her before I'm not able to anymore.
TL:DR I'm the only one asking my friend to hangout out of both of us, should I ask her if I'm being a nusince about it and annoying or not?
14 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18115804
Bump
>>
>>18115804
Stop overanalyzing you dumb dumb.
If she enjoys your company she says simply yes. If she didnt, she would make up 999 excuses.
>ask her if I'm being annoying
You certainly can. Comunication is very useful skill. Just dont overdo it.
And now to the most important question:
>Do you want to date / fuck / marry her? Because it is good practice to tell them sooner than later unless you enjoy falling into friend zone.
>>
>>18115858
The thing about the yes and no is its mixed, been like that for the past 5 months, one week im hanging out 3 days a week with her then the next its all no's.
I can't be anything to her other then a friend because of circumstances but im 100% honest with myself when I say im happy with that because she makes me very happy to talk and be with.
im not gonna ask her today if its annoying because she told me she wants to be alone so im gonna respect her privacy and let her be. I might bring it up later in the week tho out of my own curiosity
File: 1474476228732.jpg (31KB, 286x291px) Image search:
[Google]
31KB, 286x291px
How do I find customers to sell wax/concentrates to? Times is hard and I could use the money.
I'm thinking of my local dive bar, vape shop, smoke shop, Yik Yak etc.
5 Posts / 3 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18115796
Go around to shady gas stations and have them sell it.
>>
File: 1470933242495.jpg (499KB, 924x1648px) Image search:
[Google]
499KB, 924x1648px
>>18115796
Go to your local college campus (preferably university since community college kids have even less money). There's always a group of kids sitting in the grass or outside their dorms looking for someone whose holding.
They WILL find you. It's like putting honey on a plate and waiting for ants to show up.
Don't use YikYak/Whisper/Any "anonymous" messaging app
vape and smoke shops will tell you to leave if they see you selling. I'm pretty sure it's still illegal to sell without a license, even in the legal states.
If you're in San Francisco, just go to Golden Gate Park.
>>
File: SdBxbA4X.jpg (18KB, 396x396px) Image search:
[Google]
18KB, 396x396px
>>18115796
It's shady as fuck but easy money.... Go speak to some high school kids 16 and up and be like wanna get high? Got some dank as wax here for good prices too ;:'). Eventually you end up with kids selling yo shit to all their buddies for you. But it is shady as fuck. Try colleges too etc! Opinion from personal experience. Best of luck mang
Anonymous
How to tell apart friendliness from romantic interest? 2017-03-10 05:48:44 Post No.18115782
[Report] Image search: [Google]
How to tell apart friendliness from romantic interest? 2017-03-10 05:48:44 Post No.18115782
[Report] Image search: [Google]
How to tell apart friendliness from romantic interest?
Anonymous
2017-03-10 05:48:44
Post No. 18115782
[Report]
[View this topic]
I'm very unexperienced when it comes to girls, so when I do start getting along with one I have a hard time figuring out if she's just being friendly or if she's romantically interested in me somehow. Any tips for being better at 'reading the signs' when you suck at it?
8 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
File: female aesthetics 8.jpg (135KB, 1024x804px) Image search:
[Google]
135KB, 1024x804px
In my experience a good way to tell whether she is romantically interested in you or not is to observe her behaviour around other male friends of hers. If she exhibits the same behaviour when she's with longtime male friends as she does when she's with you, then there's a really good chance she just likes you as a friend, even if she is very physical.
Something else you can look out for is how fast she responds to your messages. If she likes you romantically, she will go out of her way to respond immediately. In general, she will make time to write you / meet you unless it's absolutely impossible at the moment. Also, she will suggest alternative dates on her own when she can't meet you at a time you proposed.
You'll get better at reading subtle signs with time and experience. At some point you'll be able whether a girl wants you or not within the first few hours / first few times of meeting her.
>>
>>18115827
That makes sense, thanks for the tip. Are the speed of the replies that important? I'm interested in this girl, I only texted her once for university related reasons but she took like three hours to reply, and then didn't even respond to my next message. She had an extremely busy day that day so I kind of didn't think much of it. I often try to hang out with her or study together or w/e and she seems to enjoy it but she's never the one who asks, normally I just ask her if she has anything to do and say I'll keep her company for a while. There again she's a bit shy, and probably would be even more shy if she was interested. See what I mean? They're just so many variables, I can't interpret jack shit.
>>
>>18115782
Or instead of playing hide and seek game act like male with a spine and be more direct.
You can simply ask her: Do you have boyfriend? Are you single? There problem solved. And if she gets nervous when you ask her this, she is probably into you.
>>18115866
>texting
Use texting only to set up meetings in person. Texting will get you exactly NOWHERE. Take her to ROMANTIC walk, cinema, dinner whatever. Date dat bich, don't let her fall into somebody else hands. Stop overthinking problems, buy condoms and be gentle. Let the lady to feel she is desired.
