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So I have crippling anxiety, have fore a while, my friend gave me some weed, made it worse, tried another, didn't help much, then tried another, hallelujah I was cured, my anxiety was gone I was back to my old self. Problem is no one knows where this weed came from. So i go to dispensaries and ask if I can smell their entire indica line to ID it. Lot of the time they refuse or give me an attitude. Am I asking too much? I go when there's little to no traffic, but still am refused, I know a part of it is my weak deminor coming off soft and easy to push over, I can be aggressive but hate being a dick, but I get my way usually, I guess i still want people to like me.
I feel kind of bad sniffing all there stuff and walking out without buying anything. Thoughts? Should I just go militantly and assert my right as a patient so seek the elusive medicine that helped in a way the medication therapy and 7 years of treatment haven't? I felt like I got my life back for a few hours and picked up where I left off before I got anxiety. I'm willing to go to extreme lengths to find the cure, but is what I'm doing right? Thoughts?
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Have you tried weed a fourth time? Maybe it was just getting used to weed that made the difference, not the strain. Or really any of a number of other factors. I'd be careful about weed, you can get to be reliant on it. But if you want to pursue it, I don't think smelling every strain is necessarily the best approach, you should just try one blindly or ask which strain would be best for anxiety. Maybe try a cbd only strain actually, that might be best for you.
It's kind of weird they don't want to show you their goods though, you could also try going to a different shop if one's around
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>>18470489
Why the fuck are you asking to smell their marijuana instead of just trying it? Ask them which ones help with anxiety and tell them the ones you've tried that didn't work.
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How does one forgive themselves for all their past mistakes, failures and misdeeds? When they've made decisions that have hurt others and had present day repercussions? How do you be happy with yourself when you've violated your own moral code and made you question your own identity?
How do you love yourself when you've injected hate into the world?
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I suppose by learning from your mistakes and atoning, and by realizing that if you can do that, and actually let this make your values grow stronger, you're probably being a better person than most people are.
I really feel this though. I led on my first bf cause he was in love with me, without having feelings for him. Eventually I dumped him cause I knew I was doing wrong. broke his heart, I guess. Since then I've felt like I would never want to do that to anyone so I'm very particular about who I get involved with, but what I did to him keeps happening to me... It's poetic justice, but if I don't stay strong and continue to try to be the sort of person I'd want to associate with, I think my chances of eventually being with others with my own values would go way down.
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I genocided an entire race but I forgave myself for it
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How do you cope when your self hatred is unfounded and irrational but it persists anyway?
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I gave up a few years ago. Then had a nervous breakdown. Lost religion, in process of losing marriage that has lasted half my life, and will lose job unless something changes (might anyway). Most days I lay in bed for 16-20 hours a day. I have the intellectual capacity to excel, but my confidence and hope for a bright future are gone, and in their place are fear and paralysis. Things that were simple for me before are now overwhelming.
How do you regain hope after you've lost it?
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>>18470462
Follow your heart
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Accept everything comes to an end - if anything, embrace it. By giving zero fucks on loss it is surprising how it spurs you on to new things.
Right now it sounds like you are in a rut of not letting it go.
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>>18470624
>in a rut of not letting go
*sigh* :( Yep.
I'm a girl who's lied about my age to a guy who is 5 years older than me, and I don't know how to tell him or how he will react to it. We both really like each other at the moment but it's not a stage at which (I believe) he is so madly in love with me that he would excuse something like that. We have slept together (I am at the age of consent where I'm from)
We connect a lot and I'm just so worried and concerned. Help pls?
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Yes, you fucked up. Come clean and explain why you lied, but without any attempt to weave a sob story. The longer you wait, the worse his sense of betrayal will be. Don't flip out in anger if he decides to leave, thank him if he stays, and seriously, don't do that shit. Lies like that really fuck with a man's view of women. If you're sincere and stay calm, he'll probably be more understanding.
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What did you say your age is and what is it really? Did you tell him you are an adult when you are actually underaged?
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>>18470497
This, pretty much verbatim. You can come back from a lot worse things, but sitting on it is going to make things harder. Own it, be honest, stay calm.
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So I've been with my man for 5 years now.
We have 2 kids now and we've been fighting alot lately.
He enjoys his beer, probably about 4 days a week. He's been picking fights lately about small things alot, like the last time we fought was because he was throwing toys at the TV and my son was emulating him and throwing things too. I asked him to stop and he started screaming at me that I am telling him what to do ECT. It was the first time but in his drunkenness he punched me and told me to leave if I didn't like it.
The next morning he was very apologetic and really tried to make sure I stayed. It's hard to give up a relationship after so long and all that we went through so I've stayed.
We only started fighting alot probably alittle over a month ago when I found out he was talking to the ex he gave his virginity to.
Now, this ex has been a big part of our fights in the last 5 years.
About a year and a half into our relationship I asked him to stop talking to his ex because it made me feel very jealous (I was barely pregnant so I was emotional). He agreed and stopped it.
