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I've decided to move out of my family's home. What are somethings I will need in my home? Thank you!
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Toilet paper
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>>18475490
dish soap, laundry detergent, pots and pans, plates, cutlery, a microwave is nice, rice cooker is nice, towels, general bathroom supplies like toothpaste and deodorant and toilet paper.
a bed is nice, might want a tv and a recliner too.
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>>18475490
Get your basic furniture at a thrift store or goodwill wherever you're moving and upgrade as you go along.

Am I the only one that can speak with anyone with no issues while being a fucking retard when trying to text?
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Yes, you are the most special snowflake, buddy
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>>18475444
You're not alone
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How to get better at texting

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LADY!
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What did he mean by this?
Hmmmmmm

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Is getting a masters worth it? I'm already going to be 50-70k in debt when I get out of school but there's an accelerated program where I can get my masters in my fifth year of school. Is it really a joke for the tech industry? Half the people I work with have PhDs and there are some who don't have a degree. I'm a computer science and physics major. I was thinking of getting any higher ED in EE or software engineering
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advanced degrees are fine if you already have a job and they are paying you/giving you a raise to get it

otherwise unless there's a job in the bag for you, it's not a wise *financial* investment. Industry specifics may vary.

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Should I open up to my mother about being depressed?
On the one hand, I just want to talk about it with someone. I want to be honest with her. I'm sick and tired of pretending that everything is great 100% of the time.
On the other hand I want nothing more than my mother's respect. I don't want to be a whiner. I don't want to seem weak. That's why I hide my ever-worsening issues.

What does adv think? My parents are my only friends left.
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If you are truly depressed and your mother is not a dimwit then she already knows. Everyone is depressed. Just dont look for a magical wand that makes your life like in the movies and you'll be fine.
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You should tell her and talk with her about it, or maybe go to a professional first. My mom found out about my depression when I was in ICU, and it shouldn't be that way. I'm also sure she will respect you a lot for telling the truth, admitting you are depressed and that you need help makes you much more braver than you think man. Good luck.
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depression is a meme, go work out or something.

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How do I go about making my first one ever? I'm stupid and can't figure out how.
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>>18475399
Drive to local credit union or big bank like chase
walk in and if they need you to sign in you sign in. look confused or look for an employee and say "Hello, I would like to open a savings/checking account here." and they'll get you situated with an employee that can guide you through the whole process. They'll ask for stuff like your social security number, your id (doesn't have to be a license, you can use a learners permit or just state id card). Also you'll probably need an initial deposit of like $50 but sometimes less and sometimes more depending on where you open the account. They'll probably also ask you if you're employed and if you aren't just say you're a dishwasher or something. they don't really fact check it they just want to know that you'll be bringing in money for them.

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I have been flirting with an older woman who comes into my work and finally asked her out a few days ago. I'm 23 and would have thought she was in her early 40s but after looking her up I found out she is 56. I think she's hot so I'm cool with that. We're going to get drinks and watch fireworks tomorrow. I'm hoping to have fun and get laid but that's about it. Has anyone else been in a similar situation? What should I expect? I'm not that nervous but I'd like to hear what others might have experienced
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Stab her in the cunt

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Im 22 years old, computer science and mathematics major. Spend all my highschool years smoking pot and doing mdma... last year i started to focus really on my studies, and I've been doing great. However, when i think about those students who spend their high school years studying, i think they would defeat me in the job interview since they are far more experience than i... is it too late at age 22 to become an extremely knowledgable person, like Jordan P., even if i spend around 5 hours a day each day on my studies?
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>>18475388
experience isn't everything in a job interview, don't sweat it dude.
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>>18475401
But why do i feel this way? Am i just so insecure about my intelligence. Ive been told multiple times im very bright, but for some reason I dont accept that??
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>>18475388
>Got Ds, Cs, Bs, and some As in highschool because, I dunno I felt like I wasn't fully developed or even awoken to what life was
>Didn't care about anything
>Graduate
>Suddenly snap out of daze
>Oh fuck what am I doing with my life
>Go to community college
>Ace everything because now I care and community college is easy as fuck
>Transfer to art college for animation
OH SHIT NIGGER WHAT ARE YOU DOING.JPEG
>Everyone tells me FUCK DO STEM YOU IDIOT WHY ARE YOU THROWING YOUR LIFE AWAY!?
>Work really hard there
>Now have job making vidya games and make 70k a year with benefits and shit

I even had some people in art school who were absolute shit until senior year when suddenly they snapped out of it ad went super saiyan hyperbloic training mode. They have jobs.

The people that didn't get jobs just were impractical and studied basket weaving or were lazy as fuck, or just literally, like medically retarded and college lets retards in now I guess.

I've been hanging out with this girl for about 2 months now and things have been really great between us, and we have very common interests like music, shows, etc. and we think very similar and we used to talk constantly all day and night and I only saw it as a great friendship even though I kinda liked her in the in beginning.

One of the first kind of date things we did was go to the Humane society and hangout there and play with all the cats, after that we went on a boat ride, and then went out for dinner.

The next time we hung-out we went to go see the new WonderWoman Movie, she cried during the movie and my socially awkward dumb ass didn't know what to do, so I just stood there like a fag. after that we walked through the mall and we made our way to the water fountain. At the water fountain she found a penny. the day before she kept saying she really needed to tell me something and I really wanted to know, so I said to her "Heads or tails" and which ever it lands on the other person has to say what they wanted to say. She picked heads and it landed on tails, so she said best 2 out of 3 and it landed tails again. And she hesitated for the longest time and she asked if she really needed to tell me and I said that I really wanted to know, and she wasn't the best at speaking, So I asked her if there was any way of telling me in a way I can understand and she then told me in sign language "I like you". I told her I felt the same way, and after that we walked through the mall and seems just seemed awkward.
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Second part

That night I felt like absolute shit like I needed to tell her something, and that I should have been the one to tell her how I felt. But I'm fucking stupid and I texted her like I was drunk, and I told her everything, I told her about the dreams I had about her, I told her about the things I wish we could do together, and that I was pissed off at how perfect she was. And I'm a sensitive fag, and I was crying while doing this. I want a future with her, she is perfect, and her last boyfriend was a fuck boy that just played with her.

