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>reply an hour too late
it's late bro, she got bored, she never replies
>reply too early
you appear desperate bro, girls find that creepy, she never replies
I mean I've always kinda had a fuck-it attitude towards women but this one broke the camel's back. She texts me (asks me) something about the thing we discussed. I reply like a couple hours later because I overslept since it's fucking weekend and I work my arse day in and day out, I'm tired as fuck. Say sure, is going at X date of the month ok for you as well?
Of course bitch never replied and my buddy told me it's because I replied her too late and she expected me to reply sooner.
I'm angry and this shit games are soul crushing at our fucking age (I'm 25, she's 23). I'm tired of this bullshit man. Should I simply cut contact / only reply in case she writes back? Bullshit thing is I told her I'ma call her tomorrow after I check at work, see when I can actually take a few days off, she said ok. Then today she texted me and I got into this whole situation.
What do you make of it /adv/?
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In the same shoes. I'm very much so leaning towards stopping giving a fuck.
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>>18709598
Just don't message her unless she messages you back. Honestly though, if she's playing these types of games she's clearly not mature enough for an actual relationship.
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> be me
> be 18
> virgin
> be at party
> cool party alof of good vibes
> I leave and when i came back a cute girl was there
> I sat down and we took a shot
> I only had a half a shot cuz I was driving
> she get super drunk (apparently she had 4 shot before I had came back)
> I guess they kicked in
> she was acting super flirty with me
> I wasn't an expert but hey fake it till you make it
> Imadeit.jpg
> we get to friends house for the after party
> she's all over me
> by now she is falling and shit
> we get into house and party a bit more
> they were putting her to bed
> I was like "ok"
> I wasn't too hung up on not getting any
> but wait
> wingman.exe
> the host of the party asks if I'm sleepy
> I guess
> no, your sleepy
> shit ok
> we got to bed
> dude makes sure we are both in bed then shuts the door and turn out the lights
> I wrap my arms around her and ask if she wants to do anything or just sleep
> she says "or do anything" and kisses me
> I'm thinking this is the all go ahead and we make out I grope her a little and make a move for the pussy
> I rub her down there and she moans/sighs
> never made a girl make a noise like that, I rub a little fast
> the host comes in and asks if we are going to fuck
> whatnigga.huh
> I'm like nah
> she says no too
> he leaves
> she lays down
> I ask if she wants to keep going and she is just laying there not responding to me at all
> I'm freaked out and start to think the worst
> the host comes back in because another guy was trying to sleep somewhere
> she leaves
> I lay there a little bit then get up
> this bitch is crying in the bathroom
> what the fuck?
> I become very worried
> the host comes out and says we gotta leave
> he gives a bullshit excuse
> I was with two other guys
> they got kicked out by association
> wake up next morning
> friend is texting me about how people think I took advantage of the girl
> I'm laying
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What the fuck I was just trying to nut. Never in they room did she tell me to stop. I'm so scared and angry, she told everyone at that party. And I can never go to anymore, idk if the police will get involved or not. I hope not.
I just.. I'm freaking out this kind of thing has never happened to me before
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Dude you're a rapist.
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Don't mess with drunk girls, yeah I know it seems like easy pussy but come on, they will most likely regret it the next morning and when a girl regrets having sex with someone it means she was raped.
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I think my relationship is fucked. I was dating her for a year now, we were mostly texting each other because of the distance between us, we met up with each other at least once a week, this was the first serious reletionship for me and her. I fucked it up because I didn't respect her enough and messed up a lot, she isn't capable to trust anything I say anymore, she says she needs time to get herself together, do you think she will ever text me again? What do I do? Would it be smart trying talk to her, if so, what should I say?
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>I fucked it up because I didn't respect her enough
You arent going into enough detail in your whole drama shit but I can assure you that this is just bullshit youre feeding yourself.
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>I didn't respect her enough and messed up a lot
What did you do?
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>20 years old
>Too paranoid of others to become their friend now that I'm not in school
>Paranoid they'll ruin my life even though it's not worth living through it
>Can't stop myself from thinking this
>Stay away from people that used me in the past
>Living a lonely life, but it's alright
I don't think I'm gonna live very long. I'm going to hit around 24-29 and just "randomly" commit suicide. I can't play video-games anymore. I can't enjoy media when my life is this empty.
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why are you still thinking about video games? just let it go man, find something else to do. you just need it to keep yourself busy that's all. you don't actively go and make friends, you take up an activity and meet friends through it.
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>Take up an activity
The issue is that I can't find anything I enjoy.
I like to walk up and down the road, but I don't even really know why I like to do that. I think it just feels natural and free in a world that is abnormal and oppressive.
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Everyone asks me why am I so quiet. I have to admit that it is a little annoying. How do I respond to "You're so quiet!" and "Why are you so quiet"? It makes me feel embarrassed and exposed.
