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>>18639350
I just want them to feel my pain

>>18639350
Why not try and be with her?

>>18640029
Because I'm almost certain that she's not at all interested. There was something there, but that was years ago. Logically, I know also that It's best for me to not even try, but I don't know how to feel differently.

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What have you tried so far?

>>18639354
Other people. Moving across the continent. Booze. Weed. Art.

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>>18639369
Arts pretty good. Your other options are not that good.

I'm about to go to sleep but I was in your position, i'll bookmark and reply tomorrow, cheers

>>18639339
Your school/university has a whole department devoted to handling student finances. Ask them.

What do you suppose will happen if you don't live up to the standard of dance that you've set for yourself?

>>18639434
His dick will fall off

>>18639330
>Or do you think most part-time employers are pretty understanding about students who want to travel home to see family during long breaks?
They're not. That's when you're expected to work more than anything.

>>18639333
>tfw want to work to be more independent
>tfw really need to work to make some change for next semester
>tfw will be hard worker during the year just want to be able to see my family that's 5,000 miles away

>>18639330
Are you in high school or college? Every college has a student employment office dedicated to finding you appropriate part-time jobs. Schools probably don't. There your best bet is to walk the streets. Go into every supermarket, fast food place and store you pass and ask if they're hiring. Be absolutely up front about your time limitations. They may not mind about them, but they would resent you promising more than you can deliver.

This is the sort of thread I'd expect from a 13 year old. You're old enough to get a job and buy your own computer if it bothers you so much.

>>18639327
Without being super mean about it I agree with above anon. Grab some part time work and get a small notebook for light gaming and internet browsing. You can make what you need in a month of part time work. Or take out a loan next semester if you're just really fucking lazy

>>18639334
I bought it my self with my shitty Walmart job. Really just want a place of my own at this point but I'm not able to at the moment.

The grass is always greener, she may not be around forever.

Appreciate what you have to the fullest.

>>18639347
Then why am I always so distracted by superficial desire

bc u don't love her

Start with your regular doctor and get yourself a health check. Irritability and headaches doesn't exactly scream bipolar but rather high blood pressure, low insulin or some of the many other common physical ailments that are easily treated once you get a proper diagnose.

>>18639317
Do you sleep enough? Sounds to me like you're constantly tired or hungry or both.

If you feel constantly irritated you need to see a doctor, it's not normal.

You'll get one for your 13th birthday, I'm sure.

1. You look 12
2. We can barely look at you

the fact that you didn't say anything about yourself but included a picture answers the question

>>18639297

>why are we here and not out living our dreams wildly

why not both? maybe its just me but i dont need to be partying all day erry day. I spend most of my day running a business, then spent the last month directing my first feature film, and now im here because its a cozy saturday night, the battles over, and im ready to just chill and catch up on some R and R.

using 4chan does not restrict you from being passionate or following dreams or partying.

as for how to be a popular guy, popularity is literally just being liked by people. for most people its not a game, its natural. if you're just playing a game to make people like you then 1) they dont actually like you and 2) you're going to exhaust your self pretending ot be osmeone you are not.

popularity is also generally used to classify people who are within a certain social construct. are you in school? or do you wnat to be popular at work? there is no 'general' popularity because that requires a certain amount of fame.

>>18639304
He is popular where he goes.
and he has a very strong energy, although it does not have any great physical attributes

>>18639316

so hes likeable. figure out whats not likeable about you and work on that flaw. but perhaps the easiest way to be popular is to just be outgoing. a lot of people think that popular people are just invited to do everything, but they're not. they are usually hte inviters, and they keep inviting. my friend seemed REALLY popular cuz he always had a bunch of people over. but thats only because he invited people over every fucking day

>>18639281

>can't seem to accept

what do you mean by this? do they kill you? do they force it down your throat? do they literally stop responding to you when you try to set up future plans? if so just meet new people. seriously, you're throwing this out of proportion. my best friend has only ever had champagne once in his life. he socializes just fine, even at bars. people question it, but once they realize he isn't judging them they don't care.

i drink here and thereb ut cant much because I was in a car crash and now when i drink i get sick way too easy. people ask questions, and then its right back to normal.

and as a result we also just have each other when we do feel the pressure is a little strong. there are plenty of people in every community who dont drink or dont mind having you over when they are drinking.

also, nice ass, would fuck.

>>18639296
By that I mean people keep asking why I don't drink after I've already told them. Maybe I am blowing it out of proportion..im just pissed right now cause I've been cooped up this entire month in a new city where I don't know anyone. Now I think about it..i used to be okay with being around my friends who would drink but now I can't stand it

>>18639279

invest in your self. treat your self the way you would treat someone you're dating, and you'll realize what kind of affection you've been depriving of your self.

keep in mind i said 'that you're dating' and not 'want to date'. this doesn't mean to give into every single indulgence, when you're loving someone you not only comfort them and let them feel loved, but you also talk to them when they've done something wrong and help them work through their flaws.

do that for your self.

>>18639279
>I've been to therapy and I've taken meds and neither has helped.

Then find a better therapist. It is their job to help you.

>>18639267
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>>18639274
Why are you bumping my thread?

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>>18639284

do you mean gram? 40 an ounce would be really good

>>18639266
May be shit stuff, buuuut that's a lot of weight for that price

we're talking weed here right

My gaping asshole

>>18639247
Where do you live? Looks like an old Eastern compression bomb.