I (gay) am afraid to have sex with people I know personally because im worried they will look at me differently because of it.
I feel like people will find it difficult to fully respect me if they've seen me squirm with their cock in my ass.
Is this irrational? How do i get over this feeling?
>>8427622
>>8427622
Don't practice anal sex.
>>8427649
id agree with that during sex
but afterwards not so much
>>8427677
If someone can't separate your personality during sex from it outside of sex then you have a way different problem. If there wasn't a natural separation just think of how bdsm people would look walking out to get groceries
>>8427778
>If there wasn't a natural separation just think of how bdsm people would look walking out to get groceries
I am a bdsm person and everyone gives me weird looks every time I go grocery shopping
The cashiers act like jittery cats, like I might kill them any moment
I wear normal clothes, have no tattoos, no piercings
Can they just sense my aura of sadism?
>>8427823
Well people tend to have a sense of who they should and shouldn't be around which is how we survived our tribal phase. There's a chance they just can pick up on your inclination to cause pain. Or you are just lacking in self awareness and actually give off a lot of hints.
>>8427622
This is the kind of shit I am talking about this gay and faggots shut you all slobber around on here you better watch your back in the streets allahuakbar
>>8427945
>t. 17 year old american kid