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Pretty madly inlove with my girlfriend but literally would rather be with almost anyone else physically. It's not that I don't enjoy her but I think I've just gotten bored. I've been surrounded by pretty girls all year and have been very tempted to cheat but I haven't. I've spoken to my girlfriend about it and she isn't okay with an open relationship but says she would have a threesome with the "right" girl. I don't think it'll ever happen though. I tried to break up with her last week but we both just ended up shattered and stayed together. I don't want to want other people but I do. What should I do? Is there a way to stop being desperate for other girls? PS. We've been together more than two years and she's never made me cum. I've only cum inside her when I've been the one moving.VERY BORED. Also the girl in the picture isn't her. Just thought you might appreciate my ex.
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Also my ex is the one on the right.
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There is an autistic guy in my school and since I have autism too, I would like to approach him. I am a very anxious person and am always alone in the break times and so is he. How do I approach him properly? Should I ask him what his special interest is? I get very nervous around him since this is the only time I've actually seen somebody who has autism and I've been searching for a person with it.
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this sounds cute as fuck but weird as fuck at the same time
Approach him like a regular person would be my advice
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What past him and say "Metal Gear Solid V wasn't that disappointing" he'll pick up on it and won't be able stop himself disagreeing with you.
Seriously though just widdle your way slowly into his life and ask him out. You've nothing to lose really
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>>18692964
Literally ask him if you can sit next to him, ask him what is his name and from that day, never let him sit alone.
Tldr glue yourself to him and presume he enjoys your company until he tells you otherwise.
http://www.improveyoursocialskills.com/conversation
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How not to have your life go bananas by job-related relocation 2017-09-05 06:44:32 Post No.18692953
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How not to have your life go bananas by job-related relocation
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Hey /adv/,
I'm a 30 year old male just short of finishing my education. Then, I'll have to apply for my first "ordinary" job, and probably move away over a large distance the first time in my life.
That means I'm probably going to lose all my friends, and also my gf.
I struggle greatly with meeting people and making new friends. Finding a romantic partner is harder still, and I have _never once_ succeeded in proactively trying to meet girls. I expect finding a new gf to once again be a damaging and painful process.
Straightforward denial worked for some time, but now I have realized that any relationship I mamage to obtain could break apart _any moment_ due to a plethora of factors *I literally can't control*. How do other people deal with this, and even make families under such uncertain circumstances? It seems impossible to me.
I find myself much less able to enjoy or to take relationships seriously anymore. Why continue to work hard on relationship problems with my gf, when even a simple job-related move can already render any effort moot?
What do I do? The life I thought I wanted is slipping through my fingers. I'm becoming bitter, jaded and uncaring. I feel like I'm still not really a part of society, and my mind is racing all day erryday with negative thought patterns. I almost certainly won't start a family. The entire situation is driving me mad.
Are an ambivalent, careless outlook on relationships, and refusal to commit, a necessity for maintaining functional sanity in todays' world, given the fact that stable, committed relationships no longer seem reliably attain- or maintainable through conscious personal effort?
"Disregard females, acquire currency" doesn't sound like my currently preferred meaning of life, but I feel like I don't really have much of a choice. What do? Give up and just resort to fucking whores until they all walk bow-legged and jingling?
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Do you value money?
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Yes, I do value it, but it is not my #1 goal in life. However, going for permanent unemployment in favour of social contacts is a no-go. I feel that my status in society relies entirely on my occupational performance. With no job, I fear that I will quickly lose virtually all social contacts and any respect people have for me.
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So I started talking to an old friend of mine, whom I had a crush on and she had one on me (nothing happend because we both were really beta at the time), after 3 years we haven't talked, soon to discover she has a boyfriend. We chat quite a lot and even went out as friends (which we made sure we were). I didn't think it would end in a relationship because I don't really want one after a mean brakeup, and she seemed quite stable with hers. Now she told me about how she feels she is about to end her relationship, and I feel like shit, because I feel it's because of me. after a vary mean brakeup that ended some what like hers is about to, I think I was the cause for it.
Am I a piece of shit for accidently doing that? And if so, should I help her fix her relationship?
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you don't even know if you caused it. Also she has free will. This was her choice not yours. Stop blaming yourself for stuff you didn't do.
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>>18692796
Let me refine myself, am I a piece of shit for even not wanting a relationship, being glad for what happend?
