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dumb whore who doesn't know what she wants 2017-03-08 01:12:47 Post No.18109176
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dumb whore who doesn't know what she wants
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my current bf (we'll call him F) and i have been dating for 2 months now and he is already saying "i love you" and "i wanna marry you" and it really freaks me out and i dont know how to communicate to him that it freaks me out so much. I've also got pretty strong feelings for this other guy (we'll call him T) i have had a crush on T for a good 2 years now, and him and i are just now starting to become good/close friends. i really like him, but he doesn't want a relationship with anyone right now. T and i are really flirty (imo) and touchy so i think that he is into me, but i really don't know. i just know that i really like him. pls help, idk what to do with F or T
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break up
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>>18109176
sheeeit, your poor bf.
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you clearly have more feelings for the other guy so break up with your bf and allow him and yourself to move on with your lives
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recommend me jobs that require suits 2017-03-08 01:09:53 Post No.18109171
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recommend me jobs that require suits
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2017-03-08 01:09:53
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I want a job that requires you to wear a full suit with tie and everything. It has to be relatively not impossible to find and somewhat attainable but with good pay
>inb4 lawyer/attourney/proffesor
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Depending where you live, many jobs that 'traditionally' wear suits don't wear suits on a day-to-day basis anymore.
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Professors don't usually wear suits.
But yeah, mostly only lawyers and people who work at/with banks wear suits to work nowadays.
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>>18109171
do you mean a full suit, or just a button up wiht a tie?
most offices encourage if not require business attire. I manage a small business and wear a suit and tie whenever we have clients coming in.
because the business is so small i have stretches where no one comes in so i dress casual htose days, but i still get to wear a suit when the psychic's in town and/or we have clients.
its a good balance or me cuz trust me there are some days you wake up not wanting to put on a full suit.
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My boss will fire me if I go to an interview in California, he knows I'm looking for a new job but needs me.
I passed an interview with a startup recruiting firm that only accepts %2 of software engineers.
How much should I trust them in thinking I am hirable? I don't want to be unemployed if I take the risk and am actually stupid.
tl;dr go to interview but get fired from current job?
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is it legal to fire someone for looking for a new job? Geez
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Prepare well for your interview and take it. Hes a shitty boss if he doesnt want you to grow.
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i mean if you're REALLY looking to get out, getting fired isn't the worst thing that can happen.
and if he REALLY nees you, chances are hes going to /not/ fire you, because he'll need you to do your job until soemone else takes over regardless.
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Hi /adv/, I haven't been interested in having relationships for almost 7 years (I'm 23) and I now feel like I want to get back in the game. I'm an OK/good looking guy from what friends tell me, my bmi is within the normal range, and I am under the impression that some girls are into me. There is a girl who I think I might have a shot with, however having been out of the game for so long I'm unsure about how to proceed. She is a friend of a friend who I hang out with very often, I know her name and I'm certain she knows mine, since my friend introduced us. I've talked with her a few times, I'm unsure about whether if she is shy or uncomfortable, the conversations we've had were short and mundane, and she kept bringing her friend into the conversations . I don't see her often, and at this pace it will take me for ever to figure out if I'm wasting my time. So my question to you is how do I proceed? Do I try to go my friends house often to try to cross her more often, should I add her on Facebook (and risk appearing creepy) ? Should I engage a lot more in conversation directly with her when I get the chance?
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Kys
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Nice bump faggot
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Why can't I think positive? 2017-03-08 12:53:49 Post No.18109148
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Why can't I think positive?
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I'm a 19 year old person, currently going to a university.
My father is a mind-willpower enthusiast. He's 55, and sometimes talk to me about things like thinking positive and "the universe will grant you your wishes". Seicho-no-ie and this kind of things, as he took a course with an Indian many years ago, and was always into this kind of spiritual things.
However every time he talks to me about these things, it gets pretty boring. I don't know if i'm nihilist. I don't know much about these things to be honest. but what i think is:
There's no meaning to life at all. We create things because we want them to last after our innevitable death. We follow spiritual religions and things because we fear death and want something to make us comfortable. So my problem is, for example: Every time they say "write your objectives in a paper. Read them loud every day" I simply think "Why? There's no possiblity the "universe will lend it to me", and i'm not up for wasting all my life in a journey trying to embrace a hope i know it's a lie"
I feel comfortable thinking about that, but when people talk to me about this, shit happens. DESU, i'm studying to survive. to earn money,play songs i like, maybe have some sex and then die in the end. I don't kill myself because there's no painless way to go and i'm such a pussy. I don't believe in nothing else. This is starting to hurt. To see people chasing this kind of things. They'll find nothing in the end, in MY opnion. Why do i think like that?
But i like to take nice photos (pic related). It's a cool hobby, even if i'm not good at it.
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1. You're 19, it's normal to feel this way. I'm almost 21 and in the same boat, but it's getting better.
2. That's not a great photo.
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>>18109159
Do you chase any knowledge regarding this kind of things, being 21? Or you don't care with it?
And yes i hope i get better one day at taking photos.
