Help me out guys. We're all lads of 18 to 20 and they've all lost their virginity and done things with girls except for me. I wouldn't say I'm ugly and am pretty average imo along with them but I just never really cared about the whole virginity or girlfriend thing. It was always like whatever but in the past few months the topic of discussion is always pretty much how I'm a virgin and it sounds pathetic but the fuckers can get really harsh.
I'm honestly getting desperate desu and feel lost, I don't usually make effort to go out clubbing and shit because it's just not my thing and the whole night becomes basically them pressuring me to 'pull'
Do I just go desperate and lose my virginity to some 2/10 or just ignore them and live my life like I've done before just going with the flow.
pic related me
>>16623810
Thats a dumb fucking pose
You shouldnt care. You'll end up beeing unhappy and depressed about how you couldnt get a cuter girl/girlfriend to have sex with you to loose your virginity and then youll just get teasee for that. They'll find something else to pick on about you
>>16623847
Problem is I'm already feeling really really depressed whenever we go out and I get ganged on by all of them about it. I hide that it makes me depressed and laugh it off, I always put on a fake smile and laugh but it's tearing me inside.
And yea pose is garbage lol
>>16623810
Maybe not a 2/10. but a 4/10 yes. Your first girl doesn't have to be "the one". Just have some fun with the best looking girl you can get. If that girl is 4/10 then yeah fuck her. You will build confidence and gain experience. You can get better girls later.
Hey, is there anyway to completely forgot a person and should I try too?
Not really, but there are ways to prepare your brain for when those thoughts arise (mindfulness meditation, yoga, shit like that). Also, work on creating newer, more vivid memories
>>16623855
Alright, cheers anon.
>>16623805
Falling in love
Since college started a year and a half ago, I haven't really made any friends. There are people I talk to somewhat regularly, but only on a really shallow level. I usually don't go out on weekends.
I'm somewhat smart, attractive, athletic, decently dressed, cultured, and I have a lot of hobbies, but I can't seem to connect with anyone. I can only assume that this is because my interests are so unusual and that my life-philosophy is pretty bizarre. Additionally, all my hobbies are solo for the most part.
It's getting to the point where I'm forgetting what it's like to have friends. Even if I did have really intimate friends, I don't even know what I would talk to them about.
Has anyone been in this situation before, I would love some advice.
>>16623791
You just described myself to a T during my first 3 years of college.
I became withdrawn and spent a lot of time alone.
Don't do that. College is a place where you are supposed to have fun. Force yourself to cut loose; do shit you don't want to do, and do it frequently. Cut down on all habits that are solo. Try to find as much time as you can outside.
Finally and most importantly, join the campus gym and get swole. Find bros to get swole with.
The last semester of my senior year I finally truly went wilin. Ended up going to like 5 parties, got laid a decent bit, had an amazing time, made some friends. Don't wait as long as I did.
What's the best way to show my compassionship for a girl that has an idea that I like her without coming off as corny or weird?
>>16623790
"Hey, I think it's obviously, that I like you. You wanns go out this friday?"
Worked for me a few times...
I can't stand my mother. I have no idea why.
>get annoyed pretty much the moment she talks
>always snapping at her or be attitude-y, hurting her feelings a lot
She is a ridiculous woman and has the mental maturity of a 10-year-old, but I'm the only person she has in her very miserable life. How do I be more patient?
I'm the same way. Lurking for advice.
I have a similar relationship with my mother op. the only difference may be that mine will purposely annoy me when she's bored.
In my years of experience I can tell you this, just don't give a damn. Think about how you want to spend your day before you blow up in her face. Do you want to have a chill day and not bicker about anything? Or would you rather spend the day with both of you being miserable?
It's a matter of choosing your battles.
>>16623756
>How do I be more patient?
By getting older than thirteen...
Seriously. I can't stand my mother either, but she's still family! So suck it up and treat her with the minimal amount of respect she deserves.
Me and my roommate have had a very long, on again off again attraction since we've known each other (about 12 years). We've never dated but we have fooled around a few times. We just never really synced up when we were really into the other.
She's in a very stable relationship now and I'm happy for her, but I've fallen pretty hard again. I don't really know how to handle this.
>>16623707
Easy, find yourself a girlfriend.
>>16623735
How do I set my mind to something?
I'm hyperstimulated by games and 4chan so unless I'm basically forced to do something(like work or go to uni) I never get my goals done, can anyone help me get in an action oriented mindset?
I'm tired of being the human embodiment of a slug.
medicate
>>16623688
Too poor.
>>16623682
>so unless I'm basically forced to do something(like work or go to uni) I never get my goals done
Easy- force yourself into doing something. No 4chan until you hit X waypoint. No dinner until you read 5 pages. No games until you have completed that section on code. Ect.
Also, if you feel like doing something, just do it. Don't do ANYTHING else first as you'll get distracted.
Against all better judgement my uncle gave my sister a puppy as a birthday present.
This happened because these past few months my mom and her were pretty hype about getting a dog after they spent a weekend taking care of said uncle's dogs, but now that there's one they seem to be bored with it already. All my sister is doing is taking pictures of it and texting people saying she has a dog now, and my mom isn't even near it. So naturally the responsability falls on to me. What the fuck do I do with it? I don't even like dogs. This is seriously the first dog I ever even touched. I don't know what to do with it. It just keeps trying to chew on everything and running around. Oh and it already pooped on a rug inside the house.
