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I ran for class president today and won. I'm friends with all the people in my class, including the people who ran against me.
I am very happy that I won because it was very out of my comfort zone- but I feel sad for my friends who lost. I know i'd be sad if i'd lost- and although I don't think they'll hold it against me, I was wondering if there is anything I can do to maybe make it less sucky for them?

I thought that maybe a little distance at first to give them time to be mad/sad at the results would be best, but one of the girls and I are lab partners so we are going to be working together for 5+ hours tomorrow.

I plan on acting normal- but what do I say if she mentions the election? I'm pretty certain she'll say something.

We're both female if that makes a difference.

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>like girl
>get drunk with her all the time
>ends up coming back to my place a lot
>somehow i managed to get her into my bed
>spooning , tried to initiate but she said no
>ask her to hang out again later that week
>blows me off
>get pissed, limit contact for 2 weeks
>run into her at party, bring her home
>end up fucking
>she leaves and says we shouldnt have done that
>cut contact for a year
>she said she wants to catch up

What does this mean? She said she didnt like me and thought we shouldnt have fucked. Now she wants to see me again?

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>Recently starting taking 750mg
>soon to be raised to 1000mg
>prescribed for bipolar disorder

Anybody have experiences with this medication????

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I'm a 21 yo college student currently in pursuit of a BS in Biology. The problem is I don't know what I truly want to do and I feel like shit being so indecisive.

I've already changed from a BS in Physics (because of all the math, I'm horrible at calculus) but now I'm entertaining the thought of a BA in Physics. Is that allowed? Can one do that?

My goal is to go to either medical school or law school, one or the other. Does your bachelor's degree matter if in the end?

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I just bought two bags of Ruffles both apparently containing 66g of chips inside. However, one bag the all dressed flavor clearly feels lighter than the sour cream and onion bag. Again both bags are said to contain 66g of chips, I tried weighing them on my Weighwatchers scale, but they're too light to be picked up.

In the event that the all dressed bag indeed contains less than 66g of chips as advertised what is the proper course of action?

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So, i fucked up a little bit.

Im an 18 year old from NYC. I was bored last week(Wednesday night) and used a texting app(textnow) and pretended to be a mutual friend. I didnt send anything bad, but as a joke i mentioned her and I dating and she caught on that it wasn't really the person i was saying it was. She then texted my real number and asked if i had seen somebody mentioned in the fake conversation and how she thought maybe she was texting her from a fake number. She told me she was going to file a police report and a little after that the conversation ended. So now i started to worry a little bit, but whatever. The next day, about halfway through the day she blocked me on snapchat and instagram. I dont give a fuck about being blocked, im just hoping thats not an indicator she actually filed a police report.

Ive texted her(and a bunch of others) from fake numbers before, but im not really worried about those because they were a while ago and on different numbers/apps. I'm worried she filed a police report and the cops are gonna subpoena the texting app and then my ISP to find out it was me. I'm nervous and scared. What should I do? Or is there even anything to do?

Ive been worried sick over this for the last week. I haven't been able to sleep and Ive felt like I was going to throw up every day.

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sorry, to post my angsty 18 year old bullshit, but I have a problem, I have a gf whom I love very much. My mom however, is a complete bitch about it. She acts extremely conservative, which is hypocritical because she is not, in fact conservative. This morning, I put on deodorant, as soon as I sat down in the car, I was immediately accused of trying to sneak around with my gf because I was wearing deodorante, Then she noticed that I had not packed a lunch, and was immedietly accused of attempting subterfuge by going off campus for lunch with my gf. She then made me text her and tell her that we could not see eachother. This is in the context of me being a fairly messed up and non independent child, and her a fairly controlling parent, the result is that now she attributes my every action to someone else, disregarding the possiblity that I thought for myself. She is ruining my relationship because her authoritarianism is clashing with the completely diffrerent way my gf was raised, and views on making decisions for your own damn self.
PIC HIGHLY FUCKING RELATED

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My dad is old, fat, ugly, and retired now. My mom probably doesn't even think of him as a man anymore and walks all over him and treats him like shit now.

