I was drunk tonight and I told my stepmom I want to be a girl and made her promise to tell my mother and my sister.
>>8448528
You did good
>>8448534
I'm screwed tho. When I wake up I'm sure I'll be filled with regret
>>8448542
At least you came out anon I can't even do that
I find a lot of trans women are okay with being clocked in social settings, as long as the other person understands that they're a trans woman and not a cis man, "sees them as a real woman", and doesn't misgender them. Maybe I'm just too cynical or pessimistic, but I don't think anyone can ever actually "see you as a real woman", at least not in the same way they see cis women, after they've clocked you. If a person were to clock me as trans, I would have the exact same reaction as if someone misgendered me. Good intentions don't really change the fact that I failed to pass, and I'm seen as something different from a cis woman. I wouldn't be able to be friends with that person anymore, and that would make me pretty sad. I would honestly feel better if someone misgendered me, I reacted negatively, and then they were like "oh no, I thought you were FtM!" because then at least I passed for AFAB. The only other trans person I've met who feels the same way is Trent, others seem fine with being seen as trans and not cis, which is really weird to me.
Is this fucked up of me, or is this just a consequence of how trans politics have progressed in the past five or so years? I remember when not many people really knew what trans was about, and they hadn't really formed a category in their mind of "trans women" as opposed to cis women. If your transition succeeded, great, you were a woman. Now, with the heightened visibility of trans people in the media, you can't go a day without hearing about them on NPR, and everyone seems to know at least one trans person who reinforces the new set of stereotypes. That's part of the reason I gave up video games and other non-normie things in favor of drinking. It's also the reason I stopped wearing glasses even though I need them, a lot of the trans women I know wear glasses.
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The problem is, it doesn't seem like any trans activists are actually cognizant of this, or see it as something wrong. To them, being trans is something to be proud of, so it doesn't matter if people see them as trans instead of cis. But for me, it runs completely counter to my original goals for myself, and the reason I transitioned. So with trans discourse having shifted so much, I've started identifying more and more as something different from trans.
I think that after I go stealth, I'll probably think of myself as cis and refer to myself as cis if it ever comes up, which it hopefully won't. Because I realize how fucked up that is. But in a way, isn't that what stealth was originally supposed to be about? Having everyone else think that you're a cis woman? The only thing that's changed is that cis people are more aware of trans people's existence now, so we kind of need to adapt, and start accepting that to be true stealth, we're going to need to lie in certain situations.
One problem with this is that I won't be able to enter relationships, because they would find out eventually, and then I'd have to cut someone I love out of my life. But maybe I'm okay with that? Maybe relationships aren't that important? I'm honestly not sure right now.
I am cis, but you obviously aren't a cis woman? You can't be something you aren't. Seems like you are going to hurt yourself if you think that way too much.
I know a visibly trans woman, I always try to be respectful of her and use "she" pronouns and be friendly to her.
If you want to pass as cis maybe get a fake pregnancy belly and wear that.
Being trans cis is like being trans race or trans species. You might want to be cis but you can't just stick "trans" in front of anything you want to be. A trans woman might be a woman, depending on how you define woman, but a trans cis is not a cis.
https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/group/msm/bmsm.html
>40 percent of gay blacks will get aids
HAHAHAHAHAHA WHY ISN'T THIS A BIGGER ISSUE? WHY ARE WE ALLOWING THIS AS GAY MEN IN OUR COMMUNITY?
Better them then me
>>8448120
>40 percent of gay blacks will get aids
>blacks
Don't make gay guys should the nigger burden.
>>8448120
Gay groups actually do acknowledge the black community is the largest contributor to the HIV issue and have community-targeted campaigns to raise awareness.
Black dudes just won't fucking wrap it up, and more importantly they won't get tested. This is a problem across the entire black community. Uneducated black folks just refuse to go to free clinics to get STD tests like their white counterparts do.
It's a huge problem that nobody except for actual HIV organizations will discuss. Idk if it's just that the SJWs don't notice, or if it's that they fear talking about it is racist, but it really does need it be discussed publicly and frequently.
Why? Just tell me why THE FUCK?
Look at her, you can still see her masculine features yet she looks better than 100% of all MtF and even better than most born women.
Then there's me, i just can't pass at all.
>>8447812
Looks like a woman to men fampai.
>inb4 but the chin is not korean pop singer ayy lmao enough!
Go outside and look at the first 10 white women and come back here.
I'm not even into trannies here, or a tranny to begin with, but you guys need to stop with this whining.
