[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y ] [Search | Free Show | Home]

Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 1219. page

This is a blue board which means that it's for everybody (Safe For Work content only). If you see any adult content, please report it.

File: kizombaisabelle-felicien.jpg (28KB, 686x464px) Image search: [Google]
kizombaisabelle-felicien.jpg
28KB, 686x464px
Anyone here takes dancing classes?

Do you ever stop not developing towards the partners? Three months in and I already like waaayyy too much two of the dancers in the class.
1 posts and 1 images submitted.
No replies in the DB for this post!

File: 1497897999723.png (19KB, 495x433px) Image search: [Google]
1497897999723.png
19KB, 495x433px
I'm living in the UK and I'm running out of money and won't be able to pay rent much longer, so I booked a flight to the US where I'll just go home and save money again.

What can the landlord legally do? Is there any way they can try and make me pay if I'm not in the UK?
What if they file some claims with a court? Can I be arrested when if I come back to the UK?

Probably a dumb question but I want to be sure.

(Also the landlord is Muslim so you don't have to feel bad for him. I don't)
1 posts and 1 images submitted.
No replies in the DB for this post!

File: 1476238425141.png (1MB, 1072x736px) Image search: [Google]
1476238425141.png
1MB, 1072x736px
I poured boiling water on an ant hill in my mom's yard to kill the ants, but I ended up killing all the grass in that spot. (Didn't think about it for some reason.)

How long will it take for grass to grow back in that spot assuming all the grass and roots in that one spot are dead. Will grass need to be re-seeded there?

Thanks lawn experts of /adv/
1 posts and 1 images submitted.
No replies in the DB for this post!

File: IMG_20170625_211837.jpg (905KB, 2976x3968px) Image search: [Google]
IMG_20170625_211837.jpg
905KB, 2976x3968px
So , after more than a year I'm probably going to go outside with someone , but I'm terrible speaking with people and im kinda worried
I should say to him that he can bring someone ? I'm also worried about what he is going to think , I want to go the outskirts of the city for a bike ride , will he think I want something else if I don't say to him that he can bring someone with ?

I just want to feel the fresh air with someone after a long time , I don't want this to turn badly
2 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
Well rip

File: Snapchat-913661434.jpg (92KB, 1080x1920px) Image search: [Google]
Snapchat-913661434.jpg
92KB, 1080x1920px
> Senior in High School
> Partying and shit
> Hook up with 8/10 baddie fuck like animals
> Tells me she 17
> Close friend tells me she lies bout her age
> tfw 15
Wtf why do I gotta do background checks at 18? How I find Fuck buddies older then me or at least my age
Pic related
1 posts and 1 images submitted.
No replies in the DB for this post!

File: 1486247732353.gif (236KB, 500x500px) Image search: [Google]
1486247732353.gif
236KB, 500x500px
whats the protocol for talking to a girl at a bar, only getting her first name and then finding her on facebook. is it acceptable to talk to her on there? also what do i say?
2 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
Ask your superior Private Deskjockey

File: boxpick.jpg (9KB, 300x225px) Image search: [Google]
boxpick.jpg
9KB, 300x225px
I'm finally starting to leave my neckbeard ways and move out of my parents house to do my own thing.

All these sites say around 20 or so boxes for a studio apartment but I was more curious as to how many boxes everyone used when they themselves left their ol' neckbeard ways and moved out for the first time?

I know its different for everyone but I just wanted to see if there is an average number or boxes everyone used?
2 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>18455597
Only take the stuff you'll need or use. Pack up everything else and leave it in your old room in the closet or something.
You should be more than fine with something like 6 medium boxes for stuff like clothes, cooking utensils, bathroom supplies, cleaning supplies.

File: 1498008463721.png (384KB, 501x622px) Image search: [Google]
1498008463721.png
384KB, 501x622px
Lately I feel empty. I'm 39, just started a job as a welder after 1.5 years in school. Making decent money. Married 3 years to an older woman. She has a 26 year old son but we wont have children nor do I want them.

Feels like I'm in a dead cycle. Weekends are fucking boring and I end up cleaning the apartment and doing laundry. Feels constant tension and I don't sleep well.

I'm working but I'm not living.... https://youtu.be/nxg4C365LbQ
1 posts and 1 images submitted.
No replies in the DB for this post!

File: hNt1E2E.gif (2MB, 250x188px) Image search: [Google]
hNt1E2E.gif
2MB, 250x188px
I have this one girl I am absolutely in love with. She is not yet available, what should I do?

We are both the same age (27) and best friends since several years. Until I told her about my feelings she was in a long-term relationship (eight years) she was keeping up even though they had large problems. She feels the same about me.

