how to think about women less

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whenever i go to anything i always end up chasing the women there. ive an ugly face so it doesnt work out very often (maybe once every 6 months) but the point is that whatever activity is usually marred by the fact i failed again, even when i enjoy the thing im doing (dancing, hanging out, party, whatever)

im torn between a couple of mindsets, as on the one hand due to my ugliness no woman is ever going to (and certainly hasnt yet in 26 years) approach me so if i dont pursue them nothing is going to happen, but then as above this makes me sad when i lose. but, even when i tell myself to just enjoy the night, i always end up hitting on the girls there (alcohol makes me amorous)

so basically, what can do i to change my mind to not be thinking about getting a gf all the time?