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Thread for tips/advice for Misc. /lgbt/ issues that don't deserve its own thread

Sorry if this isn't ok, I'm a newfag to /lgbt/ and didn't see a board up that I could post this in. So I made one that I hope others can put their issues in as well


> Be female
> Always was a tomboy growing up
> Be a year ago
> Just finished building myself back up from years of self-image and self-esteem issues
> discover I like sweaters and pastel unicorn garbage
> still feel like I'm incomplete tho
> Want short hair
> Start feeling what I can only describe as "penis envy"
> Shake it off as more self-esteem issues
> Still feel like I'm cute, and like my face, but like my body doesn't match
> Feelings go on and off for a year
> Be me now.
> See attractive male and say "God I wish I looked like that"
> Process what I've just said
> Start getting really confused

I know a lot of people now a days misconstrue feelings as being transgender and it creates "trans trenders"
I don't have any trans friends and really need someone to talk to process if what I'm feeling is a weird phase or the buddings of gender dysphoria
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>>8409486
When you're just letting your imagination wander to random scenarios do you imagine yourself as a guy or as a girl? Like if you daydream about random stuff I guess is what I'm trying to ask.
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>>8409486
Do you have crippling physical dysphoria? Do you spend all day wishing you had a dick? Do you want to saw off your breasts? Do you feel like a man trapped in a girl's body?
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>>8409494
Usually its a girl. However lately I've been daydreaming about my ocs. I put myself in the shoes of a short boy one and think about being him talking to his friends. I've realized he's sort of an ideal of what I want to be?

>>8409507
Dick yes. Boobs not usually. I used to spend a lot of time hating myself and my body and kind of learned to accept the face I've been given. However with my boobs I'll go from days where I'm shaking because I have boobs and there's no way to get rid of them, then other days I'll just play with them and be happy I have a soft squishy play thing.

Yeah, I know it makes no sense. That's why I'm confused. I told myself I wasn't trans because "no severe dysphoria", but then I'll start feeling awful that I don't have a penis.

So who else is glad they never 'Came Out' now that society is headed back towards hating us on the whole? I sure am. I only worry that if the government ever decided that homos were degenerates there's not much any of us can do to hide it what with metadata analysis and big brother breathing down our necks.
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You should be thankful not to be associated with ugly fucking fags like in your pic, OP
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>>8408237
>society is headed back towards hating us on the whole?
I'm laughing for real right now
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>not keeping a hitlist of everyone you came out to so you know who to kill if your sexuality ever leaks out
Even better if you register those who might know or suspect as well.
Better safe than sorry.

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Hey everyone >>>/hm/ told me to come here! Recently got myself a boyfriend! He loves anal play but unfortunately he is pretty damn tight. He can barely stand a single finger inserted longer than a few minutes. He tries to relax but has a difficult time of it. I thought a good idea might be to get a vibrating sex toy that could help him loosen up. Being a top I don't really have much personal knowledge about penetrative sex toys out there or even if vibrating toys would be a good solution. So I have a two fold question: What would be the best toy to help relax my boyfriend's hole? And what are some general tips for getting him to relax down there?
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>>8408235
So I don't know about a lot of toys but I have a couple tips for loosening up! First of all, tease. Don't just force your way in there and expect the best. Use lots of lube, make sure he is already aroused, and go slow. After that you have to continually do it. Think of his butt like a muscle. If you work it out the hole gets a little bigger over time, if you do nothing it will shrink. So you literally have to slowly train his hole to stay open. Use butt plugs and make sure stuff is in his butt often. Slowly work your way up! Good luck!
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>>8408677
Yeah I definitely tease a whole lot. I spent like 2 hours the other day just teasing him and when I finally actually could get a finger in there I couldn't keep it in longer than 10 minutes before he wanted it out. I've no idea how I'd get a plug in him if he can barely stand a single finger.
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I also have trouble relaxing down there. I can only be fucked if I'm riding my bofriend. But the moment we do it bent over then it goes too deep and it feels extremely overwhelming.

I'm a tiny guy I'm only 5'3 so I have a little hole. But his dick is a little above average. I don't know what to do, I think he's getting a little frustrated with it.