I caught him texting her about a year later and confronted him. He agreed to stop talking with her again and told her he was never to contact her.
This last time i admittedly looked in his phone because he was drinking alone and would not come inside to play with his kids or pay any attention to me. He cut off from us and I needed to know why.
he said that he just wanted closure on what happened between him and her and blamed me because the guy I first kissed got out of jail and friended me on Facebook.
I never fucked the dude. In fact the dude I'm with is the first relationship I've ever been in and I've given him my virginity.
I understood his anger towards me so I stopped talking to the guy I kissed years before I knew him.
But here he was still talking to his ex and honestly I was very hurt because he knew how much I hate her.
What do I do?
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the king of gets
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propose to arrange a meeting between the three of you and see how he reacts
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Okay, /adv/, here's a long one about the gf and I, need to vent and see if it's time to end the relationship:
>be me, driving in car with gf to a show
>explain to her my anxiety is coming back, just talking to her about it
>she suggests a method to get rid of it
>I say 'thanks, but that doesn't work for me'
>she goes silent and says 'fine, I guess I can't help you, then, whatever'
>silence for rest of the ride once I explain that I didn't mean it that way
>we park and she gets out to put money in the meter
>she vanishes, returns 3 mins later and I ask where she's been
>she shouts at me for raising my voice
>I try to calm her down and she comes out with shit like 'oh anon, NOW you're logical, WOW' and mimicking me in a dumb voice
>she says she doesn't want to go to the show now 'because of me'
>she drives off, speeding and driving a little recklessly
>I ask her to calm down and drive safely, she says 'I don't care if I die, I wanna crash. Hopefully you live'
>I'm shitting myself for the entire ride
>eventually we stop at a park and she looks me in the eyes and repeats 'you're losing it' 6 times
>I tell her she's scaring me and needs to chill out
>she chills at the park, but then goes 'd'you think this tree can hold my weight'
>I vent to her about how abusive she's being
>she cries and says, after apologising, that if we break up she 'may kill herself'
>I go numb and avoid talking/her advances
I think I'm about to have a full-blown panic attack and idk what to do. I feel trapped and I don't know how to proceed. She's in the shower now, I'm gonna tell her parents and her therapist, but beyond that idk. Advice needed, anons.
TL:DR - Gf argued w/ me, then drove dangerously with me in passenger seat, then threatened suicide
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Why did you tell her she's abusing you?! She's obviously going all sorts of crazies at the time, you're supposed to calm her not tell her she's doing something wrong. Idk maybe telling her that would make her come to her senses but you might've just made her feel like shit even more
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Hi /adv/
I got my first long term girlfriend about 3 months ago. She's really amazing, but I sometimes have a nagging fear she will just leave me in an instant since some girls I dated for a short time earlier did just that, without any forewarning.
If I think about it rationally I'm nearly 100% sure she won't do that since she's
1)a really good person (better than me morally desu)
2)a virgin herself and probably as emotionally dependent on me as I am on her
Still i have this feeling. Will it fade?
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>>18470337
I've been there.
Still there. Over and over.
Hopefully it does go away. Good luck with your new girl, try to savor it while it lasts.
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You attract what you fear. Quit fucking worrying about it, or you will inevitably do or say something really insecure that will make her break it off with you. I use to be in your shoes.
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Is it bad that I like to get my girlfriend to squat over me and pee in my mouth, and then drink it all?
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Was has been seen cannot be unseen.
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>>18470276
I actually get her to piss in a wine glass from time to time, and drink it from there too.
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>>18470273
ummmm......
you do you anon, you do you
Is there anyway to get a free secondary phone number to send texts/calls or just texts? I want to try giving my phone number to girls to talk to (even ugly) just to practice.
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>>18470265
S-K-E-T-C-H-Y. You will look sketchy when you do that. A 2nd phone number? Be brave. Use your own phone.
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I know this chick who had two phones. One was for biz while the other is her main one. Sketchy as fuck too. Two goddamn phones, she gave me the number from her real phone. When i found out she had two phones i stopped talking to her. She was giving out The other number to dudes who approach her at a bar.... Yuck
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One of my friends was recently kicked out of our friend circle because he owed people money and he was acting weird and being angry all the time. I knew he was schitzophrenic when we became friends but I wanted to give him a chance. He also didn't like living with his family so I let him stay with me and my family for a while. But when we kicked him out of our circle, he freaked out.
Now I just recently found out from another friend that he brought meth to use with him. I should have noticed what the signs were pointing to.
Now that he feels I fucked him over, I'm afraid because he's a methed-out schitzophrenic who knows where I live, and he could hurt me or my family.
What can I do? What should I do?
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Bump please help me
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Call the police? Meth is an illegal drug so as long as you're clean that's ezpz way to prison. No more problems.
If you don't know what to say just say
>My friend of mine just recently started taking meth and i need your help to guide him down the right path.
It's possible the only way as he is going to go crazy while being a schizo on meth. If the calls arent your deal get him whacked.
