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It always seems like a good idea until you look back on it later and realize you're glad you didn't do it. So just look forward to looking back on this moment and realizing that it wasn't worth it.

>>18107515
12 gauge buckshot or bust. if youre gonna kill yourself whats stoping you from stealing a gun?

>>18107524
^This

>No matter how hard I try
So, are you hanging out with people who don't even have the same interests or..?

You're not alone. Plenty of people know how this feels.

You have to actively pursue friendship

Moving out for the sake of moving out usually isn't worth it

>>18107474
OP Here, sorry, $1300 a fortnight. That's not including shorter shifts which can happen.

>>18107478
>>18107474
What the fuck are you going that you earn $1300 over 4 nights? Are you actually sucking dicks or something?

tell her you have a girlfriend who's out of town for a whi- what the fuck man of course tell her you're interested

>>18107472
Obviously I know that, but it's more how to make me not sound like a creep I guess.

>>18107477
the thing about "creeps" are that they're people who do this in a weird way, either confessing to anyone who smiles at them once, or following people around and pretending they aren't interested or something.

Just tell her it clearly, "i think you're ____ and _____ and ive had a crush on you for a while."
and if she doesn't shut you down ask her out or something. if she does, then that's that.

nothing weird or creepy about being honest, as long as you don't make it weird

Get ready to be pissed off; the only constant in all of these relationships is you. You need to look deeper within yourself, look at how you go about finding friendships and where you're going wrong.

Boundaries is a good one. A lot of people don't give a fuck about boundaries, then wonder why people walk all over them, or wonder why certain people won't open up to them. Read about boundaries and look for new ways of making friends.

The problem might feel external, it might look external, but a lot of what we do is not registered consciously. Essentially, you can't choose your family, but you can choose your friends.

>>18107439
Those aren't your friends. They just want punching bag to vent their frustrations.

>>18107439
how do i know if a person has boundaries? and even if they do they still wouldnt want to talk to me. im not ugly but i do dress kinda nerdy.

gee weird how someone you only used for sex isn't the deepest convoy

Move on slut

>>18107431
thats normal. dont rush it though, or feel like you're "falling behind" where you were at any point with your ex. if your last relationship failed, you shouldnt be trying to recreate it. why would you want that? Just enjoy where you're at and try to get closer. don't push too hard, i broke up with my last girlfriend for that same reason, she kept trying too hard and pushing me to go deeper

Bump for interest cause similar situation

If you can't write anything good, what are you expecting him to say?

>>18107414
The point of a draft is that it's rough. If he's asking for a draft, that really implies that he, or at least someone, is going to look over it, make suggestions and edits, and hand it back. So don't stress it.

>>18107392
The only reason it's confusing is because you're looking for the answer you want (that she likes you) with the information you have (clearly pointing to "she isn't interested"). If you were into someone, wouldn't you text them back in a timely fashion and try to have conversations often?

Writing style isn't really relevant, she probably sends the same shit to everyone. On that note, your writing style makes me think you have low self-esteem. Hang in there.

what does it mean? it means she is a time waster who is cordial in her replies when she /feels/ like replying

you see that you have to come here to ask? means she really isnt that into you. find a girl you have a connection with who actually wants to talk to you and doesnt make you question her intentions

the above poster is right. you just want us to tell you shes playing coy, hard to get, quite the contrary. youre just filler bro. go get a girl who is into you. youll tell the difference

you can keep replying as you do, but dont expect anything of it okay? ok

>>18107392
She can reply with anything she wants, when, and how long she wants.
You could be teasing each other and talk about private things on text

It doesn't fucking matter.

The most important indicator of interest is the willigness to give you time of day and whether or not they're willing to follow your lead or not, e.g. meeting for date, going to your chosen place, doing your favors.

Anything about that risk falsehood, especially from a woman.

Flesh light

>>18107391
Are those actually any good? Always thought they were a meme.

If it's expected to substitute for actual intimacy, then all masturbators are just memes.

That being said, the Tenga Flip-hole is the best choice. Just over $100 and they last a lifetime with proper care. Use only water asked lubricants.

Unless you are planning on wandering around at night or in back alleys you should probably be fine.

>wanderlust
>going downtown
>worried about safety
what, are you 7 years old or some shit? that shit is crazy. did you pack a flashlight and a map and a little play tent and are running away from home?

Let them see each other more and more every day

>>18107299
And let the dog see you and dad being friendly - sitting together, etc.

>>18107289
Try this. You, dad and dog in the same room. Talk to your dad in a calm way, and he must answer in the equally. The emotional state before, during and after this session is very important. Don't start thinking that the dog is going to be nervous, just do it well. Your dog can feel when you are not in a comfy mood.

More pics of doggo?

youll probably lose your motivation by the time you wake up.

>>18107271
get a job and a dog u bum and ditch the hoe

>>18107288
It's sad but the dog is the only thing that has kept this going for the last 2 years, in retrospect. My job is 12+ hour days which is part of the problem

Why we should bomb the Middle East

Why you should install gentoo

Why international aid hurts the populace of authoritarian states, and why we should openly bargain with dictators for policies instead.

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Have sex more often, or jerk it before sex. The latter may sound like a meme, but it works.

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>>18107263
with my ex girlfriend whenever i needed to last longer id just look at my vintage lord of the rings return of the king movie poster and remind myself that smeagul was watching me bone some skinny crazy chick.

> alcohol (yes it works, fuck you)
> thick condoms
> change positions often
> when fapping practice edging

>>18107252

depends on what kind of animation you want to be known for. if you plan to stick ti pixels i can't offer much. if you have other plans, give us the rundown and we'll point you in the right direction.

animations a lot of fun.

>>18107255
I quite like the pixel stuff but I also would like to eventually get a draw pad and the proper programmes and go from there

>>18107258

best you can do is practice drawing then and figure out what medium you like most. also figure out if you're comfortable with TRS animation