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Bought a headset, and the mic works (tested with my phone and laptop) but my PC won't pick up sound from it. It shows up in device manager and the sound panel, but no matter how loud I shout into it, it won't actually record anything. The little gray bars you see in the top-right window will light up when I twist the connector around in the microphone port, but when I record while doing that it doesn't produce any static that I can hear in the recording. How do I fix it?

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How can i feel emotions? My second grandma just died and i dont care. Just like when first died. And both grandpas, countless aunts, uncles. As edgy as it sounds, i know i am a sociopath. Used to fake emotions when they were expected, do whatever i need to get what i want. But i dont have any goal. I really want to love somebody, be sad, be happy, yet i just cant. There isnt any cure for that, is there? I want to feel like a normal human being. Please.

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This one persistent bump on my forehead won't go away. I thought it was just a zit, but it's not really red in color. I haven't touched it, drank a shitload of water, and washed that area carefully and thpuroughly when showering. What do?

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What kind of girl can I pull down ? This is how i look. Was wondering how to improvem yself. im a freakin 5'3 mexican

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i don't know what the fuck i want to do with my life i have to choose what i want to do and i really have no fucking clue

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I'm having issues thinking long-term for my life. About to get a gen-ed associates from college, and still don't know what to do as a career. My own major seems shit the more I learn and do it (IT).

I cant visualize a good job honestly. I work as a retail supervisor, and my lacking interpersonal skills is making me feel awful about doing it (coworkers mainly). That seems to transfer into most jobs I imagine, like my people skills would hinder me. I also detest deskwork and doing repetitive tasks, so IT is killing me.

How can I even go about finding a good job path? Money isnt a big issue for me, I just have little need for it. Any reads, advice, or things I should try?

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I keep having recurring dreams that my boyfriend of 4 years is gay.

Why...

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Where can I meet single Asian guys? I'm not meeting them in my current hobbies:

> gymnastics: all girls
> 18th-19th century book club: all girls
> German club: all white guys and girls

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I'm debating studying a skilled trade. Which ones are the easiest to learn? Which ones pay the best? Which trades are the highest in demand? I have a little bit of experience in woodworking and cad. I'm also in Southern Ontario if that helps.

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What do people who are in their mid to late 20s do for work? What do you guys do? What do you guys do for living a large city?
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I slept with my exes best friend. We have remained friends though our breakup but I am a bit worried about how to break this to her. Should I keep it a secret forever, or is this not as much of a problem as I am imagining it to be? I don't want to ruin our friendship.

We have both slept with other people, and that wasn't an issue.

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Whats the best way to learn more about yourself?
No seriously.
I really dont know who I am.
I say one thing and do the other.

>end work
>18
>college 20-ish
>wait together for buss to come
>takes to long
>goes in a school smoke weed.
>was nice
>later on
>start thinking of my past and present
>school as young age was pretty tough for me
>later on with hormones (still going i guess) gets deppressed despite its been a long time.
>gotten that deppressed that i stopped coming to school
>Asks myself, "the fuck are you doing? why bother doing all this?"
>comes in conclusion that i need to change.
>how does one change when they dont know how to start.
>parents gets worried
>if i dont message them on the phone they breaks in the room to check if i havent commited suicide
>I am not in this phase where i eat shit food, watch shit and litrally do nothing expect work.

I wanna change. I wanna be someone my parents can be proud of. Thing is, I am afraid to meet my friends or rather, ex-friends again.

whats the best way to change fast? I was thinking of sleeping in the forest alone for maybe a week or two. see, learn and earn experience. Is this bad?

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>roommate and I get two kittens (one for her, one for me) despite it being against our lease.
>Cats live with us for five months.
>the other day the landlord gave me a notice saying that they knew we had a cat and we had to get rid of them in three days.
>only way they could have known would be seeing my cat in the window. They're not loud.
>Trying to figure out a way to move somewhere cheap where I can keep my kitten. Find someone who can watch him until I do
>can't afford a deposit at this time.
>roommate suggests sending them out for two weeks, buying heavy curtains they can't get past, and sneaking them back in


Is this plan retarded? How can I possibly find an affordable place that allows cats? I live in Los Angeles if that helps at all.

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hey /adv/ need a little bit of help here. my friend found himself in this situation

>friend (we'll call him joe) met a girl online when he was 16 or 17, about 3 years ago
>girl (we'll call her beth) was 13 at the time
>joe and beth talked for about a day, they met via omegle and continued to talk on kik
>eventually joe convinced beth to sing to him over the phone before he went to bed
>joe jacked off while she sang to him, and he hung up immediately afterward
>over the years joe has repeatedly messaged beth multiple times on kik
>these messaged steadily became him asking for it again, to eventually him just harassing her about it
>this got to the point where joe admitted that he masturbated to beth's singing years prior, and he included the ages in this message
>beth has this message screencapped, and has threatened to use it against joe to press charges for harassment
>kik has a feature to block any user, and joe reminded beth of this multiple times whenever she would ask him to leave her alone, yet she never blocked him

so the question im asking is - what all can and can't Beth do as far as pressing charges against Joe? I should also include that Beth lives many states away from Joe

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Was I CRINGE-WORTHY or what? Thoughts?
Basically me and my ex sort-of had a break up 2 weeks ago, due to arguments and bad feels. Nothing like cheating or whatever. Said he might call me, and I thought he would from previous experience but this time nada. Nothing. I wasn't sure if we were done or not. Well, yesterday I ended up seeing him at a bar we would go to a lot. I did not intend on meeting him (it was a city festival sort of thing), and was embarrassed if we saw each other he would think I was a stalker. Well, my friends kept saying he was looking at me and I ended up making eye contact... I took him aside and said let's talk. He was angry and said he didn't want his night ruined, and said if I want to talk to him I should text him on his days off fri or sat. He said if we're going to date again, i'll need a "attitude change". Drunkeness continues and I stayed after hours because i was too drunk to drive but couldn't get an Uber, thought maybe we'd go to his house, but he told me to get an uber home and someone else did....
I woke up today feeling cringy. I usually feel anxious when I wake up especially after eating or drinking too much the night before, but I thought "fuck his friends must have thought i was a desperate stalker" AND I'm not sure if he'll really hit me up.
What should I do? Does it sound that bad? Should I leave it up to him to message me, or wait and text him like he's expecting me to?