A quick list:
>Femanon
>Never even met parents, don't know who they are.
>Abused until 17, dropped out of school then, then was on own.
>Lost virginity at 8
>2 At-home abortions at 13, probably sterile.
>Homeless from 17 to 20
>Started college at 20
>Deep in debt, student and otherwise
>Losing hope
>Alcoholic
Is there really any point in even trying to have a normal life? I'm so fucked up at this point. Seriously considering just going into prostitution or something, and hoping I don't make it past 35, or something more drastic.
How do you 'come back' from a bad past?
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get a job and do drugs to avoid thinking about your past
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>>18603156
life doesnt sound worth it at that point
kys maybe
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>>18603156
Learn what is within your control, and focus on that. You can't change your past, but that doesn't mean that you have to let it chain you down.
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A sick old woman marries a younger man. The woman has her house in her will under her kins name. The new husband has no ownership of it and has never paid a cent towards it. It's a paid off house. The old woman is in strong medications, just had brain surgery, following the brain surgery she had a stroke. The husband is trying to hurriedly sell the house.
DOES THIS SOUND SUSPICIOUS?
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If the husband doesn't have any claim of ownership, he can't legally sell it unless he has power of attorney. Also what if the money is for her care/treatment?
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No offense, but get off 4chan you fucking idiot.
We're equipped to tell you ways to pick up chicks, ways to deal with being emotionally crippled but you're talking about stone cold law here.
Speak to a lawyer about this ASAP, or it'll be done while you're waiting for one of us idiots to respond and give you a most likely bullshit opinion.
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Yes, suspect af.
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I used to have a low key fling with a female friend of mine.
our parents are close friends too and basically have them over during special occasions, major holidays etc.
she was basically my oneitis for a long time but eventually went out different ways. it didn't work out, we never made it known to our families that we had a bit of a fling. she is getting married soon. I've dated other people etc.
people in our families still joke about us potentially being a couple and joke about there being some sort of tension between us and act like we have a crush on each other.
anyways she has quite a unique and uncommon name. and I started seeing this girl who I quite liking who also has the same name.
Would it be weird to make her an official gf and start bringing her around with me.
or would that be creepy like I am trying to replace my friend because it didn't work out between us, since she is getting married soon.
like the whole name thing is purely coincidence and they are nothing a like in terms of looks or personality quirks.
it's just....I don't know I don't want to look like some loser who is pining for her and started dating a girl to replace her.
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no one Will give a fuck
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>>18603138
you sure? I feel as though everyone will be judging me because she has the same first name. a name that's not common at all. as in besides one other celeb. she is the 2nd person I have met with the same name.
it's not going to look like I am only dating this girl because she reminds me of my friend?
like everyone pretty much knows that my friend was my "what if"
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>>18603168
That's the dumbest thing ever.
Nobody will care, if they do by some miracle, they are the really weird ones.
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I don't really understand what I'm posting or why I'm posting it, but why am I the way I am?
Since I was a kid I feel super fucking depressed all the time. Literal just sadness, but I thought once I got a life and improved from pathetic child/edgyteen/neet status life would be pretty good.
It's been ten years since I was an "awkward social loser" but maybe that was never the problem?
27
Male
Married
Employed
And I still want to die the exact same as I did when I was a
Twelve year old nerd
A fifteen year old emo
An eighteen year old NEET
A twenty two year old anime fan
A twenty five year old Knicks fan
And now a 27 year old "functional" adult.
I've tried online therapy chats with anonymous people, I am very scared to try any actual counseling or something you have to pay money for because then my wife will know I'm pathetic as well as being a complete loser and waste of space.
What the fuck should I do? How do I stop being like this?
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>>18603066
He man listen, you have it made I've been all those things growing up, I've also had a really shit childhood and attempted suicide 3 times throughout my adolescents. (Edge-lord here) I put a round in the barrel of my uncles walther p22 and pulled the trigger. Round was a dud, the point is you can get all the way there and go through with it, just for it note to happen, my advice is just stop caring about everything, do your job, beat off, and go to bed. It's not worth the mental stress
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>>18603102
Not*
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>>18603102
I try not to care man I really do.
