So I lost my first kiss on sunday to a girl I don't know

It's not such a big deal jcismemust look forward to the nice girls you'll meet in the future! You'll have many better kisses so who cares what your first was like :D?

There is nothing significant about a first kiss.

There is nothing you're "losing"

>>15506127
>>15506089
Well I care more about a kiss than about having sex tbh, so I consider it a big loss.

>>15506136
Then you're a fucking bitch.

>>15506140
/thread

>>15506140
jerk*

But no, a kiss is something between lovers, or at least should be.
And nowadays so many people have sex so it somehow lost it's significance in my eyes

>>15506144
you realize that people kiss when having sex right?

I lost my first kiss to a hot fucking teacher in 5th grade, nothing special. Move on in life virginfag.

>>15506144
Nigga if you lost respect for sex because a lot of people are having it, let me tell you a thing or two about kissing...

kek

>>15506145
Yes, but that's not what you see. You either see couples kissing in public, or see people having sex in porn. But you don't see couples kissing in porn. At least not that often.

>>15506147
Sure, tell me

>>15506170
Dude, people kiss. Sometimes like you describe, some many others just for fun, without love. Exactly like sex. People have it without love, just like kisses.

Protip: This is why the other anon called you a bitch.

>>15506174
Well, I know that very well. But I still feel uncomfortable about what happened :/ I feel like when a person appears that I really live I will have nothing left to give that person :/

>>15506057

This is one of the lamest things I've ever read on 4chan. Dude, a kiss means nothing. Suck it up.

>>15506177
The reason you feel uncomfortable is because....

you are gay.

>>15506183
Also a possibility.
I just don't know how to express love anymore

>>15506057
>But you don't see couples kissing in porn. At least not that often
That's because porn is not real sex.

Porn sex is just brutish pounding for the most part.

Sex between two people in relationship is better described as making love. It's not about showing your penis in her vagina, it's about the overall intimacy.

If you want to see something at least resembling real sex in porn, watch some so called "romantic porn for women".

I don't even remember my first kiss.
The whole physical pleasure thing is just kind of silly anyway.

>>15506057
You come back to this site in a few years when you are 18.

>>15506057
>>15506136
If you're kiss deflowered, every girl you might ever kiss from here forward will be revolted by the thought of all the other mouths you've had in your mouth. You're used goods now. There's nothing left that's special about you.

Why can't people who think this way just march into a volcano or something.

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>>15506057

>mfw that op

>>15506190
I might try

>>15506198
I AM 18

>>15506209
What's wrong with thinking like that? It's not like you're used goods after that, but isn't it cute to save yourself up?

>>15506234
Yeah but being such a little bitch about it is totally not cute.

Op honestly no girl would even expect to be your first kiss, if you never mentioned it she would totally assume you'd kissed someone before.
But here, have a new "first" to look forward to: the first time you kiss someone you love.
Unlike your general first kiss, which 90% of people do awkwardly with the chick they went to middle school prom with, it will be packed with amazing emotions and shit.

My first kiss and virginity went away with people I didn't love, but I've had incredibly special kisses and heartachingly sweet sex with my boyfriend. First doesnt matter much at all, but pine away for your first love if it makes you feel better

>>15506234

Life isn't Disney.

>>15506240
Thanks, that sounds cheerful :)

>>15506057
Your first... kiss... Bahahahaha. Kid, grow the fuck up and realize that shit is nothing. Nothing at all. You will live a solid 80 years (if you're lucky) and in the grand spectrum of life having your chronologically "first" kiss with a girl without "feeling fireworks" like a little pussy means nothing.

Get over it, make that shit intimate as fuck and make out with her next time. Feel up that sexy body as you guys caress tongues in each others' mouths. Or go further, whatever the case being, holy fuck OP, pecking lips is some shit you can watch the dozens of dumb PUA guys do 100+ times from one session hitting the streets.

>>15506057
>there are males who are this fucking gay

holy shit no wonder no girl had done anything to you up til now

>>15506234
No, it's not cute. It's not cute at all. It's just dumb.

