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>>18700702
So you've reached the bottom of the barrel anon? Your trying to pick up chicks on a Chinese stamp collecting forum

>>18700702
>No Autism
>CWC

>>18700702
This has to be a joke.

You're expecting a British lawyer to just be hanging around 4chan at 10:30 pm on a Thursday?

>>18700694
>British
Sorry, don't give advice to subhumans. Why don't you make a /brit advice general/ thread and shit up this board like you do the rest of them

>>18700728
Yeah bit of a stretch on my part
>>18700735
not even British, so not even mad, but you should get yourself checked out you got some anger issues buddy

>>18700663
Spend as much time with him as you can for a while

>>18700663
sorry anon, my dog died last week

My dog had a good life, it was happier than most people are; so I don't feel bad for him.

maybe you should get a new dog?
It's not like remarrying

>>18700667
Thanks anon. I will

>>18700717
True. Sorry to hear about yours. Thanks anon.

>>18700653
Perhaps try searching up a company that makes postage stamps? It probably doesn't have much social media, but could benefit from it.

>>18700653
I don't know if you've ever heard of this company that makes a thing called fidget spinners or not. i just put about $12,000 into startup with the inventor and he assures me that it might be a few years, but one day it's going to explode. At the moment we're still stuck in the 'mom n' pop' phase.

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The alternative is being mediocre, so no.

Spend time outside of your social caste.

>>18700532
>depersonalization caused by sexual coersion
seems like a key indicator that your relationship needs help.

step 1: talk to your partner about how you feel

if you already did then what did he say?

>>18700551
It wasnt causwd by my partner, it was caused by someone in the past years ago that sexually coersed me

>>18700532
Psycholog + cbt.

Why not talk to your doctor?

>>18700507
Just buy some folic acid? Folic acid is B9, if you're worried about od'ing or some random shit you just piss it out like the rest of the B vitamins. Also i've never heard that.

>>18700436
a scab and a scar from whatever cut/scratch happened there?

>>18700436
It looks like an allergic reaction

>>18700442
No, that's a form of eczema. I have it too.

It's not dangerous OP. It can last for months, though. I would recommend you to see a dermatologist, just in case.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=3yf8JFHVyc4

Think hard about nothing.

sit on a cushion with your spine straight and legs crossed
set a timer for 20 mins
rest one hand on the other so the tips of your thumbs are touching
close your eyes and focus all your energy on your nostrils and the sensation of breath going in and out continuously
dont breathe manually just let go
if you find yourself distracted by thought count each breath in from 10 down to 1 until you're focused again

do this at least once a day for a week and then increase the time by a minute

Search yourself and think about just why you feel the way you do. What caused it? At what point in time did you start feeling like this?

Since you mentioned you're a student, your university likely has a counseling center that can help.

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I am exactly how you are. Not really suicidal sad, but empty sad. And when the feeling gets really bad i listen to sad music like lofi or chillhop. I find it more relaxing than happy music because happy music just reminds you of what you dont have but want so badly.

Depression is a chemical imbalance, it's simple as that.
There are studies that prove that proper diet and exercise are extremely beneficial to mental health. I can personally attest to this. While you are depressed it is hard to find motivation to better yourself so I would start just by improving your diet and everything else will fall into place afterwards.

>>18700240
You're afraid someone might think of you as gay because you're straight and you're close friends with him and he loves you. I'd take it as a compliment.

>>18700240
How does it make you homophobic? It's awkward when someone likes you and you don't like them, regress of sexual orientation. The fact your straight and he's your friend makes it super mega death christ awkward lol. You're not homophobic for feeling that. Just don't judge him for it/hate him for it. He can't help it.

>>18700564
This
Make it clear you're not gay and never will be but don't let his gayness get in the way of being friends.

>>18700159
Just google CICO (Calories In Calories Out), document yourself and then use this website to find out how many calories you have to eat per day to maintain your weight.
https://tdeecalculator.net/
Just eat 500 less each day and you'll lose weight.
It's that simple.
It doesn't matter what you eat as long as you don't go over your calorie limit.

t. ex-fatty turned into fit guy

Oatmeal, son. Tasteless? Yes. But get used to that shit if you want to lose weight.

bumping this

How have you made it this far without learning this. By being in the same place at the same time you must have loads in common.

Find someone you are interested in talking to, and watch them during a lecture until they type or write something you can relate to, and then ask them about it.

Keep trying. Bettering yourself takes time.You may come up short, but let yourself feel assured that you're striving to do your best nevertheless.

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Keep trying. Do not give up. Itll work out in the long run.

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Are you me? Hang in there anon...they say it gets better. You will find a way just dont give in and dont feed the negative sides of your life. Nuture the good and it will make a difference no matter the circumstances.

http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/answered-questions/i-dont-want-sexile-my-new-roommate

>>18700087
Is it a shared dorm room then?
Good fuckin luck. The benefit of having a shared living space but individual rooms was a fucking MUST when I went to uni.

Plus my flat mates are generally courteous. They'd usually not PDA in front of each other.

Hell me and my GF both hate PDA in front of people we know because we'd be uncomfortable if the situation was reversed. They're at fault.

>>18700087
have you thought about talking to your roommate and expressing yourself?