Two days ago I went on a date with a girl from my dorm and we had sex. It was my first time and she was really chill about it, and we had a great time.
Before we had sex we were talking about other relationships we've had and she mentioned this one guy that we both know who's kind of a Chad.
I'm not all too close with this Chad guy but she's hung out with him a few times. It's clear he wants to have sex but they haven't yet. She did mention that she wouldn't want a relationship with him but she wouldn't mind fucking him.
I'm not sure if she was saying that to try to get at me or not, though. Because during our date she was really annoyed with him and he kept testing her making her more annoyed.
After we had sex we both implied that we'd like to start a relationship but didn't really say anything more on that.
She's hanging out with him today and hasn't texted me back when I said "Hey". If she bangs him that's GG and I want nothing to do with her after that, I even offhandedly mentioned it to her on our date.
TL;DR girl I had sex with and want to start a relationship with is hanging out with a Chad that wanted to start a FWB am I beyond saving?
no thats fine, thats the proper response
you could have tried being more forceful about the 'dont hang out with chad today if you want to relationship with me' thing, but from the sounds of her she wouldnt have listened
whores are whores dude, use them and lose them
honestly it seems like you've got this figured out