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>>18206349
You're not talking about resilience. Resilience is proven to yourself by enduring hardships. Avoiding difficult situations is just cowardice.

Fact is that you don't know how resilient you are, because you refuse to test yourself. Try it, the feeling of going through some shit and coming out the other side successfully is great.

Protip: we are each of us stronger than we think

>>18206312
Do you know each other well? Are you both friends? Talked with her before?

>being an 18 year old senior
>on 4chan
>in 2017

>>18206312
soooo you are a fucking pussy right? left school cuz of bullying? you shoulda have col cocked that faggot bully woith a roll of nickels clenched in your fist. then stomp his fucking gut and ribs, kick him in the balls. you faaggot. you arent a fucking man. go get your dick chopped off and then kill yourself. pussy fag. no bitch is gonna fuck you when u tell her u left cuz of bullying. you fucking pussy. i fucking hate you, i fucking hate your cucky beta buck pappy, and i fucking hate your mother for shitting you out instead of aborting the failure that you are

To the fools who dream. Don't stop chasing what you want in life

But realistically you'll need to work and go to as many auditions as possible when you have time. Some actors don't get their break until relatively late in life. And if you dont make it as an actor then you can still work in film or theatre in a different capacity

>>18206202

>if you dont make it as an actor you can still work in film or theatre in a different capacity

This would be nice but the whole industry is overcrowded. Very hard to do anything without direct experience. The school I'm going to offers BAs in every area of the industry. They even have a stage managing one. Imagine having to train for 3 years to turns lights on and off.

>>18206179
Harder to get into then Oxford or Cambridge? Okay. Well congratulations you are better at pretending to be a character then other people are and apparently there are a lot more wannabe pretenders compared to physicists.

Neither, going to a college for art will only put you into ridiculous debt that you will never pay off and either teach you retarded modernist ideas about art by which you'll never improve yourself, or will just teach you CalArts style by which you'll only ever be able to draw one way and will be among competition of literally everyone in your age group who draws the same way.

If you want to improve your art, draw more and more and steal liberally from better artists and work to master their strong suits until you can adapt them seamlessly to yours. This is how it's done.

>>18205647
I'm not american.

college is free the rest of the world, you know?

>>18205653
That eliminates the issue of debt but it doesn't eliminate the fact that spending years of your life to learn a water-down talent you can already learn by yourself is counterproductive.

>>18204066
You have it in your OP, just replace "nice" with "wealth".

Exactly the same three. All at the same time.

Replace gay with otaking in your pic

>>18200961
What is this, 1955? Who gives a fuck!

>>18200961
How serious are both of you about your denominations?
I'm a pretty devout Catholic and there's no way I could hold a long term relationship with a baptist. Way too much ideological conflict and opportunity for future problems.

The only thing you can do. Realise there's no god and that religion isn't rational. Be atheists together.

>>18210530
>He wants to taper off but he keeps buying more and drinking more
These two statements are incompatible.

Actions speak louder than words.

>>18210545
I want to stop biting my nails
But I don't
That doesn't mean I secretly want to keep biting my nails

>>18210550
then you don't want to stop biting your nails. simple as that.

>>18210297
Ghost him immediately. He is literally going to fall in love with you, and you'll become his oneitis. Cut contact before his heart can get fully shattered.

That or act just completely disgusting and unattractive around him. Maybe you can scare him off that way. I presume you are fat? Play on that somehow to back him off

>>18210309
Joke answer clearly, but i'll humor it.
Not fat, and i'm not just gonna ghost him. Already exchanged numbers and Steam ID's. Plus he just bought me something off of my steam wishlist for my birthday.

>>18210297
Women and men can't be friends. He's was asking you out on a Romantic date

>>18210255
just pretend to be deaf and learn to read lips and hand signs

will be a great experience

>>18210255
how about don't be a pussy and
>A. go there anyway, you wouldn't be the first
>B. admit that there are other reasons you don't want to go and end your marriage

>>18210259
I read lips at the moment but I do not think sign language would work there because it is a completely different language. I know some sign but is basic I am also dyslexic so the thought of trying to learn another language is nearly impossible I already have enough issues with English.

