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Just wondering if anyone has personal experience regarding pets and home owners associations. I know this is a shitty place to ask, but i'm having trouble finding a definitive answer elsewhere, so personal experience may help (or maybe (probably) not).

I own my condo (re: not renting; fully paid off), but there's an HOA whose rules state that no pets are allowed. Since I am the owner (well, really grandmother owns, but I "rent" from her, and she's okay with the dog), do I have a right to have a pet? Intuition tells me that the HOA has the last say, but I'm not sure if that only applies to renters. Thanks for any input

tl;dr - Own a condo and want to have my pet here, but homeowner's association ("no pets" rule) says no. Are they in the right or am I?
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>>18697834
They've got the ability to fine your grandmother and, eventually, force you out of the property. Your best bet would be to make friends with the neighbors, find your way onto the board, and change the bylaws.
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You have to follow the rules, that's part of what you agree to when you decided to live there. It doesn't matter that it's 'your' place, it's part of the conditions of buying the property. Since it's your grandmother's place, you're opening her up to legal action by having a dog there.
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>>18697846
>>18697848

That's what I was thinking, but again, just wasn't sure if the act of actually owning the property made a difference. Thanks for the input.

It's kinda garbage too, because the HOA enforces rules differently based on how much they like the tenant (Not trying to complain/bitch about not being able to have my pet; this is actually the case). For some people it's with regards to pets, and for others, its various other rules. Dumb shit like hanging clothing outside, parking locations, etc. I don't know if it's legal, or if they're allowed to be selective with the rules like that. Seems to border on some weird type of discrimination

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Has anyone here tried modafinil as a study drug?

i was given some and would like to knwo if its any good or if i should just sell it for a few pounds to another student
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brainlet
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It stops you from feeling tired. That's it. If that's enough for you, go for it.

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I'm 24 y.o guy that graduated in geology three months ago. There are about 20 geology job offers at my country right now and I'm not qualified for any of them.
Can't get into masters/phd because my GPA is fucked, went through clinical depression through college.

I was getting so much better at the end of college, but once you fucked up, people won't give you chances. This shit is making me considering an hero again

Any advice of people that started over on a different course, or maybe college dropouts?
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>>18697755
GPA isn't everything. Apply to those grad positions anyway. Write a personal narrative, and explain why you're still a good candidate, and why your grades don't mean everything. Look outside the box. Consider applying to grad positions in another countries.

If you've already accepted defeat, then the fight is over. It's only when you send in 500+ applications and they all get soundly rejected--then, and only then do you get to wallow in despair. You haven't even tried yet.

Also, as you may know, most people don't even work in fields related to their majors, for one reason or another. Again, think outside the box.

Maybe go backpacking somewhere, and do a little bit of LSD/psychedelic and have some "revelation" before you off yourself. Seriously. Take some time off. Meet some new people. And ask for their opinions. Experience different things. Gain a broader perspective. Then revisit this issue.

Good luck.
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Also, what country are you in? I was going to suggest a very easy state university to get into, on the West Coast that happens to have a decent geology program: Cal State Bakersfield. Most people overlook that school because most of the refineries are in Texas or in the Dakotas. Bakersfield is in an armpit of CA (of course, it has to be since that's where petroleum shit is refined). But yeah, just try applying there.

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I'm a transfer to my college and I hung out in one of those shitty dorm lounges to meet people.

I accidentally sat on a massive wad of hand sanitizer that some jerkoff Indian Stacy had poured all over the couch cushions and now the whole damn building won't stop calling me "Mr. Clean".

How do I get my ass a better nickname or tell them to start using my real name or tell them to fuck off?
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>>18697735
own it Mr. Clean
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Mr clean
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I posted in thread on r9k couple days ago. It involved me cringe texting a girl and finding out she had a boyfriend. Whole store started calling me "text" and I had to leave store. Anon they won't stop.

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How do I deal with this? It happened on a cabin trip before we got together. He slept with my girlfriend and her friend. He's always been lesser alpa you could say, and I've always been lesser beta or something like that, and it's really killing me. Pic is from that trip.
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Can you make a new thread? I hate replying to threads without pictures.
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>>18697713
He's not your friend retard
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>>18697789
Let's not draw any conclusios.

