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I hate myself so much, I have no self esteem. The person I'm closest to takes every chance she can get to jab at my self esteem.

I really hate everyone. That's part of what destroys me. Not only do I hate myself for the mistakes I've made but I feel like everyone is a piece of shit, and will just end up taking me for granted.

What do I do guys. I'm not in this life just to be around for myself, but everyone sucks.

Really leaves little hope for the future and dying seems so nice. I died once before and it was so peaceful. When I came back it was back to the bullshit.

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I'm a 24 year old bisexual guy from denmark. I'm in the closet but I still want to have sex with men.
I'm planning to go to a gay sauna thing this weekend too have look at and have sex with older men.. but I'm scared to meet anyone that will recognize me there.

Let's say I meet someone I know in the sauna,
What should my "excuse" be for being in a gay sauna when I'm "straight"..?

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is chat roulette a good option for social tards to learn to converse?

I'm not ugly, but i cant talk to girls and dont wanna fuck 5s and 6s to learn...

itt i just wanna meet cute asians on tinder..

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(Pic unrelated)Been through lotta SHIT with her these days.
And felt like i was on a harsh uncontrollable relationship.so my mind took off today and kissed a girl which I just met today for the first time..
I feel good with her.and I cant say I regret doing what I did today.cause it felt satisfying and passionate.Very very satisfying in fact!
Thing is.I dont wanna hurt my gf.
What do?

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So I recently moved out on my own. Today when I was unpacking the last of my things I found a box a junk from my family's basement. I don't know why I took it with me, but inside was a pair of my sisters worn flip flops.

I've always had a pathetic thing for her feet, but never had the balls to try take any of her footwear while we were living in the same house. But now I've got some, and there isn't anything that be done about it.

How fucked up would it be for me to keep them as my personal fap too? I can't be the only fagoot that gets turned on the by the feet of sister/relatives.

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Can I get some tips on instigating a threesome with two bi-curious women who have plainly stated that they are down?

I think that really the only thing stopping it from happening is that I need to create the opportunity, they both have busy schedules. The three of us are going to a bar this weekend and I am not sure how to get past the little flirting dance that the three of us do with each other and get them to come back to my house.

The last time I tried to make it happen girl B started conversation about how she doesn't know what to do to another woman and she needs an emotional connection in order to get off during sex. Girl A drank too much and passed out in the car, ended up just wanting to go home, girl B clammed up after that.

Any ideas?

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So I was just fired from my job after 13 months.
The management was god awful, and is done from another country. The guy acting as manager is never here and is officially a salesperson.

Anyway over the course of the year I ended up taking on an assload of responsibilities to make up for the over employees' shortcomings (I was the only male there so I helped with 3 departments daily as well as running my own department with no help)
It got to the point where I was lucky to be able to take a break, often working 10 hour days without one, all the while making minimum wage while people that got hired in after me all started with much higher wages and less responsibilities

I patiently waited a year for my review, and when I informed them they claimed my hire date was a month later. They also gave me extra responsibilities (obviously waiting for me to fuck up). Checked my records and sure enough they were full of shit.
A week passed while they gave me the runaround and today I was told I would be given a 20 cent raise, but if I kept working hard they would give me another one in a month.

I informed them that I was no longer willing to do the things outside of my job description until paid at least as much as the new hires (literally a $2 raise) and was let go.

The thing is, the extra responsibilities included tightening a roll of paper by hand which would leave a raw wound on my arm, which would then be irritated by the chemicals that were a part of my actual job, giving me a clear reason to not do the extra work.

I guess my question is, is there anything at all I can do as far as legal action? Doesn't seem right to be fired for not wanting to do things outside of my job description, but I'm really not familiar with the laws.

Also, when I was first hired, they went over a month without paying me due to a "bank error" or some shit. Any possible way I can take legal action a year later?

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I'm dating a girl who is very hot/cold and I'm not sure how to interpret the situation.

She seems to enjoy my company and appears enthusiastic whenever we make plans, but whenever we're not together she is terrible with communicating to the point where I question whether or not she is in fact interested. I'm not expecting a text conversation throughout the course of the day, but her replies are so sparse it's awkward to arrange anything. I wouldn't mind so much, but she uses FB a fair bit so I figured sparing one minute to reply to my message shouldn't be an issue.

