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Any fellow lawyer / clerk bros?

I have an interview with a criminal judge tomorrow, and just need some advice. What kinda questions should I ask if, during the interview, he asks ME if i have any questions? Obviously not trying to ask anything superficial, and I already know about his current cases and the types of cases he hears.

Any help would be appreciated, thanks guys
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>>16896778
bump, i know its a kind of specific question but can't think of anything so i could use the help

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I have a paper to deliver of which I have to show pros and cons for a condition analogous to slavery, my subject is "Reasons that made Haitians leave Haiti and come to Brazil", I've seen several problems that lead them here and how that kind of labour is constitutionally wrong, but I have to present the other pov as well, of the employer that doesn't pay and exploits the Haitian. Can anyone help me out?
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Is it more cost effective to not pay people? If it was me I'd look into that.
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>>16896863
Well, you are right, but considering that it is illegal to exploit workers for over 14 hours a day with no payment I guess that this would be a weak argument.
Actually I thought of something, the employer made that person work in those conditions to make sure that s/he was capable of doing the job, so he gave that person an opportunity to show what they could do without risking to sue someone that doesn't even have all the documents to stay in our country, it's a really lame argument but it is something, right?

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Hey /adv/. I'm gonna be attending an open house with a group of people. We're college students looking to rent a place next year. Problem is, there's another group also vying for the same space.

How do you nail an open house? The place is really nice and is close to the campus so we don't have to drive to it. We want to really impress the owners and convince us to be the group that rents it.
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You come dressed nicely, be polite, emphasise that you're not the kind to have parties and whatnot, and most important of all: offer to pay more than the other group.
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Make sure you don't give off the appearance that you smoke or might trash the place.

More females will be ideal.
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>>16896755
All those are good, thanks!
>>16896759
We only have 1 female in the group but I'm fairly certain the other group is all male.

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From my experience so far in life I've learned that 98% of people don't seem to care for the real me once I open up/start to feel comfortable around them. On the other hand when I fake being someone I'm not I'm liked a lot but still feel lonely because they don't even know the real me. If someone doesn't like a fake persona I don't care because that's not the real me anyway. So I can be fake and not care if I get rejected but not being able to take peoples affections seriously because it's based on a lie. All I know is there is almost never any plus side to being my real self. I'm introverted at heart but I would still like maybe just one person to connect with. I'm also a dependent person due to adult ADD. I can't learn anything that I don't really care about, which makes supporting myself challenging. I guess that's where I get a slight selfish side from. Subconsciously putting others wants before my own when I think they are all much better off than me to begin with makes as much sense as a starving person sharing 1/2 their lunch with an obese person who already ate. What do you all think I should do about it?
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Probably find that one person you can be open with? I'm guessing there's a reason people don't like the 'real' you.
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I've opened up gradually through the years, and some of my pals are even reconsidering why I'm even their friend. But I just do what I enjoy. If they say fuck me, then fuck them too.
Regular kiddo
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>>16896738
Maybe the real you isn't all that interesting dude. Sorry. But the commie pinko liberal faggots you've had through grade school probably didn't tell you, you were a mediocre human being as to not lower your self esteem(which didn't work, your a pathetic sad sack even know)
I suggest getting your balls out of your purse, and grow the fuck up. I swear to god if anybody on this board is over 20 than this country is beyond ducked

Right now im starting to get my shit together. I realized i need to start looking for a career, starting off with a decent job. The problem is....When i compare my favorite career i get lost in lust moment. ( i want to do everything). i wonder off in a dream and see myself do that job.

Is this a problem? i think i dream too much. i expect than reality.
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I m 21. i feel late
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>>16896736
21 hahahaha. There are people in my college who are 30 and up and lost. We all lost boi. You'll be fine.
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>>16896736
I'm my case I've dubbed that problem maladaptive daydreaming.

I over dream my career/living situation and end up doing nothing all Fucking day.

Hard to fight it

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Hey adv I need help. I can't stop thinking about this girl.

I've never connected with anyone the way I did with her. She is literally the epitome of everything I ever wanted in a mate. We were extremely close for a while but I couldn't make a move because she had a fiancé and a kid with him and I didn't want to get in the middle of that, no matter how unhappy she was with that piece of shit. Anyway I fucked up bad and as a result she thought it would be better for her and her family if we didn't hang out anymore.

It's been almost 2 years and I still can't get her off my mind. She has since left her fiancé and is with a new guy now. It breaks my heart knowing she probably never thinks about me anymore and that she is happier with him then I could have ever made her.