Her breakup is not yet fully done, but it is final. She needs time afterwards until she is fully over it and I want to give her enough space for that. But we cannot be "more than friends" until then and it will take more months. I've waited for about three months now. They live together (but he sleeps on the couch) and almost no one knows about the breakup yet, they even still go out in the public together if they have to. The problem is that the ex has serious psychological problems and she wants to help him.

We had lots of date-like meetings in the last months after I told her. Nothing "more" ever happened, but she occasionally told me she "wasn't that happy for a long time as she is with me". Last night I kissed her (very briefly, but twice) and we had an intense hug that would have lead to sex if she didn't stop after her first moan and told me that she cannot do this in her situation.

She will not give in to my advances. She really is not mad about that last one on the other hand. Told me she only fantasizes about me for several months and didn't even have sex for a long time.

I am not a 100% sure that it actually ends in a relationship with her, because she won't give any promises (she would feel too pressured then) and even if it would take at the very least three to four more months, maybe even half a year or more.

The thing is that I feel very lonely and want someone in a relationship very badly. I am finally ready to have my first relationship (had long therapy for that) and I feel that I should not waste that time if this didn't work out. But if this works out it feels like she could be the love of my life.
5 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>18455582
Bad news dude

If she is willing to fuck you while still in a relationship, she'll just do it to you later.

Also, dating a girl who has had no time to be alone means she will dump all of her shit from her last relationship on you

move on, she needs time. Give it 6 months, and maybe you'll find someone else anyways
>>
>>18455593
She is not really willing to fuck me. As I said: She stopped herself when I started something and would never do any advances by her own. I trust her fully with that, since I know her for many years.

So you say I should just drop it?
>>
>>18455616
>She is not really willing to fuck me.
So what's the point? If you were the rebound guy it would've happened already.

File: 1477679130284.jpg (290KB, 1276x716px) Image search: [Google]
1477679130284.jpg
290KB, 1276x716px
Anyone have any experience with Paypal? I wanted to raise my withdrawal limit which is 2500 € per year here in the EU. I sent them proof of my address and identity and all that and they said they would get back to me in a few days, it's been two weeks now and still haven't heard a thing. Has anyone gone through this?
1 posts and 1 images submitted.
No replies in the DB for this post!

File: 1476964392245.jpg (226KB, 960x1280px) Image search: [Google]
1476964392245.jpg
226KB, 960x1280px
Long story short, im almost 30 only had sex once, i was drunk and it was bad. Now i started seeing a girl and eventually we will have sex and im scared as fuck she notices this, also im very insecure with my body even she being a little chubby, what should i do?
4 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>18455561
If your a little chubby then one thing that might work is not washing. Girls are so turned on by your manly musk you can be confident as FUCK playa.
Remember Smegma is a HUGE turn on! Go for it bro!
>>
>>18455561
Just man up and fuck her

you'll only get better with experience.

also, talk to her so you know when you are doing things right.

Just be wary that lots of women lie about the quality of sex (which is stupid)
>>
>>18455561
Eat da pussy. Seriously, get her off during foreplay, they become more sensitive after that and it's easier to get them off a second time.

You could also use your hand, google where the clit is on most women and make sure you get her off, pal.

File: download (1).jpg (24KB, 618x412px) Image search: [Google]
download (1).jpg
24KB, 618x412px
I've just played PC and Xbone for years and havent had friends since school. I go to therapy and take seroquel but nothing helps. Ive tried making my life better but im still empty. Anybody else been through this/ have advice?
5 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
I don't know what to tell you, other than that it doesn't any get better with time.

I'm 24, and because of stupidity I got kicked out of Freshman year of high school. My mom enrolled me in a home school style charter school--the type where you just show up once-twice a week to turn in packets and leave--and this isolation began at 15.

I'm a community college drop out NEET with no one in my speed dial/phone directory, no hobbies (can't even enjoy Vidya) anymore, and I leave the house once a week just to buy my groceries/toiletries and 'people watch' at Wal-Mart, just to make sure that people actually do exist.

This loathsome post is not one that you wished to hear. But let me tell you, it can get worse. Don't end up like me.
>>
File: IMG_1436.png (290KB, 640x622px) Image search: [Google]
IMG_1436.png
290KB, 640x622px
>>18455522
Well bud i have steady income, my own car and motorcycle. Some people might consider me "on my way to success" but in all honesty im fucking miserable. I hate my job, all i fucking do is work. I work 6 or 7 days per week, 10 hours per day. When im not at work all i wanna do is get drunk or high so i can forget about how shitty my life is. I have friends but i feel very distant from most of them and feel like im only becoming more and more distant from them. I used to love playing music and riding my motorcycle but now it fewls as if something i used to love is nothing but a chore if i end up doing it. I hate my life and wish i had the balls to commit suicide. I feel empty, there is no purpose or reason to my life. I simply exist. I feel lost with no direction.

