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>>16623058

Using sex in exchange for something aww shiet red flag. If she isn't wanting to get banged by you it's because your not as sexually attractive to her anymore.

>>16623058
Holy shit test.

Start ignoring her hard. Get involved in your hobbies. Look for other girls online, -Because she has checked out

>>16623054
Tell your friend you're thinking about it and ask him if it would bother him. Then if you want to date her, then go right ahead.

She should be the one to decide...

If she is down for it, why not? The family seems to like you anyway. Just don't make it a secret, otherwise it will be awkward and getting worse and worse. Also prepare for complete withdrawal from that family in case it doesn't work with you and her.

My first girlfriend of 4 years was actually the sister of a buddy of mine, though I was not that close to him.

If he is your best friend, don't do it.

>>16623054
I've got to two younger sisters (2 and 3 years younger) and both have dated friends of mine

No fucks were given.
Although they weren't close friends

>>16623040
Post pic so we can gauge your faults.
I won't lie, we are a critical bunch here in the interwebs, so expect some harsh criticism. You may be able to learn from it.

>>16623060
I only have good pics of me that I saved and I don't have a phone right now

>>16623077
Any pics.

>>16623035
What did your friend do?

>>16623035
The best vengeance? Have a successful and fulfilling relationship with her.
If you do that, you'll be happy with her, focusing on the love and relationship you two share, while you don't have to worry about the other guy cuz he'll notice it and probably go crazy being reminded of his failure.

Basically give no shits. It's better than giving shits because it's more professional to indirectly wound someones pride.

Besides. Do not waste your energy on fools when there are important things to attend to.

>>16623036
They pretty much struck her with how I didn't care about her, how I didn't want her when I was dealing with family issues. They technically succeeded with getting her to "cheat?" They had her sexting them... And about a week after this started she tried to break up with me but, she couldn't.

>>16622993

ive always found the best way to handle this sort of thing is to be nonchalant about it. if you honestly cant see (or seem to see) why it would matter, they wont either.

most girls wont make the sex moves, so if you are having some foreplay type fun but nothings happening, just stop it there and distract her with another activity. i find its easy to transition into cuddling.

worse comes to worse just go down on her. she will be a little surprised when you dont expect her to do anything to you, but just say 'sometimes i like to eat out' like its no big deal.

thats pretty much the key to owning anything is acting like its no big deal.

>>16622993
It would be a better idea to bring it up to your doctor. There are medicines that should help counteract the effects.

>>16622983

>write down both options
>write down pros and cons for each
>read them out loud so that your entire self can acknowledge whats ahpepning
>pick the one that seems to best align with your interests

if this doesnt work, flip a coin. generally speaking, it lets you know which one you REALLY want.

and if it doesnt, just do what that coin says, you gotta make a choice.

By being vague on an anonymous website.

Seriously, tell us the situation or fuck off. Don't be coy.

It's simple, you kill the batman.

In all seriousness though, don't over think it. You could weigh the pros and cons, or you could listen to yourself a bit, and do what seems right to you.

>>16622967

weight lost is 70% diet, only 30% exercise. exercise just helps to maintain the muscle so that fat is what gets eaten.

so, calculate your daily caloric expenditure (Average 2000 calories for young adult male) and subtract 500 from that.

you may eat 1500 calories a day. my recommendation is only eating fruits and vegetables before 3pm.

>an apple
>carrots
>brocolli
>a plum
>a peach
>asparagus
>spinach (with a little butter)
>four strawberries
>banana

all that will keep you UNDER 500 calories and its enough sncaks to keep you full throughout the day. imagine eating ALL that in the day. its a lot of food., 500 calories. seriously.

then have one big protien based dinner, splurge as long as its abotu 1000 calories or less.

if you are hungry again before bed, have a vegetable based snack (so few calories its ridiculous) or something low calorie fruit like strawberries. not an apple, thats an extra 100 but strawberries are like 4 per berry. good stuff.

do that and you will lose a pound a week (the recognized healthy amount of weight to lose, anymore is considered dangerous)

>>16622967
Eat less. Exercise is much much less effective than dieting anyway.

Book recommendations:
Models by Mark Manson - No creepy delusional PUA bullshit, but good seduction and relationship advice.

The Power of Habits (Part One only) by Charles Duhigg - To understand the importance of building habits for a better life rather than relying on short bursts of motivation.

