Im 24 years old and have never been away from home/all of my family for more than 2 or 3 days. I live in a large household and still share a room with my younger 17 year old brother. It is no exaggeration to say that I can sometimes go days without being in a room by myself (excluding bathrooms).
Ive been thinking about doing a cross-country road trip solo. I have a mountain bike, camping equipment, and a Jeep that ive put alot of work into. I work at walmart and dont have much of a problem of letting that job go.
Im just scared. Originally it seemed like a great idea, spend a month traveling across the country, camping, seeing the sites, but more importantly just have that precious alone time where I might actually be able to 'find' myself and figure out what the fuck I want to do with my life.
I was originally supposed to leave in the fall, then spring, and now its summer and soon summer will end.
Do you guys think its worth it? Could a solo-cross country trip change a person, or am I just running away from my problems
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>Could a solo-cross country trip change a person, or am I just running away from my problems
What do you expect to happen during the trip?
Also, whether you change or not, you'll come back to the same house, won't you? Maybe thing about moving out if you want alone time.
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You don't have to go on a road trip if you don't feel like it. You could also visit a nice scenic place, or somewhere or significance, or just somewhere to get away for a week. You'll find there's plenty of comfortable options.
You don't have to make it into the "most special thing ever". In a lot of countries a 24 year old going abroad one or two times a year is normal. I would be surprised if getting away for a bit didn't refresh you or leave any impression, it will. From what I've seen of people who never go anywhere, they are really cagey and start to hate anything foreign, like weird mountain people :D
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When we are almost at it she always says "i feel its too early" afterwards she always says that its getting really hard for her to say no. What sexy stuff can i do to her in the heat of the moment that would turn her on
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Anything you try will just come off to her as manipulative and pushy. It doesn't hurt to always be on your A-game anyway but she probably isn't into it and chances are she's just got you doing a bunch of song and dance for her own ego boost.
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>>18427577
She is a virgin tho. And she always brings up that topic afterwards. Maybe she is just scared? What do
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I'm sure I'm overthinking this situation but I thought I'd ask what you all think.
I got with a girl I work with a few nights ago. We've always got along well there and I was pretty drunk but all of my other coworkers there agree she was the one pushing for it to happen.
I know she has my number but I don't have hers and wouldn't want to get it from the work list because that's weird. She did add me on snapchat that night so I've sent her one casual snap that was work related. She opened it immediately and we traded one more quick quip. A mutual work party said she mentioned the night that she enjoyed it.
Should I bring up going out for drinks again with her? Would she have kept in touch if she was actually interested or is this normal to kind of ice it after?
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>>18427557
>I got with a girl
What the fuck does this mean?
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>>18427561
We hooked up and she spent the night in my apartment. Sorry, must be a colloquial thing around here.
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>>18427567
If you fucked her and want to fuck her again go straight to her instead of asking all your coworkers that now know your business and hers. If it were me and you fucked and told I wouldn't speak to you again.
is there any US service that will allow me to mail a simple letter or postcard anonymously rather than mailing it myself from across the globe and having my address all up in it?
like that mailing your enemy glitter thing with a note, minus the glitter and the enemy and only the note. know what i'm saying?
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You might be able to pay some courier to take it for you
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https://dicksbymail.com
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>>18427520
lol.. ivnever been to the us, but are you saying you cant just send a letter without giving your address ? liking throwing it into a mailbox and just dont have your address and name on it ?
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I don't know what to do after I get my computer science degree
Pretty directionless I guess.
Advice?
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Get a job
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>>18427492
What kind would be the best?
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>>18427497
A computer job because you studied computers
Anyone know any surefire suicide methods?
Don't mind if its painful, not an american so no guns.
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Jump off a tall structure.
Don't do it tho
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Any fall over 125ft
Slash the jugular/that one in your thigh
Get a hold of cyanide potassium from a gold seller and down it all
Nothing is surefire though, even when everything seems right. Always some little mistake you make that """"""saves your life"""""".
t. suicide survivor
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don't bother anonette, it'll suck and you'll end up worse off. Read a book, try Hamlet.
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So I don't really know where to ask this, but here goes. I have recently acquired a cock ring. What do I do with it?
I am single and have no partner, is it any good for anything?
Pic related.
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>>18427430
Does it vibrate? Wear it while doing prostate stimulation.
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>>18427440
Yes the top piece is a vibrator. Is the ring meant to go behind balls? is the vibrator bit supposed to be on top?
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>>18427442
Up to you, experiment with it.
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What does this world do to you?
