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>>16895992

zero credit isnt bad when applying for credit cards. they all build about the same. what you want is low itnerest rates.

if you are financially stable so much that you dont intend to actually use the credit card (as in, buying big purchases to slowly pay off) then i recommend a line of credit or credit card through your bank. its pretty handy and simple and easy to get approved becuase they have the fallback of your actual account.

but if you do plan to just buy shit and slowly pay it off DONT use a credit card through your bank. as they can simply automatically steal money out of your checking and/or savings account to make payments when you REALLY dont want them to do that

Discover It
Chase Freedom
Card through your bank

Should get approval for any of these with zero credit history as long as you have a job.

Bomp

>>16895950
Have you tried talking to girls in class or in a group situation?

Girls like it when you don't take them seriously.

Be funny, I see hot bitches hitting on bald fat guys all the time in Australia because women care more about emotions. Make her feel good and she'll put out. I have those 4chan /adv/ things from ETYNKE but too lazy to post, there's a thread on /t/ with it if you're game.

You trying hard, keep it up OP

>>16895957
Sometimes, but I'm never sure what to say outside of the classroom context. I can never find a proper segue into a personal conversation, and when I do the moment had long passed. I feel nervous about doing it now because it's halfway through the semester and I feel like no one want to meet anyone new right now.

>I need suggestions on how to handle my friend with dissociative disorder (and maybe schizophrenia) as well as my own feelings towards him

Stopped reading there. Don't. Fone sane friends, stop hanging out with him entirely, and remember to burn that bridge to the ground.

Protip: been there done that.

(2/2)
I kind of just shut down and ignored him while he went on about hating humans and being trapped in the doll body. Eventually he noticed me not responding, and I just told him I didn't feel well. This prompted him to "chanel someone else" to be in control so that I would be "more comfortable". He "channeled" this other god who is female and goddess of true justice. Again his tone and vocabulary changed. He key trying to talk to as her, and I was getting annoyed, but I was trying to be a friend in realizing that he seriously has a mental illness going on here and can't help it. Eventually I said I wanted to sleep.

This morning he comes downstairs saying, "I can't go to work. I don't have the patience to deal with humans today." Then he started saying that he has to find an item that will break the curse so that I'm more receptive and comfortable around the others living inside his body.

I'm not sure how to act or what to say. He doesn't believe in mental illness, and legit believes everything is metaphysical or supernatural that people just can't understand. I also hate the it's pissing me off, since I've been around people who are mentally ill before and I have always tried to help them and be a friend for them. So why am I feeling angry towards a friend I've been with for 4 years? I know if I tell him that 90% of this stuff is not real, he will flip at me, and I don't want to lose him as a friend... As he has always said he doesn't like being around "non believers".

>>16895942

*find same friends

>>16895891

a tinnitus support forum would be a better place to ask mate. guaranteed tinnitus sufferers there as opposed to random advice. they'd know better.

that being said, i doubt there is much you can do that your doctor hasnt already recommended. its just something that happens to you. safe for medically valid options what option could there possibly be? kinda like aksing for advice on living with being short... but at least then you can recommend a stool

>>16895891
It's something you just have to live with

Figure out what caused it and stop doing it. For me, it was loud headphone music. My tinnitus has nearly faded away.

not sexist but on the beta scale.. omega/10

Your friend is an idiot.
Seek new friends. Seriously. Find people who at least understand what calling someone "luv" means. My lord, she must have the IQ of a turnip.

>>16895848
How does sexism come into this?

Dump her. I know that advice gets thrown around here, but I find it hard to believe that you see a future with her. No point in staying with her and being stuck living together if you're in a dying relationship

>>16895843
I'm in a new city and it's pretty much if I broke up with her I'd never get a degree.

But she never does anything for me, doesn't really listen to me or shit like that.

I'm the kind of person who wants an emotional relationship, I don't even care about the sex

>>16895847
>I'm in a new city and it's pretty much if I broke up with her I'd never get a degree.
How? What's stopping you finding other roommates?

>>16895832
>I made some serious academic sacrifices(skipped big lectures and assignments)
>I feel that this anxiety is what's causing my lack of motivation to study for any of my classes.

No, you lack motivation in general, and right now you're using this anxiety as a scapegoat. You seriously need to work on your time management

>>16895839
I admit that, this semester I've had the hardest classes with the worst schedule I've ever had. This entire time I've been rolling with the motions and it's been a time management disaster.

Where should I start to fix this? I have the rest of today until Monday morning before I have to finish all my assignments and go back to Uni.

last bump

Warm and safe. Nothing better than cuddling up to your SO.

Your dad and I hold each other, then he swishes his toung around my mouth. Feels so nice we made you kido!

>>16895782
Kissing is honestly a little disappointing. Its just someone's lips pushed against your lips. It's the closeness to someone you really like that's the intoxicating part. It's the letting your guard down and being able to express those feelings of love and lust while getting them reciprocated that makes the experience 100x better than any casual hookup.

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>>16895781
disable your adblocker

t. resident faggot

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>>16895787
Thanks a lot matey matey! xD
It did let me use ab before but meh

I will!

>>16895781
When that happens I just keep clicking the "post" button, and refresh if it says captcha is wrong, etc.

>>16895760
I make that face when I lose my blood echoes to a snatcher

>>16895760

idk man, sounds like you're just a faggot to me

>>16895760
I read somewhere women are feeling down right after the break and men need more time feeling down. Meanwhile most women feel okay/happy again.

For your situation: Maybe you're now at this point and it's just as it is. But remember why you broke up and canceled the wedding. There were reasons and I would suggest to not do some dumb decision now. Take time to think about in which situation you are and why you have those feelings now.

Maybe this you made a failure and shouldn't break up. Maybe you made a good to move to cancel the wedding. Only you know the answer and I would guess it wasn't a bad decision.

Have fun and distract yourself after you had enough time to think and feel you emotions. Meet friends, have fun, get to know new women.

Say something like "hey man going to any shows soon?" or "i'm going to this show soon, wanna go?"
almost any conversation can be started by discussing something you have a mutual interest in

Don't put so much thought into it. Just talk to him like a bro. It's not like you want to fuck him or anything... right?

>>16896395
No of course not. But I feel like a queer when I want to have a connection with another human being.
Also >>16895740
Thank you

schadenfreude

Sadism? Nhilism?

>>16895730
Whoa there edgemaster. Tip your fedora any harder and you're gonna hurt someone.

yeah, talk to your bank and tell them there are two fraudulent or erroneous charges on your account, and ask them what to do about it.

Well have you talked to your bank like they told you to?

>>16895739
N-no I have really bad social anxiety I do not leave my house. That is why I do not what to do.

>>16895710
She's gonna femdom her way out of your relatioship

>>16895717
Is that common in that case? I mean it is not like we have lots of normal sex.

Body worship, the cutesy Domme nick names like Princess/Queen/My moon and stars, learn to give massages/manis/pedis/do chores.

>>16895703

I can always apply again in six months, enough time to fully clear my system.

It is my dream job and I do not want to risk being black listed.

If anyone has been through this before, please share your experience.

PS: I do not want to try those flushing products, they cause higher creatinine which they usually test for and consider it being tampered with

Say it's medical marijuana.
I say this with no proof but I don't think an airline would care all that much about some THC in your system (unless you're the pilot). Just don't smoke in the month coming up to it and hope it goes well.

>>16895718
The thing is, they will call me on the 22 to book it and it will be within that week. I really only have about 17 days to detox, which i'm nervous isn't enough.
I am going to buy a drug test kit to test myself on the 21 as well, to see if it is gone