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Say something funny. Why are you so quiet is pretty much code for "Are you retarded, a school shooter, or just depressed?" And the only way to show that you're not one of those is to demonstrate it, by being amusing.
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Why do you think they say that to you, as in what effect do you think they are aiming for.
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"Why are you so talkative?"
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What did he mean by this?
For context, he sent me a photo of my positive work evaluation which said "Anon hasn't been with us for long, but she has been instrumental in our recent success." He said it made him tear up. Why though? And what does this mean?
I'm a girl and he's a dude, by the way. I have a bit of a crush on him and we've hung out outside of work a couple times
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who the fuck knows that's a weird fucking thing to say
seems to like he finds it funny
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It's a little awkward sounding, but I think what he's trying to get across is that he's proud of/happy for you. Sounds like he's into you.
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Sounds like he is proud. Is he your boss/mentor/whatever and helped you learn the job?
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Is this flag offensive? 2017-09-10 07:34:00 Post No.18709471
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Thinking about filling some wall space with a bunch of flags. After doing some research, I'm conflicted on pic related. I personally don't put it in the same family as the nazi flag, but I don't want to be an asshole.
>Implying anyone will ever see it anyways
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Its offensive to chinks
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That's a battle flag and it is still used. However it's not a collection of battle flags right?
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Not necessarily, but most are national/political. For example I have ones like Don't Tread on Me
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I have a weird bump on my arm, pic related. Is there any reason I shouldn't cut it off with nail clippers?
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The risk of infection using nail clippers is not exactly zero. Leave it be and if it starts to grow or change color. take it to a doctor.
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>>18709417
Because it would hurt, because it will cause further infection and very possibly scar over?
Are you literally retarded or just OCD about picking your skin?
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Can cigarettes cause diarrhea? 2017-09-10 06:28:05 Post No.18709332
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Can cigarettes cause diarrhea?
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Hey /adv/
Ive recently started smoking cigs again, and within 5 minutes I am getting the worst (pure liquid) diarrhea and intense stomach spasms. Are the two related?
Ive checked google and not found much besides that smoking can worsen the symptoms of IBS, which includes diarrhea. Ive never had issues with my stomach before so i doubt i have IBS.
Also, i have not smoked cannabis for 3 days, I've been a heavy pot smoker for nearly two years. Could this be the cause maybe?
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Cigarettes do get the stomach pumping because part of the smoke also reaches your guts, but it sounds to me like you have an extremely weak stomach, so you should probably not smoke
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nicotine actually relaxes your anal muscles. so yes, smoking can cause "shit"
pic translate: smoked sausage
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Nicotine is a stimulant. Stimulants cause diarrhea. Duh.
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Another Girl Problem Thread 2017-09-10 06:26:12 Post No.18709325
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Another Girl Problem Thread
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Two days ago I went on a date with a girl from my dorm and we had sex. It was my first time and she was really chill about it, and we had a great time.
Before we had sex we were talking about other relationships we've had and she mentioned this one guy that we both know who's kind of a Chad.
I'm not all too close with this Chad guy but she's hung out with him a few times. It's clear he wants to have sex but they haven't yet. She did mention that she wouldn't want a relationship with him but she wouldn't mind fucking him.
I'm not sure if she was saying that to try to get at me or not, though. Because during our date she was really annoyed with him and he kept testing her making her more annoyed.
After we had sex we both implied that we'd like to start a relationship but didn't really say anything more on that.
She's hanging out with him today and hasn't texted me back when I said "Hey". If she bangs him that's GG and I want nothing to do with her after that, I even offhandedly mentioned it to her on our date.
TL;DR girl I had sex with and want to start a relationship with is hanging out with a Chad that wanted to start a FWB am I beyond saving?
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no thats fine, thats the proper response
you could have tried being more forceful about the 'dont hang out with chad today if you want to relationship with me' thing, but from the sounds of her she wouldnt have listened
whores are whores dude, use them and lose them
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honestly it seems like you've got this figured out
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how to think about women less 2017-09-10 06:25:42 Post No.18709324
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how to think about women less
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whenever i go to anything i always end up chasing the women there. ive an ugly face so it doesnt work out very often (maybe once every 6 months) but the point is that whatever activity is usually marred by the fact i failed again, even when i enjoy the thing im doing (dancing, hanging out, party, whatever)
im torn between a couple of mindsets, as on the one hand due to my ugliness no woman is ever going to (and certainly hasnt yet in 26 years) approach me so if i dont pursue them nothing is going to happen, but then as above this makes me sad when i lose. but, even when i tell myself to just enjoy the night, i always end up hitting on the girls there (alcohol makes me amorous)
so basically, what can do i to change my mind to not be thinking about getting a gf all the time?
