I lost weight (50lbs) slowly and with exercise (lifting weights) but now my tits are all saggy and I have no confidence in my body even though I'm skinnnier
How do I stop caring about what I look like? Right now I just really, really wish I could be sexy.
pics or leave.
>>18107074
Pics this time.
>>18107074
Guy or girl?
well so here's the deal, I'm mid 20's and my gf is in her early 20's and we've been dating for a few months now. and since we started dating she's always gave me a funny feeling about her motives. but I really want it to work out, and I've heard women in their early 20's don't know what they want. she says shes stuck with me, but she always talks about her getting a bunch of likes on IG, she feels like she's not pretty enough, I MAY be a little more attractive than her, but I don't mind, and she generally has self esteem issues and wants me to reassure her on her appearance. just does anybody really have any advice for somebody is my situation? or anybody else been in a similar situation? how did it end? sorry for the rambling, just not sure how to put this
Be careful dude. Insecure and needy girls like her will find a replacement (ex or other beta orbiters) for you if things get tough because they fear loss. I've learned this the hard way by dating 2 insecure girls. This shit gets old fast when they complain that YOU are the problem for them feeling insecure.
>>18107069
This. I've been there too, have the t-shirt, trying to avoid it next time out. You need to figure out why you want it to work out.
Your funny feeling about motives is huge, listen to it. She's in it for completely different reasons than you.
I need a laptop for everything basically
Needs to be good for media consumption so at least a full HD screen
14 inches
A decent battery life
Can handle light gaming so ps1, SNES emulation and I mostly play cRPGs and older action games I wanna play them on high with 60fps and maybe some newer indie games or Rpgs on medium/low at 30fps
Can edit video fairly and handle music production software
Backlit keyboard
And doesn't look stupid or cheap, so no spaceship looking gaming laptops. I think that ThinkPads look good and MacBooks look good so you can judge my tastes on that
>>18107041
Have you tried a thinkpad or a macbook?
>>18107083
No I only have a desktop atm
>>18107041
ThinkPad t460p.
Might not be the best but it's what I have hands on experience and pretty much does all you want.
Have any of you been in a situation where you are currently employed but looking for a better job?
The current place I am working isn't challenging for me, and all the ego and passive aggressiveness of my co-workers is really getting to me. I know for a fact based on my experience that after working for 2 years at this company that I am able to do a lot more. I got this job a little over 2 months post graduation.
I have my new and updated resume ready but my concern is the jobs I apply for will call my current job, knowing the CEO I will be terminated on the spot if they find out. Please help me /adv/ , will this happen?
They can't fire you for looking without risk of getting into a lawsuit. Why else would they ask about references? Better if the person is currently working with you and doesn't have to remember who you were.
>>18107019
I'd take the route of being honest from the get go about your current situation to any new employer.
Me and a dude have been best friends for like 6 years now. Couple years ago I discovered I was bi. He was cool with it no problems here.
Fast forward to today and Godfuckingdammit I have a thing for him now. I'm in a relationship with a girl but the tug to talk to him is starting to get kinda unbearable. He doesn't know I have feelings for him and I don't know what to do.
>>18107015
This is why (some) straight men dislike teh gays. Stop having a thing for straight men and find a homo.
>>18107015
i think some gay guys are gay because they arent happy with their appearance and cant normally get girls to have sex with, and kind of lack honor to experiment.
>>18107015
just continue to be best friends with him. the best part of being bi is that you can have all the romantic fun with a straight friend without ruining the relationship by adding sex.
you two know how much you mean to each other. romance doesn't have to be more important than friendship.
So i feel disgusted after having a discussion with a friend of mine about masturbating to pictures of people that you personally know. I expressed my thoughts about it and that i think its absolutely disgusting and that i personally would never do it because it would just kill my mood and make me cringe and feel awkward.
My friend however said the opposite and that its a normal thing that everyone does, he admitted of having done it several times - even to pictures of me. I felt weird and disgusted after hearing this and i just feel like our friendship got ruined. I wont be able to meet him and look him in the eyes after hearing this. The only thing that would be going through my mind is that he has jerked off to pics of me. This has scarred me and led to me being very withdrawn towards him right now.
Is it normal of me to be repulsed by this and end a friendship because of this? what would you have done?
pic not related
In my opinion that fact that your friend beat it to a picture of you is odd but you should measure the negatives of that statement against the overall length and quality of your friendship before you just give it up.
>>18107013
>am i weird?
No, you're just like every other prudish woman that can't accept reality
>>18107094
This. You are acting like a gigantic prude to your beta friend, op. Do him a favor and fuck right out of his life, because he will confess his feelings for you one day and you will say no. Also, if you think that there are guys out there, that have not masturbated over girls they know, you are wrong. Prude.
Now, I usually think this is fucking stupid and pointless, but I honestly feel like I am genuinely unattractive, despite what people tell me.
I always feel like people are saying it to not hurt my feelings, but regardless, every girl I have asked out that I have genuinely liked has said no and I resort back to thinking im ugly af.
I have a bit of thinning at 19, and I'm constantly nagged by myself for it.
What do I do?
>>18106984
your average, somebody will settle for you eventually.
It's probably because you wear confederate flag shirts
>/pol/
Husband likes cuck porn, black cuck porn. The volume of watching it has increased significantly lately.
It perplexes me. Does this type of fetish imply eventually I must fuck black dudes? I don't even like black dudes.
Please no advice about divorce im 6 months pregnant.
Maybe he is just a memester and only watches it because it the current meme porn.
At least it isn't horse bestiality.
>>18106989
No ive asked, he likes being humiliated/dominated sexually.
I guess, that would be slightly worse.