I am feeling really guilty about it too because I told my mom about it and she said that if I do not go that I am a bad wife.

>>18210075
Find hobbies that aren't as asocial. Things like biking, hiking, disc golf, whatever. It doesn't have to be something amazing that will impress all the lads and lasses - just something to fill your time.

Computers, videogames, jerking off all fuck with your dopamine/reward system if abused. Try limiting your time with all of those. Stop watching porn, masturbate once or twice a week if you can. No fap is a meme so don't fall for it.

Join clubs, be someone who comes off as more welcoming if you want friends but suck at approaching others. That means being more clean cut/approachable.

You don't have to completely change your style, but make sure you smell decent and don't dress like a school shooter or meth head or however you call your style.

I don't know. Try to find ways to be content with solitude. It's strange, but when I was ok with being on my own is when people started pouring into my life.

>>18210108
Also, to add to the limiting masturbation/eliminating porn

Don't think of it as a solution for anything. Don't think of not jerking off as a cure.

Treat it as an act of self-discipline. That's something modern society lacks. If you can have discipline, then you're way far ahead of the curve when it comes time to find a career.

Other things like making your bed, building a schedule/routine and sticking to it, working out, etc. all help.

If you decide to work out, again - treat it as a discipline rather than "oh, gonna get ripped, gonna get all the chicks" or some shit.

If you want to exercise and learn discipline without being a gym rat, learn a martial art. They're very meditative and less gay than yoga. Unless you are gay, then do yoga. Or, if you aren't gay join yoga to get girls.

>>18210075
Make conversation with people, keep it light and friendly. There are a bazillion videos on YT to teach you how to be more social.

Next stage is to get involved in as many OUTSIDE activities as possible, that's how you meet people. Sports is a good one or just some kind of hobby that involves leaving the house.

Restrict computer time to 1 hour a day and go out after school. Look for events in your area and attend them.

>>18210045

i wouldnt say they look like girls legs in particular, like i could easily see those being a guys legs and feet. they are on the dainty side. if you shave your legs, stop, but id lick them up and down and im a homo so i think that means they are at least obviously guyish

>>18210045
Go work out, you low-test underage twink.

>>18210045
Go to lgbt. They have a lot of stuff if you need.

>>18209931
Where do you live ?

Become the worlds most inept career criminal.

>>18209935
Washington.

And I have a penis so the odds are stacked against me.

get into meditation and try to control your hormones, this way, you can do the same things depression meds do

If you acknowledge depression as something more than a simple mood and the fact it's related to your body's functioning flaws, why are you so against taking meds?

>>18209929
Not OP but meds are pretty bullshit, we don't have the mastery of biochemistry required to have drugs that only do the job they're supposed to - if they even do that well at all.

>>18209945
If a doctor prescribes them they have too be good

>>18209851
if you want to kill yourself you can pretty much do whatever you want.

you won't need 4 hours. Try just 1 hour. She won't remember and you won't remember it next week.

I wanted to die so I joined a church, I don't believe in god but I made some good friends

>>18209851

you're not losing your virginity.

imagine you want to be one of those hunters that hunt big game, so you go to africa and pay those people who capture it for you, then let you shoot it.

that man is not a hunter. he just killed an anima;. big difference.

you are having sex, but you are not losing your virginity (especially not if you're using a condom)

>>18209857
Stop being such a party pooper. He will lose his virginity. And if he doesn't kill himself it will greatly help him get sex in the future as well. Getting it over it does help a lot.

Are you a virgin by any chance?

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>>18209845
>Aussie here, there's a school shooting that just happened in California.
wat

>>18209845

just ask your self 'would an autistic person do this' and then if the answer is yes, dont do it.

So every school shooting you message him about?