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I think I may file one (defamation). Feel shit enough to file one obviously. How did you guys manage the day to day knowing someone wronged you badly? If I could see them, I'd slap them. The wait for my lawyer's appointment is killing me.
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What did they say?. I've never been involved in something like that. I honestly don't give a shit what people say about me (thank god) but then again nobody ever started something that circulated very far either. What did this person say? and who all is making a big deal of it?
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>>18506637
Girl I used to know. I moved on her and it didn't work out. Stopped talking. We were still friends on FB though and I saw her account liking lewd articles. I think it's a bait and switch scam. She liked FB posts that were designed to be mass liked and then sold to an advertiser that changed it to something obscene.

Anyway, I asked her about it, in a caring way, through CHAT which was my mistake. She said she didn't know about it. I took screenshots and sent them to her. Mind you, the pictures weren't actual porn, though lewd (drawings of body parts, far away shots of people doing stuff in public places). She got angry, blocked me, told some people. Those people stopped talking to me. Now, I think she outright told them I sent her actual porn to her and now everyone thinks I'm a pervert.

Happened last year. I don't see her anymore. We're geographically far apart now (she left) but we're pretty well connected and I still see some of the people.
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Dang. The other people still don't talk to you?. Look at you strange?. Is the number of people who stopped talking to you growing?.

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Is it really necessary to achieve anything? Can't you just get by on the absolute minimum and be happy?
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>>18506619
Sounds like you want to be a NEET.
Not in Education Emplyoment or Training.
You basically don't achieve anything in life, and spend your day to day life doing random stuff you enjoy to pass the time (like gaming and anime). It honestly sounds pretty fun, if you have the money to support yourself.
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The problem is that it ends up not making you happy since someday you'll look back at a wasted life and everything you missed out on. It's going to happen even if you don't think it will.
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>>18506632
Could living a life the way you really wanted to in a way you could enjoy without negatively impacting yourself and others be something to be proud of?
Even if you didn't acomplish something specific, isn't living your life a way you're happy with enough of an achievement?

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>>18506614
I started graphic design by making meme's in Photoshop now I'm proficient in InDesign illustrator and premier. It got me my current job selling commercial real estate. Keep learning have fun maybe like me you'll turn it into a career.
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thx but is it good?
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>>18506623
Now that's a success story!

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What can i say to my grandpas text? "I am reading the Psalms for the next few days. They give me much solace and keep my thoughts on the right path."
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Link him the episode of south park where cartman gets "shitter".
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>>18506518
"ok" or don't reply at all?
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>>18506543
i must reply more than the bare minmum

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How do I know if I'm ugly or just socially inept?

I have no luck with women, the only women who ever showed me attention were really fat or ugly, and I've been called ugly before.
I got rated a 4/10 in /soc/, but on the other hand I've been told I'm not bad looking too.

I lift weights and dress good so it's either I have a fucked up face and don't see it, or I'm just socially retarded.
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If people don't come up to you and converse with you, you're ugly
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>>18506515
It's either your face or your height. Or both.
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Show an actual picture of you and we'll tell you?

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What does /adv/ think about Meditation. I'm about to start my journey. From what my friends describe about it.... it's simply remarkable. Why doesn't everyone do it?

I tried it last night for the first time and said to myself I would simply focus on my breathing and letting the thoughts pass for 15 minutes and I happily extended it to 30 minutes. What I felt after was so rewarding, a wave of calmness - even after my first time. I couldn't believe it.

I have started reading the meditation guide named "The Mind Illuminated" as recommended by them, there are many stages and milestones you achieve through meditation and I can't wait to keep going.

They say it's almost a us vs them thing now. They look at people that don't meditate as impulsive creatures. They see the emotions before they happen. They can walk around with full awareness of the moment, clear their mind of any obtrusive thoughts whenever they'd like, complete ease, you start to discover many things about yourself and even in further stages have the capability to break apart your own ego.

Simply astounding. What are your thoughts on the matter? Any tips for continuing or am I blowing it out of proportion?
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Learning what meditation is about makes for an all the better experience. Look up speeches by Alan Watts or Terence McKenna on meditation. The dao, za zen meditation, etc
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>>18506545
Will do! Thanks for the suggestion.
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>>18506489
Meditation is all about reaching a state of calmness and awareness. Of understanding your thoughts and emotions.
If you see those who don't meditate as below you, you clearly aren't doing it right.

>talk to girl

fuck green text

talk to girl for a bit, few weeks, we fuck before.

she wants to come over after work. im getting horny just thinking about it. i think i like her

i fap before she comes. now i dont want her around.

is this normal? it means i dont like her for gf material?
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Why did you even fap before she comes in, like seriously. Now your testoterone took a blow and you expect to be Casanova? If you have problem with early climax during intercourse don't fucking fap before.
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*>>18506464

If you don't have problem climaxing early during intercourse*
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>>18506464
my question wasnt related to that, what the fuck?

