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A combination of tight circumstances and dumb choices now says if I don't have $10,000 by Tuesday someone close to me dies. How do I turn $1,200 into ten grand, or get out of the situation?
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>>18615754
post proof and ill paypal you $500 usd
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make a crowdfunding posing as a trans woman black autistic fatass and you'll see money in droves
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Call the police. Even if you pay you or your family are still going to get fucked up to send a message.

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So I just started a new office job where I am sitting at a computer all day. Many of the employees have ipod earbuds in the whole day listening to music. My problem is that, due to the security level of the office, you can't have your phone with you. So I am wondering if there would be another way to listen to MY music at work without using an old ass ipod or installing anything on my work computer. Also, I hate those ipod ear buds because of how waxy they get and I have a nice pair of full on bluetooth headphones, but I am hesitant to use them because of the bulky look and the idea I might not be able to hear my coworkers if they are trying to talk to me. I don't think my music would be appropriate to play low on comp speakers like other coworkers do, idk what I'm going to use...

tl;dr: how do u listen to music at work without an iphone or old ipod/zune?
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Get a drive and drop your music files onto that. You then bring that to work and plug it into your computer. Open the files and the media player will play your music. If your computer doesn't have a media player program then you're fk'd. Go buy a $30 MP3.

Also don't wear headphones. They're big and give off too much attention that you enjoy fun. Get earbuds and keep volumes low enough to hear others. Keep your shit low profile.
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>>18616134
>plug it into your computer

Most companies have IT security policies that prohibit attaching any device to corporate hardware without the IT department's consent.

Given, 90% of employees are mentally vacant restards and will do it anyway. But still, keep it in mind. OP, if you somehow get the company computer infected with a virus or something, you could get in deep shit.

I don't understand why you don't just buy an mp3 player. It would be fun as fuck to throw back to the 00's with an ipod. Also, there a ton of options for earbuds - you don't have to use the ipod ones.


Do you have Spotify? Because if it's not blocked by the network, then you can use Spotify's web player. Audio devices like headphones don't really pose a security risk, but i would still clear it with IT first.
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>>18616193
Good points. Might I add the computer might be monitored whenever it's booted up. So he might not be able to browse Spotify, and the-like.

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>be me 20 as of a couple days
>good at talking to people but its just me pretending the whole time.
I don't really know what im doing wrong. I want to make myself as socially acceptable as possible and im kinda stuck. i cant really hold down a job
thinking about going back to college. Is that a good place to meet people? what would i need to do to make sure that i make friends and create relationships wherever i go?
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is anyone in Texas successfully using an online casinos to make money? And Are there any online casinos that you don't have to wait 2 weeks to receive a check
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/adv/ please help me figure out something because I'm a dumbass

Do guys like girls who are warm and caring or do they consider them boring? I admit that I'm self-conscious about my character and I have 0 skills in flirting. I'm an introvert and I don't get close with many people but I'm extremely caring towards people I love. I'm protective of them and always honestly say some little compliments or supportive things. I'm understanding and helpful, and trying to be always tactful and warm. I can banter and make sexually suggestive jokes too. And I can be mean and very catty or dramatic but I'm usually not. I've been told countless times that I'm a nice or kind person but is it enough to win guy's heart? I'm crushing on my friend and don't know what to improve or change in my character to be more attractive to him.
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>>18615736
i dont personally see anything wrong. are you making yourself present where you might attract the attention of guys?
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>>18615736
>I'm crushing on my friend and don't know what to improve or change in my character to be more attractive to him.
This made me cringe.


Just ask him out.
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>>18615742
agreed guys like getting attention from girls. will probably work out.

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My friend has a horrible little sister, and she'd like to somehow get her to stop in a way that'd scare her or something but not cause her to tell her mom. Her mom won't help in this situation because she thinks the little sister is an angel or some shit. She can't just ignore her because of course, she's near a lot since they live under the same roof. My friend is younger than 18, so she can't move out but needs to get rid of this problem. I want revenge ideas, but if you have some helpful advice either than "ignore it" or "try to get out and away more or pass her away" or "talk to her(in a non threatening way" then I'm sure to listen.
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how old is she? and how is she horrible
details pls

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I can't muster the effort to talk to anyone anymore. All I want to do is remain secluded in my apartment. I haven't responded to anyone's texts in months. What is going on with me?
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>>18615731
Sounds like you wanna be alone and think about stuff. Probably thinking where is life taking you now.
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Well you're talking to us aren't you ? That's already a fuckton considering all that you've been going through. Proud of you anon
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>>18615731
sounds like you want some time to thiink

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So I'm in a car with 3 other friends smokin up. 30 min later, Friend who is driving gets pulled over for license plate readability issues (bullshit reason). Cops smells weed in the car. Everyone In the car denies having anything on them. Cop then says for everyone to get out of the car. Searches everyone and finds a container with about .35 g's on me. Now I have a complaint and summons for possession of paraphernalia. I have multiple questions.
>Did I get illegally searched?
>Did the cop let me off easily by writing just paraphernalia on the ticket?
>Should I hire an attorney or go with a free public defender?
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Where the hell are you that less than a gram of weed gets you a court summons.. jeeez.

You weren't illegally searched. Smell is reasonable suspicion.

What are the laws around possession where you are?
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You fucking dumb ass.

