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Drop her.

What do you expect from her?

I don't think that you should keep communication.

>>16788173

Its because you are ugly. And probably fat.

why do you think you're entitled to this

>>16788180
>>16788177

there it is, entitled
alreaddy aggressive
alreaddy close minded

>I have a boyfriend

that's signal for "I'm not into you"

ye olde self-friendzoning

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This will go nowhere good for you and you damn well know it.

>>16788169
Yes because girls never cheat on their boyfriends.

>>16788135
Just be yourself

>>16788145
Fucking tripfag, that doesn't work. Die and rot in hell.

>>16788135
Don't show any interest in any particular subject ever. If some armchair psychiatrist is going to use sperg, autist, etc as an insult against you, they obviously don't care about being scientifically correct. To some folks, liking literally anything specific makes you "autistic".

In other words, be yourself, bro; people are going to talk shit one way or another, that is inevitable in life, but you will know in your heart that they are just being petty morons as long as you are the bigger man and don't act foolishly back at them in return.

Well, damn, Anon, you really seem to be sabotaging your own career. You've lived your live on the rails - school, college, following expectations. But are you realizing this isn't the life for you? It sounds like you're hating it now, and it's getting worse.

This would be a good time to think about what you want from life, and how to attain that. You don't have to graduate college, get a 9-5 job, and stay in a field you hate marking time until retirement.

To pick an example out of a hat, would you be happier learning carpentry? Working with your hands is much more relaxing than being part of a corporate machine, and the pay and perks are great. It's also a field in which it's very easy to find a job these days, and the outlook is rosy. Laugh at computer science grads working minimum wage jobs, as you build a happy and lucrative career in woodwork.

>>16788129

What exactly did he write that made you think he wrote it in an angry tone? Was it something he ACTUALLY wrote which would suggest that, or was it all in your head?

When I sometimes read stuff during an intense moment, I always paint it in bias and imagine things. Then I re-read it later on a cool head and notice there isn't really as much emotion put in the writing as I'd originally thought.

I say this because professors have a lot of students and 1) it's unethical to be openly mad at a student (especially in recorded form) and 2) I doubt they give too much of a fuck about you to begin with.

Relax. Don't make a big deal out of it, don't bring it up and just don't fuck up again.

>>16788129
You're just being a dumbass.
You need to experience failure- it will motivate you to actually do these little things that make a big difference.
You're too complacent.

My advice is to learn from this experience. Next year as you're having to repeat the class, think about how much it sucks. Next time you "don't feel like" going to class or to a meeting or to the doctor, think "is it worth it? I'll have to do _____ if I skip. Is saving myself this little effort now worth that big effort later?"

Everyone learns this lesson sooner or later op. Most people have learned it in middle and highschool- now it's your tunr

>>16788123
>Boohoo school is so hard and my other boyfriend is mildly happy and waaaaaaaaa!

Shut the fuck up. These aren't even problems. Fuck off.

>>16788123
Sauce on cutie manga boy?

stop being 14

>>16788097
you could be a sociopath, look a bit into that and if you find yourself a bit too often in other sociopath's experiences and stories, you should maybe get someone experienced to work with about it

>>16788147
Where can I find such a thing?

Freedom of speech m8. Just say that the information is for study pourposes and that its illigal to out any of it to practical use and away you go ^_^

>>16788148
sure there is freedom of speech but i think what OP is doing closely mimics publicly inciting others to do criminal activities, which is a crime

honestly, not sure

>>16788083

had a buddy who was buying DRUGS from a website which claimed they were "chemicals for research purposes"

then there's tutorials on everything illegal out there, from making bombs to cooking meth to robbing banks

the worst that could happen to you, even if you paid for hosting with your credit card, would be having your website taken down

this implies you'd have enough traffic to catch the eye of a morally-triggered enough person to do what's necessary to report you

what are you planning on sharing with the world, anon?

Sounds like you're not finding motivation and fulfilment in your work life, OP. Think about what careers interest you, and have solid ongoing job prospects. Probably the best thing to get you out of your rut and into the big money would be to start training in a rewarding skill-based segment such as carpentry and woodwork.

>>16788077
>I've had 3 jobs and got fired from all 3 in under 2 months
How the hell does that even happen?

>My first job I got I lost in my first week because my feet hurt so badly that I couldn't stand at the end of my third shift, that was a year and a half ago. I used to have a BMI of 37 and have been obese my entire life so problems like this are pretty normal for me.

Being obese doesn't help, but that's something you deal with using time and proper footwear. I used to have a higher BMI and I'm always on my feet. I would always limp back to my car, but now I've lost weight, have the right shoes, and I've gained a good bit of muscle. A lot of the pain you're going to experience initially is the creation of muscle you didn't even know you had.

You just have to deal with it instead of being a goddamn baby. Sometimes people don't need to adjust, sometimes it can take a few months. Also, when it comes to footwear, expensive =/= good. After trying some shoes made specifically for people in the medical industry, who are on their feet all day, nothing helped. You know what helped me? Off-trail hiking shoes.