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how to quit smoking?
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you have to really make up your mind to do it and then suffer for an eternity

cravings subside over time, varies by person. could take a week or two; could take months or years.

be prepared to eat/snack more, chewing gum helps if oral fixation is your thing, getting super addicted to something else like coffee also helps.

good luck and remember the only thing you have to do to quit smoking is not smoke :)
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>doesn't smoke cigarettes
Are you bullied at school, mentally retarded, or both?
>b-b-but you die
So? was life a competition who lives the longest?
>you get addicted to it!
No you wont, if you aren't underage and able to smoke in moderation.
>it..IT COSTS MONEY
Who made you buy a pack of cigarettes a day , you fucking peat gavel
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>>18506437
I was able to quit smoking after doing it pretty frequently for about a year. The number one thing I did was just stop all together. Don't try and do less and less every day because you still become dependent on them and you'll break soon after and go right back to the normal amount you smoke.

The worst thing to get over is the habit of smoking. I made it a habit to smoke a specific points throughout my day and my brain got used to that schedule and made me crave one when it came to that time of day. The best advice I can give you is distract yourself as much as possible. Instead of smoking at 10:30am on your break from work, try and go on a walk or something.

Its hard to stop and I've went back many times but in the end I was able to finally quit by realizing how better you feel and smell when you don't smoke. It's only cool for so long until you start feeling like shit every day.

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I started having sex with this girl 2 weeks ago, im not in love or anything im just ok having sex with her, thats it, but it seems that she is really in love with me (wtf?). she is average looking, little chubby and she is not the best picking her clothes. That is killing it for me, i would be embarrassed to be seen with her but i need the sex (she is really good at it). What should i do? because i dont want to hurt her but i dont want to move on until i find another sure thing, and yes, i know im an asshole.

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Become interested in fashion yourself to such extent that she cannot ignore it and then offer to "go shopping together" or even flat out buy something for her as a gift.
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>>18506392
She's not in love OP but if you are an asshole pump, pump, pump and dump.
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>>18506407
Im not really interested but i know how to pick and wear my shit
>>18506409
She is, trust me and horny as fuck too

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Be 100% honest.
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>>18506357
XL penis.
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money, tall, good looks, not fat
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- Okay looking (clothes too)
- Fun to talk to. Intelligent, well read, has to be at least a bit challenging intelectually
- Has life and hobbys on his own, bonus points if likes video games
- Excited and enthusiastic about life, world, doing stuff
- Likes me

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Is /fit/ a good place to be or is it filled with virgin dicked meatheads??
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If you actually want to get fit then yes, it's a good place. They cut through unsourced facts like a hot knife through butter.
If you want to complain about girls not paying attention to you then r9k is a better fit.

/fit/ is for people who will appreciate hardwork (men), and GETTING FUARKING JUICY BRAH
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>>18506297
Been on /fit/ for coming up to 4 years brah and its great

I no longer go to browse all day, just to see what's new out of habit.

I still go to the gym though breh
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>>18506306
Am Female so don't care for FemAnons

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So what do I do if I'm stuck in reverse-cuckery?

I dated this girl for a few years, and we had a pretty messy break up. I got jealous that she was seeing other guys, she got mad because I called her on her bullshit, etc. But we were dumb and kept coming back to each other.

Present day, she's dating a guy that lives a few hours away. He's the tall dark and handsome type, college degree, going to grad school, etc. Meanwhile I wait tables, I'm several years older than her, but also very good looking and I know how to please her in bed.

She says that the guy doesn't mind if she sleeps with other people, so she always wants to spend the night and cuddle and fuck. On one hand it's awesome, on the other hand I still want her back as my girlfriend....but I don't know why.

What do
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>>18506172
Well she's never going to be your girlfriend so if you're holding out for that, you might as well give up now.
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Leave it you dummy. Nothing good is gonna come from this, too many feelings involved.
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>>18506172
>She says that the guy doesn't mind if she sleeps with other people
Thats what she says but I bet her bf doesn't know. The point is she did the same shit to you and isn't gf material.

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Hey /adv/, I gave my computer a whack the other day out of frustration because I was tired from work and it kept messing around. Shit broke.

Now when I boot all I see is the manufacturer logo then the screen goes black. I'm pretty sure it's the hard drive because it's making some funky noises I've never heard before.

I don't know much about computers, is it as simple as buying a new hard drive and switching the old one out?

Help a retard out please, thanks.
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>>18506125
I paid $100, been over two years and is still working fine
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Forget to mention that it's a laptop.
Also, I don't care about the data, I just need a working computer again.
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>>18506125
I'm not too experienced with this so you might need some confirmation on this.

See if you can access the BIOS. If you can, try and boot from usb (you'll need an operation system on it). I think this will allow you to see what has happened to the hard drive.

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I am panicky afraid of getting old.
I want to have a way out of this, but I think I won't be able to kill myself when time will come.
Thousands of people kill themselves everyday though. How do they get ready for this? What should I do, to prepare myself?
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>>18506075
Exercise
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>>18506075
Perhaps try living in every moment every day instead of thinking about uncontrollable future events? Nobody gets out alive, so you may as well enjoy the ride.
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>>18506079
This, also try to surround yourself with mature people. You'll find that growing old isn't as bad and maturing is just the way of life. Get plenty of sleep and think happy, positive attitude will keep you young.

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I want her to initiate. This way, I could know she is still interested.
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Ask her if she knew that Lucifer used to be an angel before he fell.
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>>18505920
not gonna happen, trust me girls can be clueless as fuck you can drop a thousand signs and not one will be picked up, the last thing you want is to keep trying when they do like you and someone else does it first so now your stuck in the friendzone hating yourself
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>>18505925
I guess you have a point there. I'll try handling what I have already instead of trying to get her to initiate.

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