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How to Become Mr. StealYourGirlfriend 2017-06-29 09:27:18 Post No.18469191
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How to Become Mr. StealYourGirlfriend
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>Hanging out with female friend tonight
>Met at campus student club; we talk at every club get-together, and she says I'm her favourite person there to talk to
>This is the first time we'll be hanging out together outside of the club
>She has a BF, but he's going to school in another city
>She said that he wants her to go to that school with him.
>She said she isn't excited about the idea of moving to that city, but that she'll at least apply to make him happy, I guess
I dunno, I kind of get the feeling that she might like me as more than a friend. I'm thinking that she might come to the conclusion that there's no point moving to a city she doesn't want to live in just for her BF if she has options here.
But at the same time, I don't want to do anything shitty, like make moves on her while she's still with him, or try to break anybody up. It'd be better if she just made the decision herself without my influence. But if that doesn't happen, I'm still down to be friends with her because she's cool, and there are plenty of women in the world, anyway. So, I wouldn't want to do anything to ruin the friendship is a relationship doesn't occur.
What do I do? Should I treat tonight like a date and flirt with her? Or just treat it as a friend thing?
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just treat her as a friend and don't have any romantic expectations.
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There's also this other girl:
>Friend of a friend's; Not entirely sure, but I feel like she flirts with me
>But she just might be flirty; I see her being really cozy with a lot of dudes
>Is super tall and hot
This one, I'm not really looking for a relationship with, as we don't have a whole lot in common. But she's nice and hot and has an amazing ass, so I wouldn't mind just smashing.
How would I go about that?
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pro-tip: "long distance relationship" is a contradiction in terms. Treat her as you would treat any single girl who's potentially into you.
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Too much of a good person for this world 2017-06-29 08:51:28 Post No.18469092
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Too much of a good person for this world
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I feel as though I'm too much of a good person for this world, and I can't see myself living too much longer. I'm only 22.
Even when I try to be distant and keep my guard, the real me comes out, the caring, good Christian (now agnostic) that would always do the right thing comes out eventually. But that's resulted in me getting disappointed in people who I expected to have the same standard. There is no greater good keeping balance in check, so me being good to people can still result in something bad happening to me which to me doesn't make life worth living. And I know no one is capable of loving me the amount that I'm able to love someone else.
It's a never ending cycle, I let my guard down, I get disappointed by people. I'm not sure if I can handle a lifetime of disappointment by those close to me. The only reason I haven't killed myself already is probably because of weed dulling the pain and me being smart enough to not try anything else.
The only affective way to cope for me is to sort of turn that sadness into rage. Don't think that's healthy though.
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Listen anon, that may very well be the way you feel right now, but I can sincerely tell you that there are more people like you with the same problem. All you need to do is look for them. Please, I may not know you, but please don't kill yourself. It's a permanent solution to a temporary problem. You can work through this.
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>>18469092
You are a pure, kind soul that this fucked up world needs but doesn't deserve. I was like you once, kind and nice. But being overly nice when you don't have to be is like sweet poision and honey mixed together. People will be attracted to you because of your kindness and will try to take advantage of you in the long run. This leads to the poisoning part of your life, setback after setback. It's what turns a good man into a bad one.
Do what you want with your life, I am nobody to judge. But one word of advice, treat the situation with eauality. Kind with kindness, insult with insult. Don't be a bitch.
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How do you stop yourself from pining after someone or alternatively how do you win them?
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getting a life helps. But I've been there broski. Just stay busy and get in the flow of doing something, preferably making something. Then you'll forget about the pain and feel very satisfied
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Been in Florence for about a week studying [spoiler]Art History[/spoiler] abroad, I'm here for about another three. Went to the Uffizi gallery for the second time today because I realized I missed seeing Titian's Venus of Urbino on my first runthrough with some classmates so I figured I'd do it solo. But as I was going, this really pretty girl was going almost the exact same pace as me looking at nearly every single thing I looked at for a solid half hour as I was strolling through the gallery. I'd gotten to the room and just got done looking at the famous painting of Martin Luther and his wife (pic related) when she asked me something in Italian. I clumsily told her that I don't speak Italian and she figured out I was an American and luckily she spoke English fairly well. Her name was Angelina and we walked around the last leg of the Uffizi just talking, we practically forgot about there being art there. Walked around Florence awhile, sat down in the Palazzo de Medici until they closed it just talking. She told me that she was going to Malibu tomorrow to meet some American friends at some point during the conversation so that didn't really bother me, but we parted when she told me she needed to pack. I gave her my number so we could chat on Whatsapp later
Now I'm sitting here pretty depressed. I have a gf that I'm pretty into but its not even that I don't get to fuck her or anything, its that I'll probably never see her again, just as a friend. Making a connection with a person like that in one day and just having that pulled out from under you the next is pretty rough. How do I deal with this?