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>>18109148
Your dad is a penis. You're wrong in my view about the meaninglessness of everything, but your father is more wrong about the universe being an automat.
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What do? (relationship) 2017-03-08 12:37:42 Post No.18109117
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>been in relationship with bf for a little over 6 months
>I have my gay best friend, his brother, as my go to after being friends for over four years. has never made a move on me.
>bf always complaining about me "preferring my best friend" and just talking with him on the phone about whatnot
>he has his go to girl friend, whom he's known for barely this school year and she's bisexual (does this matter?)
>anyways, i always have feelings that he will cheat on me with her since he does take more photos of them together than him and i, more photos of her, makes sure to talk to her daily while i will receive at least a sentence each day, has never complained about her and always finds a way to bring her up
>i am already extremely jealous of other females but me and her are on goodish terms and i'd hate to have her hate me.
>i have told him how i've felt about their relationship since they at times do talk sexually but he sees it as nothing and random and continues to do nothing
i feel there's nothing i can do to win in this situation, i still really love my bf but i can't help but feel jealous about this other girl and be completely paranoid he'll cheat on me. should i wait until i'm completely sure he likes her and dump him or should i take his word? im stuck and my best friend tells me i should wait it out just to be sure. im at a srs loss. thx.
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So you're jealous, but you're doing the exact same thing to him? It's not more okay for you to talk to your friend than for him to talk to his friend.
Like, you're doing the exact same thing to each other. If you're not willing to stop, you shouldn't ask him to stop, either.
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>>18109117
>bf always complaining about me "preferring my best friend"
>i can't help but feel jealous about this other girl
You realize.... That's pretty much the EXACT same shit right?
You can't really call him out on ignoring you with that kind of shit when you yourself are ignoring his concerns.
Complete forget about gay/bi/striaght/whateverbullshit. You do NOT have ANY fucking moral high ground at all here because the reality is, you are both doing shit that is making each other uncomfortable.
Either realize you're being hypocritical as fuck, and tell each other to stop bitching, or else actually deal with it, talk to him, and resolve those feelings of insecurity/compromise and fix the situation so neither has the need to.
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>>18109117
1/10
My bf is going out of country on vaca with two of his friends and staying w family he has there for a week and a half, and he just told me the day before he won't have service? He said he was getting a prepaid phone but won't be able to text me and will try to call (ya right) and I felt bad and he was being An asshole about it and I started crying
Am I wrong or him?
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Jesus Christ, surely you can live a week and a half without calling him. Stop being such a fucking baby
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Iknow but we have been going thRough a rough time so I feel like he's just like using it as an excuse to avoid me and I feel like he doesn't care about me because also something bad really happened and I feel like he should be really concerned about my mental health right now
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>>18109111
And you think nagging him about something that he can't actually help is going to help? What the fuck do you want him to do?
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Long story short, I was diagnosed bipolar a long time ago when I was maybe 6 years old, and I went to various shrinks up until I was 14 or 15. I'm 27 now, and while I've learned to mostly keep everything in check. However, sometimes I just get caught in manic spending and spend too much at bad times. I CAN afford it, but like I'll drop $100+ the week rent is due and be short. Then I have to spend weeks readjusting back into a normal pay schedule.
What the fuck should I do about this shit?
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Bump?
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I don't do the manic spending thing but what I do to try to curb spending is to keep a sort of spending account and savings account. The savings account isn't saving for retirement, it's just where I keep money that I don't really want to spend. I set aside money into savings (which i can only withdraw from X times a month) in order to curb my spending with my checking account. The more money I see in my checking account the more prone I am to spending it casually, so I limit the amount I keep in there. if I really need money for something important I will take it from savings as needed. But since I can only do that so many times it discourages me from spending frivolously, and it makes sure I always have money for things I need.
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plan your spending.
block yourself from spending things without waiting for 24-hour cooldown.
Let's say you want a car. And you have the money. But your current car is fine. So you put that in your notepad or email scraps or piece of paper.
you wait 24 hours and review if you really need it.
Think it over.
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When all you ever experienced is shit you start always expecting shit and become really good at detecting shit
Today I was visiting grandma and she got stressed and asked me to leave, she asked what if I was always complaining about things and I told her that if she did I would listen to her and agree
This is just the person I am and I can't help it, I have been visiting grandma because she is old and alone but maybe she is better off alone than putting up with me
What do you think?
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Bump
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whats the exact question here
what are you seeking advice on
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>>18109569
This^.
I'm interested in helping you, but I don't understand your post. What is your question?
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Hi everyone.
I need some advice about my situation. I met a girl on hot or not (from the pictures I saw she's a good 8.5/10) and after switching to whatsapp for a few days we decided to meet. I don't even know if this is a legitimate date or not because I said that I'd "like to invite her to drinks/dinner". I figure that the best thing to do is to let things go their course naturally.
I'm in no mood and have no patience to start acting like something I'm not, but I'd like any advice people can give me as I've never been on a date before (sad, I know). Obvious questions I have is
>when I first meet her, should I give her a hug or a handshake?
>once we're in full swing should I get suggestive (you know what I mean) or be completely civil? (We had some back and forth but nothing explicit on chat)
>what topics are good to keep things interesting?
