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Maybe it's because you're looking at sex as something your girlfriend gives to you, instead of a mutually enjoyable shared experience between equals.

>>16786575
she's not giving you sex because chads giving her the dick on the low

she's pissed off because chad wont date her and put up with her bullshit like you

>>16786614

this pretty much.

>>16786563
>my friend gets girls even though he's an asshole

he's probably attractive, mystery solved

>>16786568
No no, this would be perfectly understandable if he was attractive. I mean I wouldn't mind being mistreated by a 10/10 girl for a chance at fucking her.

Thing is this guy is pretty much average, with bunch of emotional problems. Also he's a skinny manlet.

Tale as old as time: People mistake aggression for confidence. It happens in dating, it happens in business, it happens in politics and it happens in just about every other facet of life.

Don't think too much about it, learn to be confident for real and enjoy your life anon.

>>16786553
Season is over....

>>16786572
I know, like re watch the games

take this as an opportunity and find a real sport, handegg is shit.

Lekker buikie

Yes. We've known each other about 12 years, had been romantically involved for 9 years and have been 'apart' for about 2 months now. It's hard to explain what happened exactly, I think a lot of factors went into it. Distance was a big one, schedule incompatibility hurt a lot, plans for the future meshing up less and less....but between all of it, the flame just kind of died and there was no rekindling it. We were drifting apart fast and decided to cut our losses basically since we couldn't stand how awkward things had become between us. So we decided we were done as a couple and went back to being friends.

It's worked out. We talk more freely again, we get to spend what time we do get much more relaxed and enjoy it. I won't say it doesn't hurt still but it's going easier than I would have ever expected it to. I know it sounds cliche but we basically found that we still loved each other but were no longer in love with each other. We really are best friends though and talk about anything and everything...including new love interests. That's been the most awkward part of it...but still not as bad as I thought it might be. Kind of thought this part might be what would bring the whole idea of remaining friends afterwards tumbling down but it hasn't at all.

Have a gf for 2 years, feel how her love for me slowly faded away. Last time i've felt it was about 1 year ago.
We used to laugh a lot, and do all sorts of funny crazy shit, but now she's just nagging me and fuck it's annoying. We argue weekly, she does stupid shit, but so do i, and it's sorta sad
Feel like i need some /adv/ myself

>>16786536
>I can get through social interactions just fine when things are strictly subject oriented but they take too much of a toll
This is your problem, most people don't talk about subjects. They talk about feelings, things they enjoy, and other people.

>>16786526
yes.

No way to guess this - I suggest earplugs!

Even the clapping for the encore can be painful.

Earplugs all the way - even sony walkman in- ear headphones cut a lot. Just have them with you at all times in there.

I got sat next to some git at a Van morrison concert - he was like a clapping monkey with hands like butter patts .. I was ringing for days after that shit.

>>16786507
I'm a theater critic and am out 3 or 4 times a week.

Almost all musicals are amplified these days, and for the big finales it sometimes feels like jet-engine-level decibels.

Almost no dramas or comedies are.

Most modern theaters are equipped with sound systems for the hearing-impaired. You borrow or rent (for a dollar or two) a set of earphones that broadcast the onstage voices without amplifying them for everyone else. I know hard-of-hearing people who swear by them. I don't know if they help with tinnitus, but they certainly wouldn't hurt.

What race are you?

>>16786512
Mexican...

by realising it isn't the end of the world.

>>16786492

This. There's like 7 billion people on earth. You'll be fine. Move on. Don't fuck around dwelling on it.

What happened anon, how'd you get rejected?

>>16786479
I can give you the aid to one of your problems: Dark chocolate covered coffee beans, talk sweet to them puppies and toss em a small handful. This method is cruel, but bloody Sharia probably allows it.

I know it's hardly a just solution, but maybe you could try and set yourself into a routine of getting up at 6am? I find myself to be so much more productive in the mornings than the evenings, it might genuinely improve your quality of life.

>>16786508
Yea but I work mid day

>>16786504
Strongly considering

>>16786443
A dealer is best bet.

dark net markets

>>16786447
how do i get one? Where do i find one?

>>16786419
Have a big dick and be attractive

Basically you need to sell yourself and your life style. You want the reader to go, I want to be part of that and I want a part of him.

If you're male:
>Be perfect
>Be tall
>Be successful
>Be attractive
>Be confident
>Be Intelligent
>Don't be socially awkward
>Have a good body

If you're female
>Just turn up

>>16786333
Did you know she was married before hand?
If not, it is not your fault at all. She is the one with the commitment, and it was her responsibility to remove herself from a situation that she knew was likely to escalate.

I understand if you feel bad for the husband/kids because the mom's a fucking slut, but don't feel bad for sleeping with her. Are you going to tell the husband? I don't think he'd be angry if you apologized for not knowing and then came right out and gave him a heads up.
I mean he'll be pissed at his wife but if you're trying to help him out he won't be upset at you

>>16786333
>so if it wasn't me she would have just fucked the next guy who came along right?

Maybe, but that doesn't make it okay to keep at it. If you really didn't know she was married with 3 kids (which is really fucking weird since she's your goddamn neighbor), forgive yourself for what happened and don't let it happen again.

Tell her you didn't know, and you don't want to be in that situation.

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You're single, you have no responsibility. She's the one cheating and you may as well be the one to get lucky. Even if you know, it's not even a moral question as you never stood in front of God and told him and your partner you were going to be loyal.

I've slept with a married woman before. She told me beforehand and asked if it was a problem for me. I said I don't care it's her business, and of course encouraged her by saying everybody DESERVES some fun to which she of course agreed.

Just enjoy it while it lasts.

>>16786329
Well, for starters, try doing good stuff, try being sincere and nice.
Then start liking yourself, that's one of the major obstacles, if you doubt yourself, others will see that and doubt you.
Then you can try befriending people, it's not that hard, try it on some irc chatroom. Afterwards, do it in real life :)

I do try being nice - I'm just bad at it. And I've no idea how to start liking myself when it seems no one else does.

And I've had even less luck making friends on the internet. At least in real life people feel awkward ignoring me.

>>16786329
http://www.101zenstories.org/101-zen-stories-table-of-contents/
Try reading these. Calm down, and just start trusting in yourself. Be nice to others, go joing rizon irc, and some random chatroom. Try it, it wont hurt :)