Anyway adv how do I get over her?
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>>16896709
I was in the same position (being with the perfect girl in every single aspect) , but we actually dated and it just didn't work out.

I just completely cut her out of my life, and after about 3 years I forget what she even looks like now. My best buddy killed himself and after 6 years I don't even remember what HE looked like. Kind of depressing when I want to get nostalgic and I can't even remember their faces or voices, but at least I got what i wanted...to forget about them

TL;DR: Time, and distance
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Well I was effectively cut off. I've seen her twice in 2 years because we have mutual friends. Every once in a while my close friend who is married to her best friend tells me how she is doing. That's how I know she's dating someone else. I can't tell him how much I miss her though...

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>be bro to little sis
>she's the closest friend in my life
>late 2015 rolls around
>she gets a boyfriend
>suddenly becomes a stranger

Holy shit, this dude straight-up stole my sister.

How do I either get her back, or get a new sister of equal value?
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Errrm... So she's NOT actually your little sister?

She'll either come back when her boyfriend chills or she won't. Not much you can do other than just give a probing hey what's up? Miss ya.
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I think you need a gf. You've been using your little sister as a substitute for lone enough.
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>>16896765
You have to have sex with gfs and do couple shit though

Sisters are funner and less needy and they can actually be funny unlike the ones you can reproduce with they're never funny

I'd just wait until the guy fucks up their relationship and slide back in

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I can't hold a job because I have PTSD and I can't drive and everything is so far apart in columbus.

What do?
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Apply for disability.
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>>16896699
That counts?

My legs give out whenever I'm near anything larger than an SUV.

Who do I see to get help? My family hasn't been much help whenever in ask them. 10 years I've been trying to take this

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>be me (grill in 20's, ok looking, very academic, never have a boyfriend)
>go to a wedding
>see a fit moody boy
>he's a film student, looks sensitive im into it
>flirt and give him my number
>hang out a few days later
>watch film and make out
>he find me funny and we get along great
>he lives in a different country but has family here, and is thinking of moving after graduation
>he sent a sweet message the next day
>I sent a picture in the lab (imagine blink182 nurse but not sexy) and asking him how his tourism is going
>12 hours later no response and hes active online
>i'm going back tomorrow, wanted to see him
>should i give up now?
>do i ask to go out for drinks or do something cultured during day time?
>I'm always working hard and i never put myself out there.
>pls advise fellow internet
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You should ask to go out for drinks ONE more time. If no reply then give up.
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Could just be he was busy and forgot/wasn't actually active (my phone always shows me active on everything--I never am).

Go ahead and give him a Hey, leaving tomorrow but want to meet up for X before I do?

Not like you've got much to lose.
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>>16896702
no he's liking stuff online, in fact something like 7 mins ago. I'm interested in forming a romantic link.. i don't want to be a silly fling. can you give me advice on what to look out for and how to speak to him?

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Is it kosher to have a sexual encounter with someone that's super high when you yourself are not super high as long as it isn't the first time you've boned and you're generally on good terms?
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That's between the two consenting parties. I've had sex with my boyfriend when I'm tipsy/high and he's not and vice versa. But we agreed while we were sober and while intoxicated.

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Hey /adv/. I'm a 140lb. male who gets a good amount of exercise. I previously smoked about 6 bowls of weed proper in a week for months, and stopped smoking about a week ago. I am going to have my urine screened for THC, potentially tomorrow. I just took about 1,050mg vitamin B3 a few hours ago, along with some cranberry and dandelion tea. Is it likely that I pass, or should I up the dosage? What other tricks can I try?
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>>16896650
ur fucked dont even try
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Your boned man. Borrow a friends urine. If you dont believe me go to cvs or some drugstore and get a 20$ drug testing kit. They are weaker than ones u would normally take in a professional setting but if . U cant pass that...
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>>16896650

Exercise
Donate blood

Drink alot of water

Eat shit tier mexican spicy food, something to really clean your bowels out.


Don't mix this with donating blood but get piss drunk, make your kidneys do overtime to clean out.

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So I am 20 y/o

My dad was in Vietnam and shitty childhood for me.

My class is talking alot about Vietnam war and the lecturer is getting students to read alout and offer opinions about it.

We have to do an oral presentation on it.

When I started the course I was really sick and told her I don't want to but she made me anyway, because she likes to pick my brain.

How can I build my confidence so I don't fuck up and fail the unit?

Also, is it normal to be a direct descendant at my age? I just want to blend in if it comes up. Maybe lie and say my grandfather?
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You can just say your dads ptsd gave you ptsd
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>>16896664
that's a thing?
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>>16896664
oh shit, I fit the bill for PTSD

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Okay /adv/ I've never posted here before but I don't want to tell anyone in real life about this and I don't know where else to tell anyone.

