I look way better with clothes on than without and now that the guy I am seeing wants me to come over I am truly terrified. See, he probably thinks that just because I have a cute face my bod must look nice too but that's where he's wrong. It's really gross and If i were him and knew what my body looked like (pudgy skinnyfat twinkbod, ugh) I wouldn't want to be waking up next to it tbHONest.
How other passable face/unpassable bod mtfs deal with situations like these? Do you just have sex while fully clothed only?
>>8110046
I don't even understand how this is possible, face is just such a bigger issue than body to me. I thought hormones just kinda worked automatically on all that stuff.
Your body probably isn't as gross as you think it is. Just go for it and if he doesn't care, there you go, problem solved. If he says you're gross and doesn't want to have sex, you're no worse off than you are now, so you might as well go for it.
>>8110046
>mfw I don't have this problem
You can't be afraid of the guy you're talking to being disgusted by your body if your face is too ugly for him to be interested in the first place.
>no one gets greys right
>it's all bullshit with mouths and noses and facial structure
>fucking Strieber eyes
>greys with ridiculous Chad physiques
>greys with claws and fangs and shit
Why?
Why the hell are you posting this that's terrifying
>>8110029
Why don't you tell us what you really look like then, OP.
>>8110029
>able to travel through galaxies
>unable to pick an attractive physique for yourself
Pick one motherfucker.
I love dick. My biggest fantasy is to suck one. The problem is I'm not attracted to males at all and I don't think I could actually suck off a dude. A very passing trap or trans could work but there are pretty much none out there.
What do I do with these feelings?
>>8110009
Source?
>>8110009
>I don't think I could actually suck off a dude
So you never tried it?
Go experiment and find out for certain, there is a forest of dicks waiting to be sucked
>>8110781
It's gross and gay. I don't want to unless it's a cute trap or tranny.
>tfw you think you're AMAB HSTS and wanna transition MtF while someone says you have BDD, but a TERF says you're really just Ps-Bi MtT so you decide to become GNC even though it doesn't really fix your GID.
>>8109947
i want to be a girl
>We're not like those tumblr kiddies throwing around all those extra letters
>>8109954
Why not just settle for being gender non-conforming? Just because you persistently want to be a girl, hate a male body, and suffer distress at masculine body development doesn't mean you can't just be an effeminate man!
There are lots of guys that are quite feminine and like feminine things but aren't male to trannies! You keep on doing you, dude!
What do you think of people who describe themselves as being genderfluid?
I really don't blame you if you think it's wishy-washy nonsense. Like somebody who says they're bisexual, there's no commitment to anything. A genderfluid person can live their life straight and as their cis-gender, there isn't as much of a struggle as it is for full-on queers.
That all said, I genuinely believe that genderfluid is a proper fit for who I am.
Your changing moods and light gender nonconformity is not valid as trans.
Utterly Disgusting!
>>8109856
Genderfluid = A*P without dysphoria
>parents will disown their children because of sexual orientation or gender identity
>they value religion more than their own children
>this is extremely common
Am I the only one who finds this extremely fucked up? I live in a basically atheist country, my parents love me unconditionally, it all seems very alien to me.
>>8109770
It's also kinda fucked up that this board routinely makes fun of what are basically girls who have a debilitating congenital disorder, people do stupid messed-up things for stupid messed-up reasons.... Doesn't make it right, but it's just the world we live in sadly.
>>8109778
Are you literally referring to transsexuals as "girls with a congenital disorder"?
Are you retarded?
>>8109786
Yes, that's basically what's going on there, I'm tired of arguing with you in every thread so please don't even start with me, it's not even 6 AM and I need McDonald's breakfast badly.
Help me understand: For Trans girls planning to go bottom surgery aren't cages bad because it gives them less to work with? Or does it have nothing to do with that? .t confused anon
Cage?
>>8109610
OP seems to think that chastity cages shrink penises. Which doesn't sound right to me but it's not something I can discuss with authority
>>8109610
It's made to compress(?) their private, making it smaller I think
i'm feeling lonely and looking for a guy to chat with, i'm a pretty submissive boyish male my self
someone to talk dirty with maybe exchange some pics
i can't post pic now but i can later through sc
>>8109536
ASL?
IM program of choice?
>>8109567
add zarr223 on kik
>>8109574
Don't have Kik. Steam or Skype? Maybe Discord?
What timezone are you in?
mtfg- transsexual woman general
The edition is "why are you so unfashionable?" Thats the question I want answered.
OR
>tell me about your style, your aesthetic, your "look"
>Describe it in a few words Is the look you have the look you want? what do you desire to change?
• Makeup for beginners: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels: http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels: http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Reducing Muscle http://www.trans-health.com/2001/lose-muscle-gain-fat-dieting-for-mtfs/
• Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
>• thread rules
•dont reply to drake
•ignore trolls
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one that is the last one before the last one >>8103855
VROOM
>>8109329
The song silly :P
>>8109330
Don't drive too fast :S Don't want you to crash!
The act of sex and people in general kinda sucks? I got raped over a summer when I was young, I guess after that I was always hypersexual. I've kinda always focused on sex as a way of self worth to feel I'm still wanted. I honestly don't even see people as packages, more as certain desirable attributes I find as acceptable and I'm good. I Don't care if they are shitty people or not my "type".
I've been always told I'm good at sex but I find it boring. With a man or a woman, the only one I remember was another trans girl that made me gtfo because even though she passed, she was pre-hrt and the B.O. and stubble made me want to kill myself.
I just can't let anyone in close enough for me to feel invested. Most of the time I relive the rapes in my head during sex. My penis feels like a phantom limb and boobs ache a bit then I'll climax and shake it off and go home.
Its not like I don't have standards, it's just if I've known someone long enough I'll let them fuck me, mostly after they learn too much about me. Like I'm testing our friendship. Some stop talking to me after and I figure I'm too crazy for them, most who i stay friends with kinda hold me arms length. Like I'm a doll on top of a side table, mostly those people just booty call me because they know I can't feel love.
Is there a way to fix?
Completely? No. You will be affected in some way forever. You can try to manage it. For me, it helps a lot jist to understand the deep details, why I do things and feel things. It helps me to accept and sometimes change, since now I know why, and my behavior isn't just some unsolvable tangle. I've been in therapy for nearly a decade, but I've finally made the kost progress now that I have a therapist who is actually trauma specialized.
>>8109325
>therapist who is actually trauma specialized.
Maybe that's what I need. My current therapist hasn't really scratched the surface with me.
>You'll be affected forever.
I guess I kinda knew that. I really hate being so histrionic.
keep it real
how many of you are going to commit to this transgender/homosexual thing well past it stops being cool?
How does it feel for trans girls that companies milk your dysphoria for easy money and social brownie points?
>>8109457
Do they? Examples?
>>8109466
Nestle
I consider myself a straight or possibly bi guy, but I'm super into cute yaoi. like i find it really adorable in comics and i love pictures of cute femboys and stuff like that. however i don't find like, 99.99999% of men IRL attractive, even famous or celebrities that are almost universally considered "hot".
Anyone else? I'm not afraid of being gay or anything, but I'm just curious.
Maybe it's like a fetish. Fun to enjoy, but at the end of the day you're not going to let some ladyboy trample your cock while pouring hot wax on your chest.
>>8109053
You're just a normal weeaboo.
>>8109053
3DPD is all there is to it. Physical forms cannot compete.
Can you turn a straight guy gay?
>>8108728
That depends on whether you can force a fetish into someone, and that depends on a lot of things.
For example molesting a young boy as a child might turn him gay, yknow, just an example
maybe I'm just saying this because I'm bi, but I don't think anybody should be completely gay or straight. Judge your sexual attraction to people on a person to person basis
>>8108728
God I hope so.
So me and this really cute guy finally met at his house while his parents werent home to "chill and talk" and after i confessed my love to him he was super surprised and shocked and instantly refused the idea of having a relationship or sex even but on the positive site he let me down gently and we still had a great talk for nearly 3 hours and agreed to stay friends and that he would tell no one.
On the same night he told me he was into a girl and that their relationship was pretty developed and he would confess to her soon. Next day after i cried in my pillow like a little bitch it turns out he was rejected by the girl as well. Now we both feel like shit but he has everyone to talk about that and laughed it off with his other friends while i still drown in self-pity. How do i move on and do you think i should still meet up with him and keep in touch?
> Inb4 op is a faggot
>>8108560
just off yourself
>>8108560
>"chill and talk"
>tfw realizing I have to avoid phrases involving "chill" if I'm going to be hanging out with a gay man lest he think I'm into him now that hormones make me look like a twink
>>8108659
too tired to decipher this, but i do sense sarcasm, mind to reiterate?
Can you imagine being so unlucky a parent that you gave birth to a child that wants to become transgender?
I think I'd vastly prefer even a gay kid to that. Really hope my kids are hetero, though.
>>8108375
>tfw no HSTS son
>>8108375
Can you imagine being a child and ending up transgender and on top of that having parents who hate you for it? That would suck even worse.
>give birth to a child
Can't