She doesn't have a great amount of friends and usually tells me how she's so lonely and she constantly wants to be around me and wants to do everything with me, but then it changed after the whole gay mall thing and now we have meaningless conversations and the only way to get her to talk to me is to engage the conversation because her theory is that if someone is really interested or cares about her someone else will talk to her or else they don't care.
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>her theory is that if someone is really interested or cares about her someone else will talk to her or else they don't care

Hate to break it to you OP, but this is a red flag

Make sure she messages you too and you don't do ALL the work, or else this won't go well

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Is it worth going back to school?

>26
>Working as a tech I, work is kind of boring and dirty, but has ok room for growth in the industry.
>Dropped out of 4 year college, film degree lolol
>Been studying another language slowly on my own
>Found a new interest in math
>Working and paying off debt slowly

Just trying to move up in the world and buy a home.
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>film degree
Why? Why did we do it to ourselves? You don't need a degree for that shit, you need a portfolio and connections.
>Tfw your internship fell apart after like 5 months cause the guy running it was a dope head.

I know your pain. If I what the answer is. There's no real financial assistance available for me so I can't really go back unless it's all on debt. Dat straight white male privilege mang
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>>18475358
>idk what the answer is*
But it's not phone posting and it's certainly not this retarded new, cloud based autocorrect that fucks my shit up senpai because most people are retards.

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Right now I am planning to take

Topology
Real Analysis
Partial Differential Equations
Some random cs course

I have 4 semesters left and I am not feeling confident about applying to grad school.

I just finished with intro to real analysis and got an A and i was feeling pretty pumped up until I remember i have to decide what classes to take

1.- Should i Take real and topology at the same time or am i just shooting myself in the foot with this?

2.- Should i take more math classes besides those 3? My hardest semester yet was taking honors linear algebra, probability 1, and intro to complex analysis. I dont know if i could deal with 4 upper divison classes.

Please help me or give me some guidance,
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I've gotten such a huge backlog of video games to play, albums to listen to, and movies/tv series to watch that I have trouble getting invested into anything anymore thinking about all the stuff I should experience and end up wasting time on multiplayer vidya and streams.
Any tips on stopping this cycle and completing stuff?
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>>18475317
Bumping for the exact same problem
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>>18475317
wat are u saying? too much to do?
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>>18475317
Possibly not applicable but what has worked for me is smoking weed or drinking a few beers during the thing you're trying to complete

It makes the task more enjoyable and you'll look forward to doing it the next time

It's like tricking your brain into associating that task with pleasure so you'll do it more. I know we are talking about watching a movie instead of video games but it can work for anything like washing dishes.
I suppose it could be any kind of reward.

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Is it possible? Not even looking for a hardcore turbo autism neet quirky weeb gamer girl gf. Just a normal, traditional, quiet, homely girl with boring girly interests. Bonus points if she's catholic. It feels like nowadays it's incredibly hard to find girls like that, and the ones that are like that either: a) aspire to be like the other outgoing extroverted girls; b) have some kind of special snowflake "i'm not like the other girls" tumblr mentality; c) are not very good looking (and keep in mind my standards are not high at all, a 5/10 would be more than enough if her personality is good enough). Maybe I'm being too picky but I know girls like that exist. I fell in love with two classmates that had all the right traits but sadly neither of them liked me romantically.

Realistically speaking, what could I do to improve my chances of getting an introvert gf? In what ways should I improve myself? Appearance wise, I'm kind of /fit/, 6'1 and a few days ago a girl described me as "very handsome" a few hours after meeting her so I'm going to assume the problem lies elsewhere. I think my biggest problem is not being good enough at conversations, which probably makes me seem very boring compared to other guys. I've been told I have a good sense of humor but I need to be completely at ease for it to shine through, and when I feel attracted to a girl I'm way too inhibited and nervous for that to happen.

Finally, where should I go to find such girls? And how should I go about approaching them there? I really have no clue since most people meet girls when going out or at parties, which is something I don't really enjoy doing very often, not to mention that I never get seriously interested in girls I meet at parties and stuff.
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eastern europe
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Introverts spend their time alone, and mostly at home. Also the traditional aspect is going to rule out a lot of girls, introverts tend to be people who like to be self sufficient, which would mean not relying on a man to provide for them.
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>>18475309
Good luck man, even the girls I know who love staying home are still fucking idiotic women. Dont expect them to be any different past a surface level. A male being introduced into a female introverts life will eventually slowly turn her into a typical average bitch.

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How do I find out what I want to study?

Finishing highschool right now with a pretty good NC and want to go to Uni. I did some "orientation tests" that all tell me I'm interested in STEM (which I am). How do I figure out what exactly I want to do?
Thanks in advance.
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It's weird because it only happens when I'm in a car, I get this weird urge to pee but not much urine comes out. Today I had an anxiety attack because I thought I was going to pee my pants while in the car with my friend.Im a 19yr old male with no medical conditions
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Prostate cancer sorry anon you're dying
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Ive been experiencing something similar to this.

I have an urge to pee when im on the commute to work and im not the on driving. And then when i finally get to a bathroom. I dont even pee enough that would warrant me feeling like im about to piss myself.

Have any anons overcome this nervous bladder issue?
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>>18475376
I've tried googling things but I still cannot find any reason for this

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