File: Page_143.jpg (309KB, 1280x1703px) Image search:
[Google]
309KB, 1280x1703px
>Don't enjoy being alone, not lonely, but alone.
>Also don't want to commit to anything.
What the fuck do I do, the idea of marriage is out of question, I will not get married in my life time.
3 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18115777
Live your life, you only get one
>>
>>18115777
You didnt even tell us age gender occupation or why do feel like this.
So my only solid advice is kys.
File: adderall-fb.jpg (391KB, 1200x800px) Image search:
[Google]
391KB, 1200x800px
I'm almost certain that I have ADD and could benfit from Ritalin or something similar. What's the quickest way to get medication? I have 10 weeks until my first exam and really need help concentrating.
I'm in the UK.
5 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18115746
Don't lie, anon.
If you actually had ADD all you'd have to do is make an appointment with a psychiatrist and take a short written test.
>>
>>18115763
I was diagnosed with ADD when I was younger but then re-diagnosed with autism later. I would go to my GP but I can't get an appointment until the end of the month. Also I'm pretty sure that's not how it work in the UK with just a short written test.
>>
>>18115746
go to doc
tell him your story
if he refuses, ask him to forward you to specialist who will be willing
Much easier cheaper and safer than buying drugs from "black market"
File: 000firstdate.jpg (381KB, 1200x1767px) Image search:
[Google]
381KB, 1200x1767px
How would an 7/10 guy go about getting a girl who just sucks your cock when you want to, then leaves when you want? I don't care, as long as shes above a 3/10.
5 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18115709
a hooker
>>
To quote Charlie sheen: "men don't pay hookers for sex, they pay them to go away afterward."
>>
>>18115719
then settle for a trap/homo.
So i need some advice my guys
i have been seeing this girl online and i really life her like we talk and skype and stuff and i wanna start dating and stuff you know but like i dont really wanna online date
wut do
3 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Buy a ticket idiot
>>
>>18115656
Set up meeting in person.
File: 1480383918109.jpg (65KB, 604x453px) Image search:
[Google]
65KB, 604x453px
>Have been on an intense diet since like November
>Went from decently overweight to skinny
>Mfw I realize people don't like me any better after
That was basically the only reason I did it. Feels bad man. Any advice?
9 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
gain the weight back and more
>>
You lost weight for others opinions to change and didn't lose weight for yourself
>>
>>18115650
losing weight alone isn't going to change anything. go do stuff.
Anonymous
got fired from good job 2017-03-10 03:54:24 Post No.18115609
[Report] Image search: [Google]
got fired from good job 2017-03-10 03:54:24 Post No.18115609
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: flat,1000x1000,075,f.u4.jpg (385KB, 1000x997px) Image search:
[Google]
385KB, 1000x997px
i was hired to a really good paying government office job back in january, and was recently fired in late february. many people would work years and years to get experience to get this job, and i was hired without any experience required, almost as a fluke.i was the only guy in the office, and the youngest person there as well. i did not learn the necessary items required in time to pass the probationary period of my job, but my supervisor did not make it possible to learn these items in time. my last two jobs were at a shitty call center and a movie theater, both at part time. am i doomed to work entry level jobs for the rest of my life? is the fact that i worked there a month and a half considered a good thing, or would the fact that i got fired as recently as a month and a half down the line be considered bad by employers? pic unrelated
4 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
put yourself in the position of an employer, does the fact that this person had a job for a month and a half but was then fired for incompetence make you want to hire them more or less
and yes you're doomed to work entry level jobs for the rest of your short sad life
>>
>>18115609
just leave this job off of your resume or CV or whatever you use to put out feelers.
DO put it on anything that asks for your "complete work history for X years."
>>
Been there.
Government is very overpaid and they like to hire weak candidates to make themselves look better, or to hire a family member later.
Don't give up on government.
Keep bashing there doors down, and make sure to file for unemployment income. You can go on it for a full year in California
Anonymous
Struggling to remain positive about relationships 2017-03-10 03:45:36 Post No.18115593
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Struggling to remain positive about relationships 2017-03-10 03:45:36 Post No.18115593
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: black-man-stark-trek-facepalm-gif.gif (854KB, 300x300px) Image search:
[Google]
854KB, 300x300px
Struggling to remain positive about relationships
Anonymous
2017-03-10 03:45:36
Post No. 18115593
[Report]
[View this topic]
Hi. I was raised Catholic and have fallen out of it over the years, but it's something that I don't mind that much. But being raised that way, I learned a lot of things; and one of them was to be a man of my word and to live while taking others into consideration.
Onto the main point. I want sex, I went through puberty and struggled to hold onto my virginity because I made a promise to save it for the right person that I really liked(not marriage). I never cared if people had sex and understand that it is fun and enjoyable. No problems. But I am 29 now and while my life is not perfect, I do go to bed with a clean mind each night.