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This world erodes your feelings and personality. I use to think of myself as a good person. Recently though I have been going down hill. I audibly laugh at the small scale suffering of women. Example, a woman I use to know got pregnant by a meth addict who beats her. When I found out I could not stop laughing. I use to like her too but now... she is just complete garbage. Hey Facebook is riddled with white knights trying to help her. It's pitiful. And hilarious at the same.
I love seeing people make critical mistakes in life and getting fucked over. Like why would you have sex with a known meth addict to begin with? Seems full retard.
Anyway, I didn't use to be like this. I am 26, I live alone. I have been alone for awhile now. I use to feel much more empathy for others. Now I just don't seem to care about the suffering of others. Is this how it goes downhill?
This world does strange things to you. It's like the more you see or experience, the more your personality or feelings just kind of erode away. Is this how it's supposed to be?
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>>18427420
I feel that.
Have you been fucked over a lot or felt that way?
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Loneliness and social media will kill you. Get off of facebook and learn to be yourself again. Sounds like you spend too much time preoccupied on the lives and opinions of people who are bigots when it comes to white men. It's prevalent on social media to be sure, but you'll be hard-pressed to find someone in person who really believes those things. Social media is a big circlejerk where everyone is trying to impress the next guy. If you see the absurdity in it you will grow to hate the people who partake in it. I say step away and go back to reality.
This is why the anonymity of 4chan allows people to speak up about what they believe. They're not worried about upsetting someone on their list of "friends" because nobody knows who the fuck they are. Like I said, spend more time off of the internet. Go on walks. Go for a drive. Take up some volunteer work. It will reignite the righteous passion within you to do good. The touching-self that occurs on social media is depressing and devicive whether people acknowledge it or not. Facebook was a mistake.
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>>18427420
Well there is a specific word in German for that emotion: schadenfreude - to take pleasure in the suffering of others. So clearly you're not alone in having these thoughts.
But are you concerned that you're becoming overly misanthropic? Laughing at a dumb slut ruining her life is one thing, but there are many many people who face real hardship simply because life dealt them a shit hand. It's important to try to keep things in perspective.
Like I know a lot of people were upset during the migrant crisis in Europe because of how the situation was being exploited by unscrupulous people, I was too. But at the same time I've been giving money to UNICEF and other humanitarian missions because I do want to help.
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What can I start today that will benefit me for a lifetime?
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exercise or alcohol resistance
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Killing yourself.
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>>18427405
Saving. Exercising. Eating healthy. Quit smoking/drinking excessively/doing drugs.
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My wife has recently surfaced bipolar disorder. It was really severe until medication and even then medication isn't perfect.The mania is the scariest thing I've ever encountered.
>spending sprees
>infidelity
>dangerous behavior
>suicide attempts
>endless screaming..
She wasn't always like this... Really...When the mania is over, she barely remembers what happened. Its really heart wrenching seeing the one you love be taken away in an ambulance, and visiting them in a psychiatric ward. Its also so conflicting because the infidelity of course...and the spending sprees.
Canadian healthcare is really shitty and no doctor wants to see her or help her, her last doctor prescribed her an SSRI which is a HUGE NONO for someone with bipolar disorder. Shes just been dissociative and unemotional for the past month.
Two days ago she had another manic episode, went on a shopping spree, had sex with randoms, tried to jump out of a window and a moving car, and was forcefully restrained by some of her friends and driven to her parents house.
Im mostly just venting...Im just so torn up. The woman I love is in there still...its like she gets possessed by a demon..straight out of the exorcist.
I'm sure I'm mostly going to get "lol divorce" but thats not what I want really..All of this hurts alot but I promised her in sickness and in health and all...and I swear to God she wasnt like this before. I'm out of town for business and shes with her parents right now. Talking to her is pointless right now because shes in such a state that she wishes we never met and wants to destroy her life and become homeless and a prostitute and all sorts of other nonsense...she was in school to be a pharmacist..but had to drop out because of this.
Any advice at all? I couldnt sleep at all last night..
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>I'm sure I'm mostly going to get "lol divorce" but thats not what I want really
OK then I'll give you a lol cuck.
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If she wants to become a prostitute and shit while she has you to support her, there is nothing you can do to stop her. I'm not disputing that she is legit mentally ill but it seems like she isn't putting in her best effort to get better either. I know you promised to stay with her but your life is more valuable than this. Don't waste it on some woman who is just going to fuck randoms and bring you back STDs regardless of what you do. Plenty of crazies working out there for a reason.
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>>18427416
I know she doesn't want this. When shes stable shes full of regret and pain. its just the mental state shes in..normally shes an active part of building our future. its just when this happens..
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Why do men get pissed when a girl laments she's lonely while rejecting those she doesn't like?