You got a ticket that's it. Be happy nothing else happened.
You shouldn't have denied shit it would have gone a lot easier.

>got anything on you?
>yeah...
>thanks for being honest I'll let you go with a warning
>thank you officer have a good night

Pay the ticket.
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>>18615737
Northwest Indiana

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Should I get my ears pinned back?

A teacher made some comment about me looking elven years ago and I never fully got over it.
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>>18615719
Your ears look normal lmoa what are you on about
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why do all the people who post their pictures on this board look like damn psychopaths
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Nah. You'll be fine. I bet the teacher didn't mean much by it.

If anyone else makes a remark just call em a fat dwarf or some shit like that.

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I'm 18 and finished high school. I'm not a smart guy or have any useful talents that I could make a career out of. I'm hung up on what should do as a career. I just want a job that doesn't require long term schooling and that I could just pay my bills and put food on the table. Any suggestions?
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>>18615718
Nobody is born smart or with useful talents. You have to work for them.
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>>18615718
Get a part time job and go to a community college to get your first two years basics out of the way while you figure out what you want to do.

Don't wait on college if you plan to go eventually, because if you get into a full time job that you're going to hate the rest of your life, you might be stuck there due to lack of time for schooling and having obligations that keep you from spending time on your goals.

Right now you're young and have the spare time to figure out what you want to do. What are your hobbies? Do you like math, science, technology, cooking, or have any general interests? You don't have to be good at any of these things to get a job involving them, any school you go to will train you to have these skills, you just have to find something that interests you and makes you happy so you have the actual motivation to get better and pursue a career in it.

Trade school is another option if you don't want to go to college. There are a lot of jobs that pay well and need people right now. Have you considered construction or anything maintenance related? People always need plumbing repairs or AC/Heat repairs, and handymen make a decent amount of money. If you enjoy coding or any kind of web development, skip college or school all together because by the time they approve a curriculum that shit's already moved forward to the next level so it's better to self teach that stuff for free.

Just take a while to think about what kind of job would make you happy, and don't let any lack of skill in that area discourage you. A lot of people go into trade schools or college with zero skills and end up doing just fine. I had zero experience in my current field and managed to snag an internship by chance, and now I'm fully employed with a job that I love. Starting at zero doesn't mean shit as long as you have the motivation and drive to get better.
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>>18615775
>Nobody is born smart
Education=/=Intelligence

Don't confuse the lad

Can anyone show me a picture of a manga they made? I dont care if it looks like garbage, I just want to see it. I just want motivation to make my own because it'll be fun. I dont have a dream of getting popular, I just want to make a simple dragon ball fan manga for my own pleasure because I just want to put my ideas to picture.

So please, anyone, just show me anything like a manga/comic/script/story. I just want to get motivated is all.
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the constant fear of failure and rejection sucks the joy out of everything, how do I become more confident?
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I'll give you the same advice I give other people. Give yourself something to be confident about. Maybe it's your looks. Maybe a hobby/talent. Maybe your job. Who knows. But you gotta give yourself something to be confident about otherwise the false confidence will only take you so far, possibly less far than where you are right now.
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>>18615679
I already tried that.
I got a well-paying job.
I have good grades.
I work out.
I can sing/draw.
No matter what I try, at the end of the day, I still feel like a piece of shit that doesn't deserve anything.
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>>18615692
Then you gotta figure out the source of why you feel that way and work on it.

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How do you know if you've fallen out of love wih your partner ? I'd like to hear your stories ideally where there was no cheating involved.

Put otherwise, in a long term relationship, when did you realize that the love you had for someone turned from romantic to "something else". How did you cope? did the relationship end or did you figure something out with your partner.
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Very much interested in this topic right now, I'd really like /adv/'s input on my situation.

I'm in a rough spot personally because I have a hard time knowing what exactly I feel for my partner of 5 years. I undoubtedly respect them as a person and at the begining I can distincly remember being super in love and how that felt like.

Nowadays we still have a tone to say to eachother, but don't have a lot of sex. maybe 3-4 times a month. Physically I still find my partner attractive (although idk if it's a sexual attraction despite the sex being pretty good) and I'm not interested in anyone else. It's just that I feel like the care/love I have for them is becoming that of a best friend/family member rather than a Romantic partner.

I really don't know how I can move forward in my introspection it feels like i'm at a stand-still. How do i know the answer ?
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>>18615665
i think when you get to that point you need to have an honest heart to heart with your partner and ask them how they feel about themselves and how they feel about the relationship. Try avoiding conflict and putting blame on the person as much as possible in the conversation.
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3-4 times a month... better than nothing which is what I get with my bf..

I'd try to imagine a future with and without them, and see where that takes you.

Sorry I don't have better advice for you.

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what would you do with a lump sum of 9000$
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1) Pay off all debts, starting with the lowest amount. If two debts are the same value, pay off the one with higher interest
2) Save the rest in an emergency fund
3) If you have an emergency fund of atleast 6 months, and have no debts, then invest in lowrisk stock
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>>18615663
And this thread is done.
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>>18615658

id make a shitty independent film desu

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How can I inspire loyalty in those around me?
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Give people a reason to like and respect you.
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>>18615661
Like what?
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>>18615656
Confidence, decisiveness, and benevolence.

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