How to be a popular guy? Be me. Handsome, intelligent, but socially

>>18639297

>why are we here and not out living our dreams wildly

why not both? maybe its just me but i dont need to be partying all day erry day. I spend most of my day running a business, then spent the last month directing my first feature film, and now im here because its a cozy saturday night, the battles over, and im ready to just chill and catch up on some R and R.

using 4chan does not restrict you from being passionate or following dreams or partying.

as for how to be a popular guy, popularity is literally just being liked by people. for most people its not a game, its natural. if you're just playing a game to make people like you then 1) they dont actually like you and 2) you're going to exhaust your self pretending ot be osmeone you are not.

popularity is also generally used to classify people who are within a certain social construct. are you in school? or do you wnat to be popular at work? there is no 'general' popularity because that requires a certain amount of fame.

>>18639304
He is popular where he goes.
and he has a very strong energy, although it does not have any great physical attributes

>>18639316

so hes likeable. figure out whats not likeable about you and work on that flaw. but perhaps the easiest way to be popular is to just be outgoing. a lot of people think that popular people are just invited to do everything, but they're not. they are usually hte inviters, and they keep inviting. my friend seemed REALLY popular cuz he always had a bunch of people over. but thats only because he invited people over every fucking day

Popularity comes from being connected with people, especially other popular people. Being connected with the people who call the shots and who get all of the attention comes from having a high value in where ever it is that we're talking about (can be anywhere from a high school, to a fast-food restaurant, to the media). In order to generate value, if nepotism isn't in your corner, you have to bring the most to the table. You have to at the very least be bringing as much to the table as the shot-callers. In order to be able to bring value to the table and curry favor with the shot-callers, you have learn a skill, provide a service, create a product, figure out a way to exploit something or someone until you've made enough money or garnered enough of attention from enough people.

tl;dr get to work