Is there anything more pathetic than being a beta whipped house husband? I'm completely ashamed of having him for a father now. It boggles my mind how someone who spent 10 years in the military and has a master's degree has let his life come to this.

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>be me
>am a 4/10, but put on this facade of a cocky stud
>a 10 that i had been friends with for awhile shows interest
>get drunk, tell her how i feel
>"oh yeah I like you too but i have problems w relationships"
>alright not bad, but not what i wanted to hear
>ask her if we're gonna be a thing
>"yeah we just have to take it wayyyyy slow"
>i can live with this
>try and resume the friendship we have in order to 'take it slow' while still being flirtatious
>we used to laugh all the time when we hung out now the air is just full of an awkwardness
>text her some more, say shit like 'goodnight gorgeous'
>plain old 'goodnight' response
>ask how work is going
>not even a response

do i just stop talking to her and let her come back or did I ruin something or did she just say she liked me out of pity and right now i am like a quarter step above a friend zone

i need answers
don't want to invest emotional energy into a dead horse

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So I'm starting to work with a dog walking service app thing, basically uber for walking dogs. I think I'll make like $12-15 an hour, no idea yet. I only plan on doing this part time and not that much, if I'm available weekdays or free on the weekends. I saw some independent contractor shit in the terms and conditions and I know schedule C is for independent contractors but holy fuck does it take like all your fucking money in taxes. Is it even worth it to file if I make so little? Isn't there like a threshold that if you don't make a certain amount you're exempt from taxes or some shit? I highly doubt I'll make bank on the job, but just nice pocket cash. I doubt I'll make more than $2K out of the whole entire year of 2018, honestly who knows but I doubt it'll be that much. What should I do guys.

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How do I become less of a sucker
I feel as if I'm too trusting, or accepting when it comes to things involving sales. For example, if at a mechanic I'll be very gullible and trust everything the mechanic says.
Could it be related to confidence? Maybe I'm too worried about wasting their time, or annoying them. Has anyone done anything that helped them become less of a sucker?

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Just about everyday I suffer (at least) a small amount of anxiety due to the fear that my girlfriend will get pregnant. Statistically, this is fairly irrational, considering she has had a Paragard for nearly half a year with no pregnancies. However, I almost always cum inside of her, and it always makes me worrisome at some point during the month while waiting for her period. I google pregnancy symptoms almost everyday, and I ask her almost everyday. She always gets annoyed and says no, and she always says she'd know if it happened. I think it stems from the fact that I don't really want to be with her anymore, and I wouldn't want to deal with that. For the past few months, I've been telling myself that I should end it after her next period, just so I can have peace of mind. However, we always end up having sex after her period and then I wait another month again to make sure she's not pregnant. Somebody please rationalize me; some days it's impossible for me to get anything done because these thoughts are all that consume me

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I'm a normie cunt and was wondering, should I follow my crush's page? you can make fun of me all you want, I just want a straight answer from someone.

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Okay, I have a bit of a dilemma. I'm going to a semester abroad at the end of this month, so I took a job at the beginning of August to help with food/beer costs. So about a week in, I meet this girl. Super cool, cute, bubbly personality. We're hitting it off pretty good, and, I'll be honest, I want to ask her out. I'm just not sure 3 weeks is enough time to cement a relationship before I fuck off for 3 months. What do?

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this doesn't make any sense i used to be very smart and everyone knew there is lots of evidence as well old essays,art,recordings of plays i was in as a child.now i have terrible memory problems, i feel terrible when i think that my disability could have been avoided if people had listened to me or done something, i just listened to old recordings of arguments with my family and doctors i have no memory of this but i somehow got the truth out of them a few times they admitted to knowing they were medically neglecting me but did nothing i told them i would sue them but they just laughed it off knowing there was nothing i could do, i was abandoned left to die whats going on i cant figure if they do know they are hiding it very well,things have changed so much and everyone pretends nothing is going on i used to have an IQ of 120 now i'm on disability cant drive and cant remember anything...