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Is it a bad/weird thing to be a kv at 21(almost 22). I'm not bad looking or anything I'm just socially awkward and lack the understanding of how these things work, I'm not bitter about it, just a bit self conscious.
I'm just curious what your thoughts are?
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>>18470227
I think i got my first one when i was 20. It was a stupid fatty too. But i didn't think too badly of it then. Also i was thinking about being a virgin, but not because it de-valued me, but because i missed the experience. It's never bad being a virgin, but there is a bad way coping with it. Just relax, you'll get there.
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>>18470250
I should mention i fucked a few hotties as well, fit girls. So don't go for a fatty just so u can get a quick fuck. I didn't care much, but ussually you want your first time to be a good rememberance, right?
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>>18470250
I kinda feel like it'll be a turn off to women in the future, if I ever snap out of being a socially awkward fuck, that's probably my biggest concern about it.
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Do you need to move out of dorms every summer during university?
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>>18470221
In my experience, yes. There's some summer residency that's available, but it depends on the dorm and your enrollment.
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>>18470221
Probably, unless you're taking summer classes. In some special situations (e.g. a foreign student who can't go back to home country for some reason) they might let you stay on, though of course you'd have to pay.
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So I have been in a serious relationship with a girl for awhile now but recently something happened that forced it to just become to much for her.
Let me explain, we are going into our senior year of high school and we have been dating for awhile. I am deeply in love with her and she told me she loved me, weather that is really true or not, only she knows. We were both deeply damaged people when we met so we (atleast me) developed and emotional dependency with eachother. The problem is her parents don't let her date at all. So we have been hiding it this whole time. And the first week of summer she came to my house instead of going with her friend somewhere and her mom found out. She was subsequently locked in her house for the rest of the summer. They even set up security cameras.
Yesterday I was with our mutual friend when our mutual friend called her mom and managed to get permission to talk to her under the pretense that she missed her. While they were talking the girl I was dating ended up saying to our friend that her and I could never work. Now I assumed this would be the case because I am a pessimistic person but no one else did. The only catch is that her parents were in the room when she was talking, so there is a chance that she just said it to be safe, but from the way my friend acted it doesn't seem like that is the case.
So my question is, should I even have hope or do I just sulk in sadness for an unknown amount of time?
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>>18470192
Youre in high school OP, your last year no less.
Stay in her life somehow because her parents are going to have to let her be an adult eventually. When that time comes talk about how the love you shared was impeded by her parents.
Also even if it doesnt work out, thats high school man. Try to use the love you shared to empower you and uplift you. Youll find love again if things dont work out and you build yourself up, seriously man its HIGH SCHOOL.
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This whole board is a joke. You know what, if you guys want to nail girls in a spur of the moment, go right ahead. See how far it gets you. Sorry for having morals, and not being an animal. Seems to be the going rate around here. Have funs with your kids, and STD's. But to tell ya' the truth, I doubt any of you are getting laid in the first place. Why? Because a guy who actually does get laid, doesn't have to kiss and tell. Least off all, on the INTERNET! You guys really need to get lives. I can't believe I've even contributed to this garbage. I must be in need of a life of my own, just on the basis of sharing my thoughts with you morons. Have fun bragging to each other about how many sluts in you banged in under 2 minutes. I'm sure it is a great experience for all of you.
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Cool blog post
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>>18470184
wow, such low quality bait.
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>>18470184
mmm, I don't bang sluts OP. I could, its just not an attractive option for me. I'm looking for a ltr situation, I'm just really not finding it. I haven't had sex in like over a year at this point, I was a little busy running a company and didn't care to try and inject a relationship into my hectic schedule. so, yeah, there's a lot of whores of both genders here, but not everyone here just fucks anyone and everyone.
So talking with my girlfriend, I've realized that I let a lot of my insecurities and indecision show. I recognize that that kinda shit is a turn-off, and I briefly broached the topic with her and she said it was fine, but I honestly feel she's just trying to be nice. Our relationship's fine, we're still in our "honeymoon phase" nine months in, but I'm a tad worried that I'm slowly turning her off; and I want to know whether I should change that and be a little more direct if it means possibly preserving our relationship.
What do you think, /adv/?
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>>18470183
I think that you need to use the fact that she was cool with them and you as fuel for managing your insecurities. You are seriously worrying too much.
Your chick is cool and she chose you. Keep being you and keep trying to improve yourself. When you fail and make a mistake or show those insecurities again remember not to lose your spaghetti like you are now. Strong men are forged not born, OP.
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>>18470224
Pretty much this anon.
What insecurities do you have? If it's something about yourself you can change, decide whether it's really worth making a serious commitment to changing. If you make that commitment, keep it realistic and take small, concrete, quantifiable steps towards changing it.
The classic example is body image but this is a good mindset for anything you can meaningfully affect.
Also? Random acts of kindness. One of the best methods I find for feeling like less of a worthless, selfish failure is being nice to people - if I randomly bring my gf a care package when she's studying or write her a nice note before work, I've not only made her feel nice, but I've spontaneously generated evidence that I am in fact a good person.