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>>16624454

go do it anyways? just go to places like bars and clubs and make your move. in my experience its always easier to get laid if you make an initial contact then treat it like its no big deal.

they wont call you back the next day when they realized that they threw themselves at you, but they'll ride you hard that night.

>>16624459
Sounds about right, guess I just gotta try. But what I'm asking is, what do I say? Do I just walk up to a girl and whisper "You tryna smash?" like what words do I use to imply that I want sex without looking like a thirsty pervert? Or maybe because I'm so nervous about this that I'm just not the right type of person to do it.

>>16624486

most women and men dont actually like directness when it comes to sex. girls already know you want to bang them. they do get explicit requests all day. what makes you think they'd choose you over the other men who go up and say 'wanna smash'?

theres a reason pick up artists are artists and not scientists. no trick will work on all women, or even most women, or even a lot of women. they are people, and like guys thousands of different things tick them off or turn them on. when you go out you will see what works and what doesnt.

in my experience a great way is to throw yourself into their mix, make it obvious you are flirting, then lay off. let the night be the night. dont try to get laid.

this is what happened to me last weekend

>christmas eve
>not visiting senpai
>go to the bar
>not much going on
>two chicks
>one hot, one meh
>go over and weasel in 'hey, i came here alone but you two look like you're having fun tonight so i thought id come over.'
>the hot one literally shakes her head 'no' looking down, clearly frustrated
>fuck it and stay start doing the regular game '20 questions or less'.
>we talk jobs, family, holiday, etc.
>i give extra attention to the 'meh' girls but hot one still chimes in
>meh one invites me to go down the blvd and hit up other bars with them
>I of course do.
>at this point, hot one randomly decides she wants attention
>so she takes the cherry out of my drink, and ties the stem with her tongue in her mouth
>tease her the entire way through and it takes her like 3 tries
>surely enough she comes home with me that night and rides my dick hard.

moral of the story is, throw a little flirting at them, but dont shower them with attention. girls (And people in general) wnat to be the center of attention. if you DONT shower them with attention they will do whatever they can to get it.

>>16624453

>for cheap

hookers are one thing you shouldn't really skimp on price bro

>>16624453go to a bar and try your luck. Paying for sex is a last resort

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>>16624474
I'm about to hit 21 tho fugg

There's a shitload of stuff, were you focusing on some specific certification or something? Networking, windows server.. etc?

>>16624456
Well I kinda just want to get in the general IT business? Like fixing/troubleshooting computers for schools and stuff. Just so much of it I'm not sure where to start.

what is google even

Don't touch the screw.

Everytime that tire rotates, it will rub against the screw making the hole larger, thus increasing the chances of having to get a whole new tire instead of a patch job.

Go slow and not far, you'll probably be fine.

It's close to the edge you might need to get a new / used tire

>>16624423
>Think I'm good to drive for a little bit tonight?

No. The tire can likely pop when it's stressed and heats up.

accept

Make an effort to contact them on a regular basis, send cards for holidays, recommend good books youve read recently, invite them to visit you, etc.

>>16624443
I wont accept though

We often play vidya together and talk over skype which i hope will continue. Another problem for me would be: I dont have problems in socialising with others etc but i will miss the total fucked up shit i can simply do with them which others would find inappropriate

If you're a girl of reasonable appearance that's what happens.

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bumping my own thread.

Normally I read a lot, journal, lift, sleep (already done a lot of that though.) talk to friends.

I suppose cleaning up around the house/in the car would be a good idea.

>>16624390

new activities help. the reason that emotions tend to fade over time is that they were in the short term memory part of your brain, and at the front of your consciousness. you are used to having something there and its not and thats sad.

so people who dwell on it, mourn it, wallow it, sit around and do nothing / do similar activities are constantly reminded.

as soon as you pick up new hobbies or put new framework on old hobbies, those memories get sorted into the 'long term' memory part of your brain and stored away.

so new hobbies in general, or finding new ways to do old hobbies. like if you two watched a show together, watch a different one, or in a different room even.

my recommendation is play old video games. you can emulate a lot of stuff on any decent computer. replay all the classics from your childhood.

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>>16624404
I really like that idea. Thank you so much anon, I really do appreciate it.

>>16624371
I really don't understand why people date for so long
you either realize you want to marry the person or you break up. Are you afraid to be alone? Is it just habitual at that point?How can you put up with mediocrity for so long?

Obviously end it but help her out until she finds a job and can find her own place. It's her debt not yours, and it's unfair to burden you with it, but if you're too cold everyone will call you a heartless asshole. Put up with it a bit longer, hell what's a month or months on top of 7 fucking years

7 fucking years, still can't get over that
I was mad enough that I wasted 2.5 with an ex, should have ended after 1

In the same scenario except married. I know that I need out, but i, like you, question her ability to handle herself as an adult. I'll monitor this thread with you man. Let me know if you need to talk, regardless if I can give you real things to help the scenario.

>>16624430
Probably habitual and easy. That's fairly easy to understand.

Bring ibuprofen and Tylenol with you to work too.

I'm the waitress from the last thread and I normally take some before I go to work too prophylactically.

>I don't get a free pass to laze around just because I'm a girl
this thinking has always been so outlandish to me, because I've had three jobs in my life, all of them had workplaces that were mostly women due to it being a field men typically don't go for. at my current job, the one guy who works here gets treated with way more respect by the public than me or my other workers do, even though he's easily the most drag ass one here. it's really strange

and yeah, drinking water helps a lot. my job is pretty physically demanding and you can really feel it if you're even slightly dehydrated. and in sure you've already been told this, but make sure you get enough sleep. take Advil PM to force yourself to sleep and "reset" your internal clock if you have to, it helps a lot

glad it's going well anon

>>16624428
>Advil pm

I have trouble sleeping. Virtually the only thing that makes me feel comfortable enough to sleep is the sound of my loved one's breathing

*I am hetero.

Thinking about her fucking you in the ass with a strap on?

>>16624303
rather rarely. I would even dare to say: no. I am not sexually aroused by my mother. Just by the panties.

>>16624273
Just ask him if something happened to him to change his communication habits because you are worried.
Don't have a accusatory tone.

>>16624286
Well that won't sound clingy or paranoid? It's not like he has been out of touch completely. He's talking to me enough that I think it would come out of left field- unless he was seriously losing interest.

>>16624304
Sounds honest to me, if this is something you feel the need to end this relationship over then it is something worth discussing.

Find everyone in the comments section who is a troll, go to their houses, and kill them. People will know not to troll you then.

>>16624260
Do the navy seals pasta on them

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>losing virginity
>in a car
>in a sketchy neighbourhood
Sounds like a wonderful first time

>>16624209
>>16624197
Also
>Toyota Sienna

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>not getting a room

>>16624193
You could try LSD, that usually helps me concentrate.

>>16624193
Jublia

Adderall it's made to help focus most college kids sell it cuz they make huge profit

>>16624188
She didn't post her number when she responded, fyi.
What sort of witchcraft is abound?

>>16624188
Tinder IS texting. You can only use it on a phone and the interface is exactly like texting.

>>16624194
This.

Leave her to send you the number. There are plenty of other girls to talk to on there.

OP here.
She just sent me her number.
Do I immediately ask to hang out, or try texting her a few things first?
I don't really wanna go out tonight, but I know the attention span of women (specifically on Tinder) is lacking.