You never see this type of retardation in other facets of life. You never see someone who really wants to play video games, but refuses to play video games for fear of wasting their moment of optimal incompetence on a video game that they don't see themselves playing in 20 years. Nobody refuses to ride a bike for fear or some day moving onto another bike. Nobody refuses to tell a joke to a person for fear that they've irreversibly polluted the joke for all of those who could potentially hear the joke in the future.

Kissing is something that you get good at. There's nothing cute about saving up your lack of skill to maximize the disappointment of a specific future partner.

>>15506146
story pls

>>15506057
now you have to force yourself to fall in love with the girl, get obsessed with her and devote your existence to her. For the kiss to have meaning.

just kidding
didn't read the thread carefully but I agree with those who said its not a big deal
think about it this way
your mom probably kissed you when you were little
I notice there are alot of moms who kiss their kids on the lips nowadays and I seem to be the only person who thinks thats wrong and gross

>>15506283
This

>Kiss kissless virgin who was 23
>Didn't know he was kissless until he fucking kissed me
>Was polite about it and said nothing
>Had to sincerely hold back intense gagging
>Chin covered in drool
>Painful lips

Just no

>kissing

absolutely disgusting. mouths are filthy places, even with obsessive dental hygiene. i would never kiss a girl again. it would be cleaner making out with her asshole.

while i agree with the notion of the other anons that you are overreacting, i agree with what you're trying to say, to a point.

the word "conservative" is something that came out from a liberal perspective. i don't see why you should be kissing someone as if it were expected in a relationship, or because it was commonplace and socially accepted. if you wanted to save yourself for someone important to you, then i commend you for it. but if you think it's too late, then you're wrong. lighten up and when you get a kiss from the girl you wanted, that's your first real kiss. although it won't really matter if you just let anyone kiss you up to that point

it will make your relationships more meaningful, also more painful but i believe it's worth it. murricans are classless animals that will fight tooth and nail to defend their hedonism. it is respectable that you are trying to keep intimate moments special

>>15506057
Nigga who cares its just a kiss.

I yolo'd mine. NEVER done anything with a girl but hugs, she walks around partybwith candy strings to have people eat them lady and the tramp style and take pics, i suggest to do it with her out of the blue, SUCCESS.

>>15506311
>>15506283
>>15506275
You're probably right. I shouldn't worry too much about it, thanks for all the advice :)

>>15506322
That pretty sounds like it isn't important how much girls I kissed so far?
But thanks, finally somebody who agrees to some point

It's just like there are two sides in my head, one side says that we just have one life and that's why we shouldn't bother with saving us up and maybe even dying without experiencing something.
The other side says that it's because we only life for a short time in comparison and that's why it means much to save you up.
I just can't come to a conclusion.

>>15506345
>That pretty sounds like it isn't important how much girls I kissed so far?
no, i talked about that in the post

i don't think the length or shortness of life should change anything. if you value pleasure over trust and intimacy then you can go out clubbing or do things in that vein. it's not a sin to be young, but it's not admirable either.

but yeah. it's the difference between letting anybody in and opening the door for someone special. to me, that has value. to others, not at all

>>15506367
Hmm well, that's a really hard topic to decide :/

>>15506328
This, my first kiss was pretty gross, with some random dude at a hs party. Turns out I'm a pretty good kisser. Man, I kissed 18 people that year, that shit means nothing.

>Obviously this is only this exciting when you just learn how to kiss/seduce, now I don't kiss random strangers all day every day

>>15506372
you can still let your dick do the talking and share intimate moments with someone you trust though. i don't think it's that big a deal. it's not like you have to do both at the same time. maybe sometimes you just wanna fuck and be an animal. other times you wanna value your relationship.

>>15506375
Word, besides that kiss i only kissed 3 other girls in the next 5 years, now im single again, hotter, socially not retarded and ive been pulling guys/girls like crazy. Only realized a while back i was becoming a bit of a manslut but thats a stigma bifags have anyways.