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Realized my post is way longer than it needs to be
tldr; made a good friend here in Florence today but I will never see them again, more than likely. I feel shitty, how do I cope with this
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maybe stop being a faggot
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You're going to have lots of interactions like that in life, just appreciate that you had those. One of the best conversations I've ever had was on a flight to England with a lawyer that works in Charleston, I'll never see him again, and it would be cool to. But just having that convo was a great experience in itself.
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Hello /adv/ for background I'm a 24 year old girl. I'm an orphan who's been living with my uncle and aunt for 12 years (they took care of me right after my mom died)
I've a male cousin who's living in the same house, he's 27. He's recently back to the house again 2 years ago, after my uncle died, before this he was living in his own condo since he was 22.
I think I've fallen for him hard. We met years ago when I was 12 and was taken by uncle from another state to live with his family.
Before this we almost never met and too young to remember each other. Of course being a male and female growing up in same house we've had phases when we were fooling around, but it was never went too far.
I've been through 2 long-term boyfriends before I'm falling hard with my cousin, so I think I've enough experience with opposite sex outside.
My cousin too is kind of popular guy, and he's recently changed from chubby to being muscular. I've met his girlfriends before and they were always a lot prettier than me, so I think he's got fair share of experience with women too. He just break up with his long term girlfriend 9 months ago due to distance reason and her parents not approving or something.
A month ago he's confessed to me he's always looking at me as a woman and he desired me. When he said that I just laugh with him and we're back watching some netflix together in couch.
Then two weeks ago when we were alone in house he's confessing to me again, his tone is serious and this time I'm really nervous. That night I couldn't sleep and after that I was nervous around him for a week. For this week the tension is normal and we're back to being as usual, he's even act usual not bringing it up again.
Yesterday I catch a glimpse of him chatting up a girl who could be his next girlfriend and I admit I'm kinda jealous.
Yet inside I feel a deep longing and I think I've fallen harder to him. What should I do? Should I pursue him? Is it even moral?
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It's looked down upon by society and you know this. That's why you're asking /adv/. You want to cherry pick the responses that agree with you so you have more courage to act on them. He just broke up with a gf and is already chatting up another girl. You are obviously a rebound and/or just convenient. Do better for yourself.
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Well yes, I want to read responses that could encourage to act on them, but I suppose the responses that disagree and could reason me to not doing it are good also.
And this girl is his childhood friend who's recently back from Germany. My aunt keep pestering my cousin to go for her, but last I asked him about it he seem to not regards her for more than friend. It's just I can't help but to become jealous.
I do know I'm potentially a rebound, that's why I was laughing at him the first time. Yet this time it feels so much, and to be honest I'm harboring a crush on him since I'm 16.
Where I live, cousin marriage is legal, but of course yes it's still somewhat looked down upon. That's why I'm kinda torn on this.
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You've made up your mind and because it's 4chan, you'll find enablers and people who will tell you that it's hot, okay, and you shouldn't worry about moralfags. So what's the point?
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Alright /adv/, I'm at a loss here. My hair has been thinning to the point of noticeable recession at the hairline. I went to a dermatologist and they concluded that it was the beginning of MPB and excessive scalp flaking. They advised me to buy liquid minoxidil.
I still am under constant stress and only get 3-5 hours of sleep a night. I balanced my diet and started to supplement a bunch of stuff that seems to help with regrowth somewhat.
-Biotin 5000mcg
-B12 500mcg
-Vitamin C 500mg
-MSM 1000mg
-Chia Seeds
-Iron 65mg
-Zinc 5mg
What else should I do? I don't want to have my hair to grow dependent on Minoxidil but I would like my vellus hairs to grow.
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Make sure you're eating a lot of protein as well. Cut out sugar as much as possible - insulin spikes can speed up hair loss. Obviously your stress and sleep situation are major factors in your hair loss, you need to get that under control - meditate.
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>>18468949
>I still am under constant stress and only get 3-5 hours of sleep a night.
Deal with this and it will probably grow back if it's not genetic. If your body is under stress, hair is superfluous and it's not going to put any resources towards it because there are more important parts of your body that need them. If it's genetic, then there's really nothing you can do about it other than slow it down, and you can do that by dealing with the stress and sleep issue.
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Get on finasteride right away
How does treatment of gonorrhea work ?
I got the medication , the burning got less and less, now after 4-5 days it kinda started again .
Should I take the medication again or wait ?
Additional information , I'm not able to go to a doctor because there's none around here.
Also I furiously masturbated yesterday, maybe that had some influence ? I really don't know.
The medication I took is orally, 400mg cefixim and 1000mg azithromycin.
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Heartbreak. How do you get over it? Never really believed it was as painful as people said until I started to experience it myself. This is debilitating and it's everything I can do to actually perform well at work while having this constant chest and stomach pain. Even if I manage to forget about it for awhile, all it takes is the slightest reminder of her and suddenly it all comes crashing back.