I know this isnt going to make u feel any better, but i hope you know that there are people who have similar feelings
>>
>>18455522
eat to fill the void

File: mschoolie.jpg (56KB, 720x544px) Image search: [Google]
mschoolie.jpg
56KB, 720x544px
Am I an alcoholic if I drink at the end of every day, and by drink I mean empty or almost empty a 750ml handle of bourbon every night (only a few breaks when I need to be sober) and chug pedialyte and emergen-C every morning.

I don't day drink, but I definitely drink till I pass out every or every other night. This girl I'm dating says it's too much and that she doesn't want to see me like that "all the time" (since I only ever see her after work when I can start drinking), basically said I should join AA lol.

Meanwhile my friends revere my tolerance, both them and my family loves me lightening up every party, even if I drink more than my fair share. I do take a break a couple days a week, and only smoke weed or nothing at all those days, just cause I've gone through a real period many years ago where not drinking gave me the shakes and cold sweats and I wanna avoid that again.

If I am, what do?
4 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>18455516
Hmm.... i've been in a similar situation and I managed to throttle back to weekend drinking over a period of a few months.
I really needed to use willpower to just not purchase alcohol except on Friday and only 12 beers or a 26er. If I have alcohol I will drink it till its gone. So if I drink it all Friday night, thats it. No more going back to the store.

Try that, if it doesn't work, then just never buy it ever.
The sweats will go away, but that'll take time too. Exercise and lots of healthy eating will help with it, but mostly just time.

I also found I got very angry for awhile while being sober.... so just acknowledge it, accept it, and DON'T go buy any more.
>>
>>18455539
I don't have sweats anymore, that was a short period of time, maybe 6 months where I drank during the day as well and when I'd try to quit, I'd get sweats and shitty sleeps, couldn't read anything or even concentrate on TV either without alcohol.

I'm over that since it was like 3 years ago, that's the period I did consider myself an alcoholic. Now if I go on a trip etc. where I'm deprived of alcohol for days, I'm perfectly fine with no physiological response - which is why I can't take the idea seriously that now I should call it quits.
>>
>>18455516
Well if you're worried then i am too lmao my situation is similar. If im not working, im generally pretty fucked up. I dont finish a fifth almost every night, but they usually only last me about 4 days or less. My problem is i know why i drink so much and its because im trying to self medicate because i hate my life and id rather be drunk or high then sober and experience reality.

Be happy you have a woman in your life who's concerned about you, many of us only have ourselves.

File: IMG_0879.jpg (39KB, 698x400px) Image search: [Google]
IMG_0879.jpg
39KB, 698x400px
Why is it that sometimes I feel like the most handsome dude alive and other times I don't even feel like going outside because of how ugly I look?

This usually has nothing to do with my moods. I can feel shit and still think I look good when looking in the mirror.

I know a lot of it has to do with the light and the type of mirror and all that but it doesn't seem to have as much of an effect on my friends. I still think they look pretty much the exact same no matter what mirror or lighting but I feel like a complete different person.

This is really driving me fucking crazy. How can I find out what I really look like?
2 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>18455510

some people are consistent, others are not. i look really good in the morning, when im relaxed and refreshed but if i walk to the bus stop and its a hot day i look like shit, and my hair falls out of place, and then if i eat a meal suddenly my stomach goes from almost toned to semi pregnant, and a ltitle bit of sun makes my skin go from smooth to 'wow look at those acne scars'. and i lose my pale matte and end up looking red and patchy from the heat.

so really you can be hot one day and ugly another. you can also think you look hot in one mirror and not so much in another based on the lighting in the room.

I might get fired from food lion for incompetence
What should I do?
3 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>18455507
lol
stop being incompetent and go get another shit job. No big deal, nobody but you cares
>>
>>18455509
What he said. Ditto.

Pages: [First page] [Previous page] [1209] [1210] [1211] [1212] [1213] [1214] [1215] [1216] [1217] [1218] [1219] [1220] [1221] [1222] [1223] [1224] [1225] [1226] [1227] [1228] [1229] [Next page] [Last page]

[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y] [Search | Top | Home]

I'm aware that Imgur.com will stop allowing adult images since 15th of May. I'm taking actions to backup as much data as possible.
Read more on this topic here - https://archived.moe/talk/thread/1694/


If you need a post removed click on it's [Report] button and follow the instruction.
DMCA Content Takedown via dmca.com
All images are hosted on imgur.com.
If you like this website please support us by donating with Bitcoins at 16mKtbZiwW52BLkibtCr8jUg2KVUMTxVQ5
All trademarks and copyrights on this page are owned by their respective parties.
Images uploaded are the responsibility of the Poster. Comments are owned by the Poster.
This is a 4chan archive - all of the content originated from that site.
This means that RandomArchive shows their content, archived.
If you need information for a Poster - contact them.