I don't tell my wife because i'm fucking useless and even though I trust her with the information it's like "why are you sad? *LOL DUNNO HONEY AHAHA*"
I dunno man I just want to be different, I hate waking up and feeling that undercurrent of sadness behind everything I do.
I'm sick of it.
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Hey /adv/ I'm a fuck up but I've created a list of habits I want to start and I would love some feedback on it.
>Wake up and sleep roughly same times every day
>30+ minutes of intense exercise 3 days a week
>For weight/muscle gain eat 1 gram of protein per pound I weight each day
>Cook balanced meals with necessary nutrients
>Cold showers twice a day
>Make bed every morning
>Get 30+ minutes of sunlight each day
>Shut off all electronics and 30 mins before sleep
>28 hours a week of studying, maybe 4 hours a day
>Attend to finances and other personal things every week
>Meditate 5 minutes a day
>Start one conversation with a real person every day
>Paragraph long journal entry each day
>Sweep floor each week, mop each month
>Buy groceries every 2-3 weeks
>Read parts of any good book every day
>Reconnect with friends before end of the year
What do you guys think? Any thing I should add/remove?
also any way to keep myself accountable for all of this? Really want to stick with it.
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I think it's good that you know what you want to change, but that's a long list and it's going to get overwhelming. Rearrange the list by priority, make the top three a habit before you take on three more, which you want to make a habit before taking on three more etc.
>also any way to keep myself accountable for all of this? Really want to stick with it.
Telling people about changes you want to make helps keep you accountable because you don't want to seem like a failure if you don't. It doesn't sound like you talk to many people though, so that might not be the best tactic, at least not at the start. I would suggest putting up the list somewhere prominent in your house, where you'll see it every day. Also make a schedule and set alarms where necessary e.g. getting exercise and sleeping hours.
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>>18603058
I think it's a good list! The main thing I would recommend is to not be too hard on yourself if you mess up occasionally. Probably the main reason people give up on these sorts of things is that they screw up, feel guilty, feel hopeless, keep messing up, and then never get back on the wagon.
A lot of people take a "no excuses" attitude toward goals like these, which is good to a point, but you need to also be kind to yourself as well.
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Good luck bro!
Just don't get overwhelmed!
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Hello /adv/..
This is not my main problem, but it's bothering me a lot, I am in a LDR, my bf and I don't have the habit of sharing picture of eachother and we do not ever use them as profile pictures, we spent around two months toghether until mid June, and now, I don't know why, I can't picture his face in my mind, but I can with his parents, I feel confused, last time I tried and succeded it was our last glance at the airport, and I exploded in tears.
What I do this feelings? What should I do?
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>>18603001
Skyping helps. Do you still send each other pictures?
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>>18603006
His internet connection can't allow him to Skype or do any videocall, and as I said, we don't exchange pics as an habit.
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>>18603001
Stop being long distance.
LDR is cancer and you need to work with him for a way to preserve your future together by one of you changing your life completely and living with the other permenantly, or completely drop the idea and go your separate ways.
I'm sorry.
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How do I stop giving a fuck about being accepted? How do I stop giving a fuck about what's cool and start going after what I think is cool?
I'm tired of compromising parts of myself to appease family and friends, what do? Whether it's clothes, life decisions, worldviews, opinions,mannerisms, language, the music I listen to, the food I eat, etc. I can't seem to stand by my own shit when someone else is around
I'm too pussy to stand my own ground for my own sake and I'm sick of it.
How can I give less fucks on what other people think about me?
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Read up on the philosophies of stoicism and cynicism.
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>>1860298
So just be more like Tim?
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What am i suppose to do in life?
Im 26 and at the point where I have depression. Im hoping this will change soon once I move out on my own and can do things without my parents up my ass.
My week days are just, work 8 hours a day as an accountant, go to the gym, come home after 9pm eat and some tv before bed.