And of course since this was surprise gift we don't even have anything to give it to play it or sleep in. Can anyone give me a list of things we might need to buy?
I don't know the breed but I think it's a sausage dog if it matters
>>16623669
You literally leave it alone. It's not your dog. It was given to your sister.
If it dies, it's not your problem. It's her dog, not yours.
You keep taking care of it, it will become your responsibility whether you wanted it or not, and she gets the enjoyment of "owning" the dog.
Don't get attached to the dog, because when shit happens, she'll just say how UNCLE GAVE MEE THE DOG, NOT YOU, ITS MY DOG regardless of how much you took care of it because, obviously, they were never there to see the effort you put into it.
You can't give it away, you can't do anything bad to it because then you'll be blamed for hurting their dog, so don't bother. Just ignore the dog. If the dog shits on the rug, you let everyone in the household know "(sister's name)'s dog crapped on the rug, she should clean it up" or "(sister's name)'s dog seems like it's hungry, she should probably feed it."
You make it your problem, your going to regret it. Trust me.
>>16623669
Also, I should mention that since your sister and mom have no problems to toilet train the dog, be ready for lots of yelling about the dog shitting in the house and be ready to FIRMLY tell them "This is not my dog. You clean it up. You already know I don't like dogs. If you don't want to take care of it, give it back to Uncle retard" and you absolve yourself of the matter.
>>16623705
>If it dies, it's not your problem
Yes it is
Poor thing has no fault it was given to a retard
And besides it was my problem the second it set foot in here
My mom obviously is expecting me to take care of it. Heck I'm expected to take care of my sister even.
ive been dating this girl for about two weeks. we broke up ,but she flirts with me how do i get her back.
There's no golden key to the heart of a 14 year old
don't be a dumbass
if she wanted to be in a relationship with you then she'd be in a relationship with you
>>16623671
should i move on
What do you do when you can't stand all your past friends, barely get along with your siblings, and are prone to extreme anxiety attacks? I can barely deal with my day to day problems, and my mom is very sick and I'm trying to help take care of her. I just feel exhausted and overwhelmed. Even after taking large breaks relaxing
>>16623652
Maybe you should try drinking heavily until you're so drunk you pass out and then choke to death on your vomit?
>>16623652
I'm on the verge of starting to fuck prostitutes, and eating strip club lunch, it is the only lifestyle I can see myself enjoying
Hollow physical pleasures with no prospect of social failure
>>16623663
Holy shit are you me? If I had more money I'd go to the strip club every week
what's the best method to have one night stands?
assume average looks and social skills
is it bars ? clubs ? tinder ? "dating" website?
I need your opinion on this
grindr
>>16623619
bath houses
There is a girl(my ex) I dated 3 years ago. I broke up with her because it wasn't working. We had different goals and we were starting to fight a lot. She's the only one I've known who's made me feel certain feelings. It's hard to explain but I'm sure a lot of you know what I'm talking about. It's like when she says something hurtful to me, it actually hurts.
I'm dating a girl right now. I like her a lot. We have a lot in common. We click real well. However, when she does something that should hurt me, it doesn't bother me. I just find a solution to the problem, or refuse to change my stance and it always works out for the better. I think she's someone I could see myself marrying.
I ran into my ex today. We got some coffee to catch up. We talked and the whole time I felt physically inside me turning. People call this butterflies, right? She said some subtle things like "wish we could've ended on better terms" and I felt something in my stomach. I felt guilt or something I'm not sure. I'd prefer to feel this way towards my current partner. I'd like to feel things like this. Is there an explainable reason for this? I'm confused.
I know that feel bro. Thats a bad feel bro.
>>16623609
You sort of miss her and have leftover feelings, possibly regrets. You also had an emotional connection by sharing the common regret. You have a lot in common with your current girl, but not as much common ground. Give it time with the new girl (at least a year) and let the past go with the old girl. You broke up for a reason.
>>16623609
Fuuuuck this feel in particular.
I know what you mean entirely. So far, there is no known cure. You just got to keep moving on.
I just fucked a hooker without condom and emptied my balls. Now my GF is horny as fuck but I just cannot get it erect. What are your tricks to get it hard again, /adv/?
hax.
>>16623596
1/10. Please apply yourself harder if you want to troll.
Okay guess I fucked it up.
things just petered out before they got off the ground.
How to get over a crush?
Bonus questions:
what is worse?
telling her that I had some feelings to get it out of the way?
or
acting like nothing happened to shield my ego ?
for fuck sake, how old are you? If you need this type of advice go read some cosmopolitan or shit like that. It doesn't matter how you react, you can probably say you love her with your dick out and laugh about it in 7 years. She was just a crush, not even a normal reciprocal relationship, don't polute the catalogue with shit posts like this.
>>16623977
not him/her but fuck you, this is 4chan. He's hurt and looking for advice/someone to talk to. I can make a post about whether I should finger my ass hole or not, it's fucking 4chan. wtf
>>16624032
maybe as a programmer my views are bad, but when I have a problem the first thing I do is Google it and usually find all the needed answers. If you Google how to get over your crush you'll find millions of good articles, much better than 4chan advices. If I don't find a good answer I write a question personally. maybe it's just my opinion about how stuff should work, whatever
Am I smoking these luckies the right way?
>>16623563
>Smoking
Ha. Fag. Enjoy your lung cancer you dense mother fucker.
>>16623584
Seconding this
>>16623563
>Niggerlipping it this badly
No, no you aren't.