Are gay men capable of raising a child without fucking them up mentally/physically?
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>>8408211
Yes
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>>8408211
Gay men raising children is somewhat of a new thing, studies show that it's okay, but in the long run we don't really know, but I'd say yes, they are, I'm gay and I'd like to have a daughter some day
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>>8408211
Sure. I think I'd rather raise a daughter if I was gay though because even though supposedly you develop a strong biological incest taboo it's secretly a giant fear that my son would turn into a qt twink and I'd have a sex dream about him.

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>mom won't stop calling me faketrans scum
>finally snap and tell send her a million paragraph long essay explaing how she's a complete cunt
>hasn't replied
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>post on 4chan
>no replies
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>>8407981
Fine, I'll reply.

Why does she think you are faketrans?
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>>8407919

Did she call you a fetishist and say that if you were trans, you would have been feminine as a child?

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How do I get a bottom bf who looks like this?
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>>8407905
He has a lot of belly fat. Is that healthy even on such a manly muscly person?
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>>8407946
I don't see any fat
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>>8408122
Right on his belly. Obviously he's got a lot of visible muscle on his arms and chest but carrying weight on your belly is the most dangerous to your health.

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Round edition

Past thread: >>8377597

Transition timelines:
http://helpfultransinfo.tumblr.com/tagged/tc

Bottom surgery info:
http://gendercube.tumblr.com/

Passing guide for AAPs:
http://ftmguide.rassaku.net/

Old sites, but still great one-stop-shops for FTM information:
http://ftmguide.org/
http://thetransitionalmale.com
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>>8406591
Who here AAP? (or AGP?)
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>>8406641
I might be, I dont know or care desu
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>>8406641
I don't get why /tttt/ cares about this so much it just seems like a pissing contest

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So I'm a drunk bisexual guy who's just gotten out of a very long relationship with a girl and I'm ready to get my slut on and start blowing dudes! Assuming I wanted to avoid any stds what precautions I gotta take (mouth and butt)
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>>8406331
Condoms you dumb fuck.
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>>8406331
Condoms, dental pads, lube, special showerhead, soap, water.

Or magical anti-AIDS pills
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Specifically for blowing dudes? Because that's probably gonna be 90% of my past time cause I'm fine with condoms with a dick in my butt, but if I'm sucking someone down the hell is a dental pad is it a pre, during or post precaution? Or is a condom required even for blowOmg someone?

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So can u be agp and trans or not
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>>8405611
Short answer is yes.

General thought is that trans repression causes AGP but we really don't know for sure.
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>>8405611
amon this is a blue board.......
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>>8405611

Yes.

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Why are straight guys always the most handsome and yet they line up to get tossed aside by straight girls wtf?
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>>8404991
>Why are straight guys always the most handsome

clearly you havent met me
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>>8404991

Why Is this generation so fucking ugly?
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>>8406273
It's not that they are ugly, it's just that they have really bad tastes.

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>be gay
>just want to be normal
>everybody always pushing it in peoples faces
>even runescape is having a gay pride event

why do they do this

why cant they just let us be gay in peace
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>>8404447
Straight guy here. I don't think about gay people ever and I don't think they're great or special for being gay. I hate the events. I can be friends with a gay guy if hes just chill. Why do gays get so faggy and uppity? Cant they just be normal?
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>>8404459
>Why do gays get so faggy and uppity
they don't though. those ones are like the gay equivalent of niggers
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>>8404447
>im different i swear the post

kys

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What are your experiences with the LGBT tumblr community? Is it as bad as everyone says it is?

I know this website is mostly made up of dumb teenagers but surely they can't be that bad
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It's a community of insecure, malleable snowflakes who reinforce one another's worst qualities.

Of course it's terrible.

