>be me
>19
>pre-everything MtF
>5'11"
>linebacker shoulders
>no one in my family would support my decision to transition
Is it even worth trying?
no, get a job and move out first
>>8652292
Ok then
>be future me
>21
>pre-everything MtF
>5'11"
>linebacker shoulders
> can't ever speak to family again
Is it even worth trying?
>>8652296
Family is for fags. When you are born tranny you must be willing to abandon everything and everyone : )
>tfw no bf
Go to tinder, thirstmonger
>>8652204
How can people use apps like tinder and grinder? It's fully of normies
>>8652180
Fuck off cebruz
t. Janosch Dog
>be a hon
It's better than nothing, I guess. :/
>>8652139
raped
>>8652139
raped
this isn't even a hard choice
My evolution in sexuality thus far:
>bi-curious
>Bi scum
>probs gay
>am gay
How do I come out to my mother? Can't tell father because I don't now where he is.
>>8652064
Op here. She has also said "I wouldn't know what to think if you were gay". She's pretty sensitive about this stuff
>>8652074
Is there someone else you can tell before you tell your mother?
>>8652064
Are you financially independent? Do you depend on her for food, money, or housing in any way?
what are you listening to tonight /lgbt/?
I got Suicide Commando - Evildoer stuck in my head.
>>8651880
Funny, I listened to Suicide Commando yesterday ("This Is Hate" album) tbqh.
bisex male hurr
Hello /lgbt/, I find the female body boring, but the female face, voice and hands attractive. While a man's face is repulsive to me.
Is there any label I fall into? I am male in sex and gender.
Autistic /r9k/ poster.
>>8651705
But usually they like breasts too.
And it's not just twinks, I find a male muscular body attractive from the neck below.
are you attracted to pretty boys or mascilne pretty girls?
If HRT is worthless after 25, what are hons supposed to do other than kill themselves?
>>8651638
It's not worthless. They have mental effects that do help, even if the physical changes aren't that significant. Plus even hons get softer skin. And at least you won't age like a man and go bald.
>>8651638
repress harder
>>8651638
Im starting hormones in about a month or so, and if i don't pass in two years - im going to start dealing drugs like my parents. My goal is to just see how much money ill be able to make. Like, i feel like my life is balanced on this, ill keep living the legit life and settle down if i get the life i want - but if i cant get what i want, i have like 4 buddies who want me to start growing weed on my backwoods lot, an want to start making trips to their homeland (peru) to pick up drugs on the cheap and selling in america.
So basically, kill yourself.
I understand that some people have always experienced same sex attraction or had a traumatic experience that made them attracted to other men but how have the rest of you become gay?
I started watching trap porn around two years ago and sometimes I can find some gay porn that I like too but usually the gay porn grosses me out.
And now I'm realizing I have crushes on other men. Like there's some guys that I really admire even if I'm not attracted to them sexually. Is this part of the process of becoming homosexual? Has anyone else here experienced this?
Sexuality is less static, and more dynamic and fluid. You weren't born "straight" or "gay", you were born as a fucking baby. Babies aren't sexually attracted to anyone, so I guess we all start as asexual when you think about it. Regardless, changes in who/what you're into sexually are a natural part of life, and we're never going to fully understand it. Just do what makes you feel good and don't over think it. Faggot.
this made me gay
>be 12 or something
>girly little faggot even then but not "gay"
>friend invites me and another boy over to his house
>shows us a playboy magazine he found
>won't lie, popped a stiffy
>one friend pulls out his dick
>balls have yet to drop
>other friend pulls out his and same story
>already hit puberty by this point, dick was comparatively massive
>friends mesmerized
>spend hours playing with my dick
>came like three times
>once because it was being played with, twice to see if it could happen again
>realize that other boys playing with my dick was my shit
Should I wear this outfit to pride tomorrow?
>>8651468
Sure, but don't be surprised when someone starts shit. You will be outnumbered and surrounded.
>>8651468
>>8651472
thats the idea.
What are they going to do? kick me out for wearing drag and expressing my sexuality?
>I wanted to be a woman
>failed to pass
>resigned myself to live as man
>failed
>resigned myself to live as femboy on hrt
>couldn't
>now I want to be a transwoman, a hon, anything but male but don't have courage to start presenting female
>getting drunk another day in a row
how to get the courage /lgbt/
where do they sell this shit
therapy.
you're on the path now. you'll just basically need to drink yourself almost to death and have a mental breakdown that destroys your inhibitions to the point where you don't care about not passing in public as long as enough people humor you
>>8651461
I've been on hrt 10 years and still haven't gotten to that point.
At what age are you no longer considered young (as a woman)?
I think it starts late 30s and early 40s
>>8651422
after early twenties, obviously. maybe earlier.
>>8651422
time is passing. How about you?
I was born a male and I transitioned but I feel like there has been no transition. I still look like a man and people recognize me as a man. I had ffs and have been on hrt for years. Useless. On reddit and Susan's forum everyone kept telling me that the effects of hormones were going to blow me away and that rome was not built in a day and that it takes time for the hormones to work their magic. I am here 6 years forward and I am unhappier than ever. Hormones are shit. Before hormones I was a man. After hormones I am a man with cellulite and sagging skin. So stupid and so overrated
i want to ask anybody else if they love shopping for female clothes. i hate hate hate hate female clothes because they make me feel more dysphoric. female clothes emphasize all the male characteristics in my body and my face. female clothes feel like a halloween custom on me. i read everywhere how happy trannies are to go clothes shopping and i hate it with every fiber of my being. i spend my life hiding from people, i wear sweatpants with holes on it and i have given up. what is the point. every month i make payments towards my stupid useless disastruous ffs
Pics? How is your voice?
>>8651179
Who did your FFS? And what age did you start HRT at?
>>8651181
i am tired of posting pics because pics don't show the reality, trust me. voice is not an issue i get clocked before i open my mouth. i started transition very early.
Will HRT change anything if I'm already 20 if so how long would it take to get on them I live in the uk pic related it's me
>>8651113
HRT will probably give you conetits and give some minimal but noticeable changes to your body's fat redistribution. For anything more body-wise you'll probably need a breast augmentation and a BBL.
eh, I've dated fatter. With a doctor's okay you should get on them in only a few months. Lets see that face though. Face matters more than body.
>>8651134
Ok face pic here
>>8651130
BBL? Never heard of it
they lied to me omg check .webm
>>8651028
wtf I expected a manface
>>8651028
Looks like a man to me f.am
How does /lgbt/ feel about the reinstatement of the ban on transgender people serving in the military? Personally, I believe that transgendered people should be allowed to serve, but not anyone with dysphoria, or who is currently on hormones.
http://www.strawpoll.me/13570765
>>8650995
Well, there are two ways to look at it:
1. It's kind of a weird position to take. Are there really so many transgender people in the United States lining up to join the military that there is even a possibility of them making a dent in terms of resource drain?
2. The ban makes sense to me if you view the military for what it actually is. It's a serious organization with one goal. It's not there to shake hands or kiss babies. Trannies come with a lot of baggage and would probably cause a lot of problems among the other soldiers too since they are so controversial.
Why would you wanna join the military if not just to reap the free insurance your gonna get from it to pay for hormones / surgeries?
Aren't most trans people deliberately anti-government anyways? At least the ones protesting against it who are all part of that "progressive queers" circle. If you really wanna join just go in like the gays did when Don't Ask, Don't Tell was still up and running and eventually the law will blow itself over when people realize how much of a non-issue it is.
>>8651054
The problem with that is that trans people can't exactly stealth the way gays can. You'd have to go and serve as your birth gender without being on hormones and that's just fucking miserable, not on the same level as just not mentioning you like cock/pussy.