Shit. I would say he needs to stop, that's just unhealthy in what sounds like a good solid relationship. He needs to channel sexual energy towards you as a couple, not into weird ass porn
So this is the dude that posted the /adv/ thread yesterday asking about what I should in terms of asking another guy out. Here are the results. I got turned down, he chose the crush he has never talked to before over someone that listened to him and gave him a shoulder to cry on. I don't blame him in any way, he did what he wanted to. But I still have to sit next to him in a fuck ton of classes. What should I do now? Avoid him for the rest of the week, and make everything awkward more awkward? Man, I still wish him luck and support him, but I asked him out practically and I had to get his answer (no) from a friend of mine, which kinda salted the wound for me. I don't know how I should really react to this, I mean I tried to make more out of a friendship than I should've, but even if we can't be partners I want to make sure we make a consensus (friends basically). How should I go along with this?
Btw I still crush on him
Ignore him for a while.
Like actually avoid him. If you need to, tell him that you accept his decision and you're not mad, but that you need to create space to give yourself the opportunity to move on.
I know you don't want to be away from him. I know you just want to be close to him and have a friendship with him.
Having space is NECESSARY for achieving that goal. If you go right to hanging out with him as friends, you will never get over him, and your insecurity and frustration will likely manifest itself in a way that destroys the friendship. If you want any kind of connection to this person, you need to spend at least 3 weeks separated from them, no contact.
Alright, that seems good, but I still have him in a lot of my classes and we sit next to each other in all of them. So if he tries to talk to me, then what should I do?
I'm going to college for Pre-Med this fall and I'm kind of intimidated by the courses required for a degree in the field. Aside from the obvious life sciences I'll be required to tan lots of trig and calc classes. (Not sure if all colleges require the same courses that why I specified "I") Any advice for an aspiring Medfag? Is there a fool proof way to tackle the maths I'll be taking? Besides just "study" of course.
Also, pic unrelated.
>>18106951
Math is very simple
It's about being given the rules
Then following the rules
Do the practice questions
The real secret is to get a study group going For all the classes.
>>18106951
>Any advice for an aspiring Medfag
Go for grades. Don't overload on courses. Take 12 hrs and study like you're taking 18.
>>18106973
Be White and really hard working
or any minority
Anyone here with cats?
I recently adopted pic related
He is an awesome cat and really smart. He got sick with an upper respiratory but he is almost 100%
However he has been having dirreha due to the antibiotics and new dry food I'm giving him. The problem is that he put his front paws on the ledge of the litter box. Sort of like standing up. And so his poop always touches one of his rear paws. Causing a mess and living shit prints around the house.
What could be the problem? Litter box too small? The litterbox is always clean so idk why he does that.
Your cat might not like the way the litter feels on it's feet. Or that's just the way he is. I had a cat like that, well my girlfriend did and I hated the bitch cause she would do that. So the simple solution is try using a different brand of litter and see what happens.
>>18106942
I would try a different type of litter or a larger litterbox
I'd also buy I litter mat to put under the box as it can help catch some of the litter/poop before it gets to your floors
>>18107007
I tried 3 different types. The really Sandy one, pine cone one and arm and hammer one. He does it all the time.
Weird thing is when he pisses he does it normally
Long story short, I sped over 25mph on the highway at 11:50 pm. There was no other cars, no excuse, I was speeding.
This is my first ticket, I'm 19 almost 20. In Wisconsin I hear that there is an automatic 15 day suspension of you driver's license. When I go to the court date, is there any possible way to not have it suspended?
Having my license is to drive is very important to me right now, as I have no other way to make it to class and work on time.
Since it's your first, hire a lawyer. They can probably get it dropped to a non-moving violation (i.e. no points on your license, no suspension)
If you can't afford a lawyer, talk to the DA and see if there's anything you can do - defensive driving course, community service, etc
>>18106936
How do I go about speaking to the DA?
>>18106959
Google "(your city) DA" and get their email and phone number. Call or email them and tell them your situation.
So for the last year or so it has been getting progressively harder to brush my teeth. Whenever I do it I get some toothpaste down my throat and start gagging. I am using the same brush,technique and toothpaste I have always used (arm and hammer complete care) and I have no idea why this is happening.
Its gotten so bad that I actually vomited last night after brushing. What the fuck do?
lmao, what a problem to have
>>18106906
lean forward over the sink while you brush.
>>18106930
I tried that but it doesn't help any.
How do I change this? I have no interest in seriously committing to anyone after getting dumped by my ex.
Should I get some tattoos
honestly why change it
only things you're going to get from casual sex are stds and empty feelings
better to be bf material anyhow
respawn with a stronger jaw line
You're the future beta provider.
>get accepted to an electrical engineering collage
>tons of maths, tons of physics
>6 months in, no girls no succ, only fucking maths
>Girl in my group that I know, solid 9/10 invites me over to her place
>Hey anon, why don't we practise maths sometime at my place ?
>"I'm kind of busy, maybe some other time ?"
>1 week later (today)
>23:00, I;m studying fucking maths ofcourse
>Phone rings
>It;s that girl, she need some materials for the course
>"Hey anon, why don't you come over at my place right now we could study something together"
>"I dunno, it's kind of late, and the last bus is in 1.5 hours"
>"No silly, I meant you could sleepover, we could study all night"
>IT'S ON BITCHES
>pack my things leave immediately
>pack condoms
>pack maths just in case
Can you guess what were we doing all night long
If you guessed Euler's transformations for irrational Integrals than you're fucking right
you really needed her to spell it out for you that much?
>>18106883
I didn't get the succ
I was being flirty and all , but she just kept pulling harder and harder integrals
>I'm on the couch right now
>There's a picture of some dude kissing her on the wall, I guess her boyfriend
>Why the fuck did you call me, just for maths ????