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>>18709324
Value your life for what it is. Take a look at it, recognize it, and feel thankful, because it could be a whole lot worse
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>>18709334
thats not really the problem
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So it's about time to renew my license and with it comes the choice of whether to be an organ donor.
Which made me wonder, is there any downside to being an organ donor? I can't really think of any, but the fact that there is a choice just makes me hesitant. What would you choose?
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What are you some kind of idiot? You'll be dead, what you going to need your organs for?
The only issues are matters of personal faith/religion.
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>>18709318
For you there's no downside, you'd be dead or close to it. However if you have family that has strong feelings about what happens to your body after you die, then you might want to consider.
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I'm an organ donor. If something happens to my family or myself, I would be preying on my bare knees for an organ donor. To me, not being one yourself in turn is unacceptably hypocritical if you DO expect to coast on the altruism of other people when your time comes. No I don't like the idea of my body being cut open when I'm dead, but I'll be dead, so me being a pussy isn't considered in the equation.
But seriously there is mostly one downside, which is that in case you die under the right circumstances (can't take organs from most dead people anyway as it's been too long and what not) then your parents cannot be there when you die. Say you are in a coma and braindead, they will have to say goodbye then take you away to remove your organs while you're hooked up to all the machines. When your parents see you again you will be actually dead. So that could be a consideration.
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Non Relationshit Advice Needed 2017-09-10 06:18:21 Post No.18709312
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Non Relationshit Advice Needed
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Background: Graduated high school, didn't apply to any colleges so I'm stuck at a CC right now doing classes to the equivalent of a CS degree. The school's too far away, so I just do online classes (seven of them). I usually just rush through them once a week and get good grades, but then I'm stuck with the rest of the week in my parent's house, in a small town, with no car and it sucks ass.
I feel like I'm in flyover America and should start doing opiods to bring it all together. Half-joke, but I'm extroverted and being in this small town is killing my drive. Whenever I'm in a city I feel alive and whenever I'm with a lot of friends I feel amazing, but both of these are far away. Even if I did have the money to visit them at least once a week, and assuming we don't get absolutely sick of each other, it would still leave me with the same predicament of still having a shitload of lonely days where there's usually no one around me. I know if I had applied to college, I atleast would have been surrounded by other people and would have the energy to change shit, but I'm too weak right now.
I've got some hobbies doing technical shit with cybersecurity, but they're very much solo-hobbies and I find myself doing them less and less to shitpost in IRC with others. I've been thinking about just getting an entry-level job I can go to, do the bare minimum, and use my coworkers energy to continue delving deeper into my hobbies whenever I don't have any work to do. Just until I've got enough of a portfolio to actually get a job in what I want to do.
Extras: I lift two hours everyday, sleep well enough, and my diet is well, but the lack of people around me is turning me into a vegetable. I call my friends every so often, and I'm barely able to hold a goddamn conversation anymore.
This is part getting bricks off my shoulders, part plea for assistance. Any input on my situation is appreciated.
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Would perhaps getting a job so you can have a car solve atleast some issues? Is it too late to get into a college (people must be doing transfers)?
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Yeah that would actually ovle a lot of my problems, if I come out with enough money for gas and insurance. Hell, that's actually what I'm going to do, thanks for the idea. I just need to research how to best go about getting a job.
>Is it too late to get into a college (people must be doing transfers)?
It's not. The classes I'm taking are transferable to most other colleges. All I have to do is get enough credits and pad my resume well enough and I should be able to transfer to a good school.
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>>18709412
> thanks for the idea.
You'd do the same for me.
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Hey guys got a qusestion
6 years ago i hit off with a beautiful girl but i didnt fall in love with her so i left her in order to fuck around. She got hurt real bad. I was her first but i left before we even had sex.
Fast forward to today i meet her on a a party and we chat a bit but not much.
Am i socially retarded for wanting to ask her to hang out again? Am i selfish? Is it wrong of me to ask? Shes a great girl and we never got to know eachother.
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Well, I suggest being upfront with why you left her, simply saying "I didn't feel like I was falling in love." Then lie with "I didn't want you to be strung along at that point."
Then you can ask her if she's like to go on a date and try again, but if you don't think you're going to fall for her this time, then just pass her up.
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>>18709285
Thats what i did ish. I told her i didnt fall in love with her and that i didnt want stay with her just to have sex.
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uni starts tomorrow. 2 of my best friends moved abroad this summer. 2017-09-10 04:51:46 Post No.18709122
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uni starts tomorrow. 2 of my best friends moved abroad this summer.
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they will be gone for a few years. anxious about new semester. dont have much friends at uni. wish me luck guys :)
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Good luck dude! You're gonna make it. Don't be afraid to talk to people and just be yourself
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Make friends and join the marines!
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Starting uni tomorrow too m8. Wish you luck!