MY weekends are sometimes do shit with friends, but mostly I've been getting high and drinking beer by my pool. Then Sunday afternoon I usually go golfing.
I've been pondering just going full career mode. I didn't like business once I graduated 4 years ago with a Finance degree and ended up working full time as an accountant and going back to school part time for a BS in CS, they took the max credits and the school was 20 minutes from my house. I think Im going to apply for Data Analyst jobs in a year once I get a MS CERT in advanced Excel and I need to find one for SQL. I use excel every day at work, but it's not like macro's or VBA.
Anyways lately I get bouts of depression and end up starring at the floor or considering just offing myself.
I understand most normal people get married and have a family, but I don't want kids and Im ugly as shit (women don't speak to me at all).
Yeah so Im fucking lost.
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We're in a similar boat, anon.
I dare say, career-wise, that you are better than me. But anyway, you need to first find what you truly like.
My current goal is to learn as many languages I can and finish my book, even though I have no idea for what I will use my language knowledge or if my book will be a thing. The secret is having a goal so you can focus on it, and in your case, could be your job improvment.
Eventually, women will show up in your life. And if they don't, buy a Flashlight to satisfy your sexual needs and get a pet, so at least you will have someone who will love you back.
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>>18603593
I like the outdoors and I go outside every weekend but still depressed
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>>18602962
instead of getting high and drinking beer at your pool, do something beneficial. instead of saying that people trying to help you are "on your ass," try to imagine that somewhere in their set of opinions they have a valid point
women don't speak to me at all unless I engage them in some way. in some aspects of your life (like the part about women) you're a self-defeating, self-deprecating person who doesn't want to do anything. being "ugly" as you say, (as if you are the only ugly person on the planet, ha) is no excuse for willing yourself into loserdom with stubborness you call "depression."
depression is a physical state in your brain. almost nobody is depressed all the time, unless they have been traumatized or retreated into a little shell that is not satisfying to them (like agoraphobia, self-defeatism etc.). don't just toss it around, maybe learn something about the condition you are in (which probably does include some depression, yes).
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Guys I fucked up, I had my first time with my girlfriend and ran out of condoms and did it raw, I also wasn't able to cum at all.
Isn't sex supposed to feel awesome. I could fap in 2 minutes to orgasm without failure but here it was impossible, what can I do.
Can she get pregnant if her being on the pill was a lie? I didn't cum.
Will I get AIDS?
I don't know why I was so stupid.
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i hope you do get aids just for being such a pussy
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>Can she get pregnant if her being on the pill was a lie? I didn't cum.
If you came a few hrs before, and didn't take a piss, then there's a chance some cum laying around in your urethra could have been picked up by precum and planted in her vagoo.
If you took a piss prior to having sex, the chances of what I just said happening are less than 1%, because the acid from the piss can kill semen.
>I also wasn't able to cum at all.
You were probably nervous. Don't jack off for a week or two before seeing her and you'll bust.
>Will I get AIDS?
You can't actually get aids. This is a massive misconception. Aids isn't spreadable.
If you fuck someone with Aids, you will get the "HIV" virus, which will remain asymptomatic as "HIV" until it bursts into Aids. Get tested, there are meds to keep the HIV in it's HIV state.
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>>18602954
Precum can knock up a girl too. No real cum required.
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Hello 4chan,
Long story short I met a pretty hot chick from tinder and now she wants to marry me. I've met this girl only once and had sex with her last night. She lives an hour away from me and doesn't know my real name(thank god). Now she won't shut up about getting married and how I'm the one or some shit. She's currently texting my fake TextMe account. The bad news is she might know where I live. What should I do to make her not want to track me down?
I need your help 4chan, you're my only hope
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You do everything in your power to get rid of her attraction to you.
Do shit that makes you cringe.
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>>18602968
I've already gone on a "the government is out to get us" tirade but it didn't work. I need something to really freak her out. Any suggestions?
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Be an alpha and tell that bitch to fuck off?
What can she actually do?