The exception is the porn 'community'
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>>8403740
>insecure, malleable snowflakes
aka outcast teenagers. They don't fit in irl but can feel a warm sense of community and acceptance online as long as they're willing to change nothing about themselves but put she/they in their bio.
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>>8403752
oh and get lots of loving attention if they post a selfie tagged genderfluid on tdov
and they don't like it when you try to take this away from them

ITT Post dysphoria inducing pictures
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Pregnancy may be my fetish but

>actually wanting a fucking baby in you for all seriousness
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>>8403712
I really really wish I could get pregnant and have a baby
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>>8403721
>mourning sickness
>mood swings
>hunger cravings
>having to watch every last thing you eat
>only to push a giant fucking baby out of your body in something that can be lethal if you're very unlucky
>all for something you have to feed, clothe, and clean the shit off of for eighteen years straight and probably more than that considering this day and age

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Hi

I think I'm bi,cuz I like girls and (really) feminine boys.But they're a few things bothering me.

First of all,I got muslim parents.They basically consider LGBT as scum.I don't think they'll react happily to my (eventual) double coming out : Bi and Atheist.

Second of all,I feel really uncomfortable with events such as gay pride,or LGBT events.I'm not ashamed of being gay,but I'm not proud of ot either,as I consider that sexuality should stay a private thing that you keep for yourself.So whenever LGBT events/discussions happen nearby,I feel like I'm the only one thinking that way

So my family is going to hate me,people at highschool already look at me in a weird way,and even the LGBT people I know don't appreciate me because of my stance on their so-called community.

What should I do with my life?
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>>8403542
> I think I'm bi,cuz I like girls and (really) feminine boys.
A G P
G
P

(Go take tranny pills)
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>>8403555
Just checked up what AGP was.

I'm not really interested in transsexualism and fail to see the point desu.
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>>8403542
Honestly maybe explore your feelings towards the lgbt community and your distaste at pride events and being open about your sexuality. I wouldn't call yourself homophobic but this has probably stemmed from the normalised homophobia in your upbringing.

It makes sense to not feel proud about your sexuality because it's just something you were born with and nothing you've achieved but pride events come from people needing to fight against the stance that has been normalised for centuries that being gay is wrong and shameful. When being gay becomes more accepted I imagine it will die down but for now people sometimes still need to be reminded that they are okay and saying "hey you shouldn't be proud of who you are because you didn't earn it but don't feel bad about it either" is less catchy and enticing than "hey don't be ashamed be proud of who you are". You don't even have to be okay with the actual events (I find them too sleazy and uncomfortable myself) but be okay with the idea behind it.
And think about it this way straight people may not have pride but they are definitely very open about their sexuality, our media is drenched with it and nobody would call a guy out for talking about his girlfriend in public or the chick he bagged last night.

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So, I was on Facebook and I saw this post. Because I would get kicked out of the group that I am in for noticing this and talking about it, what is /lbgt/'s opinion?
Is it "super inclusive" to have a "XXXX-only" event?
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>>8403483
You're absolutely right. The fact you'd get kicked from the group for saying so and that you know it ahead of time also show how controlling this subculture is. Words have no meaning to them. It's Democratic People's Republics all over again, but this time cultural more than political.
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This is why I deleted my facebook account 10 years ago. I honestly can't keep my mouth shut.
Last straw was when some dumb bicycle faggot got hit by a car (and lived, just scuffed up and his bike trashed) after running through a red light like the fucking cunts ALWAYS DO... and yeah, I expressed zero sympathy and suggested he might not have that problem anymore if he followed the traffic laws... and then my friend who posted the shit, who was actually far more of an opinionated jackass than me in real life, deleted my comments. I realized that too many fuckers like to put up value-signalling fronts online and weren't being themselves and I just fucking cant handle it. I can't play along with fucking retards who literally ride their bikes out in front of fucking cars and then want to start some fucktarded protest against people in cars not slamming on their brakes fast enough for their fucking fuck fuck shit fucking bitch faggot fuck.. nope.

10 years later.. still pissed off...
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>>8403529
It is really sad that I think you are right. However, you say that it is more cultural than political, as I see it, the culture creates the politics. It is the same as all those pride Parades where cops (LGBT cops) are not allowed to march in uniform.
I understand that some minorities feel threatened by the cops, and rightfully so in some cases. But the whole point of them marching in uniform is to lessen the fear of cops and humanize them, to make underprivileged people less wary of them so that a conductive discussion can happen between these groups.

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