i hate to start yet ANOTHER trans thread, but i'm doing it anyway
spurred by >>8428776,
Are there any cismen or ciswomen, that have had sex with both men and transwomen, or women and transmen?
I'm curious, what are the differences between a cis pair of genitals, and HRT affected genitals?
for example, can a ciswoman tell me what it is like having sex with a cisman's dick, VS a transwoman's dick? or a ciswomans vagina VS a transman's vagina?
looking for cis opinions here, thanks
cis woman here who has been with a trans man who was non transitioning. There was just a lot of shame and hatred associated with that body part, it made intimacy next to impossible. It also makes you feel like a horrible creep/rapist if you want to have sex with them because you KNOW how much it bothers them. This is probably not the answer you are looking for though.
>>8428839
It's only a true feminine penis if a cis girl has a penis.
>>8428867
yeah, i mean that makes sense, thats a perfectly valid answer, albeit not quite what i was looking for.
so what did the two of you end up doing?
ok i have to ask - LGBT+ community, what are our thoughts on furries. Like many, I naturally feel repulsed and grossed out, but I worry that this what the generation before us (and many in our generation) felt about us. It seems obvious to me that LGBT+ are common sense, but involving other species related things in sexual situations seems wrong.
I would rather know my bf fucked a dog before me than a tranny if that helps :^)
Furries don't fuck animals, they take on persona's and fuck. Just another fetish. Try not to worry about it and let others be.
>>8428779
LGBTQFurries? When will it stop?
I came dangerously close to hooking up with a guy on Grindr but I backed out last second. I want to be cured of this addiction but the only thing that gets me hard is thinking of being a feminine slut for a man. Any advice how to stop?
>>8428684
An AGP can no more quit being an AGP than a gay man can quit being a gay man.
>>8428694
No, that'd just make things worse. The sheer idea of all those chems changing me would make me way too horny and I'd do something I'd regret
Don't torture yourself. Just accept it and enjoy sucking dick.
From years of trauma and abuse
>>8428643
Why? What kind of trauma? Hons are privileged as fuck if they transitioned late enough to live successful male lives.
>>8428662
There is a concept called yung hon
>>8428643
But OP, all trans men are doomed to hondom. You never age past 35 still looking like a woman.
What does it mean if I'm straight except for femboys?
Also apologies for mobilposting im out of the house right now.
>>8428593
After making this thread I realized that I shouldn't ask a qestion with a whole thread so this is now /qtddtot/, or questions that don't deserve their own thread
It means you're not straight.
>>8428666
Delet this satan
But seriously in this case how do I keep anybody from knowing that while still ramming boipussy. There is this guy I know and one time this girl made a joke about us being a couple (only time that's ever happened) and he got really flushed about it, problem is there is know way in hell I want anyone to know that I am not straight.
Wat do
HOW THE HELL DO YOU PEOPLE WORK UP THE COURAGE TO TALK TO A THERAPIST.
I've been looking online for therapists and I just can't bring myself to actually contact them. I just know for sure that if I ever actually had to talk to someone face to face about how I feel I would just break down and cry the entire time. How did you find your therapist? What was your first session like? How do you get over the fear of confiding in another person?
FUCKING SAME.
>I've been looking online for therapists and I just can't bring myself to actually contact them
i have my first appointment next tuesday, took me ~9 months to finally call one of them after getting a list full of names from an endocrinologist in august
i was feeling so good after calling half of the therapists and getting an appointment but now i'm afraid of the thing and it being so soon + me fucking up
>>8428431
One of the reasons to talk to a therapist is you can tell them whatever you want without fear of being judged. If you cry the whole time, that means you have pent up pain you need to release to someone.
I always felt strange. Whni was 7 i would wear my sister bras and shoes because it felt "good". I got caught once wearing her thigh high rainbow socks. My mother asked my father if "This was normal and there wasn't any problem with it". Nowadays i understand they were worried this would mean i was gay (no one knew about trans people). I got heavily bullied through my whole life, because i was too serious and introvert. I never showed interest in playing soccer or having a girlfriend, for example. The only thing i've spent my life with was videogames.
When i've hit puberty, i've started to wear my aunt slutty clothes and masturbate almost everyday. Still no interest in girls or boys, nor manly shit. I've also started to play with my butt, but i was scared of it and also kind of repressed as i've started to have ideas about how society works and what are gay people. I got circumcised cus phimosis.
When i've discovered 4chan, i was already a mess:
>At 16 i've discovered anime, 4chan, and all the dank memes. I was in a depression state after changing schools twice. My first kiss happened with a girl. Kissing feels good but i was disgusted by the idea of fucking a pussy.
