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>>18520618
You do it, because you said yes and now it's too late to cancel without shitting on her plans.

Next time you'll actually be honest about what you want and don't want to do.

I didn't say no. I haven't responded yet. I've never even babysit before.

Sorry I meant I didn't say yes. I haven't said anything yet.

That's funny because the leading science right now is in bio-engineering and meditation is as close as you are going to get to your cells. Newtonian physics is a scam because it's profitable doctors will sell it.

Meditate, everyday mate. Also read Biology of Belief.

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>>18520587
>Newtonian physics is a scam
ok

>>18520577
Yes. Placebos that work are still beneficial, by the way. Just try it for a month, or at least two weeks, and decide for yourself. I started with "Mindfulness in Plain English" and after a while, "The Mind Illuminated". The latter has fewer "religious" aspects to it, but you can also skip over those in the first one if they trigger you.

Personally, I think secularizing it, trying for this new corporate stress-free mindfulness movement, will limit you and discourage you and would advise against it. Meditation is one part of a constant practice, if you don't apply it to the rest of your life you will miss out on many of its (in my opinion most powerful) benefits.

>>18520575
Just do it. There's no magical way to end a relationship. Anything you've been rehearsing in your head is probably good enough.

You probably won't remain friends. Good luck.

Make a fucking move you autistic sperg.

Women like dominant men, make a fucking move, fuck her feelings. She's waiting for you to make a move.

Omfg op, invite her round to watch a movie, cuddle on the sofa, move your hands down and initiate foreplay, tongue her so she isn't able to speak and make your damn move!!

why don't you force yourself onto her ?
if you don't care about loosing the relationship why not try and fail ?

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>>18520568
Go to swimming pool. Look around at people. Figure out if you like more boys or girls.

I bet you arent even 18 right?
>beta
This meme has nothing to do with your sexuality. What is your favorite porn? What makes you horny more? Female with boobs or some male with muscles / belly? Or twink boys?

It's not hard to figure out, dude. Turn on gay porn and try to fap. If you cum hard and love it, then you're definitely a homosexual. If you're disgusted by it, like most men are, you're purely heterosexual. Repeat the experiment with lesbian porn. If you enjoy both, you're just bisexual. Don't know why you're on about all this relationship bullshit.

>>18520651
I'm 19, sadly. And I know I like girls more than guys (by a fair margin), but I get freaked out by them sometimes and I don't know if it's extreme nerves or something else.

>>18520511
Do you work? If not, this should be much easier for you.

I'm about to take 12 units this semester and I work part time.

I tend to do really well in the start of the semester and start losing my will to continue after the midterm.

I made some plans:
-study in between classes (don't go back home unless it's over a 4 hour gap)
-meal prep and use the communal microwave, do not waste money buying lunch at school
-study weekend mornings
-do not fall behind
-leave motivational sticky notes around my room that include how close I am to my goals

My biggest issue is procrastinating during the only time I have to study, then blowing it.

What's your biggest issue with time management?

I assume you are commuting since you are transferring out?

Make sure to bunch up your classes if possible. Don't take anything more than an hour apart of each class.
I know a lot of people who have 3 hour gaps between each class and spend their whole day on campus needlessly.

I find it better to show up, take 3-6 consecutive hours of class and leave home to study for the next 10-12 hours. All the time in the world.

Also read your books ahead of time and take notes from them. It's better to go to class having a bit of background in the material than none at all and trying to learn while in class.

Professors really just tell you what they want you to know and don't spend much time explaining the fine details because they have to cater to a lecture hall. So read beforehand so you don't get lost mid lecture.

>>18520558
>Do you work? If not, this should be much easier for you.
No, but I plan to
>What's your biggest issue with time management?
Getting through it all, I often feel burned out when committing to a strict schedule and start to procrastinate.

>>18520586
>I assume you are commuting since you are transferring out?
I'm actually not, this school is too far for me to do so.

Should I still try to bunch my classes closer together? Or pad it like >>18520558 suggested?