I feel like one of the main things that prevents me from holding a job besides constant physical pain from bad feet bad posture and bad knees, is complete lack of any desire to actually make money. For all of my jobs so far, despite them being literally the 3 easiest jobs on the market probably (stocking shelves twice, unloading trucks once,) I have found it so mentally and physically taxing to actually work 8 hour shifts 3-5 times a week, that minimum wage is not even close to enough pay to make me actually want to do it, yet at the same time the actual quality of my work is so bad that I don't even deserve minimum wage nevermind actually good pay. It feels like I worked my ass off to make piss all for money and still didn't deserve to be paid with the terrible quality of my work, so my money just sits in a bank account where I never spend anything.

I spend so little money that my only real motivation to go to work was so that I could eventually rack up work experience, the money isn't worth it for how hard it is for me. Sadly though that is a self defeating prophecy and only showing up to work so that a year from now I could say that I've worked for a year didn't motivate me enough to actually push through the mental and physical pain and I ended up just doing terrible work all the time, completely demotivated.

At this point, I feel guilty spending any money because an average 19 year old should normally have a girlfriend, a car, bill's, rent, and all this other shit that I don't have, and I am too old to spend like a 16 year old working their first job and blowing their money on whatever the fuck they feel like it even though that's basically the situation I'm in.

Lmao, you're supposed to ask them if they want to smash or not straight away.

>taking a tinder slut on an actual date

Are you fucking retarded? She's probably already taken a few different dicks from tinder while you're being a fucking beta pussy.
Taking a tinder slut on a fucking date, holy shit I can't breathe here.

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>>16788089
this
shes probably over you by now and will probably ignore any further approach
find -another one-

tinder girls are like every other girl, you just put yourself in a situation where fucking is expected and then you either fuck or you don't

>asking if they want to smash
>p-p-please can we have sex

always option b

>>16788046
Believe me I was say to my self milion times you need to be most important to yourself but I just dont know can I do that to her. She is still and I think will be for a long period of time, madly in love with me.

>>16788046
You feel like you need to be single because that opinion has been forced on you by your peers.
There are no guarantees that you will ever find a love worth keeping at your intended 25, and there is a guarantee that you will never have a love exactly like the one you have now.
Ask yourself is it worth it giving up on a real true love for ideals of narrow minded society and destroying life of a good person and gf?
I would say to keep her anon, loyalty and love are really undervalued nowadays

>>16788028
How to spot a normie 101

You will examine they use "yo" instead of years old

You're looking at a highly competitive and ill-paid segment, where many people will try to take advantage of you, and that may have a severe impact on your future potential in a wide range of fields, including problems in work and family life.

If you're looking to make some extra money, think about doing so in a more lucrative and wholesome field, such as carpentry.

>>16788031
OP here, seriously concerned by your opinion.

It means you aren't pregnant.

>>16788026
It means that the person being tested is probably pregnant, or was until very recently.

>>16788059
Sorry; I misread the results. Probably NOT pregnant.

If you don't get an internship or connects in college or grad school then you're SOL, and then you can look forward to 12 dollars an hour being a customer service rep or some equally shit job with no upwards movement

What kind of job are you looking for?

>>16788024
You're looking at fields in which your personal value added is very hard to judge, as a small part of a complex system, so they use experience as a proxy.

Try getting into a business where your own skill and capacity is easily demonstrable, such as carpentry.

>>16788012

Before you even finish, if you're still seeing these people, cut contact. That child will never be yours, if she's spewing vitriol to anyone that will listen.

>>16788012
I'd say work on sentence structure. That's a a god damn run on to the moon. Seriously man, commas aren't periods. Also, use paragraphs. No one wants to read a huge chunk of shit, but one might read 3 smaller pieces of shit.

sorry about lack of grammar and structure.

after baby was born and we was all at home (her dads house) we lived in a tiny room, with her pug, she treated that thing better than me I swear, even the way she spoke to it.
I would actually call her out sometimes about the way she treated me and if she really wanted to be with me, she would always say that her doing "things" for me proved that she loved me. she would always talked to me like she was really pissed off, sometimes act like I wasn't there, be texting away to god knows who. I was feeling more and more isolated and we argued about the way she treated me, she would always deny it. but I had no leverage, if I left her she wouldn't care enough. naming the baby was a horrible expirence. the only say I had in my daughters life was buying stuff for her, I bought everything with my wages for her. I did manipulate her first name though, I made her think it was her idea because she rejected every suggestion I ever had about anything. so atleast I can say that. other than that she would always have a go at me if I was holding her for too long or doing something she wasn't used too. that annoyed me a lot because I have experience with babies and I'm perfectly fine. this whole time living with her I'm desperately trying to find us a home, because I genuinely believe it will make things better between us. she was so picky about this too, Insisting she had a garden for her horrible dog, I was gifted £800 by my grandparents to out a deposit on a flat, but that went wrong, I spent the money on the baby instead and an Xbox one lol
anyway eventually when the baby was three months old, we managed to get a house via our local council, a really nice house, a bit out of the way. I of course paid for everything, even though I'm on minimum wage. five days after we moved in, we had a big argument. it was so petty. she was being so horrible to me as usual and I was being horrible back, all the stress of everything just came out...