>>8447825
No, i'ts a MtF look at her, that's totally male features but she still looks perfect, why the fuck is it so unfair?
Literally Chad got bored of being a male and went trap and she pulled it off perfectly...
>>8447812
This looks like a cis woman to me, judging from the hands and elbows, and lack of apparent brow bossing. She also knows how to do her eyebrows, pose for a selfie, and has little decorations on her phone, which wouldn't come naturally to most trans women.
big strong tall bf edition
• Makeup tutorials : http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels:http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels:http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Size charts:http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines:http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training:https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
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>>8447793
I want a big tall bf... I have a coworker in mind lol
>>8447793
I will never have a big tall bf, I'm a tall girl 177cm :(
>not being super duper gay
>wanting a bf
Im kinda insecure about myself finding someone. Ive been told by girls im very attractive, im 6'2 154lb, 18years.
Though ive been told twinky guys are at the lowest of the totem pole for gays? Are twinky guys desirable or not?
>>8447723
they're the most desirable bottoms, least desirable tops.
>>8447723
heterosexual pedophiles will occasionally use twinks as a substitute hole.
gays usually want a man, not a boy.
>>8447783
well im tall and have broad shoulders, just like, no body hair at all. is that a bad thing?
>A popular women-only spa is at the centre of a social media maelstrom after a transgender woman said she was not allowed to enter because of a policy forbidding male genitalia.
Should people without penises be forced to share space with people with penises at their own discomfort and detriment?
I'm especially interested in the opinions of cis lesbians and transbians.
>>8447709
If she passed, this wouldn't have happened. Sounds like it was the trans woman's fault.
>>8447709
she was walking around in the showers with her penis semi-erect.
she deserves to be banned.
that is just creepy.
I am a cis bisexual woman and I would not want a random woman walking around with a dick in the spa. Trans women are not the same as normal women and they need to get over that.
What's the proper dating etiquette about being trans on dating/hookup sites?
Should I just be waiting to be messaged by people who are into that, or can I just message people first and hope they're okay with it?
1) Choose male or female whichever suits you best depending on your passability
2) Put the fact you're trans in your profile
3) When you get messaged, bring up the fact you're trans at the very start
4) When you message someone, bring up the fact you're trans at the very start
>>8447438
Just put whatever gender you feel. You shouldn't have to disclose being trans, genitals have absolutely nothing to do with sex
>>8447476
>Genitals have absolutely nothing to do with sex
This is a good way to get killed.
hey trannies, how does it feel knowing that varg had a more feminine face than you'll ever have?
>>8447092
Varg was legit one of the most beautiful men ever when he was young
so hes a low t failed male then
>>8447092
I feel like that's unfortunate for both of us
Why are people pro-LGBT yet want millions of refugees to come from countries where being gay is a death sentence.
>>8447031
I doubt the refugees decide who gets the death sentence in their shitty countries
i dont, doesnt mean im rightwing though
>>8447047
Yet when 60%-90% approve of the death sentence.
Hey /lgbt/...wanna eat my shorts?
That man face
Those man hands
No pass
cute small jaw likepookie
>>8446770
This is my fetish!
are young black men less likely to be gay? how do I let them know it's OK to feel love for other homos?
We don't, let them loot our televisions and kill us by the tens.
>>8446502
No, but their "community" is harsher on em, online resources, which are what most people seem to be using to realize their fetishes, are gender neutral so they already know, they are just in the "closet" and downlow because it is simply more practical when you risk getting brutally beaten and/or killed because you ain't living in a LibBubble.
>>8446502
There's a culture of gay sex among black men called "being on the down low". These guys are considered straight. I doubt that the percentage of actual gay men among blacks is any different than among other groups. I've run into a helluva lot of gay black men.
How is this boy so perfect?
I've been acting aggressively straight my whole life, and I'm about to go to college in the fall. I really wanna fuck my gay best friend before I leave. How do I drop an aggressive request like that and not have it literally be "I want some peen"
>>8445871
Invite him over to your house to "hang out"
Then ply him with drugs and alcohol until he is putty in your hands.
Playing truth or dare and showing him your hard dick will help things along.
>>8445871
Just pull your dick out, and say, wanna gay it up together.... it's an industry standard way to get some dick
My dick is small though
just thought i'd let you bitter shims know lol
>aufrufe
>>8445664
Interesting, I wonder if she'll train her voice as well. Maybe she'll actually pass, at which point the right will have won.
again?