Should i compare myself to others or not? I feel like not doing so enables you to live calmer but i feel like purposely not doing so is deluding yourself; being a big fish in a small pond.
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>>18697685
>Should i compare myself to others
Yes.
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>>18697685

why not a little from column A and a little from column B?

the problem most people have with comparing themselves to others is that they just end up using that as a reason to justify stagnation

>ill never be as attractive as that guy so i should literally never try to have a love life

is something we see a lot of here. So don't compare your self to him. instead compare your self to other men of similar social skills and looks. There are tons that are dating. they aren't dating the mega hot normie girls you tend to fall for, but their dating and enjoying it, so why can't you?

thats just an example of course. comparing your self to others is often synonymous with 'giving up because you arent someone else' and thats where people go wrong.
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>>18697685
Yes you should, but you should also use this comparison to learn from people who are doing better than you on something, in order to improve yourself.

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>Be me
>22
>Awful upbringing
>Never had a chance to go to school
>Know slightly basic stuff
>Want to start to study for a GED
>Don't know where to start
>Embarrassed because i'm an idiot
What do
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>>18697645
This is 4chan, not google
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>>18697645
Do they have schools around your area?
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Search adult ged class your city.

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I always spent shitloads of time in front of my PC but recently they've started to hurt after longer exposure. I'm already wearing glasses (duh) and installed flux to lessen the strain, anything else I should do beside cutting down on my time using computers? I'm only 18, I don't want to end up blind ;_;
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>>18697626

they say getting up every 20 minutes is good not just for your eyes but your overall health.

id also recommend finding a 'dark' version of any site you use a lot. use 4chan? set it to 'tomorrow' for its style. use a writing program? research the dark versions.

dark version doesn't hurt your eyes.
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>>18697626
You have glasses most likely because shit DNA. Check on your parents and grandparents eye sight.

You cant kill your eyes by using them. Not by reasonable use.

Never look into monitor at dark. Always have source of light which is more stronger than your monitor in the same room. Have 8 hours of sleep.

The distance between your head and monitor should be at least 1.5 more than the diagonal width of said monitor.

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Hey guys. I just recently joined an after school program for middle schoolers and I need some tips. I haven't done this math since I was in middle school. I'm 20 years old and I'm looking for videos that could help with my struggle of relearning this math to help these kids.
>Mfw
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Khan Academy is apparently good.
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Who let you near children?
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>>18697613
What makes you think I'm doing any kind of harm to them? I'm just simply looking for math help...

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I have a good life, with many friends, loving parents, a new career that saves lives, and multiple women I can sleep with. Despite this, I'm so depressed I can barely function.

It's for a dumb reason, too. GIRL PROBZ.

I can't get over my ex despite how toxic our relationship was. We were together for three years, then she cheated and lied, I cheated back. Unhealthy stuff! Even more unhealthy is what happens next!

She starts dating someone and tells me we shouldn't hook up anymore. A few months later, we start banging despite her relationship. Even though this relationship lasts a year.

History just repeated itself: She's been dating a guy for eight months, and has been fucking me about three times a month even though their relationship is "serious"

On Monday, she tells me she wants to stop hooking up with me and only wants to be with him, even though their relationship isn't going so well. I tell her that's okay and wish her luck, but then I make the dumb beta move of getting sappy about the past. We say we love each other, still want to be friends, and makeout, then part ways.

What the fuck am I doing? Part of me thinks I should permanently cut off all contact and RUN because this relationship is really fucking unhealthy, but another part wants to see if there's any way to salvage this, ending in a respectful and romantic relationship between us.

How would you guys go about it?
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She's just gonna cheat again, run like hell OP. There's no way you'll ever get the respectful relationship you want with her.
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>>18697495
Ur ex is gross and used up. You both are fucked in the head and its a contest to see who can get their shit together first.

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Does being alpha in the bedroom give you a pass to be a nice guy?

I'm pretty sweet and affectionate toward my gf, and she is the same to me. I feel like i might be setting myself up for failure if i keep being nice to her though, according to what all my male friends tell me. I'm not overly nice to her though, or a pushover. I'm just always myself around her, just a good-natured dude. However, i'm pretty dominant in the bedroom; i pretty much control her like a puppet. I get her saying things like "oh anon.. My pussy is all yours.. You own it".

My friends tell me to be a dick to her sometimes, just sometimes so she doesn't get bored. But everything i've been doing has been working so far, and i've been kind to her.