Fabswingers and /soc/
/soc/ has better traps than fabswingers

/fit/ and discord have the best traps though but likely don't live near you.

You are also a MASSIVE FAGGOT btw

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>>18520505
Just instal grinder. Accept you sexuality.

>>18520517

Discord?

>>18520483
to study*

What do you have to study? Do you have an exam soon? If you have an exam maybe something like this works: make a list of songs you want to listen to, maybe songs from the soundtrack of a movie you like. Study for some amount of minutes, then reward yourself with 1 song, then study more minutes, then another song, and so on. This is just an example, what I mean is just find a way to give yourself rewards but discipline yourself to work a bit for them and to not take long rests.
As for no motivavion to leave my house... well Idk how to fix that. Maybe check online if there are some art expositions or stuff like that, stuff you can go to all by yourself. Maybe places where you can meet random people that in case your first impression sucks it doesn't matter because they are strangers. But also that you aren't forced to meet people. But if you do that's great.

Force yourself to do at least one minute of each every day. It doesn't sound like much but it builds on itself. Commit to this and never skip a day and soon you'll be on the path to recovery. Don't be discouraged if you fail along the way, failure is a normal part of life and a healthy one if you can learn from it.

With this you will be able to accomplish many things in your life. Good luck, friend.

You can be my gf?????

>>18520492
How is that going to change my career situation

EE here. I had people in their 40s in my classes. Quit being a faggot and take control of your life. It's never too late and if I did it barely passing because I'm retarded then you certainly can.

>>18520452
No

>>18520452
Don't use the kung fu grip when you jack off.

>>18520452
Not at all uncommon. Many possible reasons. Here are the top two, one physical and one mental:

It doesn't feel goof enough. Either you're used to the particular feel of your masturbation or you just need something harder/softer/faster/slower, or she's just not good at it.

You're resisting it. Something tells you that bjs are inherently demeaning to women and you respeect/admire/love the girl too much to want to do this to her.

>i accidentally into communism

Hahahhaha

Communism. Not even once.

>>18520473
It doesn't count as communism yet until I answer their phone calls please help do I just keep ignoring them? Can I cancel my subscription to class struggle somehow?

>Realize that the reason you don't like being alone is because the magnitude of the realization that your life is infinitesimal and insignificant in any grander scheme so you search deludedly for a temporary solace from your mortal fate, despite knowing deep down that true happiness and inner peace can only be attained by surpassing these emotional connections to the temporary material world and focusing on the whole of all things, and not necessarily embracing death and becoming one with it but being ready to let go of life and especially the things you love.

>>18520434
New BF. Should have abundance in relationship and friends.

>>18520449
I used to have that kind of mindset, but I guess I just got blinded by this relationship. I'm not sure if I even want him back, but part of me misses him and knows I probably won't be able to find another partner like him.

>>18520411
This is why I dont text a lot before the date, that way I dont run out of things to talk about

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>girl says yeah
>instantly think she said no

>>18520479

She left it ambiguous dude. If she meant it she would have went ahead and set it up with me

Forgot to say... She's a weirdo like me. Seems nervous/anxious, talks quickly, has trouble holding eye contact

>>18520382
>profile says that she's not interested in hook ups or a relationship
You read the label and decided to expect the opposite thing.

>>18520382
>How to tell if a girl is into you as more than a friend?
Make a fucking move.

Just wait it out for a couple of hours. If she doesn't come back to apologize/explain herself, ask her what's going on.

When my gf does this I just take the piss out of her. Make fun of her and call her out on it while showing you don't give a shit if she's moody, you're gonna enjoy life anyway. Usually works, makes her self aware of it and wakes her up. All you need is for her to crack one smile and the tension goes.

>>18520354
She shit tested you and you failed. You let a woman tell you to shut the fuck up without any repercussions for her actions? And now you're asking if you should go try to make her feel better? This is why she doesn't respect you in the first place.

tights maybe?

Lose weight fatass. Do it for your kpop waifu.

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Wear a nice boxer brief instead of tighty whities or boxers.