But recently a girl I was seeing started seeing someone else and it's left me a bit hurt. I can't stop thinking about her having sex with the new guy, and the reason why is because I talked to her about how she was someone I really liked and that it was starting to feel right. We've been friends for years and she said she really wanted to be with me too. But now I'm angry and jealous because she told me she wanted to be "happy", but I feel like she just wanted sex. Which is fair, but don't see why she lied. Now I'm wondering if I should have just gave myself to her right away or not? I want someone to stand by me, not just sex.
4 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
The way I see this man is through the following:
>x = normies
>z = you
Normies want to have sex and grow from there.
You're specifically raised to go for z's.
Just know Z's are rare af and not any are around.
There are two things you can do though/
>1) Still stay a z and keep looking.
?2) Or become a normie and have sex.
>>
>>18115604
I don't want to compromise my values though. Like I said, I do desire sexual intimacy. But I also do not care for clubs/bars and or casual hookups. I don't judge people who enjoy that, but I really try to see a persons character before I consider advancing wit them sexually. I just feel like a lot of women want sexual intimacy and that's why I've been struggling with women. It seems that no matter what I say to try and assuage their worries that I don't like them, they always think there's something "wrong" with me and then pull away.
>>
Watt
File: New_Avengers_Vol_3_30_Textless.jpg (473KB, 1002x1510px) Image search:
[Google]
473KB, 1002x1510px
I'm 'friends' with a guy who has played the benefit system and now rakes in around £1000 a month while he does absolutely nothing.
See, back in Highschool this acne riddled beta fuck was diagnosed with minor Aspergers Syndrome (so minor it's debatable even he even fits that category at all) yet he parades his 'disability' with the title of Autism, acting as if he's diagnosed as a full sperg.
He's smart, able and reasonably social but upon hearing he could claim disability benefits for Autism, he and his parents coopted into deliberately overplaying and consciously acting retarded so when evaluators checked him out, they were fooled into clearing him for disability payments. This netted him a good £300-£500 during free highschool education.
Now, rather than pursuing further education or work he's entered into ESA which is a benefit package for disabled people looking for work, it pays a massive sum and is extremely lenient with commitments, meaning he doesn't even need to show proof of searching for work, while with JSA or UCA you need to provide a clear documentation of 30+ hours of work or you'll quickly lose your benefit.
And you guessed it, he only got access to ESA because he overplayed his mental disabilities again.
Now, while I'm working 33 hours a week and getting half the money he gets, he takes great pleasure in rubbing it in my face and it's driving me mad.
I'm convinced his actions are classified as fraudulent and if caught he'd be in massive trouble with the law, but even if I did report him couldn't he/his parents turn it on me for being 'jealous'? Even if they'd evaluate him again, he'd just play dumb in their presence again.
What do?
12 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Hidden camera evidence.
>>
As they say, "dont hate the playa"
Find a way to fuck the system yourself
>>
Instead of being mad at someone who managed to outsmart the system try achieving something yourself.
He's just a parasite with no dignity, leave him alone. There's nothing to be jealous of, leave him alone in his pitiful state.
File: 1487349670436.png (285KB, 629x608px) Image search:
[Google]
285KB, 629x608px
Am I the only one that gets paranoid about snapchat with their girlfriend?
>Wake up in the morning
>She sends a sexy snap and the words have no direct connection with whatever sexy shit we were just discussing, so its ambiguous
I've never really thought about her cheating on me before, but with snapchat I have no clue what she is doing. She could be sending nudes to other guys all the time and I'd never know.
She has a pretty crazy sexual history too, which I don't know if its good, or bad.
So do you guys worry about your girlfriends and their snapchat habits, do you just not care if they are sending other dudes nudes, or what? Because of my last relationship I have a crippling paranoia of being cheated on.
6 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Yeah I've had something like this before but if she sends you nudes at all its a good thing right?
So don't get too paranoid about this stuff
>>
You get a different amount of points based on how many people you send the snap to.
So check her snap score when you're gonna be sending nudes to each other, and if hers rises by more than a point or so each time, she is definitely sending nudes to other guys.
>>
>>18115661
This guy is smart.
File: IMG_0212.jpg (73KB, 900x600px) Image search:
[Google]
73KB, 900x600px
One of my best friends had told me she slept with another man three times just three months after her wedding. I was the maid of honor, she was bridezilla, planning her wedding took a big toll on our friendship. After she told me this I feel disgusted with her, I feel like she doesn't give a fuck for anyone's feelings, especially her husband and everyone who came to her wedding. I'm not even her husband but I feel so betrayed by her, am I just being a pussy bitch? I feel ready to end our friend ship over this.
18 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Do a soft termination, you probably won't see her much anymore when she's married and starts to have kids. Just stop talking to her and going to things with her.
>>
tell her husband?
>>
>>18115543
Yea I've wanted to do it and this is the last straw. Is it wrong to feel that someone who has an affair is typically a shitty person and not someone who could be a decent friend.