I guess some more context. She's 19 I'm 24, she came to my city a few months ago so I've basically been dictating what we should do and she seems fine or even likes it.
Like I said, any advice would be appreciated.
>tldr; first date ever, what do/not do?
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You're overthinking this. Go and be yourself (inb4 meme) and see what happens.
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>>18109072
Just pay attention to how she looks at you, moves, any touching. Track that non verbal communication because it's the good stuff.
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>>18109078
Right man. I figured that is the best course of action but at the same time I don't want to do some little stupid shit that could have been avoided.
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Auto loan with no credit 2017-03-08 12:08:40 Post No.18109070
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My car died on me and I need a new car ASAP. The only problem is that I don't have any credit and anyone I can get to cosign for a loan also has no credit. Even if it's super shitty (with terrible interest) is there a way I can get a loan by myself? If it helps, I only need $5000.
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If you have a nice pc and tv you might get a loan for 500 from a local finance company. Forget 5k with no credit and no cosign.
There's always your friendly neighborhood sketchy used car dealer. Most of those only ask for proof of income. Otherwise you're fucked. Check out thrift stores for a bicycle.
Or do porn.
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you don't need 5 grand for a car you poor shit. Post a link to your local craigslist on /o/ and they'll find you one for a few hundred.
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>>18109070
You don't need $5000. Buy a banger for $500 or less to get around while you save your pennies for something better.
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financial aid issue please help 2017-03-07 11:57:10 Post No.18109060
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financial aid issue please help
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>be me have scoliosis really bad degree angles doctor told me it might heal when i grow but i will need surgery if it does not
>registering for college
>Most male citizens and male immigrants must register with the Selective Service System to receive federal student aid. If you are not registered, select Register me.
what should i do, do i need to register for the selective service for financial aid should i call the office and tell them about it
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Yes, you have to register.
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>>18109060
Everyone has to register, all you do is fill out a form online. If you're not qualified you're not qualified and that will be marked down.
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>>18109060
>In a crisis requiring a draft, men would be called in a sequence determined by random lottery number and year of birth. Then, they would be examined for mental, physical, and moral fitness by the military before being deferred or exempted from military service or inducted into the Armed Forces.
> - https://www.sss.gov/Registration/Why-Register
You most certainly will not be drafted.
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There's a girl that works in my building (but not my company) that i see occasionally. She's fucking gorgeous and I want to ask her out, but I see her pretty infrequently and have shared an elevator with her twice in the past 6 months.
Should I stalk her?
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No, you should try talking to her you fucking autist.
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>>18109044
Go and be direct before she thinks you're lurking.
I stalked a girl once and it only ends badly
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>>18109046
Elevator rides are 6 min dude wtf am I supposed to do be like "hey let's get lunch?"
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g'day cunts , its another nervous uni breakdown thread
>be me
>about 3 quarters through first year of uni
>am art fag
>last class
>some fucker stole my seat
>walk around but no wheres any good
>lecturer puts me next to adorable quiet girl
>she seems nice , wears black mainly and made a comment about my maiden shirt once
>awkwardly pull out laptop and get to work
>self conscious she hates me
>power on 11%
>fuck.jpg
>take 2 minutes asking her if its cool if she plugs it in for me
>she smiles and says " yeah sure " and doesn't think anything of it
> i wanna talk to her but im too beta and socially retarded
>how do i do it guys ?
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>im too beta and socially retarded
This is your problem. I'm actually socially awkward, so don't go thinking I say this in a "The Game" retarded kind of way. But being assertive is important for having smooth and more significant relationships or encounters (not only with cute girls)
So, you are anxious, and feel (irrationally) threatened when talking to people, specially if you give a damn about their opinion. Instead of answering to the perceived threat with evassivenes, go an act confrontation. In a flee-or-fight situation, you have to start "fighting". Take the lead, and after being asked something, include a question of your own in the answer.
You'll be a bit too agressive at first, but eventualy will get the hang of it. If you ever do something embarrassing while using this strategy, remind yourself that this situation probably won't meantoo much for the other person, and that they'll forget about it sooner than you, therefore, being overtly afraid of embarrasement is irrational.
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>>18109069
thanks anon you've actually helped me quite a bit guess i'll try and do that tomorrow
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>>18109108
No problem dude. If I had to add something, I'd say that taking it as a challenge might get you in the mindset.
It's just what I did. I'm still improving, but I'm no longer considered socially awkward by people who I just met, so I'm confident it can help you at least a bit.
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Close to just calling it and accepting suicide, statistically from my childhood I should have killed myself awhile ago.
I got invited to a bible study group tomorrow night, I'm not at all enticed by the idea of a god but I have no friends
My anxiety is to the point where I can't talk to anyone yet alone girls.
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Read the Bible and accept it as methaphorical. Look up "bible on suicide" on google and see for yourself.
What helped me in dark times.
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>>18109026
Hey! You're talking to some people right now :)
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>>18109026
Hire whores. Seriously, the best move I ever made. Cut the Gordian knot, my friend.