Not sure what I should do, really.

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When ever I'm dating someone, I feel unstable, crazy, weak and vulnerable. That I'm not good enough and that I'm just someone you settle down with.

As single I'm strong, stable, confident and consider myself as sort of a catch. I got a positive image about myself and I feel generally good about myself.

But once I start dating someone, it all disappears. I don't enjoy dating cause I'm constantly feeling anxious and if I get rejected or something, it would ruin the image I have of myself. I'm okay if I please myself, and I just feel like I can't risk that.

Will I ever be able to be in a relationship? How can someone overcome these strong feelings?

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How to get over the fact that I'm no longer in her life? She broke up with me three months ago but I know she's having depressions right now. I cant help, I can't text her, I can't hug her...nothing.
I feel bad that I wasnt the one who'll free her from this. I always felt with her, even now...is it creepy?

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It's official. I am now legally autistic Only socially though, so it's straight up Asperger's symptom-wise, but it's now a part of ASD.

Should I start disclosing this on job applications where it takes the "voluntary" info? On the one hand it's saying I'm disabled, but on the other, I bomb interviews left and right and maybe documenting it means I can claim discrimination if something goes wrong.


What do I do now, both in applying for jobs and overall?

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Are you considered a bad friend if you couldn't convince your boy out of the whole hood shit path?

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Guys:
If your most recent ex that you quickly moved in with ended up being crazy and making you miserable would you be leery to move in with your current long term gf, even if she stayed with you typically four days a week, and was nothing like your ex, took care of the house, made you happy to be around ect.
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and has mentioned us living together before but is seemingly backing it up now, when we both need to start looking out for new houses/appartments. Could the situation explained be why?

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I think I have an inferiority complex. I've heard plenty of tales of delusions of grandeur, which makes me nervous, because somewhere inside me I have to know I've achieved something rigorous and difficult, something I'm satisfied with. The Wikipedia article for inferiority complex has a good part; "...experience of being unable to reach a subconscious, fictional final goal of subjective security and success to compensate for the inferiority feelings."

The point is I'm in high school and have shit grades in everything. I got accepted to a university, somehow, probably only because it's very expensive. I want to do something STEM, it will probably be CS or CE. But this university seems very very weak in those fields. I wouldn't be able to feel satisfied with myself if I thought I wasn't doing something very difficult or worthy, and I wouldn't probably get more shit grades and drop out.

I can't stand the thought of wasting any of my family's money, if I go to this university and do something I can't get emotionally invested in, I will feel huge insecurity for having spent their money, and this will effect my performance.
So I've thought about it and I have 3 options.
One thing to do is not attend that university, but I doubt any other would take me. I only applied to one and it's a bit late now anyway. A different uni that would accept me would probably also be lacking, but at least it would be cheaper.
The other option is pursue something in liberal arts, which is what that university specializes in. I could take rigorous philosophical classes instead. But I just have more of a drive to learn something in STEM.
Another option is to not go to a university entirely. I want to study, that's the only thing I want to do, I want to be able to master a field and appreciate it. But the insecurity and guilt I'd feel for simply being in university at all might prove to be too much.

What should I choose?

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I've always gave up on everything i've tried to do.

I've though it was because i was a weak minded person and would need to live with it till the rest of my life. But no, i think that's not the reason.

I have severe anxiety, and watching something about how the time is relative, important and has a end, i think i understand everything now.

I give up on things because i don't know how to use my time. Like, tomorrow i have to go to the orthopedist at 5pm. So, the whole day i can't do nothing, "because ill not get to it in time, i can't do nothing before i go to him".

I've tried to skate some years ago, and gave up too, because i was going to a university so i though i would not have the time to learn nothing, it meaned an end.

I had go go to two therapists before i could notice this. How do i stop being an retarded? Even the therapists couldn't help me because the sensation i would need to do something soon was stronger, so i didn't heard them. I didn't heard no one.

A person said to me: "You aren't only ignoring the opportunities. You're asking for them to go away. You're doing the same to me. I hope someday you understand that. I'll wait for you".

But i don't know what i'm waiting for.