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>So I dated a fat woman for a month
>I did it as motivation that this is what happens if I'm unsuccessful in life
>No sex or any physical contact other than holding hands
>She got suspicious why I wouldn't kiss her
>So I broke it off by ignoring her
>My happiness and success sky rocketed
>I achieved new accomplishments in my life
>She has no idea
>Should I tell her the truth that she was mearly a stepping stool for my success?
>I've lied to her about every aspect of my life except my name
>Also I see her everyday since she works at a place I go to frequently
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Well if you hate her or have anything against her then sure, but you'll just break a stupid fattys heart
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>>18602800
Why would you do that if you already ignored her? Fatty got the fn point unless she autistically msgs you
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Lol dude, why the fuck would you pick someone like that as your gf if you have to see her regularly
you fucked up man. just tell her you aren't feeling it. poor girl.
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How to stop the Alt-Right without turning the damn Goverment into Fascism
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I hate tha Alt-Right and MRA for spreading ideology poison to insecure and mentally weak youth.
Do anybody here has any idea how to crush them.
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>>18602797
Why dont you ask a Himalayan Yeti sighting community notice board for help?
I doubt this Balinese Basket weaving enthusiasts forum can help with your query
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Allow them to present their ideas on the intellectual free market and have the basic trust in your fellow man to allow them to evaluate the alt right for themselves.
And don't consider people advocating for men's rights to be a poison, that shit's show's that you're mentally retarded.
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>>18602797
>implying they're actually doing anything
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Recently met a girl I thought was cute at work. We flirted a bit and I asked for her number, and we texted on and off for about a week before I was able to see her.
We got lunch and went bowling, and I had a really amazing time. She seemed like she was having a blast too- she was laughing a lot, hugged me a few times throughout the date, and we touched hands in a flirty way a few times.
We both were really at ease, and I thought we really clicked. After the date she started texting me goodnight with little blushing faces, and telling her friends about me who said "we should go on a double date". I was riding high and thought things had gone really well.
These past couple days, though, it's like interest has dropped off entirely on her part, really suddenly. We even made tentative plans to see if we would be able to see each other on Sunday, and after I told her to let me know about her work schedule she just... never responded. The entire Sunday.
Since then, she hasn't initiated conversations, and the conversations I initiate, while still pretty enjoyable, peter out and she never hits me back.
I'm not dumb- I realize for whatever reason, it seems like she's no longer interested. I could be overthinking things, I mean it's only been a few days, but I'm getting a vibe that isn't good.
My question is- what do I do from here? Do I simply wait for her to hit me up and meet me halfway as far as interest goes? Should I wait a few days and try to set up another date?
I've never had a first date go that well before, and I really want to see her again- normally when interest falls off like this, it's fine, but here I just want some opinions on what I should do, because the signals were just so mixed and sudden.
Thanks.
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>>18602792
Set up that double date.
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>>18602856
Think it's worth it to text her again?
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>>18602984
You have absolutely nothing to lose.
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How do i stop being socially awkward and scared all the time? I'm terrified of meeting new people and doing new things. I know if i stay like this i will be eternally miserable.
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>>18602776
You have to force yourself to do it. There's no other way. A job or hanging out in a card shop is a good place to start.
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>>18602778
Still in education so i cant really work. What's a card shop?
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I work in a small office 8 hours a day, 5 days a week with a really cool cute girl who is also married. I can't help not be attracted to her and the flirting between us has gotten a lot more intense over the last 6 months. Now I find myself even thinking about her outside of work and it doesn't help she keeps texting me cute texts and smiley faces all the time.
I would never want to ruin her marriage or be a cheater enabler so it's pointless falling for her like this but I just can't control it. How do I stop these feels guys?
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>>18602759
>I would never want to ruin her marriage or be a cheater enabler so it's pointless falling for her like this
Read what you wrote, and actually take it to heart instead of wanting someone to tell you "go fuck her, it'll be okay".
Because it won't, and you know it.
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>>18602759
Find another girl.
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>>18602759
Go Fuck her, it'll be ok