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>>18690805
I usually just hop on Discord for this sort of thing

>>18690809
anything else?

>>18690805
> install mumble
> aaathats3as.com
We are here for you buddy

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>>18690770
It looks as if she's trying to get the attention of a lot of guys. This might not be what you want to hear and I hope that you haven't developed a crush on her yet. If she has a BF then she definitely IS NOT WHAT YOU WANT. You might be lonely and feeling that you need a GF but this woman sounds like pure poison ANON. Whatever she's doing, just pay it no mind. Go about your business and don't be manipulated. Good luck to you.

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>>18690770
Think about this way. Let's say we have some way of knowing she is getting tired of her boyfriend and is attracted to you the most. She then wants to go out with you instead of her boyfriend. Is that someone you want to be with? Because who is to say that she won't do the same to you? Gravy out...

First, him and you both have to be aware of the distinction between hurt and harm. Google it, read up on it, that's really important.
TL;DR: hurt is temporary, harm is (almost) permanent.

The other thing is... start slow. Let him leave a lovebite at first, then maybe let him inscribe you with a marker somewhere where it can't be seen in public. Let him get used to it as well, and also show him that you are comfortable wearing his mark.

Other than that, for me this conversation didn't work out at all with my ex, he was barely comfortable with leaving lovebites from time to time and didn't want to go even a small step further. Be prepared for that eventuality.

>>18690815
This is excellent advice... thank you.

The marker idea is good, and it's something I would have never thought of. I guess you're right about starting off slow. It would be unreasonable to request something hardcore without a slow buildup.

rape charge waiting to happen

Brown I have the same problem. What you do is just be friends with one of her friends. Then it will be okay for you to hang out with the group. Then it won't be weird story catch her alone or even ask to talk to her later and pull her aside to ask her out.

Also fake your bravery till you get real bravery. It is the only way.

>>18690747
Still doesn't help that I often find myself with nothing to say

>>18690620
I cheated on my girlfriend once. Really if you can't get over just end the relationship. I wanted to leave her after it happened but she begged me to stay so I did.
We worked our shit out, figured out all the problems and resentments we had towards each other and then moved on. It still bothers her some days but I do my best to comfort her. Its a shitty thing but really its up to you guys whether you can get over it or not.

>>18690637
This is a different guy. I dumped the cheater. But I keep feeling as though I have to be more careful this time round. It makes the relationship tense.

>>18690647
I might catch shit for this but I think its a little different when women and men cheat. When a man cheats its usually because he is drunk and horny and thinking with his cock.
When a woman cheats there is a deep rooted problem, because they are such emotional beings, for the most part they don't just like to hop into bed with random men. I just think when a woman does it its a precursor to other serious shit going on.
I mean not all situations are the same but in my personal experience when a woman does the relationship is fucked beyond belief and when the man does it they can usually patch up and move on.
I told my gf I wouldn't be able to get over her doing the same thing to me, so I gave her a chance to leave if she has a problem with that but she seems okay now, I don't know.

>>18690611
cut your self and bleed out a little. Should balance out the liquids.

>>18690611
Patience is a virtue

>>18690519
What's going on anon?

Yo man more details or we can't help you

>>18690519
You don't lose. Don't you see the gains anon? The mental gains! It's like lifting. The more you endure and overcome the more gains. You're gonna make it anon.

>>18690479
>If so, what should I do?
Come to terms with it

You'll be happier this way in the long-run than fooling yourself with snake-oil

>If not
Come to terms with it

You'll be pleasantly surprised when you don't go bald

>>18690479
YIKES

>>18690479

Look balding is a fact of life for millions of men including myself.

Now what are you going to do? Whine about it? Become a giant insecure muscular fag and shave your head like those hypermasculine alpha wannabee's do? Spend thousands on medication that makes your penis fall off or foam that stops working the moment you cease applying it multiple times a day?

No.

What you should do like any reasonable baldy is start saving money for a good hair transplant done by a reputable surgeon. It's important to do your research but this is the best solution as it's permanent. Don't listen to these cunts here who tell you to shave your head. The bald look has never looked good unless your Jason Statham or black.

>>18690418
Either game her or forget her.

>>18690418
Ask her on date.

>>18690418
Approach her, say the first thing that comes to your mind. Don't try to memorize something to say beforehand, just talk to her. Take it from a guy who got the number of a girl at a tutoring center. She was my first kiss too, got to grope and to lick titty, was great. Same could be you, just be confident.

>>18690396
whats do you you want to achieve? goals or other wise? what do you want?

>>18690408
I'm in the environmental field. I guess my goals are that I want to make a difference, do important work and make good money. Have a family with 3+ kids, have a dog a house out in the woods somewhere.

I guess that's where some of my doubts about the gf come from, I feel like she might be holding me back.. but she's also the first girl I've been with this long who I vibe good with.. but then her sexual history feels like I'm settling too in a sense

>>18690429
>I'm in the environmental field. I guess my goals are that I want to make a difference
what steps have you been taking to achieve this. Can you find this in the military?

>I feel like she might be holding me back
In what ways?

>but then her sexual history feels like I'm settling too in a sense.
Im not sure what you mean.

How long have you been with this gf?

Not important but which celeb

>>18690392
Steve Buscemi. I know. Don't laugh.

>>18690456
hahahahaha

>>18690358
This is /adv/ not /homework/.

>>18690358
liquidate the company and buy crypto

>>18690358
Anyone? I can't seem to be able to tackle this problem.

I sort all my 4chan images by what board they would belong to. A holds everything anime, K holds guns, CK holds the cooking related things.

The fraud was commited in 2015, she works for the nhs so a criminal conviction will cost her her job, also shes admited that she did it

>>18690295

Now you understand why credit ratings and how 'the man' controls us is all bullshit.

File a police report immediately, then contact credit agencies to get it removed from your credit report. I don't know who you need to contact in the UK but I'm sure they have some equivalent of the U.S. agencies. The police should be able to help you.

>>18690236
Google performance anxiety.
Also, be a man and talk to her about it- it's the elephant in the room. Take the pressure off having penis in vag sex and focus on getting each other off with oral or manual stimulation. Once you take the pressure off of cinematic mind blowing dick in cunt sex, you might be able to stay hard without worrying about not being able to perform. Don't put her or the act on some kind of pedestal.

>>18690236
I've been in this situation. It could be low testosterone. Or it could be that you were too focused on the high stakes of losing your virginity to let the moment be sexual. It's going to be hard to keep your dick up if you don't let youself get turned on by it.