Help. It hurts. A lot.
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I wish I knew; I guess being busy helps and it goes away with time. My problem is that I can't stop thinking about my person so my pain is always intense
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Time, no contact with her, stay active. All you can do. That 2nd one is the most important.
You will come out stronger on the other side. Godspeed, brother. We've all been there.
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Not OP, but does anyone know why emotional trauma like this causes a intense physical pain? Are your chest and stomach muscles actually constricting and hurting or is it all in your head? Genuinely curious from a biological positive.
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Hey guys, recently i was talking to a coworker of mine and she slipped some hints that she has access to my pictures and can overhear me while i am in range of my phone, i don't know what to do and how to stop it; i already checked all my apps and which are having access to my wifi and i even resetted my phone and put a blank os on it. I have a samsung galaxy s7
Please help me out...
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>gf is "spiritual" and buys tons of hindu/buddhist themed decorations and is into energy crystals and alternative medicine like reiki
My gf isn't retarded but she buys into this stupid shit. Is this just a woman thing?
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No, it's not a woman thing, she's just being retarded and has poor spending habits.
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Women always buy into spiritual products a lot more, like fucking horoscopes for example
i have no clue why.
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Ex chain smoker anon here
I've not had a cigarette for about 3 months now but all I think about (especially when I drink) is smoking, I told myself I'd never smoke again but recently I've just sort of missed it and considered being a part time/social smoker, but still 'scared of falling back into it'
What do
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Vape.
It sounds gay, but it's better.
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Give yourself an inch and the addiction will take a mile. Don't give yourself excuses. The only answer is no cigarettes ever again.
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Find an activity to do or product to consume every time you feel like smoking. Preferably something that has a few things in common with smoking. Best example that comes to mind right now (excluding vaping, since that's pretty unhealthy too) is chewing gum.
Also read "The power of habit" by Charles Duhigg.
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/adv/ I've been told by a few people and my girlfriend especially that the way I normally speak sometimes comes across as fierce and that i sometimes seem to be yelling or sound angry even when i did not intend to do so. Any way for me to change this?
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Bump. I need some help guys
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Dude calm down! Stop yelling! You seem angry and upset
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I wish I had advice but Idk. I have the problem of speaking fast. I managed to consciously slow down sometimes but it often comes back and I still speak fast most of the time. I guess you can consciously lower your voice volume and try to speak more slowly?
Do you notice yourself sounding loud and angry or not at all?
Also I think there's a trick where you hold two sheets of paper horizontally, one to each side of your head, in front of your ears, and when you speak you hear yourself the way others hear you? Not sure if it was like that or if it really worked but maybe it helps to hear yourself.
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I accepted two jobs this week. Job A doesn't start until the beginning of September, and Job B starts next week. I'll quit Job B once Job A starts, because Job A is not only higher paying, but the type of job I want.
Is it wrong for me to just take Job B to pay my bills and then bail? Everyone is telling me to look out for myself, but I can't help but feel bad, they seem like such nice people.
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you should job shut the fuck up bitch
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I failed my second year at univeristy, I have 2 resits that I'm highly unlikely to complete and it's completely my own fault, I got so stressed over it and didn't have the skill or diligence to complete my work, and for some reason I thought that I had a chance despite having barely any experience in the field I went into. How fucked am I /adv/? It hurts so fucking much, I don't want to be an unhappy lowlife that works a shitty low paid job but I've fucked up my chances at getting a good job. And I've heard that if you don't have a degree, you're fucked. My life is a total fucking mess, and I was stupid enough to not only believe I had a chance at success, but to get myself into massive debt because of it.
I'm 21, and I want to make it to earning 40k, do I have a chance if I work on the skills I've at least managed to begin developing at uni or have I fucked up my one chance?
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Also I don't know if it really matters, but over my second year I had 2 mental breakdowns over how shit I was at my course.
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>tfw I work for the post office selling stamps and I make 39k a year without a college degree
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No student debt tho, also how old? Our job opportunities for non graduates are lower than ever.
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trying to manage my social media account before moving to another city to go to college. 2017-06-29 06:25:04 Post No.18468673
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trying to manage my social media account before moving to another city to go to college.
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I basically have 0.0 irl and I only left around 20 of them on fb, only two of which I am actually interested in talking to.
For some reason I need to delete all of my posts, get a profile pic and basically make my account as presentable as possible before I go to college so that I can not be a social outcast this time.
Any advice on how to do this, from how to take my profile pic to anything else really, would be great.
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http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Good-Facebook-Profile-Picture
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> thinking friends on a FB page matter
as long as you don't have a lot of creepy/political posts you should be ok
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>>18468673
Hide your friendslist from everyone (look into the settings). At least that way people wont see that you don't have any besides your mother ad they will not tread you like an loser.
Like some normie shit so your profile doesn't look empty.