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As long as your not leading on this friend of yours by promising you'd get with them. Then no.
Are you glad she's breaking up?
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Hey anon! I hope you find a thread that solves whatever's on your mind, or if you make one someone helps you!
But you might not, and that's okay too. You see, life is a chain of happenstances. Every day, your existence is a series of little miracles, good and bad, that make you, well, you! your personality, your hopes and dreams, and those of everyone around you are molded by the things you've lived. That anxiety you feel? you're meant to feel that, because that's what life made you. Maybe you're not who you want to be right now, but keep that hope inside of you, and one day you will be. You'll be someone who can accomplish those dreams.
Life made you who you are today, but I know if you try, you've got the potential to make life what it is tomorrow.
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thanks OP. was gonna off myself today but i read this and now i think i'll stick around
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I feel condescended to.
People expect so little of me that they tell me positive things out of pity.
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This is sweet OP, I appreciate it. I hope you remember that your post applies to you as well too. You're a good person and I hope you make it.
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Good luck going through whatever you're struggling with Anon. There's a lot of resources out there for dealing with however you're feeling if you look.
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I don't believe it's about pity. I think OP genuinely cares and wants to help.
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Hello anons, I need your advice. I have a coworker/manager that pretty much does the same job as me, but manages more things and such. Therefore, she is considered an "upper"/manager of mine. When she first started working here, she let me know that she doesn't want any personal questions and to keep our work life strictly work related. I'm a dude, and this was perfect for me since I hate small talk and talking to co workers about stupid ass shit. I have never asked her anything personal. However, as time has passed, she constantly asks me personal questions and is very nosy about my life.
For example, if I call in sick and use my paid time off and turn in my absence form in advance, she'll ask me about it the next day. Not a simple "are you feeling better?", but would ask for details on what I was sick for, or what the illness might be. These are personal questions that I would rather not answer and find it very annoying that she doesn't follow her own "don't ask personal questions" motto. How do I deal with somebody like this?
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>For example, if I call in sick and use my paid time off and turn in my absence form in advance, she'll ask me about it the next day.
She wants to know if you're coming into work or not. She has a schedule to keep.
>Not a simple "are you feeling better?",
She's not your mother and has explicitly stated that she doesn't care
>but would ask for details on what I was sick for, or what the illness might be.
She wants to know if you're not lying through your teeth or that you could be contagious.
>These are personal questions that I would rather not answer and find it very annoying that she doesn't follow her own "don't ask personal questions" motto. How do I deal with somebody like this?
Not really; she wants to confirm your story and wants to know if you're a liability if you came into the office sick. These are basic question any manager would ask of your staff.
Unless you're not giving us the full story; the problem is with you and not her.
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I'm turning in my absence form requests in advance, and I do the majority of the work, not her.
>She's not your mother and has explicitly stated that she doesn't care
She says one thing, but her actions say otherwise. She's very nosy about my personal life. I'd rather she not ask me anything when I come back from a sick day.
>She wants to know if you're not lying through your teeth or that you could be contagious.
I was not lying when I call in sick as I only get 5 sick days a year. I got food poisoning and called the night before and also emailed in a absence form request. She then commenced to asking me 5000 questions about my food poisoning.
Also, I am not a liability to this company. I work my ass off here and I've gotten two raises in one year. I do not slack, I do all my work.
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Nicknames for your girl/guy?
Mines KD
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A thread died for this
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I'll bite, just so this isn't a wasted thread. I call her my bowling bitch and I'm her athletic asshole. She came up with the names while bowling, and we don't call each other them all the time, just occasionally
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Anyone know where I can download anime OSTs? JoJo Diamond Unbreakable to be specific
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animeisforeweebsandlosers.tv
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>>18692716
Real kind of you <3
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https://anime.thehylia.com/soundtracks/album/jojo-s-bizarre-adventure-diamond-is-unbreakable-ost-vol.1-good-morning-morioh-cho-
How can I improve my life? I am not ugly, not fat, and not a total idiot. My hygiene is very good and I do sports regularly. I get at least regular compliments because of my look from women. , Most people, if not all, with whom I have contact find me nice. I also do not really have a problem with talking to girls. As soon as I finish school I will go to study and then have a well paid job. My family loves me and I love my family. Despite this really good starting point, my life is the living hell. I have no real friends outside school and family. I am alone, lost in the loneliness that surrounds me. I have the constant feeling of wasting my time. While other people enjoy their youth, I'm wasting my time on the PC. That is depressing. The problem is, I probably could solve this problem. If I asked friends from the school to do something, they would probably agree. So it would be quite possible to improve my life. But I do not know how. I'm too autistic to build a real relationship with people. I never could. I have never had real friends as a child. At that time I had no problems with it. For some time now, however, this problem has been causing me a lot of trouble. I want to change this situation. Partially, it is the fault of my parents. They should have done something before. Since my siblings are normal, my abnormality should have occurred to them.