When I'm alone in my house, maybe just surfing the web or watching T.V., I'll stop what I'm doing, get up, pace around and start to have fake, out-loud conversations with either myself, someone I'm about to talk to, or some outlandish other shit. Like if I'm going to visit my mom, I might anticipate what she'll ask and, out-loud, have the whole conversation with her, just guessing what she'd say to my replies. Or other times it'll be something weird, like I have a poster of Rocky 1, 2, and 3 on my wall, so I might get up and start having a conversation with the ring announcer after I won a boxing match, making up a whole story for myself as I go, again, out-loud to no one. And then when I get deep into it I'll realize I'm doing it and it's fucking crazy of me, then switch the conversation to myself and have an out-loud conversation with myself about talking to myself. Or have an out-loud conversation with a therapist about it if I ever visited one, and say what I think she would say and then reply to it and it's like hard as fuck to snap out of. Depending on how long I'm alone, it can last a very long time. So am I fucking crazy or not? Has this ever happened to someone?
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>>16896646
I do this a lot, not sure how normal this is... but I've done this since I was like 6 yrs old. (No I'm not some loner). I'm pretty popular, I'm dating a really beautiful girl as well (6 yrs in). I think of it as a way to remove stress/anxiety.
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>When I'm alone in my house, maybe just surfing the web or watching T.V., I'll stop what I'm doing, get up, pace around and start to have fake, out-loud conversations with either myself, someone I'm about to talk to, or some outlandish other shit. Like if I'm going to visit my mom, I might anticipate what she'll ask and, out-loud, have the whole conversation with her, just guessing what she'd say to my replies

I do this bro
...I'm not going to say you're not crazy because I'm kind of fucked up myself, but I think others do it, its a form of practising social contact maybe it you are devoid of it, and nervous about anticipated social situations, it no different that practising to ask a girl out in front of a mirror or something.

You're fine.
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>>16896666
See told you bro.

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What are you supposed to do with friends?

I've never been the initiator in a friendship, and it feels incredibly awkward to ask someone to do something. I've only hung out one on one with a few people I've been close to for a very long time, and I don't drink or smoke so that makes it even more difficult.

I meet people at work/studies and just don't know the process of becoming better friends with them. Does everyone do nothing with anyone all day?
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I also have no idea how to make friends. I lost all my friends due to marijuana and it kinda kills the vibe when I dont smoke. (Get invited less and shit) plz teach me how to make friends
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>>16896644
Do you have anything in common? If you do then go do something involving that interest

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I think that I might be a hypocrite. Politically, I'm very right wing, identifying as a white nationalist (But not a supremacist... I don't like hitler), reading websites like storm front, and listening to bands like skrewdriver. I get particularly riled up over mixed race relationships. Even though most people in my country (It's a predominantly white, Christian country) are okay with them, I get very annoyed when I hear of them. Even more annoyed when people say things like "love sees no colour" or whatever... Don't ask me why, idk. However, at the same time, I'm madly infatuated with this Muslim girl... Although she wears the hijab (headscarf), she's very liberal. She wears lipstick and makeup, and can be very flirtatious... I've never had the courage to say how I feel about her, though sometimes I think she suspects. She doesn't know about my politics, and that brings me back to where I started... Am I a hypocrite? Am I losing my marbles? Have I already lost my marbles? Btw, it's been this way (or these ways), for many months.
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>>16896637
No you're growing up. Stop paying so much attention to trying to fit into a criteria, and focus on just being a decent human being.
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>>16896637
>I think that I might be a hypocrite.
Yeah, pretty much.

This is not uncommon among your ideological circles. You aren't losing your marbles yet -some would even say you're coming to your senses- but this can't continue. One way or another, the cognitive dissonance will eventually drive you nuts. It is only a matter of time. The only way to avoid it is to straighten your head out, one way or another.

And that means you have a choice to make. You can abandon your principles, or you can abandon your love. I cannot tell you which way to go -that's something which has to come from you and you alone- but either way, you are going to have to abandon something dear to you.

I am sorry. I know this hurts. But the only other option is allowing this to drive you crazy, and that is no option at all.
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>>16896637
If you're talking about the US- get over yourself and accept that it's no longer a 'white' country and shouldn't have been in the first place.

if you want to go full on white pride maybe you should move to Europe (i have a feeling you're not talking about a European country) and embrace your culture where it's appropriate.

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