Is it okay to be a bit soft and sensitive as a person as long as i dominate her in the bedroom? Or will she leave me if i don't start being a loud, boisterous douchebag?
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If it ain't broke, don't fix it.
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Alphas don't even think about this shit. They just do as they please.
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>>18697407

That's what i say. Yet everyone likes to breathe down my neck and say 'better step it up bro! Gotta put her in her place and stop being nice!" I pretty much do put her in her place when we're fucking. I call her my dirty little slut and she can't get enough of that shit.

My friends might be beta. They pay a lot of attention to how to 'game' women. I literally just do what feels natural to me.

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How do you kiss properly? I'm not very good at it. Can you be very specific?
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Tongue punch the fart box
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First things first, breathe through your nose. Tongue honestly shouldn't really be involved. Making out is basically sucking on each others lips. Purse your lips gently, and let your lips cradle theirs, and vice versa. Suck gently and release, moving just enough to catch another part of their lips. Use these moments when the lips are parted to add a sort of tension. Be playful, don't just do the same thing over and over, create different sensations by just grazing their lips, sucking a little harder or more gently, MAYBE use a little tongue as you suck, of if they seem to want tongue, let yours touch theirs ever so slightly. Follow each other lead, I like to bite their lip gently... every make out is different... have fun, practice.
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>>18697432
also, maybe watch some romantic movie makeouts and watch what they are doing. NOT PORN, I REPEAT, NOT PORN. Only cum dumpsters make out like that.

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Heyo 4Chan-Keks,

Since I have no friends nor anything to talk with and am literly on a borderline suicide trip atm. I thought imma cry my soul our right here right now.

My gf dumped me for a new guy. Ok well guess that problem is one many people have - but seriously that dumb bitch made me snitch the few friends I had so that I told them they should leave their nose out of this situation. Since I even got warned by a friend, tho for real I have nobody left and my heard is shattered in pieces, I have trouble breathing and can't clear my head from that psychological stress, what is that shit and how can I calm down.

I won't need advice how to kill myself or how to get my besnitched friends back or even that fcking snitch of a gf that she was.

I just want to calm down and relax. How though?
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She was probably cheating on you for quite some time before she dumpted your ass lmao. Also you white kids and you "mental issues" lmao. Come back and complain when you have no food.
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>>18697334
I promise you it will pass. It feels like it won't but I fucking swear to you it will. Let yourself cry when you need to. You can rebuild.

I'm currently going through panic attacks for a very different and stupid reason. I feel hopeless too. Know you are not alone. Therapy genuinely helps by the way.

>>18697338
Ignore LARPers like this guy. If she was then she did the best thing should could possibly do by leaving.

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How will I ever recover from my past as a coward and bullied kid?
I'm in my early twenties, as a little kid I had a lot of pride but just before junior school me and my family moved in a big city and I ended up in a shitty school where I've been bullied for three years.
I became a frightened man and I did a lot of mistakes especially considering my former moral, shameful ones because of my cowardice.
I'm starting to change now, because I feel better and learned to love myself more and I slowly get back this feeling I had as a little kid.
But it's too late, and I suffer a lot from my memory.
If I was guaranteed that killing myself would offer me some kind of reset I would seriously consider it.
I fucked up a lot, and I struggle to bear it because I will never be able to say "I lived as a man of honor"
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>>18697327
Fuck that bullshit you can live as a man of honor. Your past is what you have to learn from and how you determine your future, that's it. The demons you fight make you a bad ass demon fighter.

If nothing else I believe in you OP
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>>18697327
Everybody goes through tough shit at some point OP, it all depends on how you deal with the question. If you see what happened to you as a justification to become a coward, you will fail and become miserable. But if you choose to embrace it and use it to forge yourself into a strong, unshakable man who won't ever be afraid because he's already had the worst thrown at him, then good, you don't have to worry about anything ever again.

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I'm from California/Arizona and have never gone farther than a few hours drive from my home but I'm flying out to New York in a couple weeks for a weekend for family stuff but I'll be there by myself for a night and I was wondering, how dangerous would it be to go get drunk at bars by myself and try to meet people/bang girls?
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>>18697307
>bang girls

LEAVE YOU SEXIST SCUM
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Not at all dangerous.
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>>18697307
Just turn on tinder and try to get a match its probably safer.

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