She seems crazy. A surprise tattoo with you name? Red flad red flag

>>16622955

>5 months
>last name tattood

you guys gun break up.

on the serious side, assuming you arent an absolute troll:

there really isnt a way. you explained it a few times it seems and she just doesnt see it that way. in her mind it is a fact that people in love get married. so she is ready.

truth is, she probably is more deeply in love with you than you are with her. which isnt a negative reflection on you or her. though in this case it seems shes desperate more than she actually wants it. she likely has seen friends getting married and wants that excitement.

my recommendation? leave her. only way to wake her up to the situation. she will not be happy until you guys are marrie,d and once that excitement ends shes going to demand some new way to make the relationship exciting again.

>>16622955
are you crazy? youve got what pretty much every man wants!! she loves you more than you love her!!! what the hell is wrong with you don't self sabotage this chance at really making the dream, seal the deal and get married.

>>16622913

im the same way about a lot of things. certain shows, certain movies, even certain video games. i LOVE the idea of playing kingdom hearts 2 cuz its so pretty and i enjoyed it last time i played.

but its hard to force me to sit down and do it, most of the time id rather just be on 4chan.

you cant really force yourself to do it other than forcing yourself to do it.

only advice i can give is pick a friend to do a watch through with, and make goals together 'by friday we watch ten episodes then discuss them' etc.

how old are you?
also, what kind of anime are you trying to watch?
watch good anime, some recs
Cowboy Bebop
Samurai Champloo
The girl that leapt through time (movie)
Ghost in the shell (movie)

>>16622947
I'm 21 and I watch a little of everything, though for some reason I tend to gravitate towards cutesy SoLs and magical girl stuff.

If we ever have a sticky, that picture needs to be the picture for it

>>16622893

move on. if hes interested he will pursue you, but the doesnt seem to be interested. most of us are 'too busy' to text back until its osmeone were into.

put the ball in his court, cuz if you keep it in yours, you are going to be sad regardless of the outcome.

>>16622893
Generally speaking, people dont seem to be up front about not wanting to meet up. So if you don't get any response I guess it's just best to leave them be.

>>16622891
>>>/wsr/

>>16623233
>fundamentally misunderstanding the point of /r/
>tripping on /adv/
Kill yourself my good man

>>16623510
>Didn't look at the sticky
Here I'll give you some help.

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>>16622877
Bro visit the zoo. You'll like it.
Sure you won't have control of the evening, but you'll get to see cool animals. You might even stop by a burger joint to eat.
Then when you get home it's all sighs of relief.

Staying indoors will only make going out harder.

>>16622886
I just don't want them to ask about what i'm doing. Once that can of worms is opened i just go crazy in my head and i can't stand being around people when that happens.

Meh i guess it'll go fine but i just can't shake them fears.

>>16622904
I had written a pretty comprehensive post but my phone deleted it so whatever.
Heres the tldr:

If you start freaking out just tell them you're going for a stroll, or that yoi need to be alone and go outside the zoo and find a spot to chill.

If they ask you what you're doing just tell them your mirin the animals, or thinking about stupid shit like whether the hippo is overweight, or whether the monkey in the cage is horney or not.
Or tell them you're thinking about burgers, and they might subconsciously want a burger so they'll stop by a burger joint.

Consider this an opportunity for a new experience that you may never come across again.

Take care anon. And have fun! :)

I live in Canada, so not sure how common weed is where you live.

How it worked from me

>find the stupid guy i went to high school with that dropped out on fb
>"hey man, wanna hang out?"

done

>>16622839
Find the tallest tree in the closest major city. Climb up and tie a Rastafarian flag in the branches. Wait 48 hours and deposit a plastic bag with $200 in two dollar bills inside of the knot hole. Watch out for the squirrel who lives there, you'll need to kill him or else he'll eat your money.
Wait one fortnight and the meriyuanna will be waiting for you.

>>16622839
Go into the garden and pick the plants that are there without your consent.

We are not your personal army. And don't fill out the name field.

>>16622785
suck a dick m8

>>16622785
It's not like hackers can just waltz in wherever they please. It takes research and concerted effort, and a lot of that research has to be repeated for each individual site. You're asking us to go into a plave without any major known vulnerabilities, sight unseen. Is this doable? Maybe. Is it quick? No.

Tell us more about your situation. Does this account belong to you? Why do you need it to be hacked? We may be able to figure out another way to get you what you need.

>>16622771
The ability to use the force

>>16622771

i think id personally abolish any pre-conceived notions about sexuality.

just a world thats like ours but we dont worry about whether or not someones gay. where making out with the dudes as normal as making out with a girl.

How people are fine with being average