It's obvious if she lonely, it's because she wants to be with someone she likes, not with someone she doesn't like. Yet I see men on this board getting pissed about that all the time.
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This board is for advice.
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Because in their mind they're so desperate they'd settle for anything, which makes them very intellectually dishonest because most of them are addicted to porn and they don't have the self-awareness to realize their self esteem is so shot that they can never aspire to anything more than some arm candy.
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Most of the time I think it's because there's a massive double standard that they recognize: when they say are lonely because they can't be with someone they like, they're told to lower their standards or that they're a picky loser neckbeard, etc. When WOMEN do the same thing, they get responses like
>you'll find him eventually!
>they just don't appreciate you the way they should!1!
It's understandable why it makes them angry
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Hello, fem here.
So uh, last night I had sex without a condom, but I am on my period.
I am on the pill but I am afraid that I could still get pregnant because he finished inside and I had two periods this month due to the change of my pill. As in, I should have my period once for 5 days in 28 days and what happened is that out of the 28 days 10 were a period.
I want to take the morning after pill, but is it necessary?
Anyone had advice?
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>is it necessary
Probably not, and it is rather unpleasant. However an abortion is much worse.
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>>18427355
Get yourself checked for STDs while you're at it
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>>18427366
Yeah I'd be more worried about that. If you're on the pill then the chance of conception is almost 0. But do you know this guy, or was he just some random person you barely knew? What if he had AIDS?
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When setting up a meeting with a psychologist, what details should you mention? I've just not done this before.
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>>18427241
I told my therapist "the last few months kinda sucked, I need someone to talk to".
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>>18427241
There's this thing called disclosure that you might want to know a bit about. Basically if they think you're a possible threat they have an obligation to report you. Also check that they have insurance and have qualifications as there are fraudsters out there. Other than that I assume it's whatever you want to speak to them about. Also different quacks have different styles so if it doesn't go to your liking shop around.
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What is the reason for you going to see them? How are you really doing, what is a typical day for you?
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Often when I am out I talk to girls, whom I later find out through their friends, really liked me or smth, wanted to hook up or whatever.... It's also often reciprocal. But I don't know how flirting works and I don't know how the process from talking to someone to kissing them works... Can someone tell me how I do this?
TL;DR how do I move on from just talking to girls
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Slowly but surely keep increasing physical contact like holding a hand for a bit too long and see what they do, to touch her back ect ect.
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>>18427172
Closing your ear to her face while she is talking pretending to be "good listener", touching her arm while doing that.
Touching her legs with your legs a little while you sit.
touching your arms for a moment while you walk next to each other
examples
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>>18427182
Whispering "I want to taste your saliva" ? Is that a good idea?
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I feel like it's easier to greentext this:
>be me
>move in with friend/sorta friend i've known since middle school
>learn quickly he has a very, very short temper
>i have anxiety
>takes me a while to find a job
>he loses his right when i find mine
>end up having to pay the full rent
>4 months before he gets a new job (working at the same place as me)
>was getting money from a short temp job
>both of us quit 'cause we hate the current place
>dumbass.jpg
>enough money for next month of rent
>not the one after that
>busting my ass looking for work
>he's got maybe a small handful of applications in
>anything that has fucking doors i've applied to it
>end up finally making plans with a close bud out of state to move in
>gonna pay what i can to last month's rent before i leave
>(i'm not on the lease btw)
>talked to him about it and said he understood i'd get him what i could from a weekend job that i picked up
>he ends up getting a job but it won't get him his first check until 6 days after rent is due
>he's now on facebook asking friends and family for money
>amount he asks them for is lower than what he needs; it's his exact side of the rent
>and he knows how much i said i could get him
>don't want an altercation with how much i can give him
>plus it's going to be less since the person getting my ticket set up (my brother) ended up magically fucking losing $50 so i had to front it
>considering just leaving the money that i can give him with a note or some other pussy ass move before i have to leave state so i won't have to talk to him
what do; do i just say fuck it and stop worrying about it and give him what i can? my anxiety says i don't want to leave him screwed over, but another part of me realizes that he would have been fucked had i not moved in at all, and i'm not trying to take care of my own life. we did kinda pep each other up for leaving our job, but i don't think he can hang it over my head because he could have been rational and decided to stay
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>>18427123
i'm now trying to take care of my own life*
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>have no job but commit to renting a place
>later quit job because you hate it, despite the fact that you need to be able to pay rent
I didn't even read any further, I can't believe something this stupid.
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>>18427128
i was a dumb shit thinking that we could ride on the money we had until we found another job, when i should have just found another before i decided to bounce, but whatever it happened and he's as much of a fucking idiot as i am