I have the fear I'll never have a fun evening with friends, or a romantic day with a woman.
I want it so much. Do I find here maybe some advice?
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>Do I find here maybe some advice?
Advice Número 1:
>Do I find here maybe some advice?
Too late, so blaming them literally solves nothing. You are a grown man now. Want to fix things? YOU have to fix them. Stop blaming your parents.
Advice Número 2:
>I'm too autistic to build a real relationship with people.
Don't treat this like an intrinsic fault. You can change, or else asking for advice is pointless. Do you believe you can change?
Advice Número 3:
>If I asked friends from the school to do something, they would probably agree.
Then fucking do it. This won't solve itself. You have identified a course of action. Take it. There's no more advice to give you. Take the reins of your own life and start doing something to change it into what you want.
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>>18692599
Shit, the second
>Do I find here maybe some advice?
should be
>Partially, it is the fault of my parents. They should have done something before.
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Have you considered taking a more active role organizing social events? I'm thinking anything from joining an existing club/organization to getting a group of people to go to the beach, bowling or whatever people do where you live.
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How to help friend who won't help himself/take responsbility? 2017-09-05 04:19:34 Post No.18692551
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How to help friend who won't help himself/take responsbility?
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I'm a close friend to him and enjoy his company, but his crippling ability to take responsibility for his actions is frustrating to deal with at times.
He's pretty reliant on his mother (he's 23) but she's planning to move 10hrs away and yet he feels the need to complain about how shit his life is when it really isn't. He gets angry when I bring up needing to get a job and get his shit sorted but complains when life gets him down when really it's just his lack of motivation.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uP6QhCz42jw&feature=youtu.be make sure he doesn't eat too much mcdonalds and waste his own pay check :'D
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>>18692554
What in the dicks was that?
OP, sometimes you have to let people fall on their face. I'm 25 and just coming to terms with my own shitty attitude. It hurts, but lacing my boots tight and pounding the pavement every day is helping me cope. You can lead a horse to water... Your friend will just have to siffer the consequences of his shitty behavior. Whatever you do, do NOT help him out.
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how can i grow my channel :'( i just want views i don't care about positive or negative feedback i just want views dammit :( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uP6QhCz42jw&feature=youtu.be
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>>18692509
stop being an attention whore. seeking attention from views is not healthy. see a therapist or talk to your school guidance counselor.
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Try sticking your head in a beehive
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eat a cactus
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anybody know how to get a quarter out of your ass (pic unrelated)
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Try to fish it out with something long and thin like a paintbrush handle
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>>18692510
Ok ill try it
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Any advice on stopping eating so much at McDonalds? 2017-09-05 03:51:58 Post No.18692462
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Any advice on stopping eating so much at McDonalds?
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>>18692462
Like all other addictions, you just gotta fight the craving and eat other things.
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constantly have other food that you can eat instead around you, every time you think about fast food eat that food. Eventually it should start tasting better and McDonalds should start tasting worse.
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thank you
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What are some social hobbies
Are there any ones that are not athletic?
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>>18692455
Board game stores have open meetups. There are Anime Cons. You can join some artistic class, like drawing/painting and interact with other students.
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A job just be careful of this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uP6QhCz42jw&feature=youtu.be
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I have trouble focusing during meditation and I try to keep myself calm by not getting angry. So what are some tips or advice to focus while meditating? I can't go past 3 mins.
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Beat the shit out of a seal before meditating. That always helps me.
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Fix your gaze on a stationary point. Try to not look away. Keep breathing deep and slow. And blink when you need to
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try taking L-Theanine before and don't do this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uP6QhCz42jw&feature=youtu.be