>At 17 I stopped thinking about me being trans for a whole year. "had sex" with a girl (didn't feel pleasure and couldn't cum). Started to drink alcohol, smoke cigars (almost did weed but i'm a pussy). Depression was gone i guess.
>At 18 i came back here, as the feels didn't go away. Body dysphoria got worse. Every single body hair, every time i look at the mirror and see my caveman deep eyes. I hate this. I'm ready to pull the trigger when i lose all hope.
But still... I don't want to be treated dumb and have people explain everything in details for me. I don't hate my dick. I just feel that it is useless. I don't get pleasure from it besides masturbation.
What should i do?
>>8428255
I've made some research during all these years about the effects of hrt.
I would LOVE a better skin, decreased body hair growth (even if it stays the same density, it would be good to shave less often), feminine fat distribution and even stopping the male pattern baldness (i have extreme anxiety and stress so it will happen someday like with my father).
I'm not sure about breasts. It'll suck to hide them as i live in tropical country. But i see no downsides besides what people would think and say. I already have a bit of gynecomasty.
About erectile dysfunction (and sterility), i don't really care. I don't need to use this thing and i 100% don't want kids.
That said, i think that the only downside of hrt would be Hepatotoxicity and related things. Well, if i'd end up on hrt, i'm going to stop drinking. But if i don't, i'll just drink more. I'll fuck my liver in any situation because i don't really care about dying.
ya ur a normal tgirl with agp, enjoy your mones
your fetishistic sexuality will probably die down a lot so be ready for that. anal and masturbating still feels good tho
>>8428526
>enjoy your mones
What about alternatives to transition?
What SRS surgeons are best at salvaging mutilated penises? Murrican surgeons? Or should I start hiring hit men on the trannies scheduled before suporn retires so I can take their spot?
>>8428040
>>8428040>>8428595
I have no idea but I feel bad for your thread :(
>>8428040
american surgeons
thai and european surgeons don't really know what to do there
i have to keep telling people this when they're upset that suporn retired but they wouldn't even be good candidates for him due to mutilation
just don't go to bowers, even the general plastic surgeons who do occasional srs are better
Do passing trannies tend to be more narcissistic and smug than non passers? Why is this? Those who pass, do you look down on non passers or see yourself as superior?
this is a stupid question
it's obviously because they feel superior to non passing ones
>>8427949
t. non-passing tranny
>>8428059
Not a tranny. Someone in another thread accused passers of being narcissistic and smug, so I made a thread about it.
Twinkhons are the ideal male aesthetic.
How can we convince them to accept this role instead of pretending to be women?
>>8427688
This is pathetic. All fem twinks are trannies.
i'm starting at 24 and pretty much aiming for butch cuteish twinkhon
>>8427725
It's an easier aesthetic than trying to go full femme when you're lacking hips and have larger shoulders than most that's for sure. Just invest in slim-fit androgynous clothes and work on killing your male-tells.
I hate watching spiteful people lash out and hurt the people I like.
It's just sad.
Just because you don't pass, doesn't mean you should take it out on someone who dropped tens of thousands of dollars just to pass.
You all are shitty people.
>>8427671
What happened? While I see a lot of negativity here, are there examples of non passers lashing out at passers? It's usually the other way around, isn't it? Or maybe I'm just clueless. Just seems to me like half of it is cara trolling and insulting nonpassers and the rest of it various shitposts.
>>8427671
Who are you talking about OP?
>>8427671
Just because you pass, doesn't give you any right to be a smug asshole to nonpassers either.
I (gay) am afraid to have sex with people I know personally because im worried they will look at me differently because of it.
I feel like people will find it difficult to fully respect me if they've seen me squirm with their cock in my ass.
Is this irrational? How do i get over this feeling?
>>8427622
>>8427622
Don't practice anal sex.
>>8427649
id agree with that during sex
but afterwards not so much
>you dream you are a cis girl
>wake up
>>8427434
if u dream as a tranny u are an AGP
You can only call yourself /polgbt/ if you've seen CT
https://youtu.be/HaoNDdjiy6c?list=PLxO5FGiscy6mPDMlUUgDLPjlv7lTZ2IsO
>>8427434
Oh god that feel is too hard
How do you deal with genital dysphoria?
Is there anyway to shrink those parts or keep it from getting hard?
yea, hrt dummy
>>8427311
Realizing that your feelings are self-harmful and learning to love yourself?
>>8427335
I try to get past it and frequently do but if things like tucking help I don't see why there wouldn't be other things that can help. Sure letting go helps but tucking also helps, things like erections make letting it go harder
leftycuck stirnerposting edition
Anyone who transitioned 15 and under allowed. No hons.
>>8427256
>Anyone who transitioned 15 and under
t. Noelle
>